The time is very close now

bigtt76:
Would she just be suspended or expelled without a cause? Did the man go to her hostel and drag her out? Lets cut the slack and face the issues here .....she threw herself on the man and he did what he did by her compulsion ....if as a student you mind your business and still get harrassed or failed, report to the authorities and not succumb to their entreaties and not after 5 years you come out and be playing victim

You obviously don't know what obtains in this school. I have 2 boys from landmark university and 2 girls from covenant university. These kids are very bitter with the school. What they made me understand is that the school breeds fear amongst the kids most of whom are even ajubutter and very young. Every little thing you did can be exxagerated and it's your word against the authority because no student that was there would even come to your aid because of fear. You can't even argue with them because it would be tagged insurbodination or something like that and you would be expelled. On one of the boys phone, they saw a chat with a girl who was not their student. He begged and begged so that he won't be suspended or expelled. He had to sort the guy with hefty cash. Just imagine if it was girl and you went to a party secretly and was caught, now the guy is asking for sex to quash the case, how many girls would opt for suspension or expulsion when you can do a 10 minutes sex to escape. The culture of making admins and lecturers supreme master and lord over your academic and social life breeds abuse. A land with too many laws would catch too many crimes and then this leads to exploitation. The most restrictive society and prisons are the most abusive, it gives too much power to those in charge and power corrupts.

What a stupid country!

SIRTee15:


It's a citadel of learning....
The core foundation academic institutions stand for is merit....
If that is sacrificed on the altar of lust of the flesh simply because it was initiated by the female student....
Then there's nothing mere to be said about such institution....
Nigeria universities are not the only one with male lecturers admitting female students....
Yet they are the ones always blaming female students for the rampant sexual abuse going on in campuses....
They will never address the pervertness of their male staffs.....
This things don't even occur on such large scale in other developing countries....
Sometimes, I wonder what's wrong with us as a people....

Ur wrong about it not happening in other developing countries...I have friends outside and they say stuffs...even in developed countries...
U seem to think its male lecturers alone....loool...u know nothing Jon Snow.....there are female lecturers there too....

I agree the lecturers should be mentors in learning and character....but then that's the ideal situation n we both know ideal situations are very hard to find

rabzy:


You obviously don't know what obtains in this school. I have 2 boys from landmark university and 2 girls from covenant university. These kids are very bitter with the school. What they made me understand is that the school breeds fear amongst the kids most of whom are even ajubutter and very young. Every little thing you did can be exxagerated and it's your word against the authority because no student that was there would even come to your aid because of fear. You can't even argue with them because it would be tagged insurbodination or something like that and you would be expelled. On one of the boys phone, they saw a chat with a girl who was not their student. He begged and begged so that he won't be suspended or expelled. He had to sort the guy with hefty cash. Just imagine if it was girl and you went to a party secretly and was caught, now the guy is asking for sex to quash the case, how many girls would opt for suspension or expulsion when you can do a 10 minutes sex to escape. The culture of making admins and lecturers supreme master and lord over your academic and social life breeds abuse. A land with too many laws would catch too many crimes and then this leads to exploitation. The most restrictive society and prisons are the most abusive, it gives too much power to those in charge and power corrupts.

Nawa for u oh... Is it so hard to obey the school's laws??
If they can't,why go there??
Ur sent to school..not to party..other kids who obey the laws ARE NEVER persecuted...why ur 4 friends cases eh

Obey the law and no one will have any edge of blackmail over u...
If the school is loose,na u go talk say xtian school dey do olòsho... I swear Nigerians are so fvcking emotionally fvcked up...no objectivity at all....its either religion or tribe or some nonsense go make u all emotional cripples...

Its a good thing I'm Alien

buygala:
Stupid girl

You can't prove all your allegations ...but we must believe you without any proof whatsoever

Allegation of sexual harassment without successful proof should be made a criminal offence punishable with at least 15 years

I am not saying the guy is innocent....but it is also very possible this girl may be lying

The great and powerful Fadugba. I don't know the lady but I wouldnt put it past him. I didnt attend CU but my guys from CU have the gist.

I have the story for sale for bloggers wey for like buy am

luminouz:

U keep talking as if most of these girls are innocent...I have seen where they also use their bodies to get marks from lecturers!!! Sexual abuse occurs..yes..but also blatant soliciting for marks through sex by these females.....
If u don't agree to these,then ur biased!!

