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Re: I Need Advice!my Girlfriend Is A Goldigger by kiahrt: 3:53pm On Nov 11, 2018
Saff:
Love? Is love real? Men cannot offer emotional security, they can’t offer us peace of mind. They can’t offer us orgasms or sexual pleasure. They can’t offer us domestic benefits. Nothing. The only thing that most of you offer us is the chicken change you call money and you still complain on top of that? Kaaaaaii you men are pitiful, nothing to write home about. Failures to your gender.

Hmmm.....wrong mentality about relationship.
Re: I Need Advice!my Girlfriend Is A Goldigger by Oreofepeters: 3:55pm On Nov 11, 2018
you are the greatest mumu for entire Nigeria I swear..
don't you know, nothing can satisfy a leech?..

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Re: I Need Advice!my Girlfriend Is A Goldigger by highqueen(f): 3:59pm On Nov 11, 2018
MariaLavina:
I understand.... you will change someday, not necessarily on frequent basis but you will go out more.

PROSPECTIVE... that's a very long word. I will tell him an online match maker says 'Hello' .
Hahahaha. Good geh grin I will change someday.
Yeah, please tell him. tongue grin

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Re: I Need Advice!my Girlfriend Is A Goldigger by Nobody: 4:03pm On Nov 11, 2018
highqueen:
Hahahaha. Good geh grin I will change someday. Yeah, please tell him. tongue grin
grin you won't kill me with laughter.

Someone is countering your thread. I gave you a mention already grin
Re: I Need Advice!my Girlfriend Is A Goldigger by Nobody: 4:03pm On Nov 11, 2018
highqueen:
Hahahaha. Good geh grin I will change someday. Yeah, please tell him. tongue grin
grin you won't kill me with laughter.

Someone is countering your thread. I gave you a mention already grin
Re: I Need Advice!my Girlfriend Is A Goldigger by Rextizzle(m): 4:03pm On Nov 11, 2018
TonyeBarcanista:

May God help us.

Actually, I don't know how they get this ideology that men can't do without sex.

A personal experience:

When I moved in to my new apartment in August, there is this neighbor next to my flat. She started famzing and stuff, we had sex same day (that was enough for me and it came FREE). However, she kept disturbing me with WhatsApp messages of her private and calls, I ignored for long but I had to give her stern warning to stay off me as I don't have time for such (I think she thought I'll appreciate more sex). To me, the one night fun was enough... And that's it! I even value my PlayStation3 and green bottle more than sex. What I value the most is FOOD and FAMILY, I can't live without both not sex.

Our Naija girls should understand that sex isn't a priority to most men contrary to what the media project. And life doesn't revolve around sex!

Meanwhile, use of vulgar languages to make known your point should be relegated please...
They think all men are sex addict because what they can only offer is sex and sex, nothing tangible. expectially some Nigerian girls, very worthless and useless. this irks me to be honest.

I despise ladies who think all what they can offer is that hole in between their legs, that girl was saying men can't do without sex, what about the women? if you check some women bags you will find dildos, most of these confused beings pretend they don't like sex, but they love it more than anything, they aren't just bold like we men, most of them masturbáte alot. but they will never admit it, they finger their punny whenever no one is around.


Women are pretentious and confused in nature, that was how one was showing me greenlights, she always come to my apartment because we are neighbors, she stays with her aunt. anytime she comes she put on skimpy clothes or revealing ones, showing everything and thinks she can tempt me to fvck her, I was just laughing in my mind.

I Know if I do that, I will be in problem. and she will never leave me, I will get trapped. but I decided using my brain instead of my dick to reason.

Right now she doesn't come to my apartment because I did her medicine, I got close to her enermy, they were former friends,i even brought her to my apartment and when she saw her with me her face changed, hahaha. I was like good riddance, I'm finally free from that Jezebel, all thanks to one of my good neighbor who helped me after telling him everything, he actually know everything about her, her friends and everything. grin

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Re: I Need Advice!my Girlfriend Is A Goldigger by Nobody: 4:06pm On Nov 11, 2018
Bloooody:

Women are nothing without men, Why do you think they wanna get married so desperately?
Happy birthday dude,but remove dat desperate, dats where most of u guys go wrong nowadays...Not all women are desperate abt marriage
Re: I Need Advice!my Girlfriend Is A Goldigger by highqueen(f): 4:08pm On Nov 11, 2018
MariaLavina:
grin you won't kill me with laughter.


