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Re: Sexual Harassment At Workplace - My Story by XaintJoel20: 4:20pm On Nov 14, 2018
I will be back to edit


I have gone through the story.

You did the right thing.

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Re: Sexual Harassment At Workplace - My Story by Phenotech(m): 4:21pm On Nov 14, 2018
It has always been Men harassing ladies all these while, they won't talk about this now.....
Bring on the Next Episode ASAP please

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Re: Sexual Harassment At Workplace - My Story by mikaelangelov: 4:21pm On Nov 14, 2018
guy please help with her number

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Re: Sexual Harassment At Workplace - My Story by Abalado(f): 4:23pm On Nov 14, 2018
Jennifer's diary part 2,season 800

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Re: Sexual Harassment At Workplace - My Story by arabbunkum: 4:23pm On Nov 14, 2018
You are being too careful. ...loosen up a bit.

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Re: Sexual Harassment At Workplace - My Story by Lucifer66(m): 4:24pm On Nov 14, 2018
TheGreenLand:


Not everyone is like you guys, that cannot be disciplined to keep your little John Thomas in your trouser!
Shameless peeps!
In a nation where there is no job and am being offered 330k to Fvck her for 5 mins, I would do it for an hour!
You're the one who is shameless!

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Re: Sexual Harassment At Workplace - My Story by Gptins(m): 4:26pm On Nov 14, 2018
Seen something similar... But if u toe that line know the long run it will walk against u... U could resign and walk away if u don't wanna play along... Be mature about it cos many people may not believe ur side of the story

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Re: Sexual Harassment At Workplace - My Story by Jagaban880: 4:26pm On Nov 14, 2018
funny comments everywher..... cheesy cheesy
Re: Sexual Harassment At Workplace - My Story by Smile4daddy(m): 4:27pm On Nov 14, 2018
Opportunity to register your name on her Puxxy

You just missed it cry

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Re: Sexual Harassment At Workplace - My Story by Nobody: 4:27pm On Nov 14, 2018
Pls don't put her and her family to shame.
Just report the case so it'd be recorded.
Re: Sexual Harassment At Workplace - My Story by 20sirkel05: 4:29pm On Nov 14, 2018
You didn't give an idea why you took the action you took. But all the same, keep us posted.
Re: Sexual Harassment At Workplace - My Story by Wizdeen(m): 4:36pm On Nov 14, 2018
blah,blah,blah,wale adenuga production, super story.NICE ONE OP

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Re: Sexual Harassment At Workplace - My Story by Nobody: 4:46pm On Nov 14, 2018
And some disgusting humans here are already dismissing his story. Idiots!
Re: Sexual Harassment At Workplace - My Story by Brightgem(f): 4:47pm On Nov 14, 2018
TheGreenLand:


Not everyone is like you guys, that cannot be disciplined to keep your little John Thomas in your trouser!
Shameless peeps!
Haaahaahaha! Good to know some guys are disciplined! This sounds like a story! But man or woman should not sexually harass the other! This one even using it as blackmail, threat! Pay him his money! Shameless woman. More people should start learning when to utilize their phones to capture activities like this! Don't carry big phone and no sense!
Re: Sexual Harassment At Workplace - My Story by SEXYBILLIONAIRE(m): 4:48pm On Nov 14, 2018
olosho. spead the smelling pussy for your oga. you think it is easy to be an oga

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Re: Sexual Harassment At Workplace - My Story by Nobody: 4:51pm On Nov 14, 2018
story too long


who will summarize it for me?
Re: Sexual Harassment At Workplace - My Story by higgs: 4:58pm On Nov 14, 2018
Story seems fabricated

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Re: Sexual Harassment At Workplace - My Story by PenileFitness: 4:59pm On Nov 14, 2018
There is nothing like WhatsApp video.
Re: Sexual Harassment At Workplace - My Story by leksite120(m): 5:04pm On Nov 14, 2018
Bravo, u did d right thing
Re: Sexual Harassment At Workplace - My Story by aymondw: 5:05pm On Nov 14, 2018
My friend, try and settle this matter amicably. the recorded conversation can only be used to defend yourself not to attack. If not, you will not like outcome of the attack. you might lose everything. Best of luck

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Re: Sexual Harassment At Workplace - My Story by Eberechi24(f): 5:18pm On Nov 14, 2018
This is story may be fabricated But reactions from men is discouraging.
Do men support sexual harassment on men?

What happens to our collective efforts to end rape and sexual harassment in our society?

We say No to rape and sexual harassment irrespective of gender involved!!

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Re: Sexual Harassment At Workplace - My Story by Jflex07(m): 5:24pm On Nov 14, 2018
See opportunity wey some niggas dey find..This one no better pass yahoo or skull mining? Op you try if Na true you dey yarn even though I get my reservations.

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Re: Sexual Harassment At Workplace - My Story by LostMyZeal(m): 5:41pm On Nov 14, 2018
Mr Supervisor,I think you are selfish cos you didn't think about what it would do to the Woman's Family...chances are, that dem dun blacklist you for that company... especially if the woman has connection... Sometimes we must not follow due process ... Remember that; this is Naija

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Re: Sexual Harassment At Workplace - My Story by IMASTEX: 5:49pm On Nov 14, 2018
WinningEleven:
Please when is part 2 coming out?
This your story na baba
Seconded

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Re: Sexual Harassment At Workplace - My Story by sarcasticdude(m): 5:54pm On Nov 14, 2018
U leave ur 330k when Nigerian govt is still finding it hard to implement ordinary 30k minimum wage abi??

