NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Where do you work? That's a gold diggy question.

Lmao. I make sure i never ask

ImaIma1:


True. A guy went as far as getting information about where my colleague works after she told him. The guy went as far as finding out about salary, benefits, upfronts, allowances...everything. He packaged himself and they got married. Need i go further?!

This is better than Telemundo, tell me more. How did it unfold?

prettyaura:
Wat are your plans for the weekend? Like u want me to come over to your house or what?

Peasant spotted. It's one of the best way to invite a lady to an eat out. Go read for jamb

KanielOutis92:
Well said bro. I couldnt agree more. The truth is, the average nigerian girl cannot engage in a 'decent' conversation. More often than none, chatting with a Nigerian girl is somewhat like a Q&A section ( i mean last time i checked i wasnt no fvcking shrink ). I mean you guys gotta do better than the usual "FINE" response to the "How are u"? question..you know. That said, many a time, these questions you guys tag somewhat useless are most times asked in an attempt to get on with the convo

( i mean last time i checked i wasnt no fvcking shrink ). I mean you guys gotta do better than the usual "FINE" response to the "How are u"? question..you know.

Zieina:
Have you eaten?

for real,have you eaten?

Zieina:


It isn't wrong, it's rather inappropriate if asked over the phone or in a situation where food can't be prepared or sent over if she answers in the negative. Do you get it now?

P.S- That would be a pleasing question if asked by one's spouse. However, I don't like the idea of it from some guy.

This, here, is a better suggestion- "I'm eating roasted salad, would you care to join?"

You're being cynical and hypercritical. I could order a meal online if i asked you over the phone if you've eaten and you say no. I could jusr hit you with a surprise, don't be over analytical. It keeps the creativity and the expression/imagination/creativity of the other party in a relationship. Rather than seek flaws, why not flow the process and see where it leads.

Girls don't even have the right to like or hate a particular kind of question, they are so boring they expect u to lead the conversation as if we are here to entertain them

prettyaura:
Wat are your plans for the weekend? Like u want me to come over to your house or what?

Them still dey cage this one for house.

Ralphjoe:
What do you girls expect when it's always we guys that are supposed to be leading the conversation, we just have to ask these questions to keep the conversation going. It is more obvious when we are trying to know a new friend, once we are conversant with this person then the questions reduce. Most of these questions are asked innocently with no ulterior motive but just for the sake of conversations.

As in the thing tire me.

Wilfredpat22:
Not ‘Most’ ...All ladies in Nigeria can’t keep a decent convo, take a guy out, Give a ride to a man, or wash her car by herself

The day men stop acting like stewpid robots that is the time we women will buckle up

True talk jare

kunleweb:



You're being cynical and hypercritical. I could order a meal online if i asked you over the phone if you've eaten and you say no. I could jusr hit you with a surprise, don't be over analytical. It keeps the creativity and the expression/imagination/creativity of the other party in a relationship. Rather than seek flaws, why not flow the process and see where it leads.

Your capacity for comprehension may be low. Re-read where I said "if food can't be sent over" don't ask. The message wasn't for you though, the bro it was meant for understood it, so don't quote me again.

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
First day of conversing? There should be an appropriate time for such question and not the very next minute of meeting.

I seriously don't ask that question cos I observe very well.

What do you mean first day?

-Where do you work?
- I work with Unity bank...

MetalJigsaw:
What do you mean first day?

-Where do you work?
- I work with Unity bank...

pardon me sir, but there has been a past argument about this question move by men. Men feel women who ask this question on a first meeting are gold diggers.

misspearlz:
Personally, I do ask my friends this very question and they do also and I love it that way, to me it shows we both care and from there a conversation starts like *you wanna cook for me? *what did you eat? *where is my share? etc.
when a guy ask me any questions, my own is to answer and be sincere, or I ask any questions also and from there a conversation starts.

Hope you will not come and quote me with insults oo *runs out of thread*

the detailed explanation u gave is good.... For me I don't see anything bad about that question....

It is a friendly question

Fourwinds:
the detailed explanation u gave is good.... For me I don't see anything bad about that question....

It is a friendly question

Zieina:


It isn't wrong, it's rather inappropriate if asked over the phone or in a situation where food can't be prepared or sent over if she answers in the negative. Do you get it now?

P.S- That would be a pleasing question if asked by one's spouse. However, I don't like the idea of it from some guy.

This, here, is a better suggestion- "I'm eating roasted salad, would you care to join?"

You just confirmed why they say most ladies are fish brained.

Zieina:


Your capacity for comprehension may be low. Re-read where I said "if food can't be sent over" don't ask. The message wasn't for you though, the bro it was meant for understood it, so don't quote me again.

Typically repugnant, should i be surprised? You will outgrow this phase and laugh at your comment later in life.


Walks away.

The Truth Is If You Are Not Interested In A Man All There Questions Will Piss You Off. But I Tell U, If Your Crush Asks More Stupid Question, U Will Joyfully Answer

kunleweb:



Typically repugnant, should i be surprised? You will outgrow this phase and laugh at your comment later in life.


