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Re: Why? Why?? Why??? Ladies...Why? by Nobody: 11:02pm On Nov 12, 2018
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So its the slayqueen story you saw ode! grin
grin grin sha no go die for nothing... grin
Re: Why? Why?? Why??? Ladies...Why? by CLOUT(m): 11:06pm On Nov 12, 2018
MariaLavina:
grin grin sha no go die for nothing... grin

Slayqueens are entertaining.

Her job is to entertain me, so why should I kill myself. grin
Re: Why? Why?? Why??? Ladies...Why? by Nobody: 11:07pm On Nov 12, 2018
CuTTiieAngeL:
Continue Then.

Strip yourself of all berries, and have me do as you say.
Re: Why? Why?? Why??? Ladies...Why? by Nobody: 11:08pm On Nov 12, 2018
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Slayqueens are entertaining.

Her job is to entertain me, so why should I kill myself. grin
This thread shows your blood is boiling already nah grin
Re: Why? Why?? Why??? Ladies...Why? by Jeferious: 11:09pm On Nov 12, 2018
You're what you attract. A decent and smart young man would attract his like in the opposite sex. I am a living testimony. Slayqueen, leech, parasite...I've never experienced any of these. And I'm very near to 30 years of age, so it's not as if I'm still a kid. The only time I see this kind of girls you talk about is when I'm in naughty mode and feel like visiting a brothel.

Op, you need to do some homework on yourself. There's something you aren't doing right. For example, I've the standard of dating only those from comfortable families, since I come from one too. And I also treat my partner as my equal, though I also make it clear that I'm slightly over her. You too can apply this method in your own affairs.

Finally, don't be in a rush to get into a relationship. Patience is a virtue. With time, the right one would come. Besides, relationship na stress. Everyday I have to pick a call from a female(s) who's always professing about how she loves and want to spend her entire life with me, and also asking silly questions like if I've eaten and what I'm doing at the moment. Na me sef beg make the kind call be like once in a week. I don't even want to talk about how I've to eat well in order to refill my tank of sperm and be fully fit for "bedroom wrestling". Las las I was created by God for better purposes.

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Re: Why? Why?? Why??? Ladies...Why? by CLOUT(m): 11:14pm On Nov 12, 2018
iLegendd is here.
grin

Thanks for the tip.

Seems I'm a typical good bad guy. The first time she asked me for rent money, I asked her to send her nude in return. I was a total jerk and we ended up not talking for a while. Then we got back and I promised to travel down to her city and she's been anticipating my arrival ever since and then boom!

The robbery story came up.

Anyways, we just had a long conversation over the phone and I bluntly made her to understand why its too early for her to start making demands.

That being said, I'm not really bothered about this girl but this slayqueen that we used to chat and then started ignoring me when I asked for a date.

As a matter of fact, she eventually blocked me on I.G when I annoyed her with a snide comment about her ass.

I don't want to go into details because she's not just an average girl. She's actually a Celeb.
Re: Why? Why?? Why??? Ladies...Why? by CLOUT(m): 11:17pm On Nov 12, 2018
MariaLavina:
This thread shows your blood is boiling already nah grin

No be her matter I carry come na.

Na the girl wey wan turn me to ATM dey vex me.

The slayqueen own is just by the side. cheesy
Re: Why? Why?? Why??? Ladies...Why? by iLegendd(m): 11:29pm On Nov 12, 2018
CLOUT:
iLegendd is here.
grin

Thanks for the tip.

Seems I'm a typical good bad guy. The first time she asked me for rent money, I asked her to send her nude in return. I was a total jerk and we ended up not talking for a while. Then we got back and I promised to travel down to her city and she's been anticipating my arrival ever since and then boom!

The robbery story came up.

Anyways, we just had a long conversation over the phone and I bluntly made her to understand why its too early for her to start making demands.

That being said, I'm not really bothered about this girl but this slayqueen that we used to chat and then started ignoring me when I asked for a date.

As a matter of fact, she eventually blocked me on I.G when I annoyed her with a snide comment about her ass.

