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Re: Foluke Adeboye: When You Fall Out Of Cash, Your Wife Will Fall Out Of Love by Radiant1020(f): 7:25pm On Oct 04, 2018 |
Daboomb: As in eh See the way they just misinterpreted the message I know the economy is hard enough but most Nigerians wants to make money sharp sharp It's like due to the country's hardship mostt people are already embracing the "average lifestyle " And anybody that contradicts or counters it becomes an enemy |
Re: Foluke Adeboye: When You Fall Out Of Cash, Your Wife Will Fall Out Of Love by MENTORCH(m): 7:26pm On Oct 04, 2018 |
This generation women can’t stay with you if the money goes o! Especially when they weren’t there when you were still hustling. 1 Like |
Re: Foluke Adeboye: When You Fall Out Of Cash, Your Wife Will Fall Out Of Love by Nobody: 7:27pm On Oct 04, 2018 |
yettymuse:if money if was the in toto in a marriage or relationship then wealthy ppl wont have been getting divorced nau. Only poor ppl would have been getting divorced. Money is important in a relationship true but so is loyalty,sincerity and love. |
Re: Foluke Adeboye: When You Fall Out Of Cash, Your Wife Will Fall Out Of Love by SmartyPants(m): 7:36pm On Oct 04, 2018 |
lexy2014: Look carefully: There should be no deceit in courtship. The emphasis is on avoiding deceit Don’t marry a wife on credit. An instruction that one should live within ones means Whatever you can afford is what you should do. Cut your coat according to your cloth (not your size). Reiterating the previous instruction and clearly showing that the amount of money in possession is not the issue. Get a job before marriage. When you fall out of cash she falls out of love. Clearly the message is, do not lie or borrow money to create the appearance of a lifestyle you do not truly have the capacity to sustain otherwise when you run out of money, the woman who fell in love with you on the basis of your false pretenses will fall out of love with you. Be objective. 1 Like |
Re: Foluke Adeboye: When You Fall Out Of Cash, Your Wife Will Fall Out Of Love by LoveThemChubby(m): 7:41pm On Oct 04, 2018 |
foyeks2001:Hmmmmmmm I guess buhari was right with his lazy youth comment. The woman said get a job before you marry not become a millionaire before you marry. Even billionaires have moments when they are financially not OK so equating the statement to asking women not to faithful in times of want is totally baseless. Many girls will pester a guy into marriage and even make him feel like it doesn't matter if he isn't working. But as soon as they become Mrs, the story changes and they start bashing him as to how he can't even provide. 1 Like |
Re: Foluke Adeboye: When You Fall Out Of Cash, Your Wife Will Fall Out Of Love by Nobody: 7:51pm On Oct 04, 2018 |
Daboomb:so wat of if u come happen to lost that ur oil paying job...what of if dat ur thriving business in the past no longer rakes in money as b4.will it be ok to u if ur wife now dumps u and the kids and runs after another man who is financially capable?. See guy no matter wat u say but deep down we all need someone who appreciates us not for our money but for who we are.no matter how we deny this our human heart craves for true companionship. 2 Likes |
Re: Foluke Adeboye: When You Fall Out Of Cash, Your Wife Will Fall Out Of Love by MallamJackson(m): 8:07pm On Oct 04, 2018 |
abiodunalasa: You see, this is how alot of you psychologically feable yet parochialy diminished minds come online disgracing yourselves Reading is meaningful and profitable when done with understanding. Go back and assimilate the first two statements. SHAME. Mai bakin kwando irinka mtcheew. |
Re: Foluke Adeboye: When You Fall Out Of Cash, Your Wife Will Fall Out Of Love by Gerrard59(m): 8:07pm On Oct 04, 2018 |
Daboomb: Initially, I did not want to comment on the topic, but your posts - quite logical - make me to do so. Yes, while you and Foluke are right regarding the theory of money being very important in a relationship/marriage (I have witnessed the effects of a man not having money - the wife has separated from him), are you saying that it is right for a woman to leave a relationship/marriage if/when (the economy ain't funny these days) the man loses his source of income (job or business)? |
Re: Foluke Adeboye: When You Fall Out Of Cash, Your Wife Will Fall Out Of Love by Nobody: 8:14pm On Oct 04, 2018 |
