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Re: Women: Guard Your Beauty, It Is A Blessing! by bukatyne(f): 9:49am On Oct 22, 2018
NoToPile:
Nice thread bukatyne.

Nice tips.

Thanks
Re: Women: Guard Your Beauty, It Is A Blessing! by kozmicity: 11:03am On Oct 22, 2018
bukatyne:
Good afternoon peeps,

Happy Sunday!

Interesting topic innit? grin grin grin

The total package of beauty is a blessing to a woman which attracts people to her and grants her favour. A beautiful woman is also trusted faster.

Doubt me, observe beautiful people in a crowd and see how easily they get things. tongue

So back to the matter.

A woman should take care of her outer (private and public) and inner beauty.

A. OUTER BEAUTY
Ai. PUBLIC
A woman should strive to look good/put together at all times (I know it is not easy, I am still learning myself and fine girl na money). This part is relatively easy as beautifully dressed women are everywhere especially at functions. The parts we will consider are:
1. Hair: The hair is the glory of a woman. Dress your hair well and keep it neat. If you sweat a lot, run away from wearing weaves for a long time or just so braids/wigs. Ensure that your hair styles properly fit the frame of your face and complexion. You see some very dark complexioned ladies spot red hair and you wonder if they are auditioning for the part of devil in a drama. It also seems extra long braids (I love waist length braids) is in vogue and I must say they are very trashy especially from behind. Any braids past your waist dropping to your bum is a no. It looks weird.

2. Clothes: Dress how you want to be addressed. Don't dress like a slut and expect to be treated like a queen, it doesn't work. There is a reason why you would leave an agbero looking man to ask a gentleman for directions when you are stranded. There is also a reason why you would engage the agbero instead of the gentleman when you want someone to push your car. Also know your statue (pear, hourglass, apple and square) and dress your self accordingly. A wiggle dress would complement an hourglass and look ridiculous on a apple shaped woman. Forget all those Facebook likes and dress well. If your legs are not straight, leave short skirts alone; if your upper part is bigger than the lower part, biko leave skinny jeans alone. Also, wearing yoga pants about is trashy; exposing camel toes, wearing dresses and trousers that show the outline of your underwear or butt is no no. If you know you have water bumbum, leave those tight Aba skirts/gowns and trousers alone. It makes your butt look very ridiculous and 'expired' (for lack of better word). Your attire should not be too tight or too loose. Fitted is the word baby. Also, some clothes makes a woman look womanly, go for them. Leave sagging to the agberos and low waist jeans. From observation, the best type of jeans is the 'stock jeans'. It is firm and holds your body well while allowing you breathe.

3. Shoes: Wear shoes you are comfy in especially when going to a place for the first time. Enough said.

4. Makeup: Some ladies fancy heavy makeup every day which is absurd. There should be a 'party face' and 'everyday face' so your pores can breathe. Some others (like me tongue angry) never put anything on their face. Well one of the differences of men and women. Because of the speciality of our bodies, we really cannot pull off just up and about on our faces. A little ponds powder and coloured gloss works wonders for me. For our sisters who believe it is a sin to do so, ponds powder and transparent gloss/lip balm and well brushed eyebrows works well. We need to groom our faces. Also, every complexion has corresponding shades in all products so go for your shade. No fanta face and coke body please. Please note the type of makeup for your skin type so that under stress and strain, the foundation doesn't give way.

Aii PRIVATE:
This is where a number of ladies have issues. They take care of their clothes more than themselves forgetting that our bodies needs to be right. Also alot of women put more effort for outsiders (outer public beauty) than their lovers re husbands at home (outer private beauty). We need to care for the private beauty that our husbands literally can't get their hand off. You know how appealing to the eyes and heart beautiful babies are? You just want to carry them all the time.

