My reply:

"I got it from someone that knows someone that knows someone that knows you"

ATankado:
I have devise a means to answer this ready-made question from ladies. When she insist, I tell her that I have a friend in their area and when I saw her I couldn't talk to her because I was in a haste, so I told my friend to help me get her contact... It was that my friend that send me the contact. But I don't know how he got it though.

The next question would be: who is that your friend?
Me: Do you know all the people in your area?
Her: Just tell me.
Me: Formulate name, his name is Mr. X.
Her: I don't know that name, describe him?
Me: Give vague description.
Her: Uhum! So what do you want?
Conversation don start be that o.

Bad guy

Mofpearl:
Just be honest. State where you the number from and most importantly, why you got it.

Some girls will shout wrong number..... and hangup

africanman85:
Some girls will shout wrong number..... and hangup

Don't just know why i like meeting girls through someone. Very easy to follow up...

Lots of Naija guys do not know simple phone etiquette. The first thing to do when talking with someone is introduce yourself and say how you got the contact.

If you don't answer that question, I won't block you, just ignore you till you block yourself. Any mature guy with a good head on his shoulders and something going on for him won't have a problem answering that question.

How about, "My name is Gbenga, I work with Shell, my colleague Ola gave me your number. I presume you know him?"

If Ola is a good referee, she will pick up immediately!!!

Mchew..



Like their number is gold or something..

ATankado:
I have devise a means to answer this ready-made question from ladies. When she insist, I tell her that I have a friend in their area and when I saw her I couldn't talk to her because I was in a haste, so I told my friend to help me get her contact... It was that my friend that send me the contact. But I don't know how he got it though.

The next question would be: who is that your friend?
Me: Do you know all the people in your area?
Her: Just tell me.
Me: Formulate name, his name is Mr. X.
Her: I don't know that name, describe him?
Me: Give vague description.
Her: Uhum! So what do you want?
Conversation don start be that o.

bad guy... sense won't kill you �

anigbajumo:


U gat it bro,av been using this for so long but wait, these ladies ar here viewing guys format.......

Changes nothing.

you dreamt of the number ni. shikena... just as some people say dem dey dream pool number

LeiderJa:
Smooth!

Bad guy

LeiderJa:
Smooth!

Bad guy, that's how we roll

Chai....Prof! I hail thee

There is no trick or sure way to this.
A lot of girls ask this as a test of your intelligence/ story telling/ skill of spontaneity.
There are different ways to answer, from telling the truth, a joke, to making up a random interesting story. Only she holds the key to acceptance or rejection afterward.
You can try your best skill as an answer and fail woefully while with another girl you try your worst technique and she’ll accept it.
I miss my phone call days though. Naija girls are not worth the effort anymore.

pocohantas:
Lots of Naija guys do not know simple phone etiquette. The first thing to do when talking with someone is introduce yourself and say how you got the contact.

If you don't answer that question, I won't block you, just ignore you till you block yourself. Any mature guy with a good head on his shoulders and something going on for him won't have a problem answering that question.

How about, "My name is Gbenga, I work with Shell, my colleague Ola gave me your number. I presume you know him?"

If Ola is a good referee, she will pick up immediately!!!

Any guy who tries this will get blocked immediately. LOL.

morningstar55:
Only boys collects a girl's contact without her consent...Did that in 2010 but i told the friend to let her know that someone needs her number..she said ok..

When you guys become men...you'll understand berra

this is exactly how I roll.......

bettercreature:
Classy ladies won't continue the conversation until they know where you got the number from
Just tell the truth you don't have to lie

Those you refers as classy ladies are the easiest to deceive.

meobizy:

Any guy who tries this will get blocked immediately. LOL.

Lies. Only kids call a girl who doesn't know them and start playing upandan. Leave that for university boys, that share girls number in Hostel A. When you become a man, drop some kind nonsense.

Introduce yourself, state where you got her number, ask if it is a good time to talk. Someone like me, once you start those nonsense talk of I got your number from the air...Angel Gabriel gave it to me, you lose me immediately. It just shows you are not confident in yourself and whoever referred me to you. When you are confident in yourself, introducing yourself becomes a hobby. You love it and the effect it has on people.

Can you imagine Dangote playing such silly games? Does he have so much time on his hands?

pocohantas:
Lots of Naija guys do not know simple phone etiquette. The first thing to do when talking with someone is introduce yourself and say how you got the contact.

If you don't answer that question, I won't block you, just ignore you till you block yourself. Any mature guy with a good head on his shoulders and something going on for him won't have a problem answering that question.