It's not a case of innocence, it does not matter whether they are innocent or not. Have you seen a lecturer complain or report to the authorities that a student is sexually harassing him... Hardly....why? Because the lecturer is in a position of authority. If a lecturer does not want to sleep with a student, what can the student do.... Nothing except jazz. But when a lecturer is after a girl, there so much he can do, they can fail the girls boyfriend, they even ask other lecturers To Help them fail the girl so that it won't be traced to them.

My sister-in-law studied in Ife, after writing a test, the lecturer tears up her answer script and claims she did not submit. The poor girl failed twice before she resorted to physical threats. She went to the lecturer and threatened him face to face and put the fear of God in him. She was ready to kill him and go to prison.

rabzy:


It's not a case of innocence, it does not matter whether they are innocent or not. Have you seen a lecturer complain or report to the authorities that a student is sexually harassing him... Hardly....why? Because the lecturer is in a position of authority. If a lecturer does not want to sleep with a student, what can the student do.... Nothing except jazz. But when a lecturer is after a girl, there so much he can do, they can fail the girls boyfriend, they even ask other lecturers To Help them fail the girl so that it won't be traced to them.

My sister-in-law studied in Ife, after writing a test, the lecturer tears up her answer script and claims she did not submit. The poor girl failed twice before she resorted to physical threats. She went to the lecturer and threatened him face to face and put the fear of God in him. She was ready to kill him and go to prison.

I understand ur point..Randy mudafuckers are plenty in form of lecturers and they do stuffs...my issue is that CU girl did that shiit wilfully and now came out to scream rape/molestation ONLY when shiit hit the fan....why couldn't she do what ur SIL did eh...I know how a lecturer was beaten black n blue to free a female victim...it can be done....but most girls find it easier to give in and later claim harassment.... That's my point

luminouz:

Nawa for u oh... Is it so hard to obey the school's laws??
If they can't,why go there??
Ur sent to school..not to party..other kids who obey the laws ARE NEVER persecuted...why ur 4 friends cases eh

Obey the law and no one will have any edge of blackmail over u...
If the school is loose,na u go talk say xtian school dey do olòsho... I swear Nigerians are so fvcking emotionally fvcked up...no objectivity at all....its either religion or tribe or some nonsense go make u all emotional cripples...

Its a good thing I'm Alien

if you expect the students who pay the school fees To obey the rules, what of the staff who are paid to apply the rule. Did the staff also pledge not to exploit the students. Students would always break rules, there is no student that passed thru that has not broken a rule it is inevitable but to sexually exploit a student is not inevitable.

kaorama:
Investigate. Something tells me it's true but the lady wasn't forced

All the lady wants is for the registrar to give up his sanctimonious stance and own up to his actions.

Candyflox:
of course he didn't force her directly bt indirectly he did, didn't u hear her say the fear of being suspended or expelled or u think after paying huge tuition she or her parents will want an expulsion? Just pray none of ur relatives would be placed in such pressure because the choices u hv are dicey imagine how long all dis hv been going on nd it just nw people r hearing about it dat to show how devilish dat school is, the best way to deal with Nigerians is wen u act all chrstainly and u still kill dem, no one will believe an accusation against dem without concrete proof which is something dese girls were denied of due to school regulations

Then she must have been caught in a very bad spot to be so afraid of expulsion. She must have done something terrible. Na help the man even help am sef

rabzy:


You don't seem to get it do you, if you expect the students who pay the school fees To obey the rules, what of the staff who are paid to apply the rule. Did the staff also pledge not to exploit the students. Students would always break rules, there is no student that passed thru that has not broken a rule it is inevitable but to sexually exploit a student is not inevitable.

Na u no get am!! U keep making excuses for the students n blaming the staffs... Who does that??
I went to school and NEVER broke any rule.. So wetin u dey talk??
I say punish the student and staff alike..that's my point!!

Agugbadin:


If your sister or daughter is a victim you will know how painful for an adult of that position to sexaully exploit this children. Are you not aware of the protest by a group of American women over Trump nominee for the judiciary, because he sexaully assaulted a woman 32 years ago when they were young.

No am not aware. You are the only one that knows. Go ahead and tell me. Don't know why you are ranting over my opinion. Don't wait for 36 years when your molester is about being made a supreme court judge to speak up. He exploited you and now you are exploiting him!

kaorama:
Investigate. Something tells me it's true but the lady wasn't forced

SHE WAS NOT FORCED BUT THREATENED.WHICH ITSELF IS A CRIME.