1. Face: Have a cleanser, toner and mositurizer for your face. If you can afford it, get seperate face creams for your face. If your face is fresh, you do not need to build foundations with POP and buckets of paint all the time. Avoid using the same sponge for face and body. Stop frowning so the face is not wrinkled. If you must always be under the sun, get a straw hat. I got one for N400 at Marina PEP

2. Body: Invest in a good body lotion and it is best to apply your lotion when your body is a little bit wet so it locks in the moisture. Eat well and drink a lot of water. Stop abusing your body with drugs, alcohol, over eating, tattoos, bleaching, abortions, too much pills, STDs, multiple sex partners, too rough sex, multiple piercings etc. It is the body you have at birth that will carry you for as long as you live. I cringe when I see well dressed women with dry skin/ feet. Bathe regularly and take time to cream almost all parts of your body. Pamper your body regularly with massages and DIY treatments. E.g. a lady here posted palm oil therapy; apply palm oil on clean body, leave for 15mins and wash off with black soap. Take care of your lady parts; change undies at least everyday; lather all nooks of your body while bathing; no jumping out of the bathroom after 5mins except during emergencies. Clean your nails and paint them if you are so inclined. If you prepare something that has a strong scent, washing a little cloth helps rid off the smell and keep your nails clean. Also take good care of your feet and go for pedicure sessions or DIY with warm water, cucumber and any lotion e.g. Pears. I also mixed my cream with olive oil for additional moisture. I see some ladies flaunt chest hairs. Pleaseeeeee, SCRAP it off and cover your chest. Some ladies are raising the bar to shave their legs and we are still feeling funky with chest and armpit hairs, biko. Pamper your skin and yourself, it makes you more sensual and awakens your sexuality. A win situation for you and oga kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss

3. Hair: Some people's hair ooze heat underneath their wigs, weaves and braids. At least every week, clean your scalp with cotton wool and cleaner to rid off the smell and heat. If you are carrying your hair, wash regularly and add simple treatment (olive oil on damp hair and shea butter afterwards keeps the hair soft and healthy.


B. INNER BEAUTY: Wear a smile, no wrinkles, be kind, understanding, gentle, no agbero talking and shouting or too loud laughter, you are not an hyena. Also lay off the swear words and masculine gestures. Don't compete with Ajah touts in mannerisms and street slangs.

Have a beautiful week ahead.

I love beauty cheesy kiss smiley wink

And yes, you can pay this level of detail and still conquer the world.

Nice one op,
I must confess that many girls think aout only their face and knees(sometimes sha... cheesy ), I have some female friends who complain that men do not approach them despite looking all chic and savvy but when i tried to teach them about personal hygiene and even skin tone, you need to see the way they lambasted me( I almost cried oo) and i said to myself not to advise girls who are not ready to learn. But I thank God that this is coming from a woman so that i can call them here to read exactly what i told them about attaches, wigs, black elbows, feet and knees, chest hairs and a host of others.

Look, my point is, I'm a guy and i know what guys want i.e

* Dress well
* Even skin tone
* Lack of BO (Body Odour)
* Good manners
*Good cooking & homemaking skills (Most Naija feminists will beg to differ but abeg... Una neva ready to marry)

*Last Last :- Shaved eyebrows!! (Yes, this is the worst of the worst and it should vanish)
Once again thamks @op for pringing this topic into the light disregarding the fact that many ladies might hate it (possibly attack you), it is one that is long overdue for discussion.

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Re: Women: Guard Your Beauty, It Is A Blessing! by Kennedyiheme: 11:55am On Oct 22, 2018
Which beauty abeg.. is it the maked up face?... what happens when you take off the make up kwanu?
Re: Women: Guard Your Beauty, It Is A Blessing! by ahnie: 12:02pm On Oct 22, 2018
bukatyne:


@ahnie, jergens is off grin

I use Palmer's coconut oil DIY mixed with olive oil anyways.

How much z jergens!...too much burnt knuckles in the industry!
Re: Women: Guard Your Beauty, It Is A Blessing! by Nobody: 1:25pm On Oct 22, 2018
folake4u:




It's like you know my mind grin grin grin grin

Folake fine girl.

Wizkid: Folake, Pakurumo, oya pakurumo ko jo dada

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Re: Women: Guard Your Beauty, It Is A Blessing! by bukatyne(f): 1:29pm On Oct 22, 2018
Kennedyiheme:
Which beauty abeg.. is it the maked up face?... what happens when you take off the make up kwanu?

Read the OP very well.
Re: Women: Guard Your Beauty, It Is A Blessing! by bukatyne(f): 1:49pm On Oct 22, 2018
folake4u:
My kind of thread.

Well,I'm a beauty advocate too and a Naturalista wink.
Not really keen on makeup too though.


