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Liliyann:
Message not understood!!
Love issa scam,those in it, are doing it for their selfish gains!!
I don't believe in it

Once you found true love, you'll understand it really exist. Actually, I understand that love brings lots of heartbreaks, that's why I prefer friendship to love too.
Thank God I've found true love. Hope you find yours.

3Dee:
Women only attach emotions to someone they admire a trait in.
initially they might not be emotionally attached but the more time they spend with a guy, the more they admire something about him.
E. g a guy that keeps going to a particular prostitutes and always treating her right-like giving her her stated amount, buying gifts for her, etc. Over time, the prostitute will develop emotions and wouldn't want the guy to meet another prostitute. At the end of the day, the prostitute might change her ways and try to be with the guy permanently.
Guys too have emotions but will that will discussed another day.

Or the said mentioned prostitute would have realised that the guy is an opportunity for her to make more money and as you know women in that particular industry become less markatable with age. So for her this guy serves many purposes and emotions have nothing to do with it?
How about that perspective?

MissRaine69:
Or the said mentioned prostitute would have realised that the guy is an opportunity for her to make more money and as you know women in that particular industry become less markatable with age. So for her this guy serves many purposes and emotions have nothing to do with it?
How about that perspective?

You're very correct.
It's just that our society make it hard for ladies to express themselves sexually. For example, a lady won't want to be too open to tell you she needs a no strings attached relationship because of the backlash of names calling that comes with it.
It happens on nairaland all the time, guys are too quick to label ladies prostitutes.

3Dee:
You're very correct.
It's just that our society make it hard for ladies to express themselves sexually. For example, a lady won't want to be too open to tell you she needs a no strings attached relationship because of the backlash of names calling that comes with it.
It happens on nairaland all the time, guys are too quick to label ladies prostitutes.

You get plenty of that name calling here for merely expressing an opinion from strangers at that
Society will always be hypocritical be it Western or African. Nigerian society has quadruple standards. Women will always have to abide to a different set of rules compared to men. This is why there is so much covert behaviour.

MissRaine69:
You get plenty of that name calling here for merely expressing an opinion from strangers at that
Society will always be hypocritical be it Western or African. Nigerian society has quadruple standards. Women will always have to abide to a different set of rules compared to men. This is why there is so much covert behaviour.

This is why there is a hidden bitterness brewing in women, some times I feel this bitterness is what created the monster in the 3rd wave feminist movement, a monster I believe created by men.

The day I understood that men and women are not so different, I began to understand why things are the way things are.
I mean what does a man like that a woman doesn't?

Hypocrisy is sin men are the champion of.
I speak for my self though, I don't expect the egotistic maniacs to agree with me.

MissRaine69:
struggle to tell the difference? And why are women who do want no strings attached sex frowned upon?

do you know that your post is confusing?

I have tried to read it over and over again..

MissRaine69:
1) Why do most women struggle to tell the difference between sex ( the physical act ) and love ( the emotion). Women who can tell the difference ( those that want sex with no commitment (also called no strings attached) tend to be frowned upon.

now you are talking.. Next time if more than two people complain about your statement, do something about it. don't let ego take the day...


To the question... It is the society we have found ourselves..... I like when a woman freely expresses herself and what she wants.. . It helps me to take a stand

MissRaine69:
struggle to tell the difference? And why are women who do want no strings attached sex frowned upon?

what'd you just type? Reading this is like punishment for my eyes

funmisticqueen:
quite true, the sooner women start thinking emotion free. the better for them, i am personally on that journey and it has been an eye opener

hmmmmmmm.... Just fvck and go.. Always good when the two parties agree to this

Fourwinds:
hmmmmmmm.... Just fvck and go.. Always good when the two parties agree to this

invest then maybe Bleep. not Bleep and go.

funmisticqueen:
invest then maybe Bleep. not Bleep and go.

just banging alone?

Fourwinds:
now you are talking.. Next time if more than two people complain about your statement, do something about it. don't let ego take the day...


To the question... It is the society we have found ourselves..... I like when a woman freely expresses herself and what she wants.. . It helps me to take a stand

Nothing to do with an ego
Stop being so literal ..... it’s that simple

Rawmalik:
what'd you just type? Reading this is like punishment for my eyes

Why did you not read the whole post rather than part of it? Can’t do anything about your eyes. I wish them well.

MissRaine69:
Nothing to do with an ego
Stop being so literal ..... it’s that simple

well done... You can speak in parable and explain later

pryme:
This is why there is a hidden bitterness brewing in women, some times I feel this bitterness is what created the monster in the 3rd wave feminist movement, a monster I believe created by men.

The day I understood that men and women are not so different, I began to understand why things are the way things are.
I mean what does a man like that a woman doesn't?

Hypocrisy is sin men are the champion of.
I speak for my self though, I don't expect the egotistic maniacs to agree with me.

Women ( most) will always struggle with some women who don’t fit their version of what a woman should be or say but it’s not their fault some struggle to see themselves as individuals the clone mindset runs deep.

Fourwinds:
well done... You can speak in parable and explain later

If only you could see the juxtaposition of your comment.