lavylilly:
Melinda was a few years from clocking 40, she had wasted all her youthful years working for one man who promised her the world. Robert was her first and only, she gave him her virginity and literally, her whole life.
She was miserable for so long. So, because she already lost the last property that carried her name and also, thought Robert cheated again, she ran wild and divorced him.
You can’t exactly blame Robert, he begged but she was too hurt and weak to wait another second for his dreams to come through.
To make it worse, he promised her forever and every single thing she worked for, he gave it to Diana. He didn’t just give it to Diana, they shared every single bit of their life on Facebook. Their life was just as good as Keeping Up With The Kardashians, she knew everything single they did.
Then again, Diana was making her so miserable.
She made sure Melinda was bitter and didn’t miss any opportunity to make her feel more pain. Robert, on the other hand, didn’t caution Diana, he watched her troll his ex-wife without saying a word.
Coupled with her sick anger issues, Melinda went crazy and hearing about Diana’s pregnancy made her do the worst.
In the end, Melissa died. I’d leave you to find out how that happened.

Personally, I think Robert should have kept his life a secret. He knew Melinda was the motherfu*king Devil! He could have avoided her wrath by shielding his success and cautioning Diana.
She was much more hurt by the fact that it was the same Diana, it was never about the money.

Also, I’d like to add that we need to know when its time to leave a terrible relationship. Leaving a five years relationship without life commitments would hurt like crazy. Now think of twenty years, dedicating every single drop of your fruitfulness, loyalty, and fertility.
It all comes down to choice, she chose to leave, but at the wrong time. Robert didn't deserve the final treatment he got, but you must agree with me that Melinda Gayle shouldn't be completely blamed either.

Leezah:
In most relationships, there is usually someone who loves more then the other. When the couple breaks apart, there might be sense of bitterness within that person because they weren't able to work it out. They might feel hurt, unloved and betrayed. It's a completely natural feeling that anyone can feel when they've lost the one who they believed was the love of their life.

The main focus would be on moving past this feeling, which many people are fairly good at. But there is that slim percentage of folks who want to dwell in that bitterness, and develop a hate for that person who left them.

Thankfully, I've never had to deal with an ex girlfriend who has hated me.

lavylilly:
Melinda was a few years from clocking 40, she had wasted all her youthful years working for one man who promised her the world. Robert was her first and only, she gave him her virginity and literally, her whole life.
She was miserable for so long. So, because she already lost the last property that carried her name and also, thought Robert cheated again, she ran wild and divorced him.
You can’t exactly blame Robert, he begged but she was too hurt and weak to wait another second for his dreams to come through.
To make it worse, he promised her forever and every single thing she worked for, he gave it to Diana. He didn’t just give it to Diana, they shared every single bit of their life on Facebook. Their life was just as good as Keeping Up With The Kardashians, she knew everything single they did.
Then again, Diana was making her so miserable.
She made sure Melinda was bitter and didn’t miss any opportunity to make her feel more pain. Robert, on the other hand, didn’t caution Diana, he watched her troll his ex-wife without saying a word.
Coupled with her sick anger issues, Melinda went crazy and hearing about Diana’s pregnancy made her do the worst.
In the end, Melissa died. I’d leave you to find out how that happened.

Personally, I think Robert should have kept his life a secret. He knew Melinda was the motherfu*king Devil! He could have avoided her wrath by shielding his success and cautioning Diana.
She was much more hurt by the fact that it was the same Diana, it was never about the money.

Also, I’d like to add that we need to know when its time to leave a terrible relationship. Leaving a five years relationship without life commitments would hurt like crazy. Now think of twenty years, dedicating every single drop of your fruitfulness, loyalty, and fertility.
It all comes down to choice, she chose to leave, but at the wrong time. Robert didn't deserve the final treatment he got, but you must agree with me that Melinda Gayle shouldn't be completely blamed either.