@ computergeek . Achieving a silky smooth face is achievable at low cost.
Mix cinnamon powder, a pinch of salt, egg white and honey together and apply on a freshly washed face.
Leave for 10-20mins till its dry or you begin to feel the 'tightness' or 'firmness' of the egg white.
Rinse with warm water.
Dab a clean towel on your face gently and add your face moisturizer.

Voilà! You're good to go.
It works well for me smiley.
Cinnamon (helps to reduce wrinkles and lines on the face)and increases blood flow.
Honey- for glow and moisture.
Egg white helps to make face firm,tightens your pores.
Salt is for exfoliation.


Or you can steam your face thrice a week.

@ bold: cheesy

Thanks for your contributions
Re: Women: Guard Your Beauty, It Is A Blessing! by bukatyne(f): 1:58pm On Oct 22, 2018
kozmicity:


Nice one op,
I must confess that many girls think aout only their face and knees(sometimes sha... cheesy ), I have some female friends who complain that men do not approach them despite looking all chic and savvy but when i tried to teach them about personal hygiene and even skin tone, you need to see the way they lambasted me( I almost cried oo) and i said to myself not to advise girls who are not ready to learn. But I thank God that this is coming from a woman so that i can call them here to read exactly what i told them about attaches, wigs, black elbows, feet and knees, chest hairs and a host of others.

Look, my point is, I'm a guy and i know what guys want i.e

* Dress well
* Even skin tone
* Lack of BO (Body Odour)
* Good manners
*Good cooking & homemaking skills (Most Naija feminists will beg to differ but abeg... Una neva ready to marry)

*Last Last :- Shaved eyebrows!! (Yes, this is the worst of the worst and it should vanish)
Once again thamks @op for pringing this topic into the light disregarding the fact that many ladies might hate it (possibly attack you), it is one that is long overdue for discussion.

Thank you very much for your feedback.

Send your girls here, just pay consultancy fees.

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Re: Women: Guard Your Beauty, It Is A Blessing! by folake4u(f): 3:18pm On Oct 22, 2018
bukatyne:

@ bold: cheesy
Thanks for your contributions

You're welcome smiley
Re: Women: Guard Your Beauty, It Is A Blessing! by Nobody: 3:28pm On Oct 22, 2018
Let me add my two cents.

No amount of cosmetics will keep you beautiful if you do not drink enough water, maintain a healthy diet and work out on a regular basis.
Also, your smile is your most attractive asset so keep your teeth white and shiny. cheesy

By the way, men should also look good. Women have two eyes too. wink

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Re: Women: Guard Your Beauty, It Is A Blessing! by bukatyne(f): 3:44pm On Oct 22, 2018
Mindfulness:
Let me add my two cents.

No amount of cosmetics will keep you beautiful if you do not drink enough water, maintain a healthy diet and work out on a regular basis.
Also, your smile is your most attractive asset so keep your teeth white and shiny. cheesy

By the way, men should also look good. Women have two eyes too. wink

Very very true.

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Re: Women: Guard Your Beauty, It Is A Blessing! by Nobody: 5:22pm On Oct 22, 2018
franchasng:
You are sexualizing women

in Feminists own voice...if you are to abide the feminists rules, women are supposed to dress and look like men and not to be adored or admired because of their sexiness or beauty, so I am surprised seeing all the nairaland's e-feminists having ecstasy on this thread, wonders sha undecided


Not true.

According to feminists, grin
Women should dress as they please.

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Re: Women: Guard Your Beauty, It Is A Blessing! by Kennedyiheme: 6:07pm On Oct 22, 2018
bukatyne:


Read the OP very well.
i did read well.. i still see face beauty there.. how can we tell when ladies are more insecure of how they look that you guys pack all the makeup on your face?....

Besides that soup picture on your dp lokks good.. con cook for me
Re: Women: Guard Your Beauty, It Is A Blessing! by armyofone(m): 7:18pm On Oct 22, 2018
I agree with you on working out. Working out at least 5 days a week should be a must for us! After one is done cooking and eating those good food on food section and you aren't taking or spending at least 30 minutes to 1 hour exercising, then you are poisoning your body.
I don't joke with my exercise wink

Mindfulness:
Let me add my two cents.

