HARDDON:


ask her this: ' how would you ask your ancestor how he got your number?'

or

2. from the middle of the ocean on a very large mirror of woman. Wano come see?

3. Huh? get your number? have you forgotten you asked for my number sometimes ago? when you were crushing on me but i didnt give you much attention? yea, i know it's been very long, heck my voice sounds thicker and richer now, doesnt mean you forget its print.

4. On some yellow pages. You advertized for a boyfriend, ermm, no i didnt come for that post, i came to teach you how to fall in love

5. From your dad. He wanted me to check you out. God help you if she is the type that is free with her dad!

Wyrax:
I started to follow this thread last year november.
I read some the drills.
I was 25 then n i never had a girlfriend.

I summoned the courage to get one. I gót one and my first try was a hit a former classmate of mine in the university fortunately we were posted to the same state for NYSC.
I got her number during the rural rugged and began to communicate with her via whatsapp. We went to our convocation. I demanded we meet she refused.
After the convo we returned to our differaent local govt in the same state.
It dawned on me that i loved her. I then sent a love message to her on whatsapp. I asked if she feels the same way she said she doesnt know yet until she knows me better that we only know each as classmate. She called me n was asking all sort of questions like if i wanted her jst a gf or more i said more she asked for my extra hussle aside from nysc i told her she asked for my age i tld her and all other questions like that. I was already feeling on top of tha world.
A week later she called me and asked for an amount of money tha she needed it for her training i instantly sent it to her

I went to her place a day before christmas we discussed and i left. And i called her severally after tha day she didnt pickup her phone i sent whatsapp message to her on christmas she didnt reply i sent new year's message she didnt reply. I had given up on her until she called and said that she missed me. I was excited.
She started investing more in the relationship i informed her i was broke. She called me and we discussed for hours.
I went to her place again this time for the weekend she told we should visit one of her fathers we went there. It was like a mini introduction i was feeling excited.

on sunday she suddenly said i shoud leave i felt what is freaking happening. I left to a friend's house was just bored there. She then called back that i should return to her. At this point my mind became calm went back to her tha night was a sleepless night tho. She was pushing for sex(raw) i wasnt ready for that i told her i had a condom she refused she said she doesnt like it dat way. She then said if so i should lick her i almost but I withdrew i felt it was awkward.
On momday sha i left her house n i went back to my place.
I caled her she didnt pick again when she eventually pjcked she said i shouldnt called more than twice that she was busy(angrily) i promised i was gonna buy sth for her i forget i sent the money small amount tho to her.

She then found her voice again. We started contacting each other. I told her to come down to my place she did. I spoke to her mum. Her mum said we should come and visit her.
That night again was long she wanted it raw again i refused she asked y that am i scared. I didnt talk sje said i should lick her again i almost but i withdrew.
The day broke and friend visit who i am suggesting has a mental disorder. She knck i opened the door n saw she was the one i felt somehow. Then she started saying whos this i said shes my fiancee she said ooo you? Wey no dey allow female enter your room? Wey dey always do shy shy. She left sha . And she cameback she said she wanted to see her in camera i didnt was her to go but she went anyways. I asked her waht she said she replied nothing i kept troubling her she insisted nothing. She bursted out that i like panicking too much that she doesnt like it.

The week of my pop, i got a job test invite for a day after my pop. I was excited i called her n told her about it she started cryingshe the said theres no one to help her. Her dad just got a bad divorce her dad is a doctor in the USA.
I told her to touch down at my place before the pop she did. I asked her if she knew a former roomate of mine she said yes. She was somehow n then i asked wah is wrong she said she had an affair with him. He sexed her, he den left after. I was unhappy but waht can i say i jst said she shouldnt bother its no prob.
Inshort, i did the test i was successful i told her she calmed me thảt better opportunity awaits. But me i know say na suffer they wait. I was scared that i am about to lose her because she got a job unknown to her n i its gnld she rented an apartment(i was expecting tha after service she will go to her mother)
I applied for the gnld job too i never knew it was gnld tho until she told me we would have to pay 18k i was curious after i had paid 4k i researched d company here on nairalamd and i got to know its gnld. She had already paid all the sums she was lamenting. I became childish tho i was laughing and making jokes. Tho i was laughing at myself and waht thr mess i have gotten into in terms of work and finances. She became annoyed saying all sort that i am using her for experiment and she will just breakup with me if i am not careful that she cNt leave with someone with dat kinda attitude. I realised i sent a wrong impression i apologised to her. Because i loved her so much
I was triply scared by rhose statment. I left to lagos. I was so depressed (because of my family her going thru abject poverty, my mother was ill, my father was jobless, my sister needs to pay her school which i support, my bro needed to go to camp in the north iam jobless too) to the extent tha i said we should go on a break till i get a work amd get settled. She warned me tha break do lead to breakups i told her it all depend on her. She then agreed.
2wks later i realised i made an error i called her she said she aint coming back I asked her why she said she has been in relationships b4 tho i am GOOD person oo tha we hv different ideas cannot be together we can be friends tho. I was mad already i told my mother, my father my brother to talk to her. She alluded that i am always laughing when she not happy, and that i am always panicking. Rhat she cant live with me.

