Well said ma’am
I have two kids
And she knew and she eventually telling she’s pregnant for me and yet claimed am the one and now she’s out of town changes phone number etc
What pissed me off is that she said

I WAN BORN MY OWN FOR YOU

I laugh in busting cuz she’s on one way Chance I don’t want a baby mama

Metuh:
Will they ever listen? Someone is already pregnant for a C list artiste already just for fame and peanuts.


Some girls are planning on how to trap a boy with pregnancy as we speak presently. They will never use their senses.


Girls with no future plans for themselves who think a man's job is to marry them and take care of them. I pity such fish brains.

I just dey vex. Mtcheew

c list artist like that airforce that can't even feed himself. Dem go gree. The only thing that pains me is the bastards they litter the street with.

No woman plans to be a baby mama. Its either unexpected, fear of abortion or desperate need for a child due to old age. Someone like Linda Ikeji would never take you seriously.

Dolapo Badmus will you keep quiet there!

Anuofia

They no go hear. Even some agbaya older women will still want to have a baby for wizkid or davido

Wetin concern her...

"Warning to young girls out there: STOP opening your body and soul to a man that don’t really care about you! It’s injurious….some of you even go EXTRA Mile to become a baby mama thinking pregnancy will give you a place in his home and heart?

Nah. I'm tired of the excessive advice always given to women ALONE, I'm tired of men being absolved from their responsibility in pregnancies and creating babymamas and such responsibility subsequently placed on the heads of women.
Babies aren't made by women alone.
Why didn't she tell men to stop impregnating women they know damn well they don't care about?
She should include both genders in her advice above or keep it to herself.



What is this extra mile she is talking about? Do women now steal sperm from men and insert it into their body? Isn't it raw consensual sex she is talking about? There is no reason to place blame at the feet of women saying they go the extra mile. When both genders didn't protect themselves. There is nothing like going extra mile.


I can agree with this part below. Everything else she posted is BS

Young girls please stop making your dear life miserable just because you want to be identified with a man when you can surpass him in all things if you work hard for yourself…..NOTE: Pregnancy don’t hold a man down, good values, moral and love do! Don’t be a BABYMAMA especially when you cannot feed yourself

The worst part is children born out of wedlock create the biggest wahala in extended families.

VULCAN:
How silly to compare Linda (who earns millions each month) to the average girl on the street who is waiting for a guy to recharge her data.

Rubbish

Hello, Khloe Kadashian is a baby mama and far richer than Linda. Her home boy still broke her heart and guess what, dude ain't going to be stopping on her.


Don't think pregnancy can tie a man down, make a man responsible or make a man love you.

Was the essence of having the while cash and being a single parent knowing it will definitely tell on child's Psych.



Lessons learnt?

chriskosherbal:
This is a real advice from an experienced matured woman to other women but some will put cotton wool in their ears.

Those who have ears let them hear.

Many of them here are already baby mama. So the cotton wool no need to be removed. In order words, lets encourage abortion.
I was at an area in Mushin and I saw a young boy of 18 thereabout accompanied by a girl of 16+ thereabout coming out of a very known abortion clinic.

Actually nothing holds a man down. What holds a man down is the man that wants to be held down.

I think girls are here seeing this post ba

flyca:
I will never bring into this world a child that I cannot solely take care of, even when I love the my husband (the child's father) to pieces! It's a promise to God, to myself and to my child.

Anything can happen which I have no control of. Death? He could fall into the hands of another woman, he could get a bad dealbon business or work. Anything can or you cannot imagine!, even though that's not what I pray for. But I don't need all these dramas so I have to prepare myself to take full responsiblity of my offspring.

Raising a family is good. But money makes a happier home! Immediately you bring a child into this world, see that child as your personal responsibility. Build yourself up and stop hoping to be another adult's for sustainance. Same warning goes to stay-at-home mums!
Be wise!

