Baronnaire:


Shut up...

Who has the language you just wrote with?

Who made the device you're using the write this your nonsense?

Who designed what you studied or are studying in school?

I'm sure you're not putting on plantain leaves to cover your nudity which is your heritage?

Your house, furniture, appliances, car etc aren't your father's heritage.

So what are you not copying from the white man?

You copied everything, but dont want to copy their prudence? That's why a black man never stops wanting even when he can't exhaust that which he already has.

A 60yrs old billionaire wants to be a trillionaire, when it'll take over 55yrs to squander N1billion @ 50k/day.

We are just too wasteful and greedy by nature...

Sense ..Its called selective transcopy ......lol

bongolistik:
Just reminded me of a guy that spent close to N6M for his wedding, after 6 months the marriage packed up.. A pathetic ending.. He learnt his bitter lesson, cos at a point before the marriage ended he was a kind of struggling, his company started owing him here and there.

He asked the wife whom after doing her Masters in the UK got a job there, to come back to Nigeria and stay with him, the wife told him that she can't that he should come over to the UK and stay with her, that she can't come to Nigeria and stay, even after the husband promised to get her job in a juicy position (Agip), since his sister was well placed in the company.

They kept on having series of misunderstanding until the marriage finally crashed in what till today still seem unbelievable to the man based on the lady he thought he knew very well when she was in Nigeria.

This guy did an elaborate wedding, lodged the wife's friends that came from abroad in expensive hotels, spent to the tune of N6M for the entire wedding, only for marriage to crash just after 6 months

Exception to the normal. This shouldn't be the reason not to spend on a wedding

Mrjo:
what an achievement?

im worth much more than that so it’s no big deal .if u can do 5m in a club for ur bd let alone wedding

wristbangle:


Over 12m?? Ah!

12m no too big for wedding

Aurielfinizu:


rie nsi there...
u go marry mbaise lady wey study medicine and surgery?

nsh.normsl delta girl if u have ever bought a carton of ace of spade and don perignon u will understand I’m a regular guy that spends like 5h minimum in a club every week

Lucifer66:

You're either lying or you're an idiot.
12 fvcken what?!? For some bish. Man I ain't spending more than a mill or 2.
You stupid man very stupid.

depends on what u are worth bro.if u do a job with NDDC and make a profit of 200m under 3 months I will spend more than me poverty is a disease my man

chikk:


Heigod!... I dont even understand why this man is lying like this. Even if he's not, Uncle its your money, your wedding, your expenses, enjoy it all, but please allow other people express themselves jor. The man has a valid point abeg. All fingers are not equal. Stop showing off.

i understand u very well I’m not showing off just saying what I went through.everyone knows what they can afford.if you can propose to your wife with a car of 17m I wonder what’s 12m

famousbowale:
Hello guyz, sorry for been the first to comment on my own post.

I'm currently planning for my wedding towards March next year. My self and my wife to be are trying to keep it as simple as possible, if possible just for family members and friends of about 250.
Believe it before I could say jack our budget is already hitting #3.2 million.

The post above was share by a Nigerian base abroad, this made me begin to wonder if it is necessary to even wed at all?
Why spend our hard earned money on wedding of a day?
That money can get us a land or start a little business.
Just thinking

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Ray1251:
who love help Abeg forget that thing

i used to talk like u before I made it big

flyca:
OP, we are Russians (or any other) are different cultures, different ideologies, different religious principles. We have our own way of doing stuff.

We Africans have our heritage and we must be proud if it! We are tied into closely knitted family units. We love to celebrate together as communities. We also mourn together. Economic factors should not be the reason why we would not do what we are supposed to do, especially when we can.

My point is: We must not copy everything we see. We must not be like them!

so the African way is to throw a large (and expensive) wedding only to be bankrupt much later

AFRICANS must be the smartest people (based on this logic)

highchief1:
i used to talk like u before I made it big

can u explain sir

asuustrike1:

A man can have a say on his wedding. Let me share a true life story that happened years ago in IMO state. A guy named Kelvin had planned his wedding with Chioma. On the day of his traditional wedding, his in-laws were demanding for more money after he had spent N1m. It got to a point that he got angry, left the scene of the wedding, switched off his phone for days. His in-laws tried to reach and eventually begged him to marry Chioma but Kelvin stood his ground and decided to call off the wedding. His family pleaded with him but he refused to marry. He later got married to a white lady in Poland and they are blessed with 3 kids.

I

I know of a case like this

Ugosample:
I

I know of a case like this

Hmmmm! Are you the guy

twosquare:
For what? What you should use to balance your new family and the new child... Stop impressing people who don't give a damn. They will still laugh at you if things get awry or you can't pay bills or rent.

