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Re: Why Can't I Have A Simple Wedding Like This? #3.2 Million Is Just Unnecesary by ozoneymcm: 3:05pm On Oct 19, 2018 |
princfred:I will |
Re: Why Can't I Have A Simple Wedding Like This? #3.2 Million Is Just Unnecesary by Nobody: 4:25pm On Oct 19, 2018 |
I don't really like white wedding and if I am to have one it will be in a garden with just my family and few friends. I wish God will give me a man that understands this. traditional marriage and court wedding is enough for me 2 Likes |
Re: Why Can't I Have A Simple Wedding Like This? #3.2 Million Is Just Unnecesary by princfred(m): 5:12pm On Oct 19, 2018 |
ozoneymcm:I mean, you advocate Africans should stick to their culture so why church wedding at all based on your logic ? |
Re: Why Can't I Have A Simple Wedding Like This? #3.2 Million Is Just Unnecesary by ozoneymcm: 8:48pm On Oct 19, 2018 |
princfred:You have to understand that though Christianity was introduced to Africa, there is now what I'd term as the African way of practicing Christianity. The things you see in Nigerian churches today, you wouldn't see it in London or Chicago. Not to say too much, Christianity or even Islam is now part of African culture |
Re: Why Can't I Have A Simple Wedding Like This? #3.2 Million Is Just Unnecesary by ozoneymcm: 8:52pm On Oct 19, 2018 |
Goldstar24:Just like I told the man who said something similar to your post, that traditional wedding u mentioned isn't child's play, if u really envy the American way of doing weddings, that is the part you will leave out |
Re: Why Can't I Have A Simple Wedding Like This? #3.2 Million Is Just Unnecesary by Nobody: 6:30am On Oct 20, 2018 |
highchief1:guy abeg check ur mail |
Re: Why Can't I Have A Simple Wedding Like This? #3.2 Million Is Just Unnecesary by princfred(m): 7:13am On Oct 20, 2018 |
ozoneymcm:Thats the thing; Africans half-copy then bastardize western culture with their uncivilized minds. If you advocate strictly sticking to African culture then no white marriage. If its to copy then it should be copied well (not copy only what but also how and how-not) as is practised and as the op showed. Just like feminisn and democracy . Copy a western culture correctly along with what makes the concept worthwhile-(the how and how not) or stick to the African culture, simple. All these half, mis-copy is not doing Africa any good. |
Re: Why Can't I Have A Simple Wedding Like This? #3.2 Million Is Just Unnecesary by Aleora(f): 8:12am On Oct 20, 2018 |
famousbowale:kind of wedding I want, not more than 25 people....God of Abraham......I love this |
Re: Why Can't I Have A Simple Wedding Like This? #3.2 Million Is Just Unnecesary by highchief1: 8:17am On Oct 20, 2018 |
patoski39:ok |
Re: Why Can't I Have A Simple Wedding Like This? #3.2 Million Is Just Unnecesary by Nobody: 2:32pm On Oct 20, 2018 |
safarigirl:Good answer! Well said. |
Re: Why Can't I Have A Simple Wedding Like This? #3.2 Million Is Just Unnecesary by Nobody: 2:08pm On Oct 21, 2018 |
highchief1:o |
Re: Why Can't I Have A Simple Wedding Like This? #3.2 Million Is Just Unnecesary by ozoneymcm: 4:08pm On Oct 21, 2018 |
princfred:The reason for the post by the op is the cost of arranging "our" weddings. The bottom line is that most of the things that make African weddings expensive are within the traditional marriage so whether you copy the white wedding well or not, money will be consumed |
Re: Why Can't I Have A Simple Wedding Like This? #3.2 Million Is Just Unnecesary by princfred(m): 4:21pm On Oct 21, 2018 |
ozoneymcm:that is where the black has to jettison his culture or evolve it in light of better ways instead of remining slaves to the ways of the forefathers in a fast changing world at his detriment. That is where cultural dynamism is a good thing. Why not blacks keep killing twins if they really want to stick to the old ways? Solution copy fully and well not half and evolve |
Re: Why Can't I Have A Simple Wedding Like This? #3.2 Million Is Just Unnecesary by Nobody: 6:29am On Oct 22, 2018 |
flyca: 5 naira husbands abi? I don't blame u, since u r not d1 sponsoring d wedding. U female folks will want gender equality after d man must av spent his life savings wedding u! |
Re: Why Can't I Have A Simple Wedding Like This? #3.2 Million Is Just Unnecesary by flyca: 7:19am On Oct 22, 2018 |
Tozinetita: Says who? Nowadays, women work! Those who know their worth have a reasonable source of income before marriage, join finances with their spouses to make their weddings happen, build their homes together with their spouses too. The problem is - will male folks bend down and help their wives in the kitchen and house chores? Help around in the house? To keep clean and tidy since both parties work to create a financially stronger family Or you allow your women work their asses off, bring in money to the table and still clean up after you, shuooooo? My advice - stop rollong with underaged (financially dependent) girls. |
Re: Why Can't I Have A Simple Wedding Like This? #3.2 Million Is Just Unnecesary by CanineOfJackal: 11:36pm On Oct 22, 2018 |
flyca:continue talking this way and you will have a big Fan in me. |
Re: Why Can't I Have A Simple Wedding Like This? #3.2 Million Is Just Unnecesary by Nobody: 9:25am On Oct 24, 2018 |
flyca: U sound a bit smart tho! Is dat really ur photo in d dp? I'd like 2 contact u if u r not a male hiding behind a female moniker |
Re: Why Can't I Have A Simple Wedding Like This? #3.2 Million Is Just Unnecesary by Nobody: 9:51pm On Oct 26, 2018 |
highchief1:chief, I still dae wait oo |
Re: Why Can't I Have A Simple Wedding Like This? #3.2 Million Is Just Unnecesary by victor8269: 11:23pm On Oct 26, 2018 |
highchief1:Bros, I don't know how to PM here ohhh |
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