OBelz:
The real person at fault in the Acrimony movie was Mel's elder sister. If not for her, she'd have stayed to enjoy the fruit of her labour. He wasn't a con man, as Melinda's sisters assumed he was. He was an inventor with a spectacular invention—one that eventually made both of them rich. The moral of “Acrimony” seems to be: Leave a bad man, especially one who cheated on you before marriage and leeches off your financial resources — unless he has poured his life into the dream of inventing a self-recharging battery, in which case the bonds of matrimony are sacrosanct and no sacrifice is too great

Chienex24:
Really laughing at some who blame siblings , elder sister and the likes

Very simple lesson... Love unconditionally, but use your head :



That movie was seriously over hypppped!!! How can I unwatch it

immaculatesense:

I dont know u...but ur just too wise and a good analyst as such

lavylilly:

Then again, Diana was making her so miserable.
She made sure Melinda was bitter and didn’t miss any opportunity to make her feel more pain. Robert, on the other hand, didn’t caution Diana, he watched her troll his ex-wife without saying a word.
Coupled with her sick anger issues, Melinda went crazy and hearing about Diana’s pregnancy made her do the worst.
In the end, Melissa died. I’d leave you to find out how that happened.

Personally, I think Robert should have kept his life a secret. He knew Melinda was the motherfu*king Devil! He could have avoided her wrath by shielding his success and cautioning Diana.
She was much more hurt by the fact that it was the same Diana, it was never about the money.

Also, I’d like to add that we need to know when its time to leave a terrible relationship. Leaving a five years relationship without life commitments would hurt like crazy. Now think of twenty years, dedicating every single drop of your fruitfulness, loyalty, and fertility.
It all comes down to choice, she chose to leave, but at the wrong time. Robert didn't deserve the final treatment he got, but you must agree with me that Melinda Gayle shouldn't be completely blamed either.

Liposure:
Temper ruined it for melinda. Yes Robert was bad but she allowed her anger get the better of her. A woman like that shouldn't fall in love. Its risky. Love is not a do or die affair.

Kriss216:

Robert was not bad.

He only cheated once during their friendship.

PeaceIlya:
which is wrong, all the while he was chasing a dream, he should have gotten a ajob

Pascopele:
This happens when expectations are not met and blame is assigned.

"You made me feel this way!"

A love or friendship ends in acrimony when one or both parties blame the other for the problems in the relationship that resulted in its ending. The acrimony is felt by whomever wanted the relationship to continue. Examples of the manifestation of this are:

"If only they would have changed..."
"If only they had been better..."
"If only they would just love me like I love them!"
"If only they wouldn't cause so many problems!"
"If only..."

A person who blames others for problems they experience in their life are more likely to become bitter.

What didn't make sense to me in the movie was; Why did the husband give all the things he promised his ex-wife to his new wife? They didn't share the same dream, hell, I'm not even sure his new wife asked for it and if the man truly loved his ex wife like he claimed, he would have felt guilty doing all that he promised her for this new women he was about to marry, he could have done something different. A part of me think's it's the husbands way of making the ex-wife (which he claims to love dearly) jealous, otherwise it's just poor writing.

Karleb:
The movie was deliberately made to be controversial to make money.

Mission was accomplished and I was entertained.

If you wish to blame anyone, it should be the director.

IyaTola:
Here are 10 relationship lessons to learn from the movie, as posted by Harold [@haroldwrites].

1. Not all good advice is good for you
Sieve what advice you adhere to, even if it’s genuine & comes from people who love you dearly. Not every good advice is good advice.


2. Resolve all problems with your partner
The best people to consult when you want to resolve a conflict in your relationship are yourself and your partner. No one knows your relationship better than both of you

3. Love with reason
Love unconditionally but love with reason.

4. False ideas of perfection
Two perfect people may not be perfect together.

5. Anger is always the wrong choice
Anger is a choice. And it is never a good one.

6. Don't act while angry
When you are angry, the best thing to do is nothing. Don’t even think. Just let the anger subside.

7. Relationships should be off social media
Social media does not need to know everything that happens in your relationship. Don’t hide the fact that you’re in a relationship, but keep the things that happen therein, private, as much as possible.

8. Love languages
Learn your partner’s love language, else, you’ll labour in vain to provide acts of service and gifting gifts when your partner only understands words of affirmation and quality time. This could put so much strain on your relationship.

9. No pride
Swallow your pride and make amends as soon as possible, irrespective of who is wrong. There is no medal for 'Best Partner Who Can Stay Angry For the Longest Time.'

10. Never lose your partner's trust
Trust, once broken, can never be regained.