My message to the baby-mama-of the moment, Shola, is to forget about WizKid and take up the full responsibility of Bolu. Stop the drama already, stop the pity-party, stop the screnshoting, stop tweeting. Leave everything behind you, pick yourself up and move ahead. WizKid has disrespecting enough and he has no regard for you. Stop going deeper into the mess, babe!

God's got us

Yea! Right! people like you will become baby mama before, i say Dick! without even knowing.

Never say Never! some of them baby mamas didn't become one by choice, They probarbly sounded like you or thought they were doing the right thing at the time or before they became baby mamas. Folks in your so called loving to "pieces" marriages have ended up Divorcing for one reason or Another, or because one of them died. loving someone to "pieces" is not a guarantee or sometimes not Enough.


Trust me, i have been married twice, and i am not married now After two divorces with children. so i know!.
why would you want to love anyone to "pieces" anyway? you weirdo! what if they die? are you prepared to die with them? you sound like a minor.

Good luck.

She for just saying one time ....'Stop opening legs for men' instead of saying 'All body and soul' ....policewoman tohSuor

WotzupNG:

Celebrity police woman, Dolapo Badmus has advised ladies to stay away from the idea of being a man’s baby mama because it’s not worth it.

According to her, having a baby for a man is no guarantee of a place in his heart.

The police public relations officer also spoke of the tough time she had settling an issue between a baby mama and her baby daddy.

Dolapo Badmus shared on Instagram:



https://www.wotzup.ng/2018/09/dolapo-badmus-baby-mama-worth/

Celebrity policewoman Kwa? hian! I Didn't know that Nigerian policewomen are Celebrities.. : Anyway, i think she should stick with Arresting criminals instead. there are more criminals in Nigeria than Baby mamas, Olosho!!

sdindan:
Imagine

This woman wan spoil something for us sweetboys.

Haba!

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Even the married “baby-mammas” are talking and commenting too?

But BEING A BABY-PAPPA is okay huuhn?

Na who gif dem de belle?

Team LINDA IKEJI rooooook on jor! Don’t mind these “CHRONIC ABORTION KINGS AND QUEENS”!

Didcot:
Dolapo Badmus will you keep quiet there!

Anuofia

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j1mmy:
Isale Eko style bleaching is not worth it either!

concentrate on the her message not the bleached face?.



But dammm!! the bleaching is over the top.

VULCAN:
How silly to compare Linda (who earns millions each month) to the average girl on the street who is waiting for a guy to recharge her data.

Rubbish

Does it really matter? A baby mama is a baby mama no matter how much she has in her bank account.

A child needs both father and mother in unity to develop a well rounded sense of self worth.

Having a child out of wedlock isn't a good thing even if you are Dangote's daughter.

I agree with you.
But this has been from the time of Chief Sunny Ade, Evang. Ebenezer Obe, KWAM I and others.
Every girl want to be identified with a star.
It is pure greed and lack of self esteem.
The parents should also do more to caution their children.

flyca:
I will never bring into this world a child that I cannot solely take care of, even when I love the my husband (the child's father) to pieces! It's a promise to God, to myself and to my child.

Anything can happen which I have no control of. Death? He could fall into the hands of another woman, he could get a bad dealbon business or work. Anything can or you cannot imagine!, even though that's not what I pray for. But I don't need all these dramas so I have to prepare myself to take full responsiblity of my offspring.

Raising a family is good. But money makes a happier home! Immediately you bring a child into this world, see that child as your personal responsibility. Build yourself up and stop hoping to be another adult's for sustainance. Same warning goes to stay-at-home mums!
Be wise!

My message to the baby-mama-of the moment, Shola, is to forget about WizKid and take up the full responsibility of Bolu. Stop the drama already, stop the pity-party, stop the screnshoting, stop tweeting. Leave everything behind you, pick yourself up and move ahead. WizKid has disrespecting enough and he has no regard for you. Stop going deeper into the mess, babe!

God's got us

Special adviser.