No amount of cosmetics will keep you beautiful if you do not drink enough water, maintain a healthy diet and work out on a regular basis.
Also, your smile is your most attractive asset so keep your teeth white and shiny. cheesy

By the way, men should also look good. Women have two eyes too. wink

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Re: Women: Guard Your Beauty, It Is A Blessing! by franchasng: 7:48pm On Oct 22, 2018
CheeZena:



Not true.

According to feminists, grin
Women should dress as they please.
lol...as men shocked shocked wink

Haven't you ever wondered why most feminists look ugly, unkempt, masculine and always dressing anyhow and carrying anyhow hairdos looking like vulture's hair cry lipsrsealed

From today, start observing all staunch feminists closely....looking attractive or sexy is a no no for them and never in their book...only the pretending feminists still want to look sexy and get sexualized by men undecided

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Re: Women: Guard Your Beauty, It Is A Blessing! by Nobody: 9:16pm On Oct 22, 2018
armyofone:
I agree with you on working out. Working out at least 5 days a week should be a must for us! After one is done cooking and eating those good food on food section and you aren't taking or spending at least 30 minutes to 1 hour exercising, then you are poisoning your body.
I don't joke with my exercise wink

yes, working out is important.
Re: Women: Guard Your Beauty, It Is A Blessing! by crackhaus: 10:54pm On Oct 22, 2018
bukatyne:
Good afternoon peeps,

Happy Sunday!

Interesting topic innit? grin grin grin

The total package of beauty is a blessing to a woman which attracts people to her and grants her favour. A beautiful woman is also trusted faster.

Doubt me, observe beautiful people in a crowd and see how easily they get things. tongue

So back to the matter.

A woman should take care of her outer (private and public) and inner beauty.

A. OUTER BEAUTY
Ai. PUBLIC
A woman should strive to look good/put together at all times (I know it is not easy, I am still learning myself and fine girl na money). This part is relatively easy as beautifully dressed women are everywhere especially at functions. The parts we will consider are:
1. Hair: The hair is the glory of a woman. Dress your hair well and keep it neat. If you sweat a lot, run away from wearing weaves for a long time or just so braids/wigs. Ensure that your hair styles properly fit the frame of your face and complexion. You see some very dark complexioned ladies spot red hair and you wonder if they are auditioning for the part of devil in a drama. It also seems extra long braids (I love waist length braids) is in vogue and I must say they are very trashy especially from behind. Any braids past your waist dropping to your bum is a no. It looks weird.

2. Clothes: Dress how you want to be addressed. Don't dress like a slut and expect to be treated like a queen, it doesn't work. There is a reason why you would leave an agbero looking man to ask a gentleman for directions when you are stranded. There is also a reason why you would engage the agbero instead of the gentleman when you want someone to push your car. Also know your statue (pear, hourglass, apple and square) and dress your self accordingly. A wiggle dress would complement an hourglass and look ridiculous on a apple shaped woman. Forget all those Facebook likes and dress well. If your legs are not straight, leave short skirts alone; if your upper part is bigger than the lower part, biko leave skinny jeans alone. Also, wearing yoga pants about is trashy; exposing camel toes, wearing dresses and trousers that show the outline of your underwear or butt is no no. If you know you have water bumbum, leave those tight Aba skirts/gowns and trousers alone. It makes your butt look very ridiculous and 'expired' (for lack of better word). Your attire should not be too tight or too loose. Fitted is the word baby. Also, some clothes makes a woman look womanly, go for them. Leave sagging to the agberos and low waist jeans. From observation, the best type of jeans is the 'stock jeans'. It is firm and holds your body well while allowing you breathe.

3. Shoes: Wear shoes you are comfy in especially when going to a place for the first time. Enough said.

4. Makeup: Some ladies fancy heavy makeup every day which is absurd. There should be a 'party face' and 'everyday face' so your pores can breathe. Some others (like me tongue angry) never put anything on their face. Well one of the differences of men and women. Because of the speciality of our bodies, we really cannot pull off just up and about on our faces. A little ponds powder and coloured gloss works wonders for me. For our sisters who believe it is a sin to do so, ponds powder and transparent gloss/lip balm and well brushed eyebrows works well. We need to groom our faces. Also, every complexion has corresponding shades in all products so go for your shade. No fanta face and coke body please. Please note the type of makeup for your skin type so that under stress and strain, the foundation doesn't give way.