Such a shame this is coming from a woman who many women take a role model. All shades of a bland advice. Soo irritating. |
Re: Foluke Adeboye: When You Fall Out Of Cash, Your Wife Will Fall Out Of Love by pascalbenz: 8:30pm On Oct 04, 2018 |
End Time Love !! I Leave Her Case For Daddy Frezee |
Re: Foluke Adeboye: When You Fall Out Of Cash, Your Wife Will Fall Out Of Love by gram: 8:50pm On Oct 04, 2018 |
I beg to differ. If she falls out of love, she must be ready to fall out of the marriage. This is very misleading and makes marriage contingent upon pecuniary gains. |
Re: Foluke Adeboye: When You Fall Out Of Cash, Your Wife Will Fall Out Of Love by Slimlord(m): 8:53pm On Oct 04, 2018 |
I can't believe this is coming from a supposed servant of God |
Re: Foluke Adeboye: When You Fall Out Of Cash, Your Wife Will Fall Out Of Love by lexy2014: 9:10pm On Oct 04, 2018 |
SmartyPants:Be objective about what? |
Re: Foluke Adeboye: When You Fall Out Of Cash, Your Wife Will Fall Out Of Love by lilyheaven: 9:12pm On Oct 04, 2018 |
rastaLivity:Not only them, my Church do family harvest, children harvest, youth harvest, first fruit harvest, group harvest, general harvest, thanksgiving service for a succesful harvest, and all na different date, And I Wonder how people harvest money, is money planted on a tree? |
Re: Foluke Adeboye: When You Fall Out Of Cash, Your Wife Will Fall Out Of Love by lexy2014: 9:15pm On Oct 04, 2018 |
MallamJackson:since u have assimilated u should have been gracious enough to share what u had assimilated 1 Like |
Re: Foluke Adeboye: When You Fall Out Of Cash, Your Wife Will Fall Out Of Love by lexy2014: 9:28pm On Oct 04, 2018 |
Radiant1020:pls interpret d message specifically "when u fall out of cash, your wife will fall out of love". 1 Like |
Re: Foluke Adeboye: When You Fall Out Of Cash, Your Wife Will Fall Out Of Love by OgbeniSamm(m): 9:39pm On Oct 04, 2018 |
Nigerian ladies are scammers. 2 Likes |
Re: Foluke Adeboye: When You Fall Out Of Cash, Your Wife Will Fall Out Of Love by AlhajaChinyere: 10:44pm On Oct 04, 2018 |
Daboomb: You are a genius for this. Straight to the point and bang on. However it depends on her age. Nothing pisses a knowledgeable man off than a washed up, old hag 45+ lady who thinks she is young and hot and demanding all the above. That's the reason an awful lot of men over 56 are unmarried. |
Re: Foluke Adeboye: When You Fall Out Of Cash, Your Wife Will Fall Out Of Love by TruthinAction: 10:46pm On Oct 04, 2018 |
Mrs Adeboye is not preaching the Bible here and I am shocked she could say such a thing. I do know that is how many women react when there is no money but a true believer that walks in the God kind of love will act differently. The God kind of love is not selfish. It doesn't think about himself or herself. It thinks about the welfare of the other person. The attributes of this kind of love are contained in 1st Corinthians 13. I think the Church has lost the message of love which is the new commandment of Jesus. If a wife love for her husband is tied to money, she is not different from a prostitute. |
Re: Foluke Adeboye: When You Fall Out Of Cash, Your Wife Will Fall Out Of Love by Slickest(m): 11:09pm On Oct 04, 2018 |
MyVILLAGEpeople:That her statement wasnt well stated, it justifies alot of evil acts women might engage in if they end up with a broke man... |
Re: Foluke Adeboye: When You Fall Out Of Cash, Your Wife Will Fall Out Of Love by lilyheaven: 12:03am On Oct 05, 2018 |
MyVILLAGEpeople: They are called, fault finders " How can a man without a paying job marry a wife, If he borrows to pay bride price, what happens when children start coming? I am not surprise, there are families that have left their burdens on others to carry, and when you stop helping they will theme you stingy! |
Re: Foluke Adeboye: When You Fall Out Of Cash, Your Wife Will Fall Out Of Love by Daboomb: 12:29am On Oct 05, 2018 |