How about, "My name is Gbenga, I work with Shell, my colleague Ola gave me your number. I presume you know him?"

If Ola is a good referee, she will pick up immediately!!!

what if Ola is her ex or close friend? would she not turn him down or cut it off hearing that.?

Sometimes i think it feels good to lie...

Oreofepeters:
what if Ola is her ex or close friend? would she not turn him down or cut it off hearing that.?

Sometimes i think it feels good to lie...

Why should my ex refer me to his friend? To keep the pussy in the brotherhood or what? Why didn't he marry me? If Ola is my close friend, perfect!!!

There are friends that will introduce me to their friends and because of how responsible he is, I believe he wants the best for me.

Lying doesn't work for me, because I won't even give him audience. So, he can keep his lies for those girls in Year1. While I look for confident men to roll with, no time at all...

wow.... so much hate in the air today ...boko shoting in maduguri,el rufia and peter obi taking shots at each other in the name of race , nairalander are not even take shot at the government but watin to abuse his next outspoken kindred...please all should know that im black not becus of my colour but becus of my thoughts and enviroment other than dat im just another human so please let not get too rational juring this festive period ...'love for one is love for all....



oba kha to kpaee....ise



*im protected by olokun* amen

ladiesreject:
I'll tell her where I got it from now.

Will she beat me? The worst she can do is blacklist my number.

PS
There's nothing I hate like getting a girl's contact from someone other than her. I'll collect the number myself, to avoid stupid questions like this.

This is what I do… I hate get girls number � from somebody... better till I go get it from her, but cool

ladiesreject:
I'll tell her where I got it from now.

Will she beat me? The worst she can do is blacklist my number.

PS
There's nothing I hate like getting a girl's contact from someone other than her. I'll collect the number myself, to avoid stupid questions like this.

I think you are right… I hate getting girls from somebody…better till I go get it from her. dat cool

SlayQueenSlayer:


This is a Nigerian forum. Don't be a low self esteem American wannabe.

Imagine being a Nigerian. I cannot fathom it. Then add low self esteem to that. Must be hell.

You dey fear her?


Tell her the truth jare.


Or Is it a crime to get her number from her father?

pocohantas:
Lots of Naija guys do not know simple phone etiquette. The first thing to do when talking with someone is introduce yourself and say how you got the contact.

If you don't answer that question, I won't block you, just ignore you till you block yourself. Any mature guy with a good head on his shoulders and something going on for him won't have a problem answering that question.

How about, "My name is Gbenga, I work with Shell, my colleague Ola gave me your number. I presume you know him?"

If Ola is a good referee, she will pick up immediately!!!

Nice. You sound interesting..
And I‘m kind of suprised on why you chose shell as an example

stealthtiger:


Nice. You sound interesting..
And I‘m kind of suprised on why you chose shell as an example

Lol, I think this is a "broke guy", "fuckboiz" "timid", "juvenile" guys problem. You think Gbenga in Shell will have time to spend 5mins telling babe he got her number from "SOMEONE" in her area? When his place of work and charisma is enough to open doors or when Ola is one responsible dude in EY?

As boys become men and men become more accomplished, they stop having much time for some kind bullshit. Bullshit like this...

Thanks for the nice words .

pocohantas:


Lol, I think this is a "broke guy", "fuckboiz" "timid", "juvenile" guys problem. You think Gbenga in Shell will have time to spend 5mins telling babe he got her number from "SOMEONE" in her area? When his place of work and charisma is enough to open doors or when Ola is one responsible dude in EY?

As boys become men and men become more accomplished, they stop having much time for some kind bullshit. Bullshit like this...

Thanks for the nice words .

Spot on. I think charisma trumps all. It gives that spirit of boldly presenting yourself appropriately as a person with self confidence irrespective of how you got the contact.

So, I agree with you, Pocahontas.


And yeah, that‘s alright.

.

pocohantas:


Lol, I think this is a "broke guy", "fuckboiz" "timid", "juvenile" guys problem. You think Gbenga in Shell will have time to spend 5mins telling babe he got her number from "SOMEONE" in her area? When his place of work and charisma is enough to open doors or when Ola is one responsible dude in EY?

As boys become men and men become more accomplished, they stop having much time for some kind bullshit. Bullshit like this...

Thanks for the nice words .

So, you no sabi how holy spirit take de work. Dem give me your phone number as I de fire prayer. . . Na to holla you come remain now. Make you tell me the appropriate time to holla you.

All this grammar and lies in other to tear her pants abi, Una dey try sha.