Aii PRIVATE:
This is where a number of ladies have issues. They take care of their clothes more than themselves forgetting that our bodies needs to be right. Also alot of women put more effort for outsiders (outer public beauty) than their lovers re husbands at home (outer private beauty). We need to care for the private beauty that our husbands literally can't get their hand off. You know how appealing to the eyes and heart beautiful babies are? You just want to carry them all the time.

1. Face: Have a cleanser, toner and mositurizer for your face. If you can afford it, get seperate face creams for your face. If your face is fresh, you do not need to build foundations with POP and buckets of paint all the time. Avoid using the same sponge for face and body. Stop frowning so the face is not wrinkled. If you must always be under the sun, get a straw hat. I got one for N400 at Marina PEP

2. Body: Invest in a good body lotion and it is best to apply your lotion when your body is a little bit wet so it locks in the moisture. Eat well and drink a lot of water. Stop abusing your body with drugs, alcohol, over eating, tattoos, bleaching, abortions, too much pills, STDs, multiple sex partners, too rough sex, multiple piercings etc. It is the body you have at birth that will carry you for as long as you live. I cringe when I see well dressed women with dry skin/ feet. Bathe regularly and take time to cream almost all parts of your body. Pamper your body regularly with massages and DIY treatments. E.g. a lady here posted palm oil therapy; apply palm oil on clean body, leave for 15mins and wash off with black soap. Take care of your lady parts; change undies at least everyday; lather all nooks of your body while bathing; no jumping out of the bathroom after 5mins except during emergencies. Clean your nails and paint them if you are so inclined. If you prepare something that has a strong scent, washing a little cloth helps rid off the smell and keep your nails clean. Also take good care of your feet and go for pedicure sessions or DIY with warm water, cucumber and any lotion e.g. Pears. I also mixed my cream with olive oil for additional moisture. I see some ladies flaunt chest hairs. Pleaseeeeee, SCRAP it off and cover your chest. Some ladies are raising the bar to shave their legs and we are still feeling funky with chest and armpit hairs, biko. Pamper your skin and yourself, it makes you more sensual and awakens your sexuality. A win situation for you and oga kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss

3. Hair: Some people's hair ooze heat underneath their wigs, weaves and braids. At least every week, clean your scalp with cotton wool and cleaner to rid off the smell and heat. If you are carrying your hair, wash regularly and add simple treatment (olive oil on damp hair and shea butter afterwards keeps the hair soft and healthy.


B. INNER BEAUTY: Wear a smile, no wrinkles, be kind, understanding, gentle, no agbero talking and shouting or too loud laughter, you are not an hyena. Also lay off the swear words and masculine gestures. Don't compete with Ajah touts in mannerisms and street slangs.

Have a beautiful week ahead.

I love beauty cheesy kiss smiley wink

And yes, you can pay this level of detail and still conquer the world.

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Re: Women: Guard Your Beauty, It Is A Blessing! by Nobody: 6:52am On Oct 23, 2018
franchasng:
lol...as men shocked shocked wink

Haven't you ever wondered why most feminists look ugly, unkempt, masculine and always dressing anyhow and carrying anyhow hairdos looking like vulture's hair cry lipsrsealed

From today, start observing all staunch feminists closely....looking attractive or sexy is a no no for them and never in their book...only the pretending feminists still want to look sexy and get sexualized by men undecided


It's too early for this.
Re: Women: Guard Your Beauty, It Is A Blessing! by MrNipplesLover(m): 9:08am On Oct 23, 2018
most women believe that their beauty is an avenue to making money. that's why they focus more on the outer aspects of their beauty.
inner part like their PUSSies get minimum attention from them. smiley


well, we dey here. if women no dey beautiful, wetin we (guys) go gain.
grin grin
Re: Women: Guard Your Beauty, It Is A Blessing! by Eyeness: 10:57am On Oct 23, 2018
ahnie:
What about those that doesn't apply make-up?face toner or whatever.

