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Re: . by Tripleclick(m): 3:23pm On Oct 04, 2018 |
lefulefu:True!! |
Re: . by Tripleclick(m): 3:25pm On Oct 04, 2018 |
StrongandMighty:I mean.. Maybe you are thinking she is too beautiful for you.. And then feeling insecure if you can hold on to her |
Re: . by Ghnaija(m): 3:41pm On Oct 04, 2018 |
Re: . by Nobody: 4:47pm On Oct 04, 2018 |
StrongandMighty:if u trust her u shouldnt worry about it. U can stil talk to her |
Re: . by RussianKGB: 5:41pm On Oct 04, 2018 |
Before men were men they were first of all boys. Well just to be on the same page with u and help assuage your feelings, many guys have been in ur shoes before. Truth is, there has been dt one girl who made every guy cringe and submit till a point of emotional turmoil. Don't mind what some braggarts here have been submitting in the name of emotional maturity, some of them don't have relationships or probably even suffered this fate of yours earlier or will probably suffer it in the future. Now to your problem. You really love this girl. Trust me if u didn't, u won't have this problem. Secondly ure emotionally naive meaning u don't have much relationship experience. In situations like this it's quite difficult to break free of this torment especially when ur feelings keep playing with ur head and ur suspicions are not met with evidence. Truth is, your girl may be cheating on you or not...but the answer is not the problem. The problem is you getting out of this mental delirium that is messing with ur sanity. I suggest u take a break. When i mean take a break i want u to free urslf of anything that has to do with this girl. If you live together, let her pack her stuffs, expunge her messages or the ones you sent her, anything of hers in your vicinity that puts those thoughts in ur head should be expunged. It may sound harsh but it's d easiest way to get back to normal. Also avoid love songs & blues. You don't need those emotional triggers. Hangout with your guys, play video games, hussle, jst get involved with anything and everything but her. Avoid the temptation to reach out to her else you're back to square one. Give it time, in 2 weeks to a month u should be fine. While getting better rearrange your relationship priorities, try not to get too deep next time ure getting involved, and always have the notion that a woman is never totally yours, even in marriage(with exemptions though) but this ideology should guide u to be wise next time. This guidelines is just to help u seeing you're a newbie in the relationship game. For some of us who've been there and done that, we don't have this type of problem, we just booze and call the next gal on the line...who says bachelorhood ain't interesting Lol. Stay safe and man up. Is just a phase bro, you'll be fine. 2 Likes |
Re: . by Nobody: 5:56pm On Oct 04, 2018 |
StrongandMighty: So you are not strong and mighty after all. Do you have a job? No? Go get one. One that is mentally and physically challenging. One that you are already on the way to work at 6am and not back until 9/10pm. I assure you, the next time you remember that you have a girlfriend will be in a year's time. |
Re: . by Diamond23(f): 6:25pm On Oct 04, 2018 |
U really need help cux is dz type of |
Re: . by Darevofpeace(m): 6:44pm On Oct 04, 2018 |
The very first thing to overcome your fears is that you need to stop been idle, the fear of the "unknown" requires time of you sitting down and over assumption on what might not be actually true.Instead of you worrying whether she is cheating or not, why don't you increase your self worth by adding to your value's so as to increase your self esteem.Insecurity do stem's from low self esteem. |
Re: . by StrongandMighty: 3:25pm On Oct 05, 2018 |
RussianKGB:Thanks so much bruh.. Ur words made me feel a lot better, I'll reli love 2 keep in touch with you ... I couldn't reply yesterday don't know why I was banned |
Re: . by StrongandMighty: 3:26pm On Oct 05, 2018 |
Darevofpeace:Thanks I'll do that... 1 Like |
