Fear? I don't have fears, cos I live life as it comes. All I do is thank God 4 His mercies, grace & faithfulness. Ambitious ppl have fears, but ppl like me, hey, we just live 2 glorify God.
Life's 2 short & my only ambitn is 2 go 2 heaven.

Eberechi24:

Despite the system, don't be discouraged. keep doing what you know best. one day posterity will smile on you. I understand your fears very well, there are experiences you had, you won't want to kids have a taste of.
Like myself I don't want my kids depends on anybody for essential needs of life (clothes, shelter, feeding, luxury). I know how it feels to lack these benefits and dangers it exposes one to if you are not contented

Thanks dear for your understanding. They only way that decision might change is if I leave this country which am daily losing interest in doing. I can thrive here but can't raise a family here.. Except I can find a woman who agrees with me .. Which is a tall dream..lol.. Which lady in this Nigeria don't wantbto have her own kids?.. Except for that.. I love myself and I alone.

aishlove:
Hmmmn, my greatest fear is been dead because nothing is permanent in this world death is the only certainty
Always praying to God to forgive me of my shortcomings before death take me away

Lol.. The last thing I can be scared of is death for what.. We all shall die sooner or latter. Pls don't be scared of death but be rather prepared for it.

KanwuliaExtra:
Poverty!
The worst of all fears!

Lol indeed the fear of any one who rose through the rank and file of the hierarchy of poverty to poor to manageable to comfortable to very comfortable to rich to very rich to stupendously rich to wealthy to damn wealthy to unquantifiable wealth... Depending on which level anyway

Winter4:
My fears...

Falling to grass again
Bad marriage
Failing my children
Failing as a first child

The pressure is real...but I choose to believe!

I love that word " But I choose to believe!
Believe and it shall be established. you won't fail as far as you are touring the right path.

dahmie2013:
Fear? I don't have fears, cos I live life as it comes. All I do is thank God 4 His mercies, grace & faithfulness. Ambitious ppl have fears, but ppl like me, hey, we just live 2 glorify God.
Life's 2 short & my only ambitn is 2 go 2 heaven.

Nice way to grow, I will add this to my subconscious mind

fear of not enjoying my life the way I want it, like traveling and adventures. Fear of not achieving my goals because of fear.

dankol:


Lol indeed the fear of any one who rose through the rank and file of the hierarchy of poverty to poor to manageable to comfortable to very comfortable to rich to very rich to stupendously rich to wealthy to damn wealthy to unquantifiable wealth... Depending on which level anyway

Poverty is the ultimate body and soul killer!
It robs you of any means of thinking or fighting injustice. The reason Nigeria and Africa will never see progress! 90% live in ABJECT POVERTY and have lost their bodies, minds and souls!

Poverty, boredom. Especially boredom, I would rather die than live a boring life so I do what ever I can to avoid it.

nowpresence:
fear of not enjoying my life the way I want it, like traveling and adventures. Fear of not achieving my goals because of fear.

You sure gonna get it,, keep the faith alive.

mhd5757:
Poverty, boredom. Especially boredom, I would rather die than live a boring life so I do what ever I can to avoid it.

Making life interesting is priceless, just get right network of friends.

Fear of my wife losing shape.

Eberechi24:
Some of us are afraid to raise a family. When we remember that marriage is one of the necessary box
we are going tick in life we become afraid/ discouraged.
Share your fears/thoughts on marriage, someone may have one/two words for you.
Married folks come in for encouragement.
Here is mine;
am afraid of failing as a mother
am afraid of failing as a wife.

I want to give my kids the best in life; empower them in/from their early lives
I want a happy home but what if
there is no resources to empower them (kids)? this is one question that eats me up.

Please let me have anAsex with you and I will stop being gay. Deal?

Having sex with the same man for the rest of my life, i ask myself- will i get tired of him? will he get tired of me? will i be irritated at a point, hate him...... sometimes i hate the negative thoughts that comes regarding marriage, cant help it!!

Boxer007:



Please let me have anAsex with you and I will stop being gay. Deal?

enjoy your gay life

Biglittlelois:
Having sex with the same man for the rest of my life, i ask myself- will i get tired of him? will he get tired of me? will i be irritated at a point, hate him...... sometimes i hate the negative thoughts that comes regarding marriage, cant help it!!

Lol, This is fear need to addressed before you get married isn't it obvious you gonna stay with same man till do you apart unless you are nurturing the idea of cheating.
Dear, Marry someone you really love, someone you are sexually attracted to. Sexually attraction should top the qualities you need in man.

