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Moreoffaith:
I am sure you didn't follow the film right or you didn't view it with an open mind.

Admin401:
What didn't make sense to me in the movie was; Why did the husband give all the things he promised his ex-wife to his new wife? They didn't share the same dream, hell, I'm not even sure his new wife asked for it and if the man truly loved his ex wife like he claimed, he would have felt guilty doing all that he promised her for this new women he was about to marry, he could have done something different. A part of me think's it's the husbands way of making the ex-wife (which he claims to love dearly) jealous, otherwise it's just poor writing.

Admin401:
why did you say that? I was actually siding with the man until towards the end of the movie.

Moreoffaith:
1. The man in question had those dream for his future wife.

2. No matter what you and your wife or husband are going through in life, never let the family decide for you.. Cos would will be left alone to face the consequence when the time comes.

3. Did you watch the part where the man went to her office and she ask if he went to borrow suit to impress her?

Have you forgotten this guy tried all his best to convince the lady not to divorce him but this lady refused and also mock this guy with her relatives.

5.If not for the girlfriend who link this guy up, would he have make it big?

6. My brother no matter what in life don't lose hope in your self and also don't lose hope in your loved ones.

LadyHeaven:
The movie was poorly scripted what happens to forgiveness? if you truly love someone when it happens for you you repay the dreams you had together. Acrimony reminded me of a family in my area, the woman was a pain but the man had stuck with her and supported her for so long, he really had her back but at a point he had enough and asked her to leave because she obviously wanted more from her life, fast-forward 3 yrs later she was in a very juicy high as* position in Dubai as a Doctor she came back home apologized with her family to the man and they made up, he joined her in Dubai she helped him go for his masters and they are balling now, everyone hailed her attitude for not forgetting the man who stood by her through it all.

Admin401:
Wow, what a woman. She obviously loved her husband of many years and it's not easy to just unlove someone like that and start loving someone new in such a short time frame that you even go ahead to marry them so quickly. Acrimony is truely lazy writing.

ghostwritter:
Robert has no fault here, let me explain.
He begged her not to let go, he knelt in front of her in the presence of her relatives that never loved him and she did what pleases her, So what do you expect. Robert even paid her 10 times what she deserved as compensation and bought back her mother's house for her but all she wanted was the love of a man she refused at his point of success. Don't forget the 'Not so good sex' she had with another man. You should also know that If not for the new wife, Robert wouldn't have been successful as he was (The new wife brought him good luck while the old wife was his bad luck). I love that movie soooo much but never take it toooo personal like my girlfriend who got mad at me for supporting Robert at the end of the movie...Guys be wise.

Admin401:
Out of respect for what they once had, he could have expressed love for his new wife in a different way is all I'm saying. This is where I don't agree with the man. Considering the sacrifice she made for him over the years, I don't think I could do something like that to a women that stayed with me for 18 years even when I didn't have a single job. it's should be enough for him to respect her even if they are not together.

obisite:
I think it's a movie too, cos I also wonder how he quickly fell in love with her so fast, maybe to heal the pain of divorce, nevertheless that vacuum should be easily occupied by a stranger so fast..

EMMAUGOH:
First of all, the comment and post about the movie made me look for it.. At the end it wasn't anything special.. The movie started looking like a fiction it was when he told her about a 800 dollar rejected deal and she didn't believe.. Thats when the film started looking more like a Nigerian film to me. Also how a 800 dollar deal later became a 150 million... In as much as i am in love with the producer Tyler perry but the views associated with this movie looks too emotional and fictitious to me.

