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OK. After several attempts at living with ladies one after the other to see how the husband and wife thing work, I noticed one particular thing in all. At first, it was really good and enjoyable at the beginning but after spending like roughly six months living with a lady, it becomes so boring to the extent that I just want them to go. I want something new - A different girl!

Even if I throw the lady out and bring in another one, the same thing happens all over again after spending some months with her like man and wife.

Now, I have a friend that got married 2 years ago. I can still remember the way he loves his wife. The happiness in him when he kept on telling me how his wife is everything good in this life.

But today, the story has changed! He beats the wife like his worst enemy. The wife comes to my house every now and then with black eyes most times to complain how my friend has turned her into a punching bag.

My friend on the other hand complains bitterly about her saying she doesn't do anything right! same lady that was everything good in this life?

This is really scary to me. Could it be the same thing I have been experiencing with ladies I have lived with? Putting all these together, I'm really scared of getting married. Maybe, I should just make some few ladies out there baby mamas like most celebrities do? Please, I need your mature input on this matter.

ur name is ogogorofreak... just drink some ogogoro and do anything it tells to do

Marriage like every other type of relationship has its ups and downs, sweet and sour times or periods.
I personally believe if you keep in mind who and why you married your spouse, the fun you had and always try to spice up your relationship every now and then

- Your friend physically abuse his wife.
- You use women, lose interest & then chase them out.

Cann't you see a pattern!

Please don't get married. There are a lot of women that are in abusive relationship already. Don't add to the pile!

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Bro, that is the best thing to do... Dont think I'll get married either

Humans get married because they always look to enslave themselves to something so as to fill that emptiness/void and also, to run away from freedom. Marriage is wack, overrated and full of struggles. Marriage is nothing but a societal population control tool which ties you to the misandric legal system. Forget about women, most of them see marriage as a dream job. How many men are happy in their marriages? Life is difficult, why do you wanna add more difficulties on yourself? What can a married man enjoy that you can't enjoy?


There's no concrete reason to get married.

For companionship? You were born alone and you will die alone. Moreover, human wants change with time. The so-called companionship can die anytime. Many people are married but they still feel alone in their marriages. Humans can destroy whatever relationships because of their selfish interest. This minute they love you, the next minute they're fantasizing about another huge dicck or large ass. That is why partners cheat on each other. Humans are naturally selfish. Why put them to test?


Question all societal norms and be the judge of your life.

As for me? Marriage is no no no....

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Seriously you are not alone,i even plan to create a thread about it,mine is that i cant sleep with the same girl for more than a week.i love changing women and it has realy affected me.
For example the last girl i slept with(ruinx girl)i was drunk and she removed the condom and these has happened with different girls only these year.
It has also affected me so much that i cant save any money.
Women are my cocaine and i am so addicted.
Team #one day,another woman.

Adoption is d best or u buy from baby factory
No drama at all

My man, do ur own( pray & search, even ask for elderly advices; in this, they are pro), & leave d rest to God. Good women abound. Hardwork is also needed on ur part, because while non-marital affairs are sustained by luv, marriage is sustained by understanding & forgiveness.
'Baby mama' thing 'll only scatter ur life d more. Check d history.

I thing is about getting someone you really love, understand, etc and don't always think you know it all involve God and your parents too. Yes there are bad marriages but don't you guys see the good ones too. Honestly whenever I see my sister and hubby I wish to get married immediately

mustmust:
ur name is ogogorofreak... just drink some ogogoro and do anything it tells to do

you no get sense?

How old are you sef?

OgogoroFreak:
OK. After several attempts at living with ladies one after the other to see how the husband and wife thing work, I noticed one particular thing in all. At first, it was really good and enjoyable at the beginning but after spending like roughly six months living with a lady, it becomes so boring to the extent that I just want them to go. I want something new - A different girl!

Even if I throw the lady out and bring in another one, the same thing happens all over again after spending some months with her like man and wife.

Now, I have a friend that got married 2 years ago. I can still remember the way he loves his wife. The happiness in him when he kept on telling me how his wife is everything good in this life.

But today, the story has changed! He beats the wife like his worst enemy. The wife comes to my house every now and then with black eyes most times to complain how my friend has turned her into a punching bag.

My friend on the other hand complains bitterly about her saying she doesn't do anything right! same lady that was everything good in this life?