Any hope for dark skinned women like me...i need a good cream(not those expensive one)Tha wud make my skin shinny.
vaseline eventone with vit b3 and triple sunscreen is good
Re: Women: Guard Your Beauty, It Is A Blessing! by kozmicity: 12:16pm On Oct 23, 2018
bukatyne:

Thank you very much for your feedback.
Send your girls here, just pay consultancy fees.
How may he-goats?
Re: Women: Guard Your Beauty, It Is A Blessing! by ahnie: 1:08pm On Oct 23, 2018
Eyeness:
vaseline eventone with vit b3 and triple sunscreen is good

Now,much z it sold!
Re: Women: Guard Your Beauty, It Is A Blessing! by Eyeness: 4:06pm On Oct 23, 2018
ahnie:


Now,much z it sold!
700 naira
Re: Women: Guard Your Beauty, It Is A Blessing! by ahnie: 4:07pm On Oct 23, 2018
Eyeness:
700 naira

Thankhui your highness....wud get it this week.
Re: Women: Guard Your Beauty, It Is A Blessing! by bukatyne(f): 4:24pm On Oct 23, 2018
ahnie:


Thankhui your highness....wud get it this week.

Make sure you testify when it starts working.

And I will collect tithe o cheesy
Re: Women: Guard Your Beauty, It Is A Blessing! by ahnie: 7:19pm On Oct 23, 2018
bukatyne:


Make sure you testify when it starts working.

And I will collect tithe o cheesy

Capishe ma'am grin
Re: Women: Guard Your Beauty, It Is A Blessing! by mizz2posh: 3:47pm On Oct 24, 2018
ahnie:
What about those that doesn't apply make-up?face toner or whatever.

Any hope for dark skinned women like me...i need a good cream(not those expensive one)Tha wud make my skin shinny.

You can use Jergens natural glow, if you can find the original, it will make your skin glow.
Re: Women: Guard Your Beauty, It Is A Blessing! by Nobody: 9:59pm On Oct 24, 2018
bukatyne:
Good afternoon peeps,

Happy Sunday!

Interesting topic innit? grin grin grin

The total package of beauty is a blessing to a woman which attracts people to her and grants her favour. A beautiful woman is also trusted faster.

Doubt me, observe beautiful people in a crowd and see how easily they get things. tongue

So back to the matter.

A woman should take care of her outer (private and public) and inner beauty.

A. OUTER BEAUTY
Ai. PUBLIC
A woman should strive to look good/put together at all times (I know it is not easy, I am still learning myself and fine girl na money). This part is relatively easy as beautifully dressed women are everywhere especially at functions. The parts we will consider are:
1. Hair: The hair is the glory of a woman. Dress your hair well and keep it neat. If you sweat a lot, run away from wearing weaves for a long time or just so braids/wigs. Ensure that your hair styles properly fit the frame of your face and complexion. You see some very dark complexioned ladies spot red hair and you wonder if they are auditioning for the part of devil in a drama. It also seems extra long braids (I love waist length braids) is in vogue and I must say they are very trashy especially from behind. Any braids past your waist dropping to your bum is a no. It looks weird.

2. Clothes: Dress how you want to be addressed. Don't dress like a slut and expect to be treated like a queen, it doesn't work. There is a reason why you would leave an agbero looking man to ask a gentleman for directions when you are stranded. There is also a reason why you would engage the agbero instead of the gentleman when you want someone to push your car. Also know your statue (pear, hourglass, apple and square) and dress your self accordingly. A wiggle dress would complement an hourglass and look ridiculous on a apple shaped woman. Forget all those Facebook likes and dress well. If your legs are not straight, leave short skirts alone; if your upper part is bigger than the lower part, biko leave skinny jeans alone. Also, wearing yoga pants about is trashy; exposing camel toes, wearing dresses and trousers that show the outline of your underwear or butt is no no. If you know you have water bumbum, leave those tight Aba skirts/gowns and trousers alone. It makes your butt look very ridiculous and 'expired' (for lack of better word). Your attire should not be too tight or too loose. Fitted is the word baby. Also, some clothes makes a woman look womanly, go for them. Leave sagging to the agberos and low waist jeans. From observation, the best type of jeans is the 'stock jeans'. It is firm and holds your body well while allowing you breathe.

