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pocohantas:
Me? Feminist?
No!!! You are the head of the home.

So, should I send the PM now?

TonyeBarcanista:
There is nothing like gender discrimination against female in our society, instead, women get some extra privileges but WE ARE NOT COMPLAINING.

If you aren't interested in changing surname that is your choice, hopefully a man that will agree to that comes your way BUT unfortunately, your kids will bear HIS NAME

Now if you even agree with him that your kids won't bear only his name but will bear your surname in addition, it's okay as long as both names are names of MEN- your father and husband.

Don't forget that whether you change your name or not, you still bear a MAN'S name

You see the foolishness of feminists? You can't upstage men in the social order. You either accept it or you accept it!

Lastly, the HUSBAND is the Boss of the Wife in a home, he calls the shot and there is NOTHING anyone can do about it. Just as your class captain calls the shot in your class though all of you are mates, there was nothing you could so about it.

#FactNotOpinion

Debra911:
In the beginning God created Adam b4 eve, I think feminist needs to accept this natural phenomenon. No matter how we ladies wail, it can't change 'the beginning' I'm still wondering why God never created Eve first if actually he knows women will be the one to carry 90% of Child upbringing?

pocohantas:
Lol. I think mentioning my name all over FP isn't working anymore. Dude is gonna breakdown soon. This is more serious I thought.

openmine:
Haba why are you denying your rightful tag nah?
Or is that tag dropped when you need a request?
Just asking.....

Nobodys:
There is Gender discrimination in the society.... Against male and against female....

As for the Surname change story... I didn't read Dear....Got better things to worry about.....Your last paragraph got me though...talk about contradictions......

pocohantas:
Yes. That is why the bible asked women to submit. You don't use logic to follow men (as a woman). They love the damsel in distress. If you ain't submissive, please fake it...

And watch them labour all their lives to provide for you

LuciferKristi:
pocohantas is a frustrated and jilted being.

Her hatred for men is borne out of years of sexual exploitation which has reduced her self-esteem to zero. She makes up for this by coming online to vent her frustrations on others & by misleading innocent young girls (like her mentor Linda Ikeji who has abandoned her & is living the happiest moment of her life with a man).

Pocohantas tries to make every other woman think miserably because she can't find happiness in herself.

Intelligent women find men & live happy while the dumb ones join her in misery.

I'm happy to let her have the dumb ones.

wristbangle:
The question the guy suppose to have asked this stench feminist is, why are u bearing your father's last name not your mum's?


You are wrong. Why not bear your mother's maiden name?

bettercreature:
Its turning to a cult!They will start carrying weapon soon
Its very easy Nigerian Men should start their own
Anti bride-price movement

Newboss:
Why would anyone even agree to change their surname to their husband's?

Love? Why doesn't the man change his to the woman's?

The only thing is to take each other's surname. Example, if the man's is Henry, and the woman's is Doe, just make the new surname Henry-Doe Else, they leave everything as it's

Alzirida:
Lol
Thery are things u can't change.
We have more things to worry about than all those frivolities.

U wont change ur surname to ur husband's?
U still retained ur fathers name,
Why not ans ur mothers name?

Its just like saying all women should bear female names both as first name and surname.

Mind u as a feminist, u are not fighting ur husband,
U should be fighting the entire male folks...... So dont even ans ur fathers name, go on and answer
Mary Roseline

openmine:
So now you don enter bible section abi?

pocohantas:
Bible apart, it is also basic male ego at play. I work with so many of them. Behave too independent and they see you as just another man. they don't like it , makes them feel under-appreciated and utilized.

Behave the opposite, chill and watch them play god. I don't even know why feminist are stressing themselves. Men were created to make life very easy for women. You just have to know how to handle them

TonyeBarcanista:
We are in a society where women get special privileges as "Women Affairs Ministry", a lot of Department and Agencies for women alone, Women Directorates in parties, women empowerment schemes, women get free forms to contest elections where men pay MILLIONS for same. There are jobs vacancies that specifically state preference for females and even programs by international and local organisations for women. ZERO for men! Yet, we aren't complaining while you are whining

In social parties and some events women get free or discounted pass while men get to pay entry fee...