I called her mum her mum told me she will talk to her tha she already new it smal thing tha will cause or sepation.

I begged her, she blocked me in whatspp, telegram n facebook i went to her place she insisted.

I kept texting her until it dawned on my after 3 months she never comeback. I jst had to move on.

I made mistakes tho. I have always known my first trial to love will be a hard on. Because of the kinda relation i have with girls.

I sure didnt use the drills here because i was complacent and in love.

Some of my mistakes
Sending whatsapp love message

She kept me to feel a gap in her heart, she wasnt fully in love with me but i tht all her axns were love

She controlled me like a puppet

I was scared of losing her

I was insensitive

I showed childish attitude
I talked too much
I showed lack of confidence etc

I wrote this for future reference and to ensure some dont fall in same pit

Acsm:
I salute you bozz hardon for this drill nugget..I av been adherent follower.. which sleek response can I give to a girl dah wud ask if I love her during dose heated moments.(shirt flying moments)like twice now...TBH I wulda told her I love her but her possible response wud be she doesn't (even as I can tell she does)..
Last time she asks I drew her close n kissed her forehead..
Nb: she's in a serious relationship with her bf..buh I'm planning to av her all to myself

Cc: Hardon

kollinzgee:
Oga harddon may you wisdom surpass that of Solomon. Been following ur drills since 2017 but improvement is slow for me. My problem now is lack of confidence I get confident at times but it will later drop. I wanna be just like you harddon been following many pick up artists some work but some fail I bought bang rule by Charles nneji but am a slow learner the tricks in that book work but the problem is advancing to the next stage I get girls fall for me but I can't advance to sex please now I come to u for help change my life I desperately wanna be an alpha male like u baba.

HARDDON:


Badt guy!

We've dealth with Moment Defining Questions(MDQs) before and how to handle them.

However, your case is kinda fun with a lil extra edge to it: she hooked somewhere else. I don't know why stolen waters taste sweeter . The adrenaline pump, the sudden surgical surge, the smile on your freaking brow knowing fully well that you are browsing some1 else's jewel like some worthless website yet she loving it. Screaming it. Prodding for more like she really missed rough handling.
It's crazy!


Your case is so different because you got her in a corner. You know she is seeing someone. This should spur you to heights of fun jabs whenever she summon th e sexy nerves wanting to put you in a fix by such weak wine.

No! This is not the time to get cozy, it's time to roar wild. No! U shouldnt pull her close, you should turn the time, paint the real situation in a firm fun way and make her fall into her own ditch. Don't be manipulated even if you really dig her. Want her for keeps. This is the begining of ladies two timing. Because the side guy got so manipulated and beaten into line and accepted the second fiddle role because he knew she was hooked, yet still came loving like a Lamb!

Wano hear a lil secret? It was from situations like this that made me postulate this real life theory: Always tell a gurl you are hooked to one of the hottest ladies out there if ever she asks you this boring question: do you have a girlfriend? Heck! How can she ask a talll, darkkk and Handsome guy if he got a gurl? I got gurls! One for eachndaynof the week! Apart from Sunday

It differentiates you from the crowd of boring guys out there. Shows you value your lady and she wud automatically start wishing she was yours! She might recoil, more out of surprise that a guy could say that, and roll some funny mumbles , but deep down, you just struck her deeep.


That question is an affront from someone that the world knows is seeing some one else.

Tell me, from the foregone, what you think your lines/actions should be.