I don't want to go into details because she's not just an average girl. She's actually a Celeb. grin


You'll be great in handling women and relationships if only you settle your mind and read some posts or books by Joe Clef.

If you don't have money to buy his books, then go to wetclef.com and read some eye opening relationships posts he made...

Re: Why? Why?? Why??? Ladies...Why? by CLOUT(m): 11:32pm On Nov 12, 2018
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Bro, you're right to some extent about attracting what you are. This particular tickled my fancy when I noticed how she speaks. She also dress decent and looks averagely okay without even using makeup. She's even bespectacled and sounds really smart with a tinge of British ascent. I just don't know how she came up with the demanding syndrome and it's really bugging me.

I'm just waiting for her third attempt and I will cut her lose or just take her case with a pinch of salt.

As per the Slayqueens, you know when you want a girl just for the freaky things. That's basically what they're for and nothing more.
Re: Why? Why?? Why??? Ladies...Why? by CLOUT(m): 11:34pm On Nov 12, 2018
iLegendd:


You'll be great in handling women and relationships if only you settle your mind and read some posts or books by Joe Clef.

If you don't have money to buy his books, then go to wetclef.com and read some eye opening relationships posts he made...


Yeepa!

This is not the first time I'm reading this but I broke those rules.

Truth be told, I blew it when I asked her for a date.

Chai!

Above all, most women find it hard to resist men who have money, fame and power.

Have one or all of these and you'll have them at your beck and call.

So I guess that's the golden rule. cheesy

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Re: Why? Why?? Why??? Ladies...Why? by BecaciaBarbie(f): 3:50am On Nov 13, 2018
Where do you guys meet all these ladies for Pete's sake grin
Re: Why? Why?? Why??? Ladies...Why? by Rextizzle(m): 4:23am On Nov 13, 2018
CuTTiieAngeL:
Money in a relationship makes it sweeter, you guys make lots of mistake when you are trying to woo a lady, please come clean, tell her how much you earn and the challenges in ur work or business, if you tell her sumtin else or try to please her what do u expect? she would feel yhu have the money buh you ain't willing to spend. Relationship is more than money, true! but money bonds relationship, if you don't have the money yet, leave women, they would eat ur destiny, hustle and make it and watch them chase you.
You this girl with ur fake body
Re: Why? Why?? Why??? Ladies...Why? by CLOUT(m): 6:23am On Nov 13, 2018
BecaciaBarbie:
Where do you guys meet all these ladies for Pete's sake grin

On cyberspace just as you are...
Re: Why? Why?? Why??? Ladies...Why? by CuTTiieAngeL(f): 7:06am On Nov 13, 2018
Rextizzle:
You this girl with ur fake body
what do u mean by fake body?
Re: Why? Why?? Why??? Ladies...Why? by Rextizzle(m): 8:29am On Nov 13, 2018
CuTTiieAngeL:
what do u mean by fake body?
Your asss is padded don't lie
Re: Why? Why?? Why??? Ladies...Why? by ImaIma1(f): 10:07am On Nov 13, 2018
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What is just paining me is that a slayqueen I've been crushing on for months declined to give me her number and all of a sudden, I see her in a yahoo boys bedroom snapchat.

(doesn't mean they were having sex o... , she was in the company of other female friends but still I found her suspect but I wouldn't care since we weren't dating)

When she now gives you her number and she starts to make heavy demands, don't come and wail here that "ladies are useless".

You better go and look for one "unslayqueen" that is on your level.
Re: Why? Why?? Why??? Ladies...Why? by Nobody: 10:19am On Nov 13, 2018
CLOUT:
What advice would you give a guy who is loosing hope about being with a girl or settling down for marriage.
Like why must relationships revolve around money as far as Nigerian girls are concerned. The moment you tell the lady your intention, she automatically sees you as an ATM.

I'm just so tired and frustrated about this issue as a girl I've not even met before already started taxing me. This has happened twice already. First time, she needed to pay an emergency rent and now she claimed she was robbed and lost her phone in the process. I swear, I am just tired of all these bulshit.


Call me broke or whatever you want. Even if I had more than enough, I'm not about to spend my hard earned cash on some girl just to win her love and affection.