Re: . by StrongandMighty: 3:27pm On Oct 05, 2018 |
Ioannes:Thank you.. I'll get my hands on something that is really time consuming 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: . by StrongandMighty: 3:29pm On Oct 05, 2018 |
Diamond23:That's why I brought the matter here bcuz I know I need help |
Re: . by StrongandMighty: 3:30pm On Oct 05, 2018 |
Ray97:OK.. Thnks |
Re: . by StrongandMighty: 3:31pm On Oct 05, 2018 |
Tripleclick:Yea she's beautiful |
Re: . by StrongandMighty: 3:33pm On Oct 05, 2018 |
Botfuss:OK bro.. Thank you |
Re: . by Diamond23(f): 3:42pm On Oct 05, 2018 |
StrongandMighty:Learn hw to control ur insecurity and jealousy.Dz type of tin do happen especially wen ur babe z Vry pretty. U always felt threatened by oda guys snatching her away.Communicate wit her xo she also know wot u r going through |
Re: . by MissRaine69(f): 3:46pm On Oct 05, 2018 |
StrongandMighty:You can help yourself by not being in a relationship until you resolve the source of your paranoia and deep insecurities. First form a relationship with yourself and address your lack of trust because without that you are just one heck of a nightmare boyfriend no woman should be involved with. |
Re: . by StrongandMighty: 5:03pm On Oct 05, 2018 |
Diamond23:I believe you re a girl.. How come you know abt this? Have you seen a guy who have tru this B4? Truly I feel threatened by d kind of attention she gets from oda guys |
Re: . by StrongandMighty: 5:07pm On Oct 05, 2018 |
MissRaine69:U sounded a bit harsh.. Honestly am not even close to wat u described above |
Re: . by Karaske: 5:16pm On Oct 05, 2018 |
Bros Go Visit A Rehab, Dats D Only Way Out Man |
Re: . by StrongandMighty: 5:19pm On Oct 05, 2018 |
Karaske:Why? |
Re: . by romenna: 6:25pm On Oct 05, 2018 |
Trust your instincts. |
Re: . by Diamond23(f): 7:52pm On Oct 05, 2018 |
StrongandMighty:Of course am a girl. I knew cux I v been der!!!, once u r sure she z not cheating on u let d fear slide. Communicate ur fear with her. |
Re: . by MissRaine69(f): 8:04pm On Oct 05, 2018 |
StrongandMighty:It’s based on how you described yourself not my annalysis of you. |
Re: . by StrongandMighty: 8:21pm On Oct 05, 2018 |
Diamond23:Telling her my fears won't mk matters worst? And if I've to let her know please wats d ryt way u tink I shud put for me not to look too desperate or be at her mercy? |
Re: . by StrongandMighty: 8:22pm On Oct 05, 2018 |
romenna:OK u re saying I shud believe she's cheating |
Re: . by StrongandMighty: 8:23pm On Oct 05, 2018 |
MissRaine69:That I voiced out my fears and challenges doesn't make me a terrible person or a nightmare.. I was only looking for solution |
Re: . by Diamond23(f): 10:00pm On Oct 05, 2018 |
StrongandMighty:Went through ur previous posts nd saw were ur problems started. First u v to work on urself to get ur self-esteem bk.As for d right way to put it to her pls ask d guys to help u out cux dat I know not!......Maybe start by discussing ur last relationship with her, hw it ended, d causes, wot u went through nd wouldn’t want such to repeat itself again. |
Re: . by daviesblaze(m): 7:37am On Oct 06, 2018 |
StrongandMighty:Firstly, op never listen to the advice this female monikers are giving you. secondly, rather than orbiting her around you thoughts, you should start adding more women to your circle. this is where game comes in. to achieve this, you need as small as a little level of confidence to get started. lastly, in addressing your girlfriend, you should start making her to get more emotionally invested in the relationship. |
Re: . by StrongandMighty: 9:10am On Oct 06, 2018 |
Diamond23:Alright thanks so much 1 Like |
Re: . by StrongandMighty: 9:11am On Oct 06, 2018 |
daviesblaze:Please do you know how I can build that confidence.. It's really lacking in me |
Re: . by RussianKGB: 9:27am On Oct 06, 2018 |
StrongandMighty:You welcome, you can reach me via pm. As for the ban well it could be anti spam bot. Anyways take k and hope you're getting urslf back 2gether. |
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