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Is It Right To Pay Back My Ex This Way? by Innobee99(m): 2:34pm On May 29, 2018
Guyz, pls I knw this might sound nasty but I just need ur candid opinion if paying my ex back this way will be good.

To cut the long story short, I met this lady 2015 and everything was going on smoothly until it turned out sour. Before I asked her out, I asked if she was in any relationship but she said no and that gave me a go ahead cuz I hate sharing my lady with any one. I always try my best financially to assist any lady am dating.

WHERE THE PROBLEM BEGAN!

Last year, I told her about the Nigeria Navy form and was happy and told me to apply for her which I did. But few days later she came with some credentials of a guy which she claimed was her cousin brother that I should help him apply too. At first I was suspicious of the whole play but still applied for the guy.

Two weeks later, I got to knw that the said guy was her boyfriend. I was damn mad but she denied and told me I like suspecting her.
Cuz of the love I had for her I let go of the past and we continued. Last year I bought Jamb form for her and she later ended up in one Poly here. Before she went, I bought Her a new phone, paid part of her bills and 10k for some stuffs. When she got to school, her attitude changed she started sending me unsolicited text messages like I fink I make her break up with her boyfriend? That she just played me. I later got a text from the said guy that he was using his babe as bait to get money from whenever they are broke.

I was mad. Haven't been myself all this while and find it difficult to luv any lady at the moment.
I resulted in begging her to tell her am sorry for everything but my plan is to lure her here to my place give her the beating of her life and get my phone back. That's what I can do to make me happy.

Do you think I am right or should let go?
Your advice pls cuz she's coming tomorrow evening.....Thanks

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Re: Is It Right To Pay Back My Ex This Way? by khalazi: 2:38pm On May 29, 2018
Leave everything for God.

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Re: Is It Right To Pay Back My Ex This Way? by Innobee99(m): 2:41pm On May 29, 2018
Many things this babe have done to me which I don't want to drop here. Just sent her I have enough birthday gifts for her cuz that's what she loves most. And she's fallen for my tricks. I want to tell her am not a fool and d names she called me in the past. I feel terribly bad recalling all the names she called me. I need ur candid responses pls.

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Re: Is It Right To Pay Back My Ex This Way? by mcdreeezy: 2:42pm On May 29, 2018
What are you beating her for? Just forget it. U don fall maga already.

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Re: Is It Right To Pay Back My Ex This Way? by Anigreat: 2:44pm On May 29, 2018
shocked






Collect your phone back

Give her the beating of her life, if you get mind Kill her join.

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Re: Is It Right To Pay Back My Ex This Way? by Innobee99(m): 2:44pm On May 29, 2018
mcdreeezy:
What are you beating her for? Just forget it. U don fall maga already.
U won't understand bro

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Re: Is It Right To Pay Back My Ex This Way? by MJBOLT: 2:45pm On May 29, 2018
you should not do anything that will make you end up in prison,just move on,girls like that usually end up without heads later on

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Re: Is It Right To Pay Back My Ex This Way? by Nobody: 2:46pm On May 29, 2018
Bro let it go. Believe me you will regret your actions if you go ahead with the plan. You can collect your phone undecided I have no problem with that but leave out beating her. Let Karma do the rest my gee.

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Re: Is It Right To Pay Back My Ex This Way? by Olalan(m): 2:47pm On May 29, 2018
OP its natural to feel very pained and bitter to discover someone whom you love wholeheartedly was just playing games with you but you shouldn't try to hurt her, pls let go of her without touching her. Trust me Karma will catch up with her.

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Re: Is It Right To Pay Back My Ex This Way? by Avedonn: 2:48pm On May 29, 2018
It's surprising how some men take bullshit from ladies.
How can u allow a woman to play u like that?

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Re: Is It Right To Pay Back My Ex This Way? by ethanmax(m): 2:48pm On May 29, 2018
Leave everything for God. someone will treat her the same way she treat you.
cheer up and move on.

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Re: Is It Right To Pay Back My Ex This Way? by Innobee99(m): 2:54pm On May 29, 2018
junido501:
Bro let it go. Believe me you will regret your actions if you go ahead with the plan. You can collect your phone undecided I have no problem with that but leave out beating her. Let Karma do the rest my gee.
Thanks bro

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Re: Is It Right To Pay Back My Ex This Way? by Innobee99(m): 2:56pm On May 29, 2018
U can see that I was still the one that had to beg despite everything she did. Even after accepting her, she's d type I knw can never change. What if I leave beating her and collect my phone. That's just what I need. Same phone I bought with my sweat dat she's using to insult me.

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Re: Is It Right To Pay Back My Ex This Way? by SoapQueen(f): 2:58pm On May 29, 2018
What your girl did is bad. You are still very upset which is acceptable but please, don't beat her. What if something happens to her in the process?

Do you want to see your name tagged alongside stories like "jealous ex storms girl's house to beat her over a phone worth 10k? "

You can collect the phone if you want to. It's your money but I feel you should just let bygones be bygones .