Someone is countering your thread. I gave you a mention already grin
Lol, nne, I saw it.
I pray it makes fp, cos that a the obvious reason for the thread. grin
Re: I Need Advice!my Girlfriend Is A Goldigger by TonyeBarcanista(m): 4:09pm On Nov 11, 2018
Rextizzle:
They think all men are sex addict because what they can only offer is sex and sex, nothing tangible. expectially some Nigerian girls, very worthless and useless. this irks me to be honest.

I despise ladies who think all what they can offer is that hole in between their legs, that girl was saying men can't do without sex, what about the women? if you check some women bags you will find dildos, most of these confused beings pretend they don't like sex, but they love it more than anything, they aren't just bold like we men, most of them masturbáte alot. but they will never admit it, they finger their punny whenever no one is around.


Women are pretentious and confused in nature, that was how one was showing me greenlights, she always come to my apartment because we are neighbors, she stays with her aunt. anytime she comes she put on skimpy clothes or revealing ones, showing everything and thinks she can tempt me to fvck her, I was just laughing in my mind.

I Know if I do that, I will be in problem. and she will never leave me, I will get trapped. but I decided using my brain instead of my dick to reason.

Right now she doesn't come to my apartment because I did her medicine, I got close to her enermy, they were former friends,i even brought her to my apartment and when she saw her with me her face changed, hahaha. I was like good riddance, I'm finally free from that Jezebel, all thanks to one of my good neighbor who helped me after telling him everything, he actually know everything about her, her friends and everything. grin



You even get time sef.

If na me I'll just act like you don't exist! Nobody go tell you to do the needful!

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Re: I Need Advice!my Girlfriend Is A Goldigger by Nobody: 4:11pm On Nov 11, 2018
highqueen:

Lol, nne, I saw it.
I pray it makes fp, cos that a the obvious reason for the thread. grin
All mods have been summoned grin . Not too intelligent ones are bouncing up and already.



Lemme go to the thread now, I've been here for too long grin
Re: I Need Advice!my Girlfriend Is A Goldigger by Nobody: 4:11pm On Nov 11, 2018
highqueen:

Lol, nne, I saw it.
I pray it makes fp, cos that a the obvious reason for the thread. grin
All mods have been summoned grin . Not too intelligent ones are bouncing up and down already.



Lemme go to the thread now, I've been here for too long grin

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Re: I Need Advice!my Girlfriend Is A Goldigger by Oreofepeters: 4:13pm On Nov 11, 2018
these guys in this thread ought to respect themselves instead of giving this lesbian attention......

ignore her and see how she wallow in frustration and depression....
Re: I Need Advice!my Girlfriend Is A Goldigger by Donjazzy12(m): 4:18pm On Nov 11, 2018
Lemskey:
I ve this girlfriend of two years and I ve been very faithful to her.I always provide all that she needs,even for members of her family sometimes.We have been very intimate with each other.Though I realised that she has been very demanding such as requesting for the latest iphones which at various times I have bought three brands of iphones for her;6s+,8+ and x which she uses presently.Rather than cook,she prefers to sit out eating barbecue, drinking and lot of fast food products.She loves expensive clothings jewelries, bags shoes and so on.I ve spent so much on her running into millions just b'cos I love her and do not want to loose her to another man if I don't provide her lavish needs.Despite her extravagant lifestyle,I ve been spending more and more and even in various debts b'cos of her as if am under a spell.What then blew my mind recently,despite my provisions for her is that she has been sleeping with another man for a while now.She has begged for forgiveness and I am still with her but I still feel d pain every day of my life that I see her to know that she could sleep with another man despite my efforts to satisfy her and make her happy. And am still with her,even still spending on her b'cos I love her,but I feel she does not love me,but the gains of the relationship. However she has claimed several times that she loves me but I doubt her claim. The truth is that I love her & don't want to loose her to another man,but at d same time still can't forget that she cheated on me.Pls,what can I do?
Some men of nowadays are indeed fools!

