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|. by StrongandMighty: 4:42am On Oct 04, 2018|
|Re: . by Nobody: 4:53am On Oct 04, 2018|
Its called insecurity. Fear of the unknow
|Re: . by EmekaBlue(m): 4:59am On Oct 04, 2018|
Just imagine that ur girlfriend butt nekkid in front of me and Im smooching her boobs and pressing her yansh...
You better start thinking of making money bruh than all these puppish love thoughts
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|Re: . by daewoorazer(m): 5:32am On Oct 04, 2018|
Immaturity and idleness is your problem. If something keeps you very busy, it’d be the other way round, and she is gonna complain to you you hardly have her time...
Go and learn the kinetics of dating!
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|Re: . by duduade: 6:03am On Oct 04, 2018|
You need to grow up
|Re: . by SicIgbos: 6:42am On Oct 04, 2018|
If you have the fear that you partner is cheating, then 99.9% be rest assured that he or she is. Do not listen to any nonsense relationship expert off or on NL tells you, but OP don’t worry you’ll get over it or you should learn to get over it. In life you need to learn everything you want does not necessarily want you in the degree you desire. You beta seek that partner that hold you in high esteem n watch how fear or insecurity disappear without you doing a thing to allay any fear.
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|Re: . by Nobody: 7:48am On Oct 04, 2018|
I've been there OP. Still tryna recover sef.. Trust me , once you're on this path, you're already setting yourself up for heart break and you and I know it's gonna be a harsh one.
Most of the times , when we get insecure about the ones we love , its an unconscious reminder of how you got your partner.. You stole her from someone, lol na d same way she go take leave you.
Your instincts ain't wrong brov, and trust me, I've been in that situation , I even broke up for a while, came back and whoollaa.. I was already done for.
I know it will hurt, you've put in a lot to see it work but brov think about how someone else is in control of your happiness and emotional well being . its never a good thing.. You need to break loose. You just have to create space, allow yourself go through the torture of missing her.. Reduce the communication, start talking more to others. Retrain your brain to find happiness and fulfilment with other people/activities. Start disassociating yourself from her emotionally. It might sound harsh but bro, its better.
Don't go that part of emotional torture and heartbreak. You deserve better!
|Re: . by StrongandMighty: 8:43am On Oct 04, 2018|
SicIgbos:Please how will I learn to get over it... As am typing diz now her thought is d only tin that occupies my mind
|Re: . by StrongandMighty: 8:49am On Oct 04, 2018|
HaileSelassie:Thanks so much for this.. Honestly am not finding this whole thing easy.. I neva knew love can caught me this deep.. Please can u tel me practical steps on how to go about disassociating myself emotionally from her.. Am already feeling like I'm having a heat break wen it has not even come, am in emotional torture 24hrs of the day, am losing concentration in virtually everything.. My insecurities are eating me up alive, am dying inside, I know some peeps will bash me for diz but Idc.. All I need is help
|Re: . by Saff(f): 8:49am On Oct 04, 2018|
4am you’re typing this? This is serious, love has really finished you.
|Re: . by StrongandMighty: 8:54am On Oct 04, 2018|
daewoorazer:All I need ryt now is help
|Re: . by Nobody: 8:56am On Oct 04, 2018|
I think you should let go, get your space, brain and senses back from where love threw it. Most importantly grow up.
Relationship isn't a do or die thing, when you are strong enough to handle one, you can start all over.
|Re: . by StrongandMighty: 8:56am On Oct 04, 2018|
Saff:As at that early morning I was typing this... I couldn't sleep bcuz I was just thinking about her... Am in emotional torture every single seconds, minutes of d day... I'll agree with you that love has finished me completely.. All I need now is help.. Am slowly dying inside while physically am deteriorating
|Re: . by StrongandMighty: 8:58am On Oct 04, 2018|
MariaLavina:Where will I get that energy to let go from? She has never for once told me that she doesn't want me anymore.. Juz that my instinct won't let me be
|Re: . by Saff(f): 9:04am On Oct 04, 2018|
Oga this love is not healthy. You seem very possessive and obsessed. I don’t know what to say other than be patient. What’s in the dark will come to light, if she’s cheating you will find out, that’s how the universe works. The only other alternative is to ask her, or do some fbi research. If you’re not ready to leave this babe, then do not search for something you can’t handle.
|Re: . by Manpoly: 9:08am On Oct 04, 2018|
y u stressing urself like this... this nigga..a girl denied u of sleep.I won't deceive u into channelling ur energy into money cuz it won't work ...just ask her if she loves or she doesn't and if she is cheating or not....and if u want to switch ur emotions d best way is ur family... try to communicate with them more and ur true nigga ..and see aw ur life will b balanced bro
|Re: . by Nobody: 9:09am On Oct 04, 2018|
StrongandMighty:Then proof it !
Call her, ask her, investigate.
Life is too short to be living in despair!
|Re: . by Nobody: 9:17am On Oct 04, 2018|
Dude occupy yourself with money making activities and thank me later
|Re: . by StrongandMighty: 9:19am On Oct 04, 2018|
Saff:I've asked her several times and she says no.. That there's no point cheating when she knows she can walk out of d relationship if the feelings re no longer.. She tells me abt guys that are after her.. The ones she feels like telling me oh and it makes matters worst
|Re: . by StrongandMighty: 9:20am On Oct 04, 2018|
MariaLavina:I've asked her several times and she says No.. I don't even know how to go abt the investigation
|Re: . by Saff(f): 9:21am On Oct 04, 2018|
StrongandMighty:how old are you
|Re: . by Nobody: 9:24am On Oct 04, 2018|
Sha don't do anything irrational if your fears become real.
|Re: . by StrongandMighty: 9:24am On Oct 04, 2018|
Manpoly:U seem to understand my situation better.. I've engaged in many activities just to get my mind off her but still it's not working, my mind will always find a way 2 remind me of her nd wen it does the tot of her will nva leave my mind again..
|Re: . by StrongandMighty: 9:25am On Oct 04, 2018|
|Re: . by StrongandMighty: 9:26am On Oct 04, 2018|
NwanyiAwkaetiti:Please what's your advice.. That's the only thing I need most ryt now
|Re: . by Nobody: 9:27am On Oct 04, 2018|
StrongandMighty:Work on yourself sir. you are the problem
|Re: . by StrongandMighty: 9:28am On Oct 04, 2018|
MariaLavina:How please.. I need to know how I'm d problem
|Re: . by Manpoly: 9:30am On Oct 04, 2018|
U seem to understand my situation better.. I've engaged in many activities just to get my mind off her but still it's not working, my mind will always find a way 2 remind me of her nd wen it does the tot of her will nva leave my mind again..
lol am in yr shoes too presently... I hardly sleep too...but wen I play with my family.... I forget about d babe.... I guess it's because u are bored and u don't want to cheat on d babe
|Re: . by Nobody: 9:30am On Oct 04, 2018|
|Re: . by StrongandMighty: 9:35am On Oct 04, 2018|
Manpoly:Bruh I need 2 get my old self back.. I was so happy and full of life when this girl wasn't there.. But see me now.. Am drowning
|Re: . by StrongandMighty: 9:36am On Oct 04, 2018|
NwanyiAwkaetiti:Honestly it's not working
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