Candyflox:
of course he didn't force her directly bt indirectly he did, didn't u hear her say the fear of being suspended or expelled or u think after paying huge tuition she or her parents will want an expulsion? Just pray none of ur relatives would be placed in such pressure because the choices u hv are dicey imagine how long all dis hv been going on nd it just nw people r hearing about it dat to show how devilish dat school is, the best way to deal with Nigerians is wen u act all chrstainly and u still kill dem, no one will believe an accusation against dem without concrete proof which is something dese girls were denied of due to school regulations

While I like to see any evil doer go down hard, we should be more reasonable and mature when people's reputation is at stake.
What is her evidence? or she thinks knowing Muyiwa one on one and a pics is enough for us to believe her story. I take the one with an implicating chat screenshot over this one.

donpope1:
It do disgusting that despite the previous allegations against this man, CU still retained him

Point of correction he has been sacked

maoolakanm:
SHE WAS NOT FORCED BUT THREATENED.WHICH ITSELF IS A CRIME.

Yes. Let the matter be investigated and prove of threat established. I hate to see young innocent girls exploited.

luminouz:

I understand ur point..Randy mudafuckers are plenty in form of lecturers and they do stuffs...my issue is that CU girl did that shiit wilfully and now came out to scream rape/molestation ONLY when shiit hit the fan....why couldn't she do what ur SIL did eh...I know how a lecturer was beaten black n blue to free a female victim...it can be done....but most girls find it easier to give in and later claim harassment.... That's my point

I have met very strong girls who really death with the lecturers, there was a friend of mine in Ife who went as far as wotclef ngo, wrote to Senate, and really fought. The associate professor was expelled despite his notoriety for being an ogboni. The man was sacked, but it's not all girls that have such strong constitution, it's not all that have a strong support system and some are facing so much in life that they can't add more to it, so some just resign to their fate and succumb, so does that mean they should not be bitter with the lecturer, does it mean they should not ever speak out, for me it is rape, it was a forced consent.

Gourdoinc:
men are begining to face a scourge of character assassination due to women coming up with unfounded fantasy stories they were privy too. from Supreme Court judge Mueller, to Cristiano Ronaldo and now to this young man. it could be you tomorrow.

rise up against unfounded rape allegations.

the is the lastest feminist strategy now I am against rape but fasle accusation is what I don't support without proper evidence

bigtt76:
Would she just be suspended or expelled without a cause? Did the man go to her hostel and drag her out? Lets cut the slack and face the issues here .....she threw herself on the man and he did what he did by her compulsion ....if as a student you mind your business and still get harrassed or failed, report to the authorities and not succumb to their entreaties and not after 5 years you come out and be playing victim

you are the only sensible girl in the whole of Nairaland, calling any other person sensible will be an insult. God bless you.

maasoap:


Hmmmm! I wouldn't say you lack wisdom in order not to sound offensive but I would rather say that your knowledge about sexual harassment is shallow. Before you can understand psychology behind it, you have to see yourself as the victim, then you will understand why you it may take you years to speak up if you even ever do.

Mr wisdom, so you are telling me she lack knowledge as at the time she was been harassed, Because you are beginning sound like one who lack wisdom gan gan

Candyflox:
of course he didn't force her directly bt indirectly he did, didn't u hear her say the fear of being suspended or expelled or u think after paying huge tuition she or her parents will want an expulsion? Just pray none of ur relatives would be placed in such pressure because the choices u hv are dicey imagine how long all dis hv been going on nd it just nw people r hearing about it dat to show how devilish dat school is, the best way to deal with Nigerians is wen u act all chrstainly and u still kill dem, no one will believe an accusation against dem without concrete proof which is something dese girls were denied of due to school regulations

somebody will suspend you for refusing him sex? even if there is no other crime you have commited? you did not fail exam, you did not go against any school rules
A lecturer or registrar will just call you and say he wants sex and if you say no, next thing is to suspend? the only people they take advantage of are people who are not ready to face their studies or who go about flouting school rules. once you have done something wrong that requires expulsion or suspension, then you either accept your suspension/expulsion with pride and turn down any useless sexual request. A lecturer helps you to pass an exam you failed or save you feom some kind of trouble a d demands sex in return without a gun to your head. you agree and come back years later to talk nonsense. they phucked you not once not twice, multiple phucking times in different places. what a shameless bast.ard girl with zero pride. you can only be harassed if you are cheap and do not know your worth.

rabzy:


I have met very strong girls who really death with the lecturers, there was a friend of mine in Ife who went as far as wotclef ngo, wrote to Senate, and really fought. The associate professor was expelled despite his notoriety for being an ogboni. The man was sacked, but it's not all girls that have such strong constitution, it's not all that have a strong support system and some are facing so much in life that they can't add more to it, so some just resign to their fate and succumb, so does that mean they should not be bitter with the lecturer, does it mean they should not ever speak out, for me it is rape, it was a forced consent.

