who are WE?

Tamarapetty:
So in conclusion, what did she say??

She spoked in English...

dazzlingd:
Now this is a sensible way to act.

Someone called your country a shithole and you celebrate just because of political differences. I tell you, it's a shame to whoever cannot stand to defend his nation because when you step out there, no one cares if you are pdp, apc, Yoruba, igbo, Hausa, they see you in person as a shithole person!

Shame on you, you cursed blacks. Inferiority is your menace.

Is Africa not a shithole?

Brother please, keep sentiment asides. It's futile to defend mediocrity.

Doerstech:


But you JUST DID

I actually did read the story! There is something abt her I do not like and I can't expressly say what it is!

Chimamanda...

Shelumiel:
An unrealistic woman

Feminism itself is unrealistic

Jeezuzpick:
Did geh go just old on top matter wey no consign am!

She dey form feminist yet she dey silently receive her husband cable!

She just dey open mouth upandan!

She dey US dey enjoy still dey put mouth for our shithole wey we dey dey smell!

If I enta US no be to just miss? No be to jus dey codedly enjoy life?

Auntie, no waste your saliva dey tok empty tok, y'hear? Use an pray make booboo get small sense!

who b dis?

And here come the triggered misogynists of nairaland to bash her and bash what She says for no reason than for the fact that she is the one saying it.

Ajoboss:
who b dis?

Bros, you wan give me money?

GentleMoney:
'She (not We) does not care..'
Hmm...

Exactly

The bìtch is on her own.

newsynews:
Is Africa not a shithole?
lalasticlala go outside and see how messed up the neighborhoods are.

A big ugly shithole

Who use am do ambassador?

Make una read beyond headline na. She said she does not care because it is coming feom emptiness.
Ha!

GentleMoney:
'She (not We) does not care..'
Hmm...

All I see is ignorance and knowledge gap. Read her response to questions, forget about the word feminist or feminism. I am not a feminist but being a feminist does not mean you can't marry or respect your husband. Read about the concept of feminism and stop attacking this brilliant lady uneccessary. She is representing Africa and Nigeria n she is doing it well. This is the first time I read her response to questions been asked about Africa n I don't think anyone would have given a better reply.

she be saying a lot of shit from the comfort of THE ABROAD, let her come and base in Nigeria

Amakavula:
" Men must be tough to show their strength. It should be done so that men can be vulnerable, show their emotions."

Why are feminists so obsessed with making men weak, when normal women don't like weak men?

mmmmm

Fitz22:
All I see is ignorance and knowledge gap. Read her response to questions, forget about the word feminist or feminism. I am not a feminist but being a feminist does not mean you can't marry or respect your husband. Read about the concept of feminism and stop attacking this brilliant lady uneccessary. She is representing Africa and Nigeria n she is doing it well. This is the first time I read her response to questions been asked about Africa n I don't think anyone would have given a better reply.

Feminism just like masculinity in its basic design is flawed. In the African context, you cannot fully advocate for feminism and fully respect your husband and his traditional God given role. So there lies the confusion and the stalemate. Compromises must occur both ways.

Amakavula:
" Men must be tough to show their strength. It should be done so that men can be vulnerable, show their emotions."

Why are feminists so obsessed with making men weak, when normal women don't like weak men?

Although, I don't understand the lady and her feminism movement sometimes... I love her as a writer, because I also love to write.

So, lemme try and reply you. I don't think she wants men to be weak. I think she wants men to be raised in a way that would let them show and embrace their emotions.
You do not have to be weak to do that, in fact, you actually have to be very strong to pull that off.

I have male friends who have lost loved ones at some point in their lives and they couldn't shed a tear. You would hear stuff like, "it's very unmanly to cry". These pent up feelings pile up and graduate to something else. Some of them resort to violence as a way to blow off steam. Some men in situations like this, could also become depressed... some could take their own lives.

Again, young boys get harrased and molested on a daily. They keep it bottled up. Some grow up to become wife beaters, rapists, or just plain "women haters'. They have to be trained to understand that speaking up, sharing your feelings doesn't make you a weak man.

Finally, Men are quick to resort to violence. Especially in this country. Most men are angry ( Right now with oga bubu in power, I don't blame them); but the average Nigerian man believes violence equates to manliness. However, you can actually talk things over... have an emotionally balanced discussion with people to sort issues out.

So, It's not about bringing up weak men... it is about getting them to embrace their emotions instead of shutting them off.

With these few points of mine, I hope I have been able to convince you and not confuse you....

Ok, my hand don dey pain me, bye.

Nigeria is actually a shithole,trump never lied,he observed very well before NIGERIANS ARE THE SHIT IN THE HOLE,No job ,no security poverty everywhere GOVERNMENT HAS EATEN OUR FUTURE AWAY

I think she’s talking too much these days. Can hardly keep up or regard her discus relevant

This woman should just shut up

Aunty, lets call a spade a spade, africa is a shithole!!

She is truly brilliant.Obviously nigeria is a shiithole,but it it not getting to her.

When is Trump building the "big beautiful wall"?

Meaning you're a shit since you live in Africa and an African

newsynews:

Is Africa not a shithole?

lalasticlala go outside and see how messed up the neighborhoods are.

most people commenting didn't even read what she said, bloggers sha

Come back home and you will agree with Donald Trump

U go soon care by the time all these politicians turn this country to a deathhole...

Truth is bitter!

Stallion93:
she be saying a lot of shit from the comfort of THE ABROAD, let her come and base in Nigeria

I wonder if she has even visited her hometown in more than a decade

Rhozabeth:

I actually did read the story! There is something abt her I do not like and I can't expressly say what it is!

OK, find that out, use it and send Bubu back to daura

Am having a strong feeling that this woman will also support homosexuality and lesbianism

dazzlingd:
Now this is a sensible way to act.

Someone called your country a shithole and you celebrate just because of political differences. I tell you, it's a shame to whoever cannot stand to defend his nation because when you step out there, no one cares if you are pdp, apc, Yoruba, igbo, Hausa, they see you in person as a shithole person!

Shame on you, you cursed blacks. Inferiority is your menace.

If Black people are not inferior,then what are they ?