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Re: I Need Advice!my Girlfriend Is A Goldigger by ArticleBeast: 4:26pm On Nov 11, 2018
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Re: I Need Advice!my Girlfriend Is A Goldigger by bizzibodi18: 4:30pm On Nov 11, 2018
Saff:
I really do not take what most of you men say serious, because you’re all living contradictions. I watch your actions, and most of you are sex acrazed perverts, especially Nigerian men. You would risk your whole life for a few minutes of pleasure, So unfortunately I can’t relate to what you’re saying.

I really didn't need you to. You that sits in the comfort of your room and knows how 'all' men act, think and crave for sex especially the Nigerians among them. They all are sinners while you remain a saint? Shows too much about you without you getting to say it.....
Re: I Need Advice!my Girlfriend Is A Goldigger by franklingud(m): 4:36pm On Nov 11, 2018
Well, let me conclude on thus subject matter.

First of all, OP I don't know you personally but I will make my opinion short. You should have simply ended the relationship with her a very long time ago. A leech can never be satisfied.

Secondly, this goes to SAFF and the rest of them guys here. Some guys can really be stupid when it comes to sex. Yes! You heard me right.
Some guys can go as far as begging for sex,can you believe that? A nairalander posted here about begging for sex.
And they can spend any amount on a lady just to be with her. shocked
Then she takes advantage of him and be wasting his hard-earned money anyhow.
SAFF saying all she said might be because she has experienced a mugu that has spent a lot on her just to keep her.
So you can't really blame her.

Some guys can stay without sex, some can't.
All man for himself.

But finally, RELATIONSHIPS shouldn't be based on money and sex only.
Love should be the bedrock of every relationship.
Re: I Need Advice!my Girlfriend Is A Goldigger by Allaboutkatiee(f): 4:38pm On Nov 11, 2018
Lemskey:
I ve this girlfriend of two years and I ve been very faithful to her.I always provide all that she needs,even for members of her family sometimes.We have been very intimate with each other.Though I realised that she has been very demanding such as requesting for the latest iphones which at various times I have bought three brands of iphones for her;6s+,8+ and x which she uses presently.Rather than cook,she prefers to sit out eating barbecue, drinking and lot of fast food products.She loves expensive clothings jewelries, bags shoes and so on.I ve spent so much on her running into millions just b'cos I love her and do not want to loose her to another man if I don't provide her lavish needs.Despite her extravagant lifestyle,I ve been spending more and more and even in various debts b'cos of her as if am under a spell.What then blew my mind recently,despite my provisions for her is that she has been sleeping with another man for a while now.She has begged for forgiveness and I am still with her but I still feel d pain every day of my life that I see her to know that she could sleep with another man despite my efforts to satisfy her and make her happy. And am still with her,even still spending on her b'cos I love her,but I feel she does not love me,but the gains of the relationship. However she has claimed several times that she loves me but I doubt her claim. The truth is that I love her & don't want to loose her to another man,but at d same time still can't forget that she cheated on me.Pls,what can I do?
Op you are doing the right thing by spending on her
She would help you manage your finances well
And you can still forgive for cheating
No biggie therr wink
Re: I Need Advice!my Girlfriend Is A Goldigger by MannieA(f): 4:39pm On Nov 11, 2018
Lemskey:
I ve this girlfriend of two years and I ve been very faithful to her.I always provide all that she needs,even for members of her family sometimes.We have been very intimate with each other.Though I realised that she has been very demanding such as requesting for the latest iphones which at various times I have bought three brands of iphones for her;6s+,8+ and x which she uses presently.Rather than cook,she prefers to sit out eating barbecue, drinking and lot of fast food products.She loves expensive clothings jewelries, bags shoes and so on.I ve spent so much on her running into millions just b'cos I love her and do not want to loose her to another man if I don't provide her lavish needs.Despite her extravagant lifestyle,I ve been spending more and more and even in various debts b'cos of her as if am under a spell.What then blew my mind recently,despite my provisions for her is that she has been sleeping with another man for a while now.She has begged for forgiveness and I am still with her but I still feel d pain every day of my life that I see her to know that she could sleep with another man despite my efforts to satisfy her and make her happy. And am still with her,even still spending on her b'cos I love her,but I feel she does not love me,but the gains of the relationship. However she has claimed several times that she loves me but I doubt her claim. The truth is that I love her & don't want to loose her to another man,but at d same time still can't forget that she cheated on me.Pls,what can I do?