Yet, we aren't complaining because we are MEN, we allow you enjoy some privileges just as we give our younger siblings some benefits we don't enjoy

As for the last paragraph, I am restating it that the HUSBAND is the BOSS of the Wife. He's her Oga in the family hierarchy...

In every unit there must be a boss. Even in your place of work! In your class there is a captain, in your department there is Department President and leaders, in your church there is Pastor/G.O etc. In the society there is President, Governor etc. Even among Governors they have a chairman!

"Oga must de"...

It is a fact not an opinion

pocohantas:
Yes. That is why the bible asked women to submit. You don't use logic to follow men (as a woman). They love the damsel in distress. If you ain't submissive, please fake it...

And watch them labour all their lives to provide for you

chisco82:
Speak dear i'm hearing.

Nobodys:
Who's whining now?. Oga drop your ego and go do your research, then come back with proof to counter this : THERE IS GENDER DISCRIMINATION IN THE SOCIETY; AGAINST MALE AND AGAINST FEMALE.....
If you wanna debate on which is more, that's understandable.. buh ruling one gender out?
...

.If you enjoy the discrimination against the male gender, that's fine... Buh stop saying WE MEN don't complain...speak for yourself....

Your Opinion, never Fact.

openmine:
So you knew all these...yet you were openly attacking me....?
Hope your mood doesn't swing per hour?

pocohantas:
LOL. When are you buying me the iPhone?

TonyeBarcanista:
There is nothing like gender discrimination against female in our society, instead, women get some extra privileges but WE ARE NOT COMPLAINING.

If you aren't interested in changing surname that is your choice, hopefully a man that will agree to that comes your way BUT unfortunately, your kids will bear HIS NAME

Now if you even agree with him that your kids won't bear only his name but will bear your surname in addition, it's okay as long as both names are names of MEN- your father and husband.

Don't forget that whether you change your name or not, you still bear a MAN'S name

You see the foolishness of feminists? You can't upstage men in the social order. You either accept it or you accept it!

Lastly, the HUSBAND is the Boss of the Wife in a home, he calls the shot and there is NOTHING anyone can do about it. Just as your class captain called the shot in your class though all of you were mates, there was nothing you could still do about it.

#FactNotOpinion

Nobodys:
Who's whining now?. Oga drop your ego and go do your research, then come back with proof to counter this : THERE IS GENDER DISCRIMINATION IN THE SOCIETY; AGAINST MALE AND AGAINST FEMALE.....
If you wanna debate on which is more, that's understandable.. buh ruling one gender out?
...

.If you enjoy the discrimination against the male gender, that's fine... Buh stop saying WE MEN don't complain...speak for yourself....

Your Opinion, never Fact.

pocohantas:
I didn't attack you. I guess the word poor irked you. I just love that word, after evening newspaper and if your moniker wasn't a familiar one, I wouldn't have used it "on" you.

pocohantas:
LOL. When are you buying me the iPhone?

TonyeBarcanista:
lol both names are masculine na, so what is the gain of the feminist in this arrangement?

Newboss:
As an enlightened guy, you should know by now that surnames can be changed as easily as other names can be changed.

So the woman CAN ACTUALLY change her surname to a name of her choice. So don't say that the surname is still her father's name because it makes you sound ignorant and too presumptuous . Some people have actually changed their surnames

As for men calling the shots, you sound quite ignorant there. If the woman says no, you CANNOT do shìt but whine all day long. You end the marriage? Have you ever for one day thought that a woman COULD pull the plug before you even think about thinking about pulling it?

These are things men never think about before flying into marriage That woman you dey talk about is a full blown human being who is in no way inferior to you. She can hurt you as badly as you can hurt her. She's an independent being as much as the man is one.

My guy, throw those preconceived stuff into the trashcan, and see the human being, not the pussy . If not, these species go deal with you.