lexy2014: No Sir! Reality is NOT relative. It is what is 'on ground' as can be percieved with all th five senses of everybody. For example, if a Kettle is black in color and my eyes are not defective, l will certainly see is as a black kettle and so will you, with a good eye. That is reality. What is REAL. But due to EXpECTATION, you can decide to call the Black kettle a Blue kettle simply because you want it to look blue or you have a Blue one or it suits you if it is blue in color. Like l said in one of my post, What all WOMEN cant do without is COMFORT and it is MONEY that provides that COMFORT. Any Man with POTENTIAL will eventually have MONEY and will eventually be able to provide that COMFORT that 'holds a woman down'. The DNA of Women has been defective from creation (I say "defective" because their REALITY is MATERIALISTIC and it is NOT SUPPOSED (EXPECTATION) to be so! We all know it is wrong for someone we love, to abandon us when we are low or without Money but that is exactly the REALITY OF WOMEN. 99% of Women will abandon a husband, once he loses his job, goes broke or they see that he has lost the POTENTIAL to provide that comfort.. The 1% are the rare breed of women, noone can find in Nigeria |
Re: Foluke Adeboye: When You Fall Out Of Cash, Your Wife Will Fall Out Of Love by MallamJackson(m): 12:51am On Oct 05, 2018 |
lexy2014: There some posts you dont quote just for the sake of it (quoting sake) it says alot anout your persona. Now, just like I said to the other feable minded fellow earlier; go read the first two statements she made its the very foundation upon which her entire remarks stand. If you still dont understand, then... who am I? Ba dole bane ka yi hankali... amma shi hankali, mahimmi ne. |
Re: Foluke Adeboye: When You Fall Out Of Cash, Your Wife Will Fall Out Of Love by Johnboom: 12:56am On Oct 05, 2018 |
360great:Then go to Apostolic Faith Church |
Re: Foluke Adeboye: When You Fall Out Of Cash, Your Wife Will Fall Out Of Love by MallamJackson(m): 12:58am On Oct 05, 2018 |
Gerrard59: Well, again, its either you did not care reading the post or you ommited the the first two points the entire post is predicated upon The entire post is hinged on the first two statements. Go and read them. Shike nan! |
Re: Foluke Adeboye: When You Fall Out Of Cash, Your Wife Will Fall Out Of Love by Daboomb: 1:00am On Oct 05, 2018 |
TruthinAction: MONEY is not COMFORT but it can buy COMFORT. Dont call Women Prostitutes for being just who they are. Women have never loved God, just for the sake of Love, from the days of Adam. So how do you expect them to Love "man" for the sake of Love? When God told the Man and Woman: Do not eat this one but enjoy all the other ones. That is God showing LOVE to humanbeings. The Woman who shoudl has reciprocated with the same love, abandoned God and instead, decided she would rather go with the Satan because Satan PROMISED HER MoRE COMFORT. So, for a WOMAN, it is always about who promised her more COMFORT and NEVER about who showed her Love. It did not start with Mrs Adeboye, she was only stating REALITY so that there would be less expectations which lead to broken marriages. It is in the DNA of the WOMAN that you gave me - Adam Once 'MEN' put it into their psyche and know what is in a marriage for them, they would be better adjusted, when the inevitable happens, should it happen. - Love does not keep a Marriage or any female relationship for that matter, it is COMFORT produced with MONEY, that keeps a marriage (that is the sure banker, take it or leave it) - As a Man, never exhaust all your Money on your wife hoping she will stay when it is exhausted. Rather, keep building your wealth (which maintains the COMFORT that keeps the wife with you) and let building your wealth be your first priority, not your love. - If you fail in the above, whether as a result of your fault or outside your fault, you then have to be courageous enough to accept the REALITY that the Woman you love, whose DNA is wired to COMFORT, will be soon gone. Painful, Annoying, Sad, Agonising, Undeserved, Ungodly and even Inhuman but that is the REALITY Mrs Adeboye was warning us about. 1 Like |
Re: Foluke Adeboye: When You Fall Out Of Cash, Your Wife Will Fall Out Of Love by Tunagee(m): 1:07am On Oct 05, 2018 |
klax: I wonder o! total rubbish advice to married ladies. |
Re: Foluke Adeboye: When You Fall Out Of Cash, Your Wife Will Fall Out Of Love by Daboomb: 1:14am On Oct 05, 2018 |
