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funmisticqueen:
is bright future written like a halo round his head. You my sister are a Bob the builder, you will help a nigga with 'poortential' such as wilfredpat22 and ubunja so that when said nigga is established, he can finally pursue the woman of his dreams after outliving your usefulness. The only things a woman should look at is results, not prospects and a 'bright future' if not, you risk being unhappy in life and passing 'loser' genes to your children.

Igbokiller:
disgusting thread

luckygeee:
what makes it disgusting. dont worry bro, God will heal your pocket and mend your broken heart

Igbokiller:
so shallow and dumb minded i abore such thread and the first thing that comes to the goat mind is i cant eat three times a day


not like u know what ambition and glory is.so go back to planning marriage with ur petty earnings.ode ur age mates and i are running after how to break a record in life ,u are planning how to marry with a bsc and chicken change




i get time sha

luckygeee:
not all guys are like that my dear. some ladies have helped theur guys build their future together and today they are happily married. as the saying goes, "not all that glitters is gold"

luckygeee:
i laughed out loud after reading your comment. its fine bro, we await your record breaking feat

Igbokiller:
too bad.im not the one to blow my trumpets online.always have being ,always will.


so get back in line,mediocre.

CHESTER48:
I have only believed in one thing, which is marriage in nigeria is highly overrated. My advice for you
Get a matured girl who is working either in a bank or big organization,earning atleast 40k salary. With your 60k salary it will be 100k. Remember it's not just getting married you're building a home which means, you need to rent a house buy furniture,TV, refrigerator.you get my point.

Then limit your marriage to either traditional marriage only.to he'll with the white wedding. If your woman insist she can help u fund your white wedding.itlf u plan 500k.she can bring 250k and then u 250k.after all the marriage is for both of you.and she wants to be with you. So?

Main point here is your woman should be working. And earning money period.

courna:
easy na....

you get problem with op before

luckygeee:
not all guys are like that my dear. some ladies have helped theur guys build their future together and today they are happily married. as the saying goes, "not all that glitters is gold"

Wilfredpat22:
Are you here to seek advice, or chyke a lady asking irrelevant questions or looking for front page by posting and replying multiple times.

I bet you are still unemployed and drinking garri with your mother under third Mainland Bridge

rebirthforgoody:
A man that earn 40k and above can take care of family with the help of the wife on the wedding side I think the both (traditional and white wedding)at least 400 to 500k

SBL28:
Sadly, she's right. Not all men remember the women that built with them, managing with any guy is a risk.

SBL28:
Sadly, she's right. Not all men remember the women that built with them, managing with any guy is a risk.

ImaIma1:
E get problem with everybody

SBL28:
Sadly, she's right. Not all men remember the women that built with them, managing with any guy is a risk.

funmisticqueen:
is bright future written like a halo round his head. You my sister are a Bob the builder, you will help a nigga with 'poortential' such as wilfredpat22 and ubunja so that when said nigga is established, he can finally pursue the woman of his dreams after outliving your usefulness. The only things a woman should look at is results, not prospects and a 'bright future' if not, you risk being unhappy in life and passing 'loser' genes to your children.

sherylbakky:
At least, 100k monthly, if ur wife is also working and earning something...if not, 150k at least...things ar very expensive nowadays. As 4 wedding plan, it depends on the tribe of ur wife, cos if she's igbo...hmmmm, even a million might not be enough

Wilfredpat22:
Are you here to seek advice, or chyke a lady asking irrelevant questions or looking for front page by posting and replying multiple times.

I bet you are still unemployed and drinking garri with your mother under third Mainland Bridge

UyaiIncomparabl:

luckygeee:
igbo amaka

YOUNGELDER1:
I want to understand the word “Build” while the guy was busy “Building” why didn’t she also strive to build and develop herself ?


A broke girl/lady goes into a relationship with a broke guy.
He’s striving hard to develop himself and at the same time doing his best to sustain his current relationship but at the end things didn’t work out and he moved on to someone much better.

I don’t see why both parties should feel bad about breaking up on in most cases the lady feeling used..

I hate when ladies say he “used” me or I was there for you while you’re broke.

There in what way aunty?

SBL28:
So what if she was there for him financially, encouraging him and making decisions with him. I'm not saying the guy is obligated to stick with her because of that if they end up being incompatible. I'm talking about where the guy just feels because he has money now, he should upgrade, not necessarily because the lady stopped being a good girlfriend.