this Is not joro's blog where you bring stupid stories tho.... what do u want us to tell you... since you cannot see DAT she doesn't love you continue being blinded.... you are loving a girl DAT isn't reciprocating it back....she's not content with what she has....and u still want to carry on... she's obviously sleeping with other pple and u might not even know.....don't go broke tryna plz a girl who is not worth it....she's obviously not worth it....find a better girl..who will respect and appreciate you.. and who will be worth spending on....guyz spend too much on the wrong women... and treat the good ones like trash.... wat a pity!!
Re: I Need Advice!my Girlfriend Is A Goldigger by MannieA(f): 4:42pm On Nov 11, 2018
Allaboutkatiee:

Op you are doing the right thing by spending on her
She would help you manage your finances well
And you can still forgive for cheating
No biggie therr wink





are u sure you read the story ......there is no big deal for somebody he loves and provides for and she's still acting dumb!!!pls...excuse me...if you were him...would you be happy!!?? chiiiii..ewww
Re: I Need Advice!my Girlfriend Is A Goldigger by MannieA(f): 4:47pm On Nov 11, 2018
Ayomathy01:
1.guys can cook now or better still we go to an eatery
2.sex..... We masturbate, sex doll we can substitute those for girls
3. We adopt kids or better still artificial insemination...
So Las Las where them girls @



abeg....wat are u saying ni?....no gender is better without the other....they both need each other..... God is a wise man for creating two genders.... u can't counter him
Re: I Need Advice!my Girlfriend Is A Goldigger by CAPSLOCKED: 4:58pm On Nov 11, 2018
IF YOU EVER FEEL FOOLISH..... READ THIS POST I QUOTED BELOW. YOU'LL REALIZE THAT YOU'RE NOT THE WORST.


Lemskey:
I ve this girlfriend of two years and I ve been very faithful to her.I always provide all that she needs,even for members of her family sometimes.We have been very intimate with each other.Though I realised that she has been very demanding such as requesting for the latest iphones which at various times I have bought three brands of iphones for her;6s+,8+ and x which she uses presently.Rather than cook,she prefers to sit out eating barbecue, drinking and lot of fast food products.She loves expensive clothings jewelries, bags shoes and so on.I ve spent so much on her running into millions just b'cos I love her and do not want to loose her to another man if I don't provide her lavish needs.Despite her extravagant lifestyle,I ve been spending more and more and even in various debts b'cos of her as if am under a spell.What then blew my mind recently,despite my provisions for her is that she has been sleeping with another man for a while now.She has begged for forgiveness and I am still with her but I still feel d pain every day of my life that I see her to know that she could sleep with another man despite my efforts to satisfy her and make her happy. And am still with her,even still spending on her b'cos I love her,but I feel she does not love me,but the gains of the relationship. However she has claimed several times that she loves me but I doubt her claim. The truth is that I love her & don't want to loose her to another man,but at d same time still can't forget that she cheated on me.
Pls,what can I do?

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Re: I Need Advice!my Girlfriend Is A Goldigger by MannieA(f): 5:15pm On Nov 11, 2018
Lemskey:

Don't mind her..They re all d same.Funny enough, they don't care how u make d money.. Be u an armed robber,drug dealer or whatever.
Their"s is to keep chopping and chopping




I hundred percent care how my man makes his money pls....don't generalize anything pls
Re: I Need Advice!my Girlfriend Is A Goldigger by MannieA(f): 5:21pm On Nov 11, 2018
Lemskey:

U ve just been unfortunate meeting d wrong guys that is why u feel they re men who can't make such provisions.It is just that these sincere guys fall into d wrong hands.And these girls who don't deserve them take advantage of their sincerity and love


it is same for the females too my dear.....some of us are not fortunate enough to meet the good ones on time... DAT doesn't mean. they won't come...delay is not denial.... don't hold on to a toxic relationship bcoz of love tho....move on...find the right person DAT deserves ur love and appreciates it
Re: I Need Advice!my Girlfriend Is A Goldigger by Urhobokwaleboy(m): 5:35pm On Nov 11, 2018
A nigga once said:your girlfriend is a gold digger which means she's with the digger while you are with the gold..ehn just take the digger from her so that she wont be able to dig for gold again...mtweeeeeee

Re: I Need Advice!my Girlfriend Is A Goldigger by DAramis: 5:38pm On Nov 11, 2018
My prayer is this :
May we never be under the spell of any woman

Amen
Re: I Need Advice!my Girlfriend Is A Goldigger by Nobody: 5:39pm On Nov 11, 2018
Maverickking1:
I swear if to say I b your friend I for don land you hot slap since. Better collect everything you bought and free the babe. She will never be satisfied.
Lol...How I won take collect those kind things back
Na lesson sha for we lover lover guys
If u dey sleep around, dem go curse u,if u decide to respect urself,dem go usu ur head..
D matter tire me
Re: I Need Advice!my Girlfriend Is A Goldigger by Nobody: 5:42pm On Nov 11, 2018
DAramis:
My prayer is this : May we never be under the spell of any woman
Amen
Amin Jesu

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Re: I Need Advice!my Girlfriend Is A Goldigger by Bloooody(m): 6:07pm On Nov 11, 2018
sherylbakky:

Happy birthday dude,but remove dat desperate, dats where most of u guys go wrong nowadays...Not all women are desperate abt marriage
Ah thanks my bro.
Emm well
Re: I Need Advice!my Girlfriend Is A Goldigger by Timekeeper: 6:21pm On Nov 11, 2018
Lemskey:
I ve this girlfriend of two years and I ve been very faithful to her.I always provide all that she needs,even for members of her family sometimes.We have been very intimate with each other.Though I realised that she has been very demanding such as requesting for the latest iphones which at various times I have bought three brands of iphones for her;6s+,8+ and x which she uses presently.Rather than cook,she prefers to sit out eating barbecue, drinking and lot of fast food products.She loves expensive clothings jewelries, bags shoes and so on.I ve spent so much on her running into millions just b'cos I love her and do not want to loose her to another man if I don't provide her lavish needs.Despite her extravagant lifestyle,I ve been spending more and more and even in various debts b'cos of her as if am under a spell.What then blew my mind recently,despite my provisions for her is that she has been sleeping with another man for a while now.She has begged for forgiveness and I am still with her but I still feel d pain every day of my life that I see her to know that she could sleep with another man despite my efforts to satisfy her and make her happy. And am still with her,even still spending on her b'cos I love her,but I feel she does not love me,but the gains of the relationship. However she has claimed several times that she loves me but I doubt her claim. The truth is that I love her & don't want to loose her to another man,but at d same time still can't forget that she cheated on me.Pls,what can I do?

Werey ni
Re: I Need Advice!my Girlfriend Is A Goldigger by Allaboutkatiee(f): 8:05pm On Nov 11, 2018
MannieA:






are u sure you read the story ......there is no big deal for somebody he loves and provides for and she's still acting dumb!!!pls...excuse me...if you were him...would you be happy!!?? chiiiii..ewww
Still no biggie therrr
Re: I Need Advice!my Girlfriend Is A Goldigger by imaeruaka: 8:35pm On Nov 11, 2018
i can't believe that Davido is better than Wizkid....this post just cleared my doubts


Check this out to see reasons why wizkid can't be compared to davido.




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Re: I Need Advice!my Girlfriend Is A Goldigger by Oyindidi(f): 9:08pm On Nov 11, 2018
funmisticqueen:
Girl wake up and smell the coffee, men do not know how to love. it is not part of their home training. If you go into a relationship expecting love and marriage, you are playing into the hands of chop and go ministries. Like men dont manipiulate women everyday.

since you are tired of being a woman, you are free to be a man
What if the op is your brother? Don't support this evil

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