LadyHeaven:
Like seriously we where really touched cos she was quite younger than her hubby and obviously richer and could have blanked him and moved on citing that at least he was the one that pushed her away but she never forgot the love they once shared, Acrimony's story line is very lazy writing and dosen't really teach the right thing go to reddit and quora the call out no be here it's all fiction but painful things like that still happen. We pray for good partners that would always have our backs

Admin401:
you just reminded me of something I should have done since.

goodlifeben:
If by now you've not watched the movie 'Acrimony', you're probably not a movie person or an extremely busy person.
Tyler Perry did a great job by sharing so many valuable lessons on relationship in it. And if you watched it intelligently you'll pick a couple of them.
As always, I like to base my judgement on the relationship even before marriage because most times marriage is an amplified version of a relationship. The quality of a relationship will to a large extent determine the quality of marriage.
So here's mine:
1. You don't start a relationship alone
You will eventually take the final decision of whether or not to go ahead with a relationship but don't rush. Listen to people, especially those closest to you because they would see what you can't see when you are blinded by emotions. Emotions are funny so we can't afford to always trust it. There is a difference between fighting for a man you love and fighting for one you have feelings for. Melinda's sisters were strongly against her relationship with Robert but she never listened.
A good reason to have wise people in your circle.
2. Never ignore red flags
Robert cheated on Melinda with another lady. He kept sucking the babe's money stylishly (sweet ATM). He took advantage of her vulnerability. He was a liar. There were many signs on the wall but Melinda ignored them.
3. Uncontrolled anger will cost you
When you notice that you have any character flaw, immediately work on it before it costs you something. In Melinda's case, it cost her her uterus and the dream life she patiently waited for 18years to have.
4. You get to pay for your sins one way or the other
Robert took advantage of Melinda's vulnerability for many years, spent all her money, cheated, refused to work till her patience ran out (because she's human). In the end, he had wealth without peace.
5. Sex can cover your eyes
Every level of intimacy you choose to practice in your relationship comes with a price. The moment sex comes into the picture, be rest assured that your judgement and approach to things will be corrupted by emotions. Melinda's behavior after having sex with Robert was very predictable. She could no longer SEE.
What did you learn from Acrimony?
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Admin401:
You mean shouldn't be easily right?

olowo1995:
She was the one Robert cheated on Melinda with before they close the record and later open it back when Melinda divorced him

Admin401:
yeah, I know. But why are you pointing this out?

Admin401:
What didn't make sense to me in the movie was; Why did the husband give all the things he promised his ex-wife to his new wife? They didn't share the same dream, hell, I'm not even sure his new wife asked for it and if the man truly loved his ex wife like he claimed, he would have felt guilty doing all that he promised her for this new women he was about to marry, he could have done something different. A part of me think's it's the husbands way of making the ex-wife (which he claims to love dearly) jealous, otherwise it's just poor writing.

LadyHeaven:
The movie was poorly scripted what happens to forgiveness? if you truly love someone when it happens for you you repay the dreams you had together. Acrimony reminded me of a family in my area, the woman was a pain but the man had stuck with her and supported her for so long, he really had her back but at a point he had enough and asked her to leave because she obviously wanted more from her life, fast-forward 3 yrs later she was in a very juicy high as* position in Dubai as a Doctor she came back home apologized with her family to the man and they made up, he joined her in Dubai she helped him go for his masters and they are balling now, everyone hailed her attitude for not forgetting the man who stood by her through it all.

Mucokey:
Can anyone drop off a link for download of this movie : acrimony?
Thanks

LadyHeaven:
The movie was poorly scripted what happens to forgiveness? if you truly love someone when it happens for you you repay the dreams you had together. Acrimony reminded me of a family in my area, the woman was a pain but the man had stuck with her and supported her for so long, he really had her back but at a point he had enough and asked her to leave because she obviously wanted more from her life, fast-forward 3 yrs later she was in a very juicy high as* position in Dubai as a Doctor she came back home apologized with her family to the man and they made up, he joined her in Dubai she helped him go for his masters and they are balling now, everyone hailed her attitude for not forgetting the man who stood by her through it all.

olowo1995:
I said when someone said he went ahead to marry anoda so soon, that they have dated before if the girl did not like him they wont be together before and later God says she owns the man

Admin401:
You mean shouldn't be easily right?

babyfaceafrica:
it is overrated