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9 Signs She's Not Serious About You & A Total Waste Of Time (Top Secret) by Donshaga(op):
Beautiful women easily bullshit one gullible guy after another and they’ll automatically assume they can fool you too.

It’s MUCH BETTER to hurt her feelings, call her out on her bad behavior, and risk her never talking to you again than it is to be the gullible, nice guy, and fool she thinks you are.

In this short article you'll discover the #9 Signs She's Playing Games & Not Serious About You.

All right, Let's roll...

#1. She Never Calls or Texts First:-
When you’re texting and calling first and she never takes the initiative to be the first to text or call, you’re wasting your time. You’re allowing her to treat you in a way that is less than you deserve. Just because she texts back or answers when you call doesn’t mean you have to be OK with it.

When she KNOWS she doesn’t have to make an effort because you’re going to keep calling and texting first, it strokes her ego and makes her feel better about herself.


#2. She Only Calls and Texts When She Needs a Favor:-
Women “use” guys for drinks, rides, and “help” with things they can do themselves. Once you’ve helped them, they magically disappear.

You may think helping her out is the “nice” thing to do, but you have be smart enough to recognize when “helping her” becomes a pattern, you’re getting nothing in return, and she says things like, “Aww you’re so sweet and such a great friend!”

#3 She Constantly Talks About Ex-Boyfriends:-
It’s obvious when she’s seeing you but still involved with her ex.
If she was actually interested in you and care about losing you, she wouldn’t “risk” talking about her exes too much. But if she always talks about how “mad” or “irritated” her exes make her, then you should tell her to contact you once she’s “over” her exes, not under them.

#4 She Chooses Her Girlfriends Over You:-
When you’re low-priority in her life and ALWAYS choose her girlfriends over you, she’s playing games.

Once in a while, it’s no big deal. It’s good to let her have fun with her friends without being a control freak, feeling left out, and feeling like you need to be part of the fun. Encourage her to go out and have a girls night.

But if you’ve known her for a while and she’s choosing her girlfriends over you more than 50% of the time, then you need to confront the problem or walk away.

#5. She Says You’re Just Her “Friend”:-
When she pulls the “we’re just friends” nonsense, that’s when it’s time to shut down your feelings and emotions for her. It’s clear she’s not into you the way you’re into her.

Start seeing other women and if she has a problem with it, tell her, “But we’re just ‘friends’, remember?”
Don’t play the “friends” game with anyone. Don’t allow women to friend zone you.

#6 She Always Needs “Time”:-
When she acts interested but always refuses to advance the relationship because she needs “time”, give her all the time she wants – meaning that you’re not going to waste your time “waiting” for her.

Simply tell her, “Take all the time you need. I’ll be over here dating these other women until you can learn how to make decisions like a grown up.”

#7 She’s Always Busy:-
When she’s always too busy for you, the solution is very simple – you’re, all of a sudden, too busy for her as well. Two can play that game. If you’re not worth her time, she’s not worth YOUR time. Don’t make it complicated.
She says, “I’m sorry. I can’t. I’m just very busy.” and you reply with, “OK. That works perfect. I’m too busy for people who are too busy for me.”

#8. She Won’t Take Pictures with You:-
She’s either embarrassed to be seen with you or there’s some guy she doesn’t want seeing your pictures with her. Awesome stuff.


#9 She Keeps Cancelling Plans and Dates:-
When women are actually interested, they don’t break plans. If she’s cancelling but keeps agreeing to go out, she’s playing games and wasting your time.

If she cancels more than 2 times, just tell her you’re no longer interested – it’ll get her attention very fast.
Stop with the “Ok, that’s fine.”, “No problem”, and “I understand…” responses when she keeps cancelling. Have some respect for yourself and tolerate anyone wasting your time.


Conclusion

When she’s playing games and you’ve had enough, you shouldn’t have to spell it out for her. If she’s smart enough to know how to play games, she’s smart enough to see the obvious signs that you’ve figured out what she’s doing.

When you stop calling, texting, and seeing her, your ACTIONS should communicate, loud and clear, that you’re not as dumb and a mugu as other guys, you’re not cool with it, and she’s wasting your time.

- Chris Uzor


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Re: 9 Signs She's Not Serious About You & A Total Waste Of Time (Top Secret) by IamPlato(m): 9:09pm On Oct 03, 2018
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All My Girls Know I Am Not A Fan Of Pictures...


There Is Not A Single One I Have Dated Who Didnt Love Me With All Her Heart and Calls Almost Every Day.
Re: 9 Signs She's Not Serious About You & A Total Waste Of Time (Top Secret) by Nobody: 9:14pm On Oct 03, 2018
#5. She Says You’re Just Her “Friend”

This is the whole thread... no need for 9 points when this is the only point undecided
Re: 9 Signs She's Not Serious About You & A Total Waste Of Time (Top Secret) by Donshaga(op): 9:20pm On Oct 03, 2018
grin..... okay
LivingFree:
#5. She Says You’re Just Her “Friend”

This is the whole thread... no need for 9 points when this is the only point undecided
Re: 9 Signs She's Not Serious About You & A Total Waste Of Time (Top Secret) by freddaboh(m): 12:41am On Oct 04, 2018
Donshaga:
Beautiful women easily bullshit one gullible guy after another and they’ll automatically assume they can fool you too.