Walks away.

bros u shouldn't be surprised at all. Na you get their time.

kunleweb:



This is better than Telemundo, tell me more. How did it unfold?

Real life Telemundo.

Well...it is obviously not rosy because of the motive.

Rexnegro:

please do , we'd like to know what up further.

Normal story...wife funding marriage...husband frustrating wife. Wife regretting and wondering how she didn't see it. She wanted someone she would start life with...not a made man. But she unfortunately met the wrong one.

MetalJigsaw:
bros u shouldn't be surprised at all. Na you get their time.

You can smell the dirty attitude too abi? Later they say Nigerian men like foreign women too much. I no get her irks time that's why i didn't bother respond I rather download and watch political debates online than waste my precious time of irredemable fools

ImaIma1:


Real life Telemundo.

Well...it is obviously not rosy because of the motive.

A lot of men in this generation are this way actually. I've seen some of my childhood friends run to marry in such scenarios and i can't help but feel sorry for them. And, then the lady they pretended to with posh grammar.

To attain sustainable success, hardwork is the way, the only way, i hope they learn. You can't hide all the days of your life by trying to belong where one doesn't belong, at some point, exposition occurs and shame follows suit. Like i tell my colleagues, if many of our parents had done the work of good parenting, there would have been plenty healthy men and women enough to go around.


Why we have complains here and there is just the aftermath of bad upbringing, absentee fatherism, ungroomed adults that have stunted lives, their moulds and body parts are that of adults, but deep down, these entities remained stuck in their childhood.

kunleweb:



You can smell the dirty attitude too abi? Later they say Nigerian men like foreign women too much. I no get her irks time that's why i didn't bother respond I rather download and watch political debates online than waste my precious time of irredemable fools

That is what we're facing concerning Nigerian ladies. Should we blame them? We should blame the ever sex-hungry zombies in many guys that lose their sense of rationality at the sight of a lady just because of some few minutes of pleasure.

MetalJigsaw:
That is what we're facing concerning Nigerian ladies. Should we blame them? We should blame the ever sex-hungry zombies in many guys that lose their sense of rationality at the sight of a lady just because of some few minutes of pleasure.

Mennnnnnn, the slightest rising of that repugnant character, i'm off. No time to waste. Let's hold our heads high, good men are a treasure, and men have value too, this is what i tell them thesedays

kunleweb:



Typically repugnant, should i be surprised? You will outgrow this phase and laugh at your comment later in life.


Walks away.

Better walk past fast.

MetalJigsaw:
You just confirmed why they say most ladies are fish brained.

Yes. Like your mum.

kunleweb:




A lot of men in this generation are this way actually. I've seen some of my childhood friends run to marry in such scenarios and i can't help but feel sorry for them. And, then the lady they pretended to with posh grammar.

To attain sustainable success, hardwork is the way, the only way, i hope they learn. You can't hide all the days of your life by trying to belong where one doesn't belong, at some point, exposition occurs and shame follows suit. Like i tell my colleagues, if many of our parents had done the work of good parenting, there would have been plenty healthy men and women enough to go around.


Why we have complains here and there is just the aftermath of bad upbringing, absentee fatherism, ungroomed adults that have stunted lives, their moulds and body parts are that of adults, but deep down, these entities remained stuck in their childhood.

Very true. Upbringing is the culprit here especially for this particular guy. He is the only boy in his family and his mum over indulged him and pampered him and was even doing his laundry till he got married.

Sometimes parents think they are helping their children and trying to make things easy for them and giving them a better life but they end up making them a burden to people they meet later especially their spouses.

Zieina:

Yes. Like your mum.

My mum is not a lady. Ode

kunleweb:





Mennnnnnn, the slightest rising of that repugnant character, i'm off. No time to waste. Let's hold our heads high, good men are a treasure, and men have value too, this is what i tell them thesedays

its a pity

MetalJigsaw:
My mum is not a lady. Ode

An old lady. Ode.

ImaIma1:


Very true. Upbringing is the culprit here especially for this particular guy. He is the only boy in his family and his mum over indulged him and pampered him and was even doing his laundry till he got married.

Sometimes parents think they are helping their children and trying to make things easy for them and giving them a better life but they end up making them a burden to people they meet later especially their spouses.

You see. As if i was there, they end up being their wives first born, and the eldest child of their wives...


You will be amazed at the percentile of men of this generation that have never started and finished a project. This is what makes a man, the insigght, then the pursuit of purpose, and turning ideas into reality, when all these exist in a man, even if he's down he'll rise back up again. You can't find this in many men thesedays, even if you do, it ends at lip service with no energy to back their enthusiasm up. They speak posh grammar, look neat, spotless, but the grits and wits of an intellectual hard working man is completely inexistent in them, Unfortunately, it becomes too late to do the re-wiring of their cognitive proccesses as their default setting is built by the process of lazy and bad upbringing that they were subjected to. I feel sowwie for the ladies..Very sorry, men ladies will end with boys in men's body