The worst part of it all is, I've seen and done it all and ladies these days hardly impress me. Besides procreation, I don't really see the need for a woman.

Please advice someone at the brink of women induced frustration.
u get sense so? Love is the biggest scam on earth! . U Literally want to date a Slayqueen. I pity u. I don't know how some men are so weak like this! It makes me so angry. Nigga u better wise tf up!

I'm out!

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Re: Why? Why?? Why??? Ladies...Why? by CLOUT(m): 10:48am On Nov 13, 2018
ImaIma1:


When she now gives you her number and she starts to make heavy demands, don't come and wail here that "ladies are useless".

You better go and look for one "unslayqueen" that is on your level.

She actually made public requests since she has a lot of followers, a few guys might fall for the scam. grin

Requests like " I want ice cream" bla! bla!! bla!!!

I guess she was testing the waters to see if I'd fall for it but I never budged.

As for the unslayqueen who is on my level, I may never find any as long as she still suffers from the demanding syndrome.

I'd only love and respect a woman who makes her own money independently.

She can count on my live and support. My money will only come by the side.

I see no difference between the slayqueens and the 'unslayqueens' as you put it. As long as they're demanding, they are one and the same.
Re: Why? Why?? Why??? Ladies...Why? by Jacktheripper: 11:07am On Nov 13, 2018
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Madam , speak for yourself o!

Who wouldn't jump at the opportunity when awoof cash is been waded or thrown at you.

I only respect ladies who have something going in their career or business and there's nothing bad if they spend to look good.

Then you can slay all you want but when you start slaying with a guys hard earned money, that's where the problem is.




Guy refund my money. You be first class scammer.
Re: Why? Why?? Why??? Ladies...Why? by BecaciaBarbie(f): 11:08am On Nov 13, 2018
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On cyberspace just as you are...
Lol well I wouldn't blame some of these ladies, after all what do men know aside sex and maybe money grin
Re: Why? Why?? Why??? Ladies...Why? by CLOUT(m): 11:15am On Nov 13, 2018
Jacktheripper:



Guy refund my money. You be first class scammer.
Guy i will send your stuff later today. grin
Re: Why? Why?? Why??? Ladies...Why? by CLOUT(m): 11:15am On Nov 13, 2018
Jacktheripper:




Guy refund my money. You be first class scammer.

Guy chill, i will send your stuff later today. grin
Re: Why? Why?? Why??? Ladies...Why? by ImaIma1(f): 1:40pm On Nov 13, 2018
CLOUT:


She actually made public requests since she has a lot of followers, a few guys might fall for the scam. grin

Requests like " I want ice cream" bla! bla!! bla!!!

I guess she was testing the waters to see if I'd fall for it but I never budged.

As for the unslayqueen who is on my level, I may never find any as long as she still suffers from the demanding syndrome.

I'd only love and respect a woman who makes her own money independently.

She can count on my live and support. My money will only come by the side.

I see no difference between the slayqueens and the 'unslayqueens' as you put it. As long as they're demanding, they are one and the same.



Not every lady likes to depend on men for their living. There are so many ladies that are responsible and level headed but you might not find them on Snapchat.
Re: Why? Why?? Why??? Ladies...Why? by CLOUT(m): 2:26pm On Nov 13, 2018
ImaIma1:


Not every lady likes to depend on men for their living. There are so many ladies that are responsible and level headed but you might not find them on Snapchat.

That's the mistake most of them make. They're so head over heals in love with their jobs, career or business and forget to put themselves or there.

Most times, they feel they don't need a man since they can provide what they need for themselves.
Re: Why? Why?? Why??? Ladies...Why? by ImaIma1(f): 2:42pm On Nov 13, 2018
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That's the mistake most of them make. They're so head over heals in love with their jobs, career or business and forget to put themselves or there.

Most times, they feel they don't need a man since they can provide what they need for themselves.


No. It is not a mistake. There are other real life platforms where people meet each other. And not where it is all about displaying oneself unnecessarily.

Is it now a crime for a lady to have a career or work hard? Are there not people on the roads and in the offices? It doesn't have to be on an online platform.