AlhajaChinyere: I love the caveat you inserted into your Post! it shows that you also are extremely intelligent. A Knowledgeable Man! How many men are knowledgeable? How many men know that their first priority, before professing love is to get a good job or setup a good business and keep the money in-flow certain and secure? How many men know that even a certain job or business can go kaput anytime and therefore plan for a Plan B, incase the Pot gets upset by factors/events beyond their control? But a KNOWLEDGEABLE MAN will make plans first, before falling in love. Most Men will profess love, spend all their time singing love songs and being around their love/woman, while not paying enough attention to the most important thing that will prolong that love. And let me add that a Knowledgeable Man will always go for the best woman he can get! He will never settle for an old hag. That is why you will see a 'knowledgeable man (read: good bank balance) who is sixty years old, marry a twenty five year old woman (and we the younger ones are full of jealousy ) and would not settle for any 46yr+ old hag. Marriage is like a Free Market: What you are offering/selling, MUST EQUATE TO to what l am willing to pay/offer for it (except in cases of foolish/unknowledgeable men and 'sharp-sharp' 419 women) - Why would l work hard for my comfort and then waste it on an old hag, when l can splash it on something better? I dey crase? - And why would a beautiful damsel waste herself on a broke dude who cant provide the comfort she needs? i dey crase? That is COLD REALITY of this immoral and valueless world, my brother. Its being like that since the days of the first Man, Adam. 1 Like |
Re: Foluke Adeboye: When You Fall Out Of Cash, Your Wife Will Fall Out Of Love by Daboomb: 1:36am On Oct 05, 2018 |
Gerrard59: Sir, l am not saying it is RIGHT. Infact, l think itis IMMORAL and l have said so in some of my post. It really saddens me to think about it because l also have a wife! But l am reminding you and that is the honest truth, that: - It will always happen like that - The reason is that "That is how women are wired". It is in their DNA, right from the first woman (and l have given many examples on this) - That they should not be blamed because even they cant help it - That Men should recognise this "factory default setting" of women - That men should see it as the REALITY and PREPARE for it. Dont get too upset, if your wife runs away, one month after you lose your job, expect her to run away - Plan well well when the money is still flowing (that is why l pity men who buy expensive gifts for their wife thinking that would cement their love and make her stay fOREVER! the day the Confort dries up, that is the day your Visa expires with her. Instead, put such money in deposits or investments that would support the COMFORT, when your current source of money suddenly stops. That is what will make her stay because the COMFORT will still be flowing till you get another source of income. - That what Mrs Adeboye is saying is the cold, truth though because she is the wife of Daddy G.O, we EXPECT that she should not be the one saying such unpallatable truth. She is not encouraging it but she is WARNING MEN to be aware of what will hapen. Just look around you and see how marriages are crashing like cards. Are they mostly crashing because of "Lack of Love" or "lack of COMFORT (Money) in the family", for the woman? A honest answer to the above, will reinforce what l am saying. What is RIGHT/ WRONG, .....deals with Morals and Value system What is OBTAINABLE,..... deals with REALITY. Mrs adeboye was talking from the point of REALITY while those abusing her are thinking from the point of MORALITY. we might not like it but we face it everyday, from the high rate of divorce that we are seeing 1 Like |
Re: Foluke Adeboye: When You Fall Out Of Cash, Your Wife Will Fall Out Of Love by Ancientboy(m): 2:29am On Oct 05, 2018 |
Daboomb:You are truly "Dabomb" you just revealed the bitter truth every guy doesn't like hearing !please i need your advice on how to maintain a steady cash flow,maybe investment advice or whatever i believe you know better Sir "so that my wife to be won't fall out of love" cheers |
Re: Foluke Adeboye: When You Fall Out Of Cash, Your Wife Will Fall Out Of Love by Daboomb: 3:44am On Oct 05, 2018 |