This is really scary to me. Could it be the same thing I have been experiencing with ladies I have lived with? Putting all these together, I'm really scared of getting married. Maybe, I should just make some few ladies out there baby mamas like most celebrities do? Please, I need your mature input on this matter.

Walahi, I undastand your reason for not wanting to get married. However, reason that baby mama thing wella

Nobody cares if you marry or not.

Godaboveall2:
My man, do ur own( pray & search, even ask for elderly advices; in this, they are pro), & leave d rest to God. Good women abound. Hardwork is also needed on ur part, because while non-marital affairs are sustained by luv, marriage is sustained by understanding & forgiveness.
'Baby mama' thing 'll only scatter ur life d more. Check d history.

I hope you'll be by his side to share the sufferings and depressions of marriage.

don't get married, marriage is boring.

Godaboveall2:
My man, do ur own( pray & search, even ask for elderly advices; in this, they are pro), & leave d rest to God. Good women abound. Hardwork is also needed on ur part, because while non-marital affairs are sustained by luv, marriage is sustained by understanding & forgiveness.
'Baby mama' thing 'll only scatter ur life d more. Check d history.

Can you share some of the issues you think one would face by having baby mamas?

OgogoroFreak:
you no get sense?

How old are you sef?

i am ogogorofreak old

Finding the right partner should be your penultimate desire.. When you find one, all things fall into place. But, bear in mind that it starts from you being the right partner too, because it takes two to tango. The kind of qualities one seeks in a potential wife is where the problem lies. Nowadays, people lay less emphasis on the Spiritual aspect, but this is the single most important of all the qualities. This is what determines how long a marriage lasts. Spirituality is not merely attending church (being religious), it shows itself in the manner of speech, humility, submission, kindness, calmness , love, joy, faithfulness, God-fearing etc etc. Then, if upon these virtues, one is romantic, caring, neat, in shape, cute, intelligent, humility, humorous, jovial, lively etc.(which are also needed),
I am telling you, with all these attributes in a partner, it will be difficult to want to look elsewhere. The problem is finding one who has these qualities, most importantly, the Spiritual qualities...

Most homes break today because, almost everyone goes for only superficial qualities like, sexy, good looking, romantic, big dick, figure 8, etc, without bothering with the Spiritual aspect (which is the key), what then do you expect to see?

My advice is this, first acquire the qualities you want to see in a potential wife, then be sensitive to finding one with such qualities. It also starts by looking for that woman in the right place, you don't expect to go to a night club looking for a spiritual person there.. But beware of pretenders too(they are many nowadays). Good luck

I always tell people to equate marriage with life, there is nothing like 100% happiness, sweetness, joy, there will always be downtime so during those times, dwell on when there was joy, sweetness and happiness, apply this during marriage and you will be fine.

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It Happens To Me Too. Many Relationships I Enter But I Lose Interest So Fast. Its Because You Have Not Found Your Right Woman Yet...

OgogoroFreak:
OK. After several attempts at living with ladies one after the other to see how the husband and wife thing work, I noticed one particular thing in all. At first, it was really good and enjoyable at the beginning but after spending like roughly six months living with a lady, it becomes so boring to the extent that I just want them to go. I want something new - A different girl!

Even if I throw the lady out and bring in another one, the same thing happens all over again after spending some months with her like man and wife.

Now, I have a friend that got married 2 years ago. I can still remember the way he loves his wife. The happiness in him when he kept on telling me how his wife is everything good in this life.

But today, the story has changed! He beats the wife like his worst enemy. The wife comes to my house every now and then with black eyes most times to complain how my friend has turned her into a punching bag.

My friend on the other hand complains bitterly about her saying she doesn't do anything right! same lady that was everything good in this life?

This is really scary to me. Could it be the same thing I have been experiencing with ladies I have lived with? Putting all these together, I'm really scared of getting married. Maybe, I should just make some few ladies out there baby mamas like most celebrities do? Please, I need your mature input on this matter.

. U better change ur attitude and mentality if u want to get marry. Its only a thief, hopeless and lazy man like u think about baby mama. u can't expect a girl to stay long with u because u r not responsible and u not ready to be. It's ur joblessness that always mk u to go to people's thread on nairaland and spoil their market. If want to succeed in life try and change ur way and always mind ur business .