My close friend met her husband in the elevator of their office building. It is not all about Snapchat, insta,etc where people tend to be unreal and project only the best things and features they want you to see.
Re: Why? Why?? Why??? Ladies...Why? by CLOUT(m): 2:51pm On Nov 13, 2018
Mind you, you can meet your future partner anywhere from the a club to reception, restaurant, shopping mall or even a flight.

Just that people of this age rely heavily on social media for a lot of things from dating to shopping and even food.

So a lady who puts her self out there has a chance of getting more suitors and making friends.
@ ImaIma1
Re: Why? Why?? Why??? Ladies...Why? by Nobody: 4:57pm On Nov 13, 2018
CLOUT:
What advice would you give a guy who is loosing hope about being with a girl or settling down for marriage.
Like why must relationships revolve around money as far as Nigerian girls are concerned. The moment you tell the lady your intention, she automatically sees you as an ATM.

I'm just so tired and frustrated about this issue as a girl I've not even met before already started taxing me. This has happened twice already. First time, she needed to pay an emergency rent and now she claimed she was robbed and lost her phone in the process. I swear, I am just tired of all these bulshit.


Call me broke or whatever you want. Even if I had more than enough, I'm not about to spend my hard earned cash on some girl just to win her love and affection.

The worst part of it all is, I've seen and done it all and ladies these days hardly impress me. Besides procreation, I don't really see the need for a woman.

Please advice someone at the brink of women induced frustration.
Answer:
Simply POVERTY soaked in Soup
Re: Why? Why?? Why??? Ladies...Why? by citadels(f): 6:35pm On Nov 13, 2018
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Thank you CuttieAngel...

Yours is a great advice.

Honestly, I decided to stay single since my last relationship ended 2 years ago and tbh! That relationship was built on lies and I couldn't sustain her incessant demands.

I basically hustle just to make enough money to live the good life, travel on vacations, drive my dream car, look good e.t.c.

Love and affection from women is so down below on my scale of preference. I'm good looking already and I easily get the attention from ladies . I'm not just the type who craves it. I don't even wanna be chased or bothered by women.

Sex doesn't even freak me anymore. I'd prefer a lady who is focussed, has her own ambition and above all take good care of herself.

All these things doesn't require so much money does it?

That isn't too much to ask for.
what do u talk about a lady who don't care about guys money yet they termed her desperate. Men re complicated sef.
Re: Why? Why?? Why??? Ladies...Why? by citadels(f): 6:37pm On Nov 13, 2018
I advice u u should look not on physical appearance but inner beauty. U guys want perfect figure 8 na wetin they kill una.
Re: Why? Why?? Why??? Ladies...Why? by Nobody: 6:56pm On Nov 13, 2018
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What is just paining me is that a slayqueen I've been crushing on for months declined to give me her number and all of a sudden, I see her in a yahoo boys bedroom snapchat.

(doesn't mean they were having sex o... , she was in the company of other female friends but still I found her suspect but I wouldn't care since we weren't dating)

Leave slay queen alone all they think about is fashion and turn-up (clubs, eatery, party). They usuall look beautiful unfortunately that's all they got to offer but bro their head are empty. Leave them for the yahoo boys. Stop looking at big butt and boobs, flawless skin you will be mislead. Is like a girl dating a guy because he's rich.
Re: Why? Why?? Why??? Ladies...Why? by CuTTiieAngeL(f): 7:47pm On Nov 13, 2018
Rextizzle:
Your asss is padded don't lie
lol. padded indeed
Re: Why? Why?? Why??? Ladies...Why? by crunchyg: 7:59pm On Nov 13, 2018
CuTTiieAngeL:
Money in a relationship makes it sweeter, you guys make lots of mistake when you are trying to woo a lady, please come clean, tell her how much you earn and the challenges in ur work or business, if you tell her sumtin else or try to please her what do u expect? she would feel yhu have the money buh you ain't willing to spend. Relationship is more than money, true! but money bonds relationship, if you don't have the money yet, leave women, they would eat ur destiny, hustle and make it and watch them chase you.
One of the sensible girls I love in nairaland

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