Make your sex life interesting, and fun. Spice it up. Get what you need/desire from your man. Sex isn't tiring if you are adventurous. You can sleep with every single man on the earth yet you not sexually satisfied.
I pray God bless you with a good man with your sexual orientation. You won't get tired of each other.
Anothe thing that makes sex boring is lack of communication/ finance. if there's no money to foot family bills I sex will be a thing... I don't know what to say.
Just be happy, contented and adventurous.

Oluromantic:
Fear of my wife losing shape.

Lol, Share your your fear with madam, she will do anything to shape up. Women are not lazy when it comes to husband's needs. Who wants to loose her husband? No one.
Just keep encouraging her

Eberechi24:
enjoy your gay life

You female. Are you scared of compeditions? Because I no i can take your man if or when I want. Preach

dahmie2013:
Fear? I don't have fears, cos I live life as it comes. All I do is thank God 4 His mercies, grace & faithfulness. Ambitious ppl have fears, but ppl like me, hey, we just live 2 glorify God.
Life's 2 short & my only ambitn is 2 go 2 heaven.

I wish it were possible to give you a billion likes! I wish I could hug you!!!

That's the spirit - no worries, no hassles! Just let God lead, then follow. I love you mæn!!!

Biglittlelois:
Having sex with the same man for the rest of my life, i ask myself- will i get tired of him? will he get tired of me? will i be irritated at a point, hate him...... sometimes i hate the negative thoughts that comes regarding marriage, cant help it!!

Bury these thoughts in a cooler down the bank of a ocean now oo! Lolzzz...that was a thing.

You are not going to have it forever oo. A time will come when you'll need it no more - just hugging & cuddling would do. So, don't wear yourself down girl.

And cut down on sex if you do have it, or hold on to abstinence if you don't. You'll be needing it a lot in your marriage, so why spend away all that energy?

@ Eberechi24: you don't know how much your post have soothed some people's nerves, even the ones just reading! I wish we could all have a forum to talk about our issues this way...like a WhatsApp group for young people to freely air their fears and challenges, get to meet your kind of friends, & even hook up for biz, promos, dates, etc...

And now I want to say this:-
My heart's convinced that you're so many good virtues rolled up in one body & soul. You write well, and your points/advices very succinct. And you've swept my feet off! Pls, can you let me into your life? My fellow NLs do help me convince her that I'm serious...I await your reply here. I've watched a lot of us find love here, & I want to do so with you!

And have I told you my worst fear? To marry a woman that doesn't take godliness as a priority...it pulls down a family. I await your reply my dear

AngryNigerian:
@ Eberechi24: you don't know how much your post have soothed some people's nerves, even the ones just reading! I wish we could all have a forum to talk about our issues this way...like a WhatsApp group for young people to freely air their fears and challenges, get to meet your kind of friends, & even hook up for biz, promos, dates, etc...

And now I want to say this:-
My heart's convinced that you're so many good virtues rolled up in one body & soul. You write well, and your points/advices very succinct. And you've swept my feet off! Pls, can you let me into your life? My fellow NLs do help me convince her that I'm serious...I await your reply here. I've watched a lot of us find love here, & I want to do so with you!

And have I told you my worst fear? To marry a woman that doesn't take godliness as a priority...it pulls down a family. I await your reply my dear

Glad you find my post soothing. that's one powerful merit of SM. Sharing ideas and reaching out for people who need these ideas.

Eberechi24:

Glad you find my post soothing. that's one powerful merit of SM. Sharing ideas and reaching out for people who need these ideas.

Thanks dearest. You are just an enigma...
Now, about my request...pls, can you give me a chance?

1. Height
2. Water
3. Unknown
4. Religion
5. Crabs
6. Fear of failure
7. Poverty
8. Being irrelevant
9. Dying with regrets

My greatest fears are :

Poverty!
Marriage in Nigeria!

AngryNigerian:


Thanks dearest. You are just an enigma...
Now, about my request...pls, can you give me a chance?

We are friends boo

yettymuse:
My greatest fears are :

Poverty!
Marriage in Nigeria!

Poverty is no man friend. Make great plans to escape it.

I found that second fear amusing. You don't wanna a marry a Nigerian or you don't want to in Nigeria.
Whatever be the case, just be with a good man. Good men can still be found in Nigeria.
I borrow your word-dont quit

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Eberechi24:

Poverty is no man friend. Make great plans to escape it.

I found that second fear amusing. You don't wanna a marry a Nigerian or you don't want to in Nigeria.
Whatever be the case, just be with a good man. Good men can still be found in Nigeria.
I borrow your word-dont quit

Thank you . Better put, I'd rather be married in an enabling environment. Not in this space, this part of the world isn't safe for the womanfolks.

Eberechi24:

We are friends boo

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Katier00:
thanks sweetie. I learnt a lot from the union and am moving on to greater things now..

Hello,
Mind sharing lessons learnt?. We might also learn from your experience.