ariesbull:


I can’t marry a man who doesn’t have a job and earns a decent salary enough to take care of a man, wife and at least a child.
I can’t marry a man who can’t afford at least a 2-bedroom apartment.
There’s a minimum level below which I can’t go.

If I were a man, I would NOT marry a woman who doesn’t have a job, or self-employed with something that earns her at least enough money to take care of two people.

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Most men I meet now want to know my level of education, what I do for money, and my future ambition. These are the FIRST few questions they ask.
I do NOT blame them at all. These are also some of the FIRST SEVEN questions I ask.

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Dear ladi
Gone are the days when you will graduate, do NYSC and sit in your “papa house” with pancake on your face, waiting for a Prince Charming to come and rescue you out of your money-less husband-less state.

MOST men now want women who are earning, and ambitious. Even rich abroad guys.
Do you know why “abroad guys” like nurses or girls who are interested in studying nursing or medical courses? It’s because it’s pretty relatively easy to get a job as a nurse or healthcare professional, almost anywhere in the world. These guys don’t want liabilities who would depend on them for money to buy sanitary pads. And they also want someone who will serve as a backbone, hold the forth and bail them out IF they run into financial crisis.

But then, most importantly, get something doing for YOURSELF and for your self-esteem and self-preservation.

When men graduate or attain a certain age, they start hustling to earn at least enough money to start a family. Girls should be doing same. At least, make an effort. Your vagina doesn’t incapacitate you.

Every female human has a vagina. That’s about half the world’s population. What makes you stand out from other “vagina-possessing” humans?

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Happy Sunday, and God bless you. ❤️❤️❤️

funmisticqueen:
dear ladies, if this poster is a woman, then she is what we call bob the builder. A true alpha male would like to know her background true, but to get someone who will pay bills with him? Only losers behave like that. Upon splitting the bills, he will still cheat. ladies be wise.

ibkayee:
Since when? The average Nigerian man is not looking for a woman who is financially stable or ambitious because how else would they get you to agree to everything they say whether good or bad, the type of 'ambitious' woman they want is only on paper lol. They will always prefer women who are dependant on them

ednut1:
Most men cannot handle the independent/buoyant woman they say they want. Those kind women no dey take shit and would walk out easily from the marriage. . Majority of nigerian men prefer dependent women abeg. Na y u go see guy of 30 marrying 400l or nysc babe

SilentWisper:
says who? Incase you didn't notice buhari is still our president.

ariesbull:


I can’t marry a man who doesn’t have a job and earns a decent salary enough to take care of a man, wife and at least a child.
I can’t marry a man who can’t afford at least a 2-bedroom apartment.
There’s a minimum level below which I can’t go.

If I were a man, I would NOT marry a woman who doesn’t have a job, or self-employed with something that earns her at least enough money to take care of two people.

*-*

Most men I meet now want to know my level of education, what I do for money, and my future ambition. These are the FIRST few questions they ask.
I do NOT blame them at all. These are also some of the FIRST SEVEN questions I ask.

*-*

Dear ladies,

Gone are the days when you will graduate, do NYSC and sit in your “papa house” with pancake on your face, waiting for a Prince Charming to come and rescue you out of your money-less husband-less state.

MOST men now want women who are earning, and ambitious. Even rich abroad guys.
Do you know why “abroad guys” like nurses or girls who are interested in studying nursing or medical courses? It’s because it’s pretty relatively easy to get a job as a nurse or healthcare professional, almost anywhere in the world. These guys don’t want liabilities who would depend on them for money to buy sanitary pads. And they also want someone who will serve as a backbone, hold the forth and bail them out IF they run into financial crisis.

But then, most importantly, get something doing for YOURSELF and for your self-esteem and self-preservation.

When men graduate or attain a certain age, they start hustling to earn at least enough money to start a family. Girls should be doing same. At least, make an effort. Your vagina doesn’t incapacitate you.

Every female human has a vagina. That’s about half the world’s population. What makes you stand out from other “vagina-possessing” humans?

*-*

Happy Sunday, and God bless you. ❤️❤️❤️

ibkayee:
Since when? The average Nigerian man is not looking for a woman who is financially stable or ambitious because how else would they get you to agree to everything they say whether good or bad, the type of 'ambitious' woman they want is only on paper lol. They will always prefer women who are dependant on them

sod09:
says who...it's actually Naija ladies mentality to be dependent on guys, hardly will you see one with ambition to hustle

Gerrard59:


They've come again with baseless assumptions.

Say "my environment, one hardly see ladies with the ambition to hustle". Don't be making hasty generalisations everywhere.

And no, it's not just Nigerian ladies' mentality that they want to be dependent. It goes both ways. Men desire ladies that they have more than and women prefer men that have more economic resources than they do.

Saff:
A bloody lie

Men love women that they have financial abundance over. They don’t want to compete with their women. This is not only Nigerian men, it’s men all around the world. That’s why older men love chasing young girls, because they know they can dominate financially with no competition.

Honestly if a woman is young and beautiful, Not much going on for herself, she’s more likely to find a man to wife her, than a independent woman who’s hardworking. That’s just the truth. So let’s stop trying to sugar coat things, let’s face reality.

sod09:
says who...it's actually Naija ladies mentality to be dependent on guys, hardly will you see one with ambition to hustle.

sod09:
you welcome Mr asslicker