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Re: Sexual Harassment At Workplace - My Story by tonio2wo: 6:08pm On Nov 14, 2018
deturla:
I know that there are several sexual harassments between my plight and what most opposite-sex face.

I've always known my boss to be friendly and accommodating but didn't get the picture at first when Madam started giving me extra cash for t-fare, lunch hour treat and all. I thought she was being nice.

Things were going smoothly as other staffs were growing wary and getting jealous of our boss-staff relationship. But I never knew what the consequences might give birth to.

Months later, I realized I was the only one out of 12 engineers the company is still owing three months salary. Every other field engineers have been settled except me. Haha! me of all people, Madam's favourite engineer.

Days after I noticed, I confront the accountant about what's going and to my surprise, she said Madam haven't acknowledged any of my documents and she tried knowing what prompt such actions but Madam is not ready to hear her out.

Okay, if that's the case I'll ask her myself, for about two weeks, wasn't able to go office due to field work and all, traveling from one state to another.

Thought it would be convenient if I push the issue to the official WhatsApp group, after complaining and all she still didn't acknowledge any of the chats.

Then she chats me privately, saying she purposely delayed my documents that if I need her to sign those paper we need to sort things out privately.

I took it like it was normal, till she initiated a WhatsApp video the following night, on seeing her I blink off because I couldn't believe what I saw she's half naked and to my surprise she said "OH SORRY, I WAS ABOUT TO GO FOR A SHOWER" and I replied maybe after you're done ma! at that particular moment, I wasn't looking at the screen. She continued with DON'T TELL ME YOU'RE SHY. Couldn't answer any of her questions, I press the red button and ignore her video calls afterward and message her that it would be convenient if we chat.

She didn't respond to any of my chats, but keep initiating the video call, at this point I noticed she's careful of chatting. To cut the story short, I went over to her office to put the issue at rest once and for all.

She called me into the conference room, shut the door and held the key, closed the blind and switched on the AC. She started to cling towards me, and at that point, I was not bothered. At least Madam wouldn't effectively force herself on me, hurt or blackmail me. I wasn't stressed or bothered about it until it took a turn I never expected.

She leaned forward and told me how she'd love to have me and all other gibberish my brain couldn't comprehend because of the fact that I wasn't feeling the atmosphere. I was shocked and just frozen at first and then she turned from being nice to commands and threats that if I didn't oblige to her request she wouldn't sign the document and all.. 3 months effort, 330k go just fly?.

I tried to explore the circumstance precisely, played it off as though she was just pulling my legs or some sort of silly pranks. One negative word from her about me would paint me black. She's trying to utilize that as a leverage, accentuating the influence she has.

I tried enough to stay away from her closeness by expressing gratitude for all she has done and smiling inconveniently and all, but most importantly sending a NO NO signal to her request.

Regardless of what I said or did, she veered back to IT WON'T TAKE LONG, JUST 5 MINUTES AND WE'RE OUT OF HERE. Still couldn't believe what I heard.

She moved back with some threatening statement like "You don't want your job anymore shey?" I smiled it away, knowing my position at the company and that it wouldn't be appropriate. At that point, she started grilling me on why I wouldn't want a decent sensual pleasure from her coupled with other freebies I would have access to and also rubbing shoulders with the big guns in the company.

At that point, lots of positive and negative thought flooded my mind; WHAT IF THIS WHOLE SCENARIO CHANGES TO A RAPE CASE, and I know no matter what I say people won't believe my side of the story and they will react with unsurprising drivel: OLOJU KOKORO NI, OTI RI OLOWO, OLOSHI ( That I was just a gold digger, an idiot). At that point a thought just flew in, why not record this, I did and minimized my phone to the home screen.

At this point, she started to unbutton her suit and removed her earrings, my feet trembled, sweated heavily despite the AC. And all I could pray for was, I need to wake up from this nightmare and all this should be over with.

My prayers answered but this time it wasn't a nightmare but an actual reality, her phone rang, and then she picked up. After a lengthy conversation, she ended the call, hissed and said, Akin (not real name for legal reasons) we will continue this other time, but for the main time think about it. She then zoomed off.

I Couldn't believe what just happened, I rushed out before she changed her mind to come in again. I went down to my desk to pack my tools, laptop with other necessary things and went home.

I was to supervise a BTS installation the following day, I called the site FSCE that I would not resume work the next day and that he should notify the project manager, so it won't look like I didn't notify them of the development, this was after much deliberation and legal consult from my dad's lawyer.

Madam called me that night to ask why and I told her I quit since I couldn't provide what she wanted. She laughed it off saying YOU DON'T MEAN IT. and she hung up.. That was the last I heard from her.

After two days she called me that since I refused to resume work and let us settle the issue amicably then what happened between us should stay between us, but to me, it didn't stay between us, it has taken a legal turn and the issue has been reported along with the conversation I recorded.

As of now the case is still pending but heading the right way.

There's nothing good about sexual harassment. It's profoundly perplexing and frightening. In a society where people find it hard to secure a job and in another turn some trying to keep their jobs and with the alarming rate of sexual harassment, you can feel disempowered and lose your job or career. Let us learn to report any sexual harassment or abuse case to the appropriate authorities.

A concerned reader of [url=https.deedeesblog.com]Deedeesblog[/url].


Guy are u married?

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