Ancientboy: You sabi flirter person sha. And l an not Sir too, just your regular guy. No one likes their party to be spoilt. I dont like what l an saying too but l just have to accept it now .....or later when it could shock me to death. Seriously, it is all about PRiORITIES. Set them right. Do the right things, at the right time. I dont know what you do for a living, your current age-range, your educational background, your family circumstances (commitments to siblings, parents, e.t.c) and your level of determination to not be poor again. I will assume you are doing okay for now. 1.) Eat less, Save more 2.) Defer your enjoyment/gratification to later, when you can do so without risking poverty 3.) You need Capital to do a successful business/investment. Save it if no bank will borrow you. 4.) Whatever/wherever you chose to put your money, dont tak too much risk when starting out, Stability is more important at that stage. 5.) Note that nothing last forever! Prepare for that day when your current "good living", money-flow will take a dip or even dry-out. it happens to everybody, at some stage in life, especially at the initial stages 6.) Save a certain percentage of your income, for investment in low risk, probably low returns ventures. 7.) Dont live an ostentatious life, once you have a little money in your account. leave the best part, for the later stage. 8.) Build a House, a commercial one first, if you can. Buy your land in a dry area, ( swamp not for poor people) 9.) Work hard and work smart, be strong, be focused, avoid all extremities in life but dont be a hermit. Avoid most vices (drugs, drink, gambling, excessive eating, womanising about, e.t.c 10.) Dont enrich, equip or add value to your wife, AT YOUR OWN EXPENSE (love her but never do anything at your own detriment/self sacrifice) 11.) Dont carry too much 'family' responsibility at the same time, it will draw you down or slow you down. largesse provided later, will still eb appreciated by the recipients but then you will not feel the impact too much 12.) DIY where you can, little savings here and there, add up to something and also prepare you mentally for the future 13.) Take care of whatever money you have, so MONEY will also take care of you! Money has a tendency to runaway from whoever does not take care of it..... just like women! 14.) Make good Judgements all the time, especially in purchases. 15.) Perform your bedroom duties properly! Women are not COMFORTABLE with men that cant fire on all Cylinders, when need be. That is rule #1. But dont kill yourself, if you are not that healthy to scatter the sheets, Work on your fitness, if you need to. 16.) Dont do anything illegal, be confident, think about what/where you want to be in ten years time, work towards it as a PRIORITY 17.) READ! READ!! READ!!!. There is wealth in knowledge hidden in written materials of any kind, knowledge is sourced from what you "ingest" (read). Everybody is a product of what is INSIDE their Head (Knowledge). Seek it at all times. 18.) Pray to what you beleive-in. Have a PERSONAL relationship with God, do good to others so that your prayers will not be hindered, train your kids properly and let them have respect and a sense of value for all things, especially living things (buy them a Dog to rear!), respect and love your wife to as much as she does not become a burden to your progress (banish 'buy-buy spirit' from her ). Try your best and leave the rest to your destiny. 19.) Take time out to exercise regularly, your health is the most important asset you have, dont sacrifice it for anything, not even more money. Walk instead of driving, jog, swim, play Sunday football with other pot-bellied 'Ronaldo' like us You need to prepare for old age and its baggages, right from now. The older you get, the more difficult it gets. 20.) Finally, Dont follow my advice, l was probably too drunk when writing all these. But be assured that as long as your wife feels comfortable being with you, she wont leave you. And if she does, you just smile and marry an even younger, more beautiful woman to replace her. You have what it takes. Enough, let me go and do other things. 3 Likes |
Re: Foluke Adeboye: When You Fall Out Of Cash, Your Wife Will Fall Out Of Love by lexy2014: 4:34am On Oct 05, 2018 |
MallamJackson:U are absolutely right in ur first statement cos u are actually referring to urself. Cos there's nothing u have said that has contributed 2 shedding light as far as d discussion is concerned. If u choose 2 call people names cos u feel they don't no, that's d lowest u can get especially when u aren't doing anything to fill d knowledge gap u say exists |
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