3. Shoes: Wear shoes you are comfy in especially when going to a place for the first time. Enough said.

4. Makeup: Some ladies fancy heavy makeup every day which is absurd. There should be a 'party face' and 'everyday face' so your pores can breathe. Some others (like me tongue angry) never put anything on their face. Well one of the differences of men and women. Because of the speciality of our bodies, we really cannot pull off just up and about on our faces. A little ponds powder and coloured gloss works wonders for me. For our sisters who believe it is a sin to do so, ponds powder and transparent gloss/lip balm and well brushed eyebrows works well. We need to groom our faces. Also, every complexion has corresponding shades in all products so go for your shade. No fanta face and coke body please. Please note the type of makeup for your skin type so that under stress and strain, the foundation doesn't give way.

Aii PRIVATE:
This is where a number of ladies have issues. They take care of their clothes more than themselves forgetting that our bodies needs to be right. Also alot of women put more effort for outsiders (outer public beauty) than their lovers re husbands at home (outer private beauty). We need to care for the private beauty that our husbands literally can't get their hand off. You know how appealing to the eyes and heart beautiful babies are? You just want to carry them all the time.

1. Face: Have a cleanser, toner and mositurizer for your face. If you can afford it, get seperate face creams for your face. If your face is fresh, you do not need to build foundations with POP and buckets of paint all the time. Avoid using the same sponge for face and body. Stop frowning so the face is not wrinkled. If you must always be under the sun, get a straw hat. I got one for N400 at Marina PEP

2. Body: Invest in a good body lotion and it is best to apply your lotion when your body is a little bit wet so it locks in the moisture. Eat well and drink a lot of water. Stop abusing your body with drugs, alcohol, over eating, tattoos, bleaching, abortions, too much pills, STDs, multiple sex partners, too rough sex, multiple piercings etc. It is the body you have at birth that will carry you for as long as you live. I cringe when I see well dressed women with dry skin/ feet. Bathe regularly and take time to cream almost all parts of your body. Pamper your body regularly with massages and DIY treatments. E.g. a lady here posted palm oil therapy; apply palm oil on clean body, leave for 15mins and wash off with black soap. Take care of your lady parts; change undies at least everyday; lather all nooks of your body while bathing; no jumping out of the bathroom after 5mins except during emergencies. Clean your nails and paint them if you are so inclined. If you prepare something that has a strong scent, washing a little cloth helps rid off the smell and keep your nails clean. Also take good care of your feet and go for pedicure sessions or DIY with warm water, cucumber and any lotion e.g. Pears. I also mixed my cream with olive oil for additional moisture. I see some ladies flaunt chest hairs. Pleaseeeeee, SCRAP it off and cover your chest. Some ladies are raising the bar to shave their legs and we are still feeling funky with chest and armpit hairs, biko. Pamper your skin and yourself, it makes you more sensual and awakens your sexuality. A win situation for you and oga kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss

3. Hair: Some people's hair ooze heat underneath their wigs, weaves and braids. At least every week, clean your scalp with cotton wool and cleaner to rid off the smell and heat. If you are carrying your hair, wash regularly and add simple treatment (olive oil on damp hair and shea butter afterwards keeps the hair soft and healthy.


B. INNER BEAUTY: Wear a smile, no wrinkles, be kind, understanding, gentle, no agbero talking and shouting or too loud laughter, you are not an hyena. Also lay off the swear words and masculine gestures. Don't compete with Ajah touts in mannerisms and street slangs.

Have a beautiful week ahead.

I love beauty cheesy kiss smiley wink

And yes, you can pay this level of detail and still conquer the world.


You're confused
Re: Women: Guard Your Beauty, It Is A Blessing! by bukatyne(f): 6:29am On Oct 25, 2018
mizz2posh:


You can use Jergens natural glow, if you can find the original, it will make your skin glow.

You typed an epistle na, where is it?
Re: Women: Guard Your Beauty, It Is A Blessing! by eyinjuege: 7:38am On Oct 25, 2018
ahnie:
What about those that doesn't apply make-up?face toner or whatever.

Any hope for dark skinned women like me...i need a good cream(not those expensive one)Tha wud make my skin shinny.

Try glycerine oil for sometime, and let's hear your testimony. Add it to your routine body cream, and give it a couple of weeks.
Re: Women: Guard Your Beauty, It Is A Blessing! by Nobody: 7:54am On Oct 25, 2018
bukatyne:


Because skater gowns flare out from your hips, they will accommodate your thighs without hassles.

they flare from the waist actually

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