HARDDON:
i've lost track and traction.
where were we people?

kollinzgee:
Oga harddon may you wisdom surpass that of Solomon. Been following ur drills since 2017 but improvement is slow for me. My problem now is lack of confidence I get confident at times but it will later drop. I wanna be just like you harddon been following many pick up artists some work but some fail I bought bang rule by Charles nneji but am a slow learner the tricks in that book work but the problem is advancing to the next stage I get girls fall for me but I can't advance to sex please now I come to u for help change my life I desperately wanna be an alpha male like u baba.

kollinzgee:
Wow that's a moral booster Harddon my major setback in the game is the Nigerian society. From childhood we have been groomed to believe that if u ain't got money no girls for u and I believe the female folks have really taken advantage of this mentality everyday here in campus yabatech u see married men and big boys picking up girls so easily. Let's be sincere here rich guys are really attractive to women no matter their looks and personality. am not on the financially buoyant side now questions is does that really matter can you still be attractive to women if u are broke I mean hot women.

HARDDON:
DRILL NUGGET 22

How To Date Right

Don't fall for this manipulation lines:

1. "Is it this little thing that's making you red? "

What you don't like, you don't like. Period. Never let her manipulate you into seeing stupidity in what you don't dig.
Put your foot down.

2. "He is just a friend"

You would not imagine how many gurls that are SERIOUSLY dating that yours truly is JUST A FRIEND WITH. She is getting something from him that you ain't offering. It could be funds, time, listening ear or he just knows how to touch her and tip her over the edge of sexy sanity. It is your duty to codedly find out.

While at it,
promote one of your flowers... When your woman starts asking questions about her, tell her "she is just a friend also".
We are too busy to grow jealouse.

Harddon u be boss, i swear! U bad die. Hahahaha... I get ur bird story die... Nice! Thank boss!

kollinzgee:
Oga harddon may you wisdom surpass that of Solomon. Been following ur drills since 2017 but improvement is slow for me. My problem now is lack of confidence I get confident at times but it will later drop. I wanna be just like you harddon been following many pick up artists some work but some fail I bought bang rule by Charles nneji but am a slow learner the tricks in that book work but the problem is advancing to the next stage I get girls fall for me but I can't advance to sex please now I come to u for help change my life I desperately wanna be an alpha male like u baba.

Dataspider:


Let's say Sense pills for maintaining a r/ship

Hardon, guys, I would like to rekindle the attraction feelings between I and my girl. We got sperated by the holidays and talk mostly on Whatsapp. Lately, I feel that the her feelings for me are going down. How can I rebuild that? We used to chat naughty on whatsapp, but I sense things are going south. How can I fix this... Or should I prepare backup.
NB: I used most of the dating drills on her when we were still in school and they worked very well.

MuyiRano:

Pls on wat pg is the bird story?
I've bn tryin to read it again but I couldn't get the pg

drealzum:
Good job you are doing op.....Perfection for me comes from practice. The best player I know when it comes to game is Neil Strauss author of "The game". I have used his trick and enjoyed success and I will also want to learn more negs from you........I have read your works and they are excellent.

figo77:


What about on chat? If she asks how u got her number through chat

drnoel:


Had to go back to Ur previous comment to make sure I read it correctly and I was right as initially assessed. If u talk like a child, u get angry like a child then u are a kid, sorry doesn't work anyother way kid.
I won't go derogatory like u but there no man alive that doesn't like a woman's private, a clean one though. Cheers

Emperor380:
Hardon av cum again oo, pls i nid ur help boss. There is this girl i really want to make mine before December. I've never talk to her neither has she talk to me.We live in the same area but our houses are a bit far. I'm a busy guy that goes to work and returns by 7pm. On the other hand she's also a busy and working class too. I don't really know hw to hook up with her, I've been thinking of giving her a surprise visit but don't know if its a gud idea. I need u to give me sum tips on wat to do, wch step to take...i really nid her b4 December fr a purpose

COOL10:
. Enough with the 'kid','kid','kid' statements already . If you're so OLD and MATURE and WISE,what the hell are you doing on a ground where children play? To advice us? Dude no one asked for your aged advice,kindly keep it to yourself aiit? Thank you. The mere fact that you keep reiterating the 'kid talk' shows how insecure you are. You're prolly not even as old as you portray yourself to be. Next time,learn to respect your supposed old age