Daeylar:


Nah. I'm tired of the excessive advice always given to women ALONE, I'm tired of men being absolved from their responsibility in pregnancies and creating babymamas and such responsibility subsequently placed on the heads of women.
Babies aren't made by women alone.
Why didn't she tell men to stop impregnating women they know damn well they don't care about?
She should include both genders in her advice above or keep it to herself.



What is this extra mile she is talking about? Do women now steal sperm from men and insert it into their body? Isn't it raw consensual sex she is talking about? There is no reason to place blame at the feet of women saying they go the extra mile. When both genders didn't protect themselves.


I can agree with this part. Everything else she posted is BS

"Why didn't she tell men to stop impregnating women..." Not everything is a competition between men and women, I hope you know. This isn't about who to blame.

Men aren't raping their baby mamas. The girls willingly lay on their backs and spread their legs. If they closed their legs and kept their morals and virtues intact the men would have no choice but to hold body or go visit a brothel.

Guess who carries the swollen belly around for 9 6months automatically announcing to the world that they had sex with someone they weren't married to? The girls.

Instead of seeing the advice as antagonistic why not see it as what it is, a good advice.

Daeylar:


Nah. I'm tired of the excessive advice always given to women ALONE, I'm tired of men being absolved from their responsibility in pregnancies and creating babymamas and such responsibility subsequently placed on the heads of women.
Babies aren't made by women alone.
Why didn't she tell men to stop impregnating women they know damn well they don't care about?
She should include both genders in her advice above or keep it to herself.



What is this extra mile she is talking about? Do women now steal sperm from men and insert it into their body? Isn't it raw consensual sex she is talking about? There is no reason to place blame at the feet of women saying they go the extra mile. When both genders didn't protect themselves.


I can agree with this part. Everything else she posted is BS

No vex o biko.

Kinggnicole:
Actually nothing holds a man down. What holds a man down is the man that wants to be held down.

Ok

Daeylar:


Nah. I'm tired of the excessive advice always given to women ALONE, I'm tired of men being absolved from their responsibility in pregnancies and creating babymamas and such responsibility subsequently placed on the heads of women.
Babies aren't made by women alone.
Why didn't she tell men to stop impregnating women they know damn well they don't care about?
She should include both genders in her advice above or keep it to herself.



What is this extra mile she is talking about? Do women now steal sperm from men and insert it into their body? Isn't it raw consensual sex she is talking about? There is no reason to place blame at the feet of women saying they go the extra mile. When both genders didn't protect themselves.


I can agree with this part. Everything else she posted is BS

Indeed men have responsibilities in pregnancies but the first level of exposure/risk is on the woman. This record has been played over and over again and the expectation should be since men don't own up to their responsibilities she wont be the vessel that brings a fatherless child to this world.

Personally, in my dealing with anyone i evaluate where the risk lies and ensure i mitigate it especially where it weighs heavily on my side. I think her advice is meant to inspire younger ladies. I guess someone needs to ask the young men to understand the implication of their actions.

gypsey:
Yea! Right! people like you will become baby mama before, i say Dick! without even knowing.

Never say Never! some of them baby mamas didn't become one by choice, They probably sounded like you or thought they were doing the right thing at the time or before they became baby mamas. Folks in your so called loving to "pieces" marriages have ended up Divorcing for one reason or Another, or because one of them died. loving someone to "pieces" is not guarantee or sometimes not Enough.


Trust me, i have been married twice, and i am not married now After two divorces with children. so i know!.
why would you want to love anyone to "pieces" anyway? you weirdo! what if they die? are you prepared to die with them? you sound like a minor.

Good luck.

Wondering what informed your decision to go for the 2nd one.

omooba969:


Wondering what informed your decision to go for the 2nd one.

the same one that informed my decision to go for the first one.

j1mmy:
Isale Eko style bleaching is not worth it either!

Hahaha abeg wetin naw?

Tell them..i hope they listen

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They won't listen. .

Dog wey wan lost, no matter the whistle, it's owner whistle to come back, it won't come back, until e lost enter calabar man pot of peppersoup eventually.

Single mums out there knows it's not easy.