I get ur point @ not all are strong emotionally.. But this CU Geh dey claim many males harassed her...not only d registrar.... So the male students who fvcked her too are to be blamed?

U don't get that there is something fishy about the whole issue?? No one spoke till the shiit hit d fan! Why didn't she speak OUT as soon as she got out of the school

The day i saw a fragile wife beating the hell out of her husband while screaming 'he has killed me oooo....blood ooooooo...I'm dying ooo' and na d guy dey floor dey bleed....was the day I stopped believing women WITHOUT PROOF!!!!

buygala:
Stupid girl

You can't prove all your allegations ...but we must believe you without any proof whatsoever

Allegation of sexual harassment without successful proof should be made a criminal offence punishable with at least 15 years

I am not saying the guy is innocent....but it is also very possible this girl may be lying

Guy calm down..why call the girl stupid?? Didn't you pass through university in Nigeria.. Her claims are very very common in our universities..

kaorama:

No am not aware. You are the only one that knows. Go ahead and tell me. Don't know why you are ranting over my opinion. Don't wait for 36 years when your molester is about being made a supreme court judge to speak up. He exploited you and now you are exploiting him!

U GET MY POINT!!
WHY WAIT FOR 36 YEARS TO SPEAK UP

Does that even make sense? These n CR7 case stink of locust bean scent.....why wait so long to speak out then claim some nonsense?? If ur molested, speak OUT ASAP..but these women do it for political and selfish gains!!

Candyflox:
of course he didn't force her directly bt indirectly he did, didn't u hear her say the fear of being suspended or expelled or u think after paying huge tuition she or her parents will want an expulsion? Just pray none of ur relatives would be placed in such pressure because the choices u hv are dicey imagine how long all dis hv been going on nd it just nw people r hearing about it dat to show how devilish dat school is, the best way to deal with Nigerians is wen u act all chrstainly and u still kill dem, no one will believe an accusation against dem without concrete proof which is something dese girls were denied of due to school regulations

Pressure?? She had no choice Wtf are u saying. TBH, Naija girls, 90% got no brains, all they have to offer is ass and pussy. Not surprised.

Culin:
You were sexually "exploited" and happily posed for the camera with him. Looks like she gladly took part in whatever happened. My thoughts though.

And even tagged him in the post.
I still don't get this.

dangotesmummy:
Naija male Lecturers and sex scandal

Eyimatun legan

I'm very sure of the fact that sex scandal is as notorious in private universities than in public but its done low key and with subtle threats because they know the students don't really have a voice and it's the students word against the lecturer



Unfortunately I heard cu students don't use phones which is harder to prove.

Meanwhile with all the sexy little spoilt beeches walking up and Dan cu,it will take a lot of self restraint for a male lecturer to put his penis in check.their hour glass shape and pencil skirt na die

The girls are to be bla.ed even if all these allegations are true.
Why don't they get concrete evidences when the said act was on and they have the chance?
They always come after graduation and think social media is a form of evidence.

Alero3Arubi:
And even tagged him in the post. I still don't get this.

It does not make sense to me either.

amaniro:



Its now that they know they'd speak out.

The deed has been done

You can't read abi

When should she have come out? She couldn't come out when she was a student because she could be expelled and she is coming out now because someone has cleared the way. This is usually how it happens. Many people have been abused but have had to keep quiet and suffer in silence until an outlet is created.

luminouz:

Nawa for u oh... Is it so hard to obey the school's laws??
If they can't,why go there??
Ur sent to school..not to party..other kids who obey the laws ARE NEVER persecuted...why ur 4 friends cases eh

Obey the law and no one will have any edge of blackmail over u...
If the school is loose,na u go talk say xtian school dey do olòsho... I swear Nigerians are so fvcking emotionally fvcked up...no objectivity at all....its either religion or tribe or some nonsense go make u all emotional cripples...

Its a good thing I'm Alien

So because they didn't obey the law now means that the lecturers have the freedom to abuse and extort them

Culin:

It does not make sense to me either.

I think this coming out movement is going to cause more harm than good.