Bros check na before u quotee. Na 500,000-800000k I type not 5m or 8m oo

Ray1251:
can u explain sir

bro if u have 200m in ur account will not do a small wedding

asuustrike1:

The blame should be on the couple not in-laws. If couple can stand their ground on having small wedding, the families of the bride or groom will obliged. But when they are swayed by what their parents feel or need it becomes a problem. I blame ladies most times for putting men in stress to get married. They make men to perform two weddings whereas in developed countries it is just one.They are good at copying the whites but they wouldn't copy well

You cannot blame the ladies and leave the man out. Both are meant to be in agreement.

And the couple cannot be blamed alone. Some tribes make it so difficult when parents want to take over. At least we read here where someone was complaining about his FIL being rigid about the church to use.

A friend of mine said she was planning for 200 but her MIL said that is her own crowd. That she should make it 450. Family makes things complicated sometimes.

ifyalways:
We should stop blaming tradition abeg when in reality, the truth of the matter is that the couple most often than not are the architect of their own problem ; living a fake life, creating false impressions and going for a big societal wedding.

No one will kill you or stop you from having a small modest wedding ceremony. If you can comfortably afford 20M wedding,go for it. If your pocket says 50K, be bold and go for it too. Don't live to impress people who frankly no matter how.much you spend or hard you try, you never can genuinely impress. Mouth must talk.

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highchief1:
bro if u have 200m in ur account will not do a small wedding

200mil baba, if I go fit get 1/4 of 1% of dah money, God go bless u o

Snow87:
Ya, your head dey dia, I and my fiancee are budgeting #400k, every every, if no like am hide ur face. 59 minutes ceremony if it exceeds na u know wetin u dey wait for. I cannot come and kill myself and my.

Once you are able to convince your woman, the rest is history.

patoski39:
200mil baba, if I go fit get 1/4 of 1% of dah money, God go bless u o

lol na god.its just like saying u can’t drive a car of10m my man if u get 50m u go buy am.wetin Dey d life

Oh...Ok..sorry...Niegria air don dey make me see double U can still reduce it to 300k.

akaahs:

Bros check na before u quotee. Na 500,000-800000k I type not 5m or 8m oo

Be encouraged.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TBNLIZKc91k

Reno Omokri please get in here

highchief1:
lol na god.its just like saying u can’t drive a car of10m my man if u get 50m u go buy am.wetin Dey d life

no b lie, ma guy... but I serious o, roger me sontin nah, at least make boys feel ur presence

[quote author=MrPlato post=72195517]...


My Wedding Will Be Done Out This Country... Will Also Be Very Simple With Very Important Persons To Me and My Woman in Attendance Only... No Loud Music! Soft Jazz, Blues, RnB...


Most Importantly The Joining Will Be Done At 00:00 of January 1st of What Ever Year... A Beautiful Mid-night Blissful Ceremony...



Going To Be Simple But Expensive. Its The Best Start I Can Give To A Woman of Geniune Virue Who Takes Part In My Success Pursuit to The End...
You must be living in Disneyland kind sir. There is nothing like "happily after".

flyca:
OP,

Do u av a brain @all?
Wat is written? Wat r u saying?
Is church wedding part of our culture & tradition?
Must we spend our fortune on wedding?
Does it makes sense doing 3 weddings just 2marry?

Pls put a brain in ur skull

Snow87:
Ya, your head dey dia, I and my fiancee are budgeting #400k, every every, if no like am hide ur face. 59 minutes ceremony if it exceeds na u know wetin u dey wait for. I cannot come and kill myself and my.

59.59secs....No time for shereshere

I concur jare

Tozinetita:

[s]
Do u av a brain @all?
Wat is written? Wat r u saying?
Is church wedding part of our culture & tradition?
Must we spend our fortune on wedding?
Does it makes sense doing 3 weddings just 2marry?

Pls put a brain in ur skull [/s]

Stop misquoting me intentionally. Do as you like. By “invite your relatives to celebrate with you”, I did not mean “spend a fortune”. And did I ever mention what or how many weedings you need to have? Osho-free 5 naira husbands everywhere! Hewh!

Cc: Ugosample, Baronnaire, samisj4real, Constantiney

Wow, very simple wedding, I lover the gown of the bride, she didn't expose her body like most ladies will always do

Wow, very simple wedding, I love the gown of the bride, she didn't expose her body like most ladies will always do

myettiallah:

That is why u are single..
Evening newspaper

Is it your newspaper?
Pencil preeeeeek husband

flyca:

E be like say them use this word swear for y'all pencil preeeeks

When you are a walking well, every guy becomes Pencil preek. Go stitch ur River small, you no go hear