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Will the name be changed to a masculine or feminine name? Say Grace Jenifer or Grace Adaeze? If the answer is negative, then, it is still a MAN'S name or Masculine name

Not every man is a pu5sy aka woman wrapper my brother and even the pussy-husbands have limits to which they can take. Las las the Home will be a very unhappy one for the family and may end in divorce-- what this means is that a home without the Husband IN CHARGE will NEVER WORK, just as an organisation without the MD in charge will never work. NEVER!

Ignorant submission. The Husband is the boss of the wife doesn't mean men are superior to women.

Not everyman is a husband and not every woman is a wife! The husband's authority is restricted to his wife ALONE,not to his mother or elder sister or any random female.

Same way your boss authority is restricted to you and other subordinate and doesn't concern me. Dangote has NO authority over me because he is not my boss but he has over Dangote staffs. Buhari has no authority over a Ghanaian as Nigeria's President but he has over Nigerians.

Your class captain in school had authority over you, he was your boss! But he had no authority over the guy in the other class...

Las Las, the HUSBAND is like a office in a unit (home) occupied by the man in the marriage. In the marriage Unit he is the OGA, THE BOSS, THE NUMBER 1, THE GOC etc.

chisco82:
Educate us on the gender discriminations pls.

TonyeBarcanista:
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I just gave you undisputable FACTS but you call it whine. SMH!

Whining is constantly taking to social media and the street to keep complaining about something- which YOU and your deranged feminist folks are doing.

The facts I presented is to show you that women are favoured in the society and NEVER discriminated. I call the favor privileges WE (MEN) allow to woman and not discrimination against men. There is a difference between both!

And if enslaving ourselves is what you seek, IT WILL NEVER HAPPEN!

These are facts NOT opinion

Alzirida:
Lol
Thery are things u can't change.
We have more things to worry about than all those frivolities.

U wont change ur surname to ur husband's?
U still retained ur fathers name,
Why not ans ur mothers name?

Its just like saying all women should bear female names both as first name and surname.

Mind u as a feminist, u are not fighting ur husband,
U should be fighting the entire male folks...... So dont even ans ur fathers name, go on and answer
Mary Roseline

TroubleMaker47:
Yes my point is Chimamanda Adiche is mentally unstable! Just because she is successful in her field doesn't mean she isn't!
A woman who takes offense at a man treating her like a lady eg (opening the door for her, complementing her physical looks)THAT WOMAN IS MAD

zinnyzee:
Feminism is confusion in another name.

pocohantas:
How can someone keep calling this lady a feminist. This lady is clearly not okay.

How can she say her children will bear her husband's name and her father's name [who is in fact another man] put together. And some females are applauding her. My head aches already, trying to understand the rationale behind this.

Are these ones okay? Zicoraads you said it o. Come and see your babe.

openmine:
Am not worried about the "poor" tag.....
its common and normal to receive unsolicited jabs on a faceless forum....
its just that your first quote sounded like that of a paranoid feminist who wanted to take out her frustrations on me!

gloria34:
I missed u, always looking forward to ur replies

Nobodys:
....Will drop a link....https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gender_inequality..

This link explains gender discrimination against the male folks and against the female folk in the society, with near accurate stats.......
If you want me to come home to Nigeria and explain the daily happenings and discrimination towards the boy child and the girl child, that ain't a problem.. When I chop finish....

chisco82:
Lol! Thanks for this, @the bolded, chop what finish?

Nobodys:
Pounded yam and Edikaikong. .

Amberon:
And who certified her mentally unstable?
You? Lmao!

Well if she said that she was wrong, but that doesn't make her mentally unstable.

gloria34:
I see no reason 4 all these arguments. like some1 here rightly said, not all men are husbands and not all women are wives. we just need to b observant and choose a partner, nobody is perfect, even women makes mistakes. there are homes where d husband is d head (as it should rightly b), and they are very happy. y fight over it? we all have our responsibilities in d home and not until we begin to understand that its not about being d head, we'll forever argue over this. funny, a husband is d head of d home yet we see homes where d husband do almost nothing without d consent of d wife, they work together in all things. that should b d goal

zinnyzee:
Feminism is confusion in another name.

CAPSLOCKED:
SELF ACCLAIMED INTERNET FEMINISTS ALL HAVE MENTAL ISSUES.

THE TRUE FEMINIST DON'T TALK LIKE THESE F00LS.

pocohantas:
Then I wonder what you will say about your reply. That is by the way, what of the glasses? I wouldn't want to read you wrongly next time

Uniquetani1:
Nice idea
Good it was brought up
Y should I forgo my Dad's name bcoz of marriage?
My title changing from Miss to Mrs is enough.
God doesn't support oversabi

Xisnin:
Wait, so you believe all women are interested in frustrating their life of their daughters-in-law?
Some have better things to do than meddle in the private life of a married adult man.

On the issue of divorce, no civilized man will seek divorce because his wife refuses to change her maiden name.

In fact, most divorces are instigated by women, not men.

TonyeBarcanista:
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That a man is the head doesn't mean he won't consult with his wife or even kids if they are sensible. This is one reason a wife must know her place and be very sensible to the point that the husband will rely on her wisdom before taking decision.

It is like a President getting advice from his Vice or Adviser before making decision.

Dragging authority with a husband only cause more problem for the wife as he will want to show her who the boss is.

Xisnin:
You don't get it. Let us say a family have 2 children a boy and a girl.
When they both marry, the woman loses her family name while the man retain his(inequality).
When a married woman decide to retain her maiden name she becomes equal to the man in that
aspect. That is, everybody regardless of gender can retain their father's name.

okrikaboi:
u won't gain anything from keeping ur dad's name in ur husband's house Dad isn't taking care of u anymore get sense

Nobodys:
Pounded yam and Edikaikong. .