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Re: Is It Right To Pay Back My Ex This Way? by Innobee99(m): 3:04pm On May 29, 2018
SoapQueen:
What your girl did is bad. You are still very upset which is acceptable but please, don't beat her. What if something happens to her in the process?

Do you want to see your named tagged alongside stories like "jealous ex storms girls house to beat her over a phone worth 10k? "

You can collect the phone if you want to. It's your money but I feel you should just let bygones be bygones .
I pray God touches my hrt over night cuz she's coming tomorrow evening

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Re: Is It Right To Pay Back My Ex This Way? by Eberechi24(f): 3:05pm On May 29, 2018
forget the day you met this girl, forget her existence. block her totally.

it might seems she is very smart but she is a loser here, she lost a good guy; her so-called boyfriend may be her karma.

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Re: Is It Right To Pay Back My Ex This Way? by khalazi: 3:07pm On May 29, 2018
Innobee99:
I pray God touches my hrt over night cuz she's coming tomorrow evening
God cannot force you. Just forget her. I seem not to understand why you'll still wanna see her

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Re: Is It Right To Pay Back My Ex This Way? by lilmax(m): 3:17pm On May 29, 2018
smh....don't waste your strength, not worth it

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Re: Is It Right To Pay Back My Ex This Way? by Innobee99(m): 3:19pm On May 29, 2018
Eberechi24:
forget the day you met this girl, forget her existence. block her totally.

it might seems she is very smart but she is a loser here, she lost a good guy; her so-called boyfriend may be her karma.

She's just 20 but smarter than a tortoise. Instead of her to apologise, she called me a fool, an educated graduate, many names I don't want to recall. Using same phone to send me diz messages.

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Re: Is It Right To Pay Back My Ex This Way? by Eberechi24(f): 3:28pm On May 29, 2018
Innobee99:
She's just 20 but but smarter than a tortoise. Instead of her to apologise, she called me a fool, an educated graduate, many names I don't want to recall. Using same phone to send my diz messages.


you are dealing with a juvenile, you should let it go. she don't understand the weight she pulled.


you asked her out when she's 17?

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Re: Is It Right To Pay Back My Ex This Way? by Innobee99(m): 3:38pm On May 29, 2018
Eberechi24:



you are dealing with a juvenile, you should let it go. she don't understand the weight she pulled.


you asked her out when she's 17?
I wasnt having s*x with her wen we met. Atleast she shouldn't remain a juvenile forever

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Re: Is It Right To Pay Back My Ex This Way? by Tallesty1(m): 3:52pm On May 29, 2018
Innobee99:
I pray God touches my hrt over night cuz she's coming tomorrow evening
Bro, don't let her come. Call her and tell that you won't be available tomorrow and then cut her off from your life completely.

I know it hurts but you have a reason to thank God. She lost someone that loves her and you lost someone that hates you, so who is losing?

Forget her and keep going, the future is better and clearer. She has just taught you something that will help you in your next relationship.

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Re: Is It Right To Pay Back My Ex This Way? by Innobee99(m): 3:53pm On May 29, 2018
Tallesty1:
Bro, don't let her come. Call her and tell that you won't be available tomorrow and then cut her off from your life completely.

I know it hurts but you have a reason to thank God. She lost someone that loves her and you lost someone that hates you, so who is losing?

Forget her and keep going, the future is better and clearer. She has just taught you something that will help you in your next relationship.
Ur words has encouraged me a lot. Thanks alot

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Re: Is It Right To Pay Back My Ex This Way? by Oyetboy(m): 4:16pm On May 29, 2018
Innobee99:
U can see that I was still the one that had to beg despite everything she did. Even after accepting her, she's d type I knw can never change. What if I leave beating her and collect my phone. That's just what I need.[/b] Same phone I bought with my sweat dat she's using to insult me. [b]



This cracks me up grin cheesy

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Re: Is It Right To Pay Back My Ex This Way? by Nobody: 7:59pm On May 29, 2018
cheesy.... PAYBACK TIME bro grin grin grin

Re: Is It Right To Pay Back My Ex This Way? by bedspread: 7:59pm On May 29, 2018
NA Devil de Push u.... he want push u into a Ditch

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Re: Is It Right To Pay Back My Ex This Way? by QuitNotice(m): 7:59pm On May 29, 2018
Error 502

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Re: Is It Right To Pay Back My Ex This Way? by Nobody: 7:59pm On May 29, 2018
Op.

I have had my share of crazy and ungrateful exes.
Presently dealing with one at the moment sef.



Here's what I think you should do.
When she comes, sit her down and tell her what you intended doing to her in the first place then show her this thread..
Tell her to thank her stars that you have got some good advisors on nairaland.

She will probably try to use the feminine charm on you.
Don't touch her, not even kissing or pecking.
Then let her leave with the phone and unharmed.
I repeat don't collect the phone..

I swear she will never try shiit with you again.



Why beat someone who is no match for you.
You will just commit murder and that only ends one way.
Don't walk that path.
Abeg

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