It’s MUCH BETTER to hurt her feelings, call her out on her bad behavior, and risk her never talking to you again than it is to be the gullible, nice guy, and fool she thinks you are.

In this short article you'll discover the #9 Signs She's Playing Games & Not Serious About You.

All right, Let's roll...

#1. She Never Calls or Texts First:-
When you’re texting and calling first and she never takes the initiative to be the first to text or call, you’re wasting your time. You’re allowing her to treat you in a way that is less than you deserve. Just because she texts back or answers when you call doesn’t mean you have to be OK with it.

When she KNOWS she doesn’t have to make an effort because you’re going to keep calling and texting first, it strokes her ego and makes her feel better about herself.


#2. She Only Calls and Texts When She Needs a Favor:-
Women “use” guys for drinks, rides, and “help” with things they can do themselves. Once you’ve helped them, they magically disappear.

You may think helping her out is the “nice” thing to do, but you have be smart enough to recognize when “helping her” becomes a pattern, you’re getting nothing in return, and she says things like, “Aww you’re so sweet and such a great friend!”

#3 She Constantly Talks About Ex-Boyfriends:-
It’s obvious when she’s seeing you but still involved with her ex.
If she was actually interested in you and care about losing you, she wouldn’t “risk” talking about her exes too much. But if she always talks about how “mad” or “irritated” her exes make her, then you should tell her to contact you once she’s “over” her exes, not under them.

#4 She Chooses Her Girlfriends Over You:-
When you’re low-priority in her life and ALWAYS choose her girlfriends over you, she’s playing games.

Once in a while, it’s no big deal. It’s good to let her have fun with her friends without being a control freak, feeling left out, and feeling like you need to be part of the fun. Encourage her to go out and have a girls night.

But if you’ve known her for a while and she’s choosing her girlfriends over you more than 50% of the time, then you need to confront the problem or walk away.

#5. She Says You’re Just Her “Friend”:-
When she pulls the “we’re just friends” nonsense, that’s when it’s time to shut down your feelings and emotions for her. It’s clear she’s not into you the way you’re into her.

Start seeing other women and if she has a problem with it, tell her, “But we’re just ‘friends’, remember?”
Don’t play the “friends” game with anyone. Don’t allow women to friend zone you.

#6 She Always Needs “Time”:-
When she acts interested but always refuses to advance the relationship because she needs “time”, give her all the time she wants – meaning that you’re not going to waste your time “waiting” for her.

Simply tell her, “Take all the time you need. I’ll be over here dating these other women until you can learn how to make decisions like a grown up.”

#7 She’s Always Busy:-
When she’s always too busy for you, the solution is very simple – you’re, all of a sudden, too busy for her as well. Two can play that game. If you’re not worth her time, she’s not worth YOUR time. Don’t make it complicated.
She says, “I’m sorry. I can’t. I’m just very busy.” and you reply with, “OK. That works perfect. I’m too busy for people who are too busy for me.”

#8. She Won’t Take Pictures with You:-
She’s either embarrassed to be seen with you or there’s some guy she doesn’t want seeing your pictures with her. Awesome stuff.


#9 She Keeps Cancelling Plans and Dates:-
When women are actually interested, they don’t break plans. If she’s cancelling but keeps agreeing to go out, she’s playing games and wasting your time.

If she cancels more than 2 times, just tell her you’re no longer interested – it’ll get her attention very fast.
Stop with the “Ok, that’s fine.”, “No problem”, and “I understand…” responses when she keeps cancelling. Have some respect for yourself and tolerate anyone wasting your time.


Conclusion

When she’s playing games and you’ve had enough, you shouldn’t have to spell it out for her. If she’s smart enough to know how to play games, she’s smart enough to see the obvious signs that you’ve figured out what she’s doing.

When you stop calling, texting, and seeing her, your ACTIONS should communicate, loud and clear, that you’re not as dumb and a mugu as other guys, you’re not cool with it, and she’s wasting your time.

- Chris Uzor


READ MORE; [url=pages.convertkit.com/acd0bd6b58/7954b5d6fe] CLICK HERE[/url]
That's right.
Re: 9 Signs She's Not Serious About You & A Total Waste Of Time (Top Secret) by dumahi(m): 8:13pm On Oct 04, 2018
These points sound immature. How old are u op?
Re: 9 Signs She's Not Serious About You & A Total Waste Of Time (Top Secret) by Nobody: 8:32pm On Oct 04, 2018
@ dat number 1cheesy...some dudes dont mind oocheesy. They will be sending her recharge card of 10k every week and she will only send a short text to say thankscheesy.they will be the one calling her from sun up to sundowncheesy. Enquiring about her health and all and they will be burning 5k of recharge card each morning,afternoon or evening. D girl wont even call oncecheesy. Kai maga full town shacheesy.
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