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Re: Lady Reveals Why She And Her Husband Live In Separate Houses by Saff(f): 10:53pm On Nov 14, 2018 |
I completely understand this and if I could do this I would be extremely unhappy I’m introverted I love my own space and I can’t just imagine waking up to someone everyday and that person being in my presence constantly. Would just die of frustration 3 Likes |
Re: Lady Reveals Why She And Her Husband Live In Separate Houses by masteroguns(m): 10:54pm On Nov 14, 2018 |
That Her own bussines,Watin cocern me with did one now...person we neva eat belefull dey stay for dff house |
Re: Lady Reveals Why She And Her Husband Live In Separate Houses by ewizard1: 10:55pm On Nov 14, 2018 |
samysmoothfresh:Exactly my thoughts! 2 Likes |
Re: Lady Reveals Why She And Her Husband Live In Separate Houses by Pidginwhisper: 10:56pm On Nov 14, 2018 |
WinningEleven:She's 16 1 Like |
Re: Lady Reveals Why She And Her Husband Live In Separate Houses by Nobody: 10:57pm On Nov 14, 2018 |
This answers all I was wondering and solves my need. Same here, I do not share the same floor of the home with my wife. She's got a whole floor to herself and I have got my entire floor and the staff have their entire floor. You can almost sense the peace and quietness, she can lock me out of her floor and I can lock her out of my floor if there is dispute, that way each person behaves well when entering another person's space. But this woman own, I must do am. I need to buy a new house and leave this one and be visiting......cool for a man on my level of weirdness. 4 Likes |
Re: Lady Reveals Why She And Her Husband Live In Separate Houses by Nobody: 10:57pm On Nov 14, 2018 |
Sometimes I just need my space...be catered to for a change; I like being pampered,spoiled... this might sound a great idea to do that but definitely not with a 9j man ... sorry sisterly considering this, try this not in 9j...too many factors why this can't work if you live in Naija and married to the average Nigerian Man. This might sound fun but in reality not advisable. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Lady Reveals Why She And Her Husband Live In Separate Houses by Nobody: 11:00pm On Nov 14, 2018 |
BlaqCoffee109: It is the best, I live that way mostly. For sanity, married partners need to give each other space, a lot. 1 Like |
Re: Lady Reveals Why She And Her Husband Live In Separate Houses by Nobody: 11:00pm On Nov 14, 2018 |
[s] Saff: highqueen:[/s] as expected, frustrated beings. 3 Likes |
Re: Lady Reveals Why She And Her Husband Live In Separate Houses by Nobody: 11:01pm On Nov 14, 2018 |
The only bad thing in it is that it will make their child not bond pretty well with them. There is a great diff from a child seeing his parents together during his formative yrs than apart and with such an excuse as we want our peace. Such child will never understand the concept and may grow up with the effect. They can try having separate rooms. It's kinda cool. As long as the communication is flowing and one isn't rigid, u will enjoy your marriage even if you are in one room. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Lady Reveals Why She And Her Husband Live In Separate Houses by Saff(f): 11:02pm On Nov 14, 2018 |
That’s good to hear. I think there’s just this unrealistic expectation in marriage. Sometimes the presence of your wife/husband alone will just irritate you. Space is so important, esp if you’re introverted. humandroid: 2 Likes |
Re: Lady Reveals Why She And Her Husband Live In Separate Houses by Nobody: 11:02pm On Nov 14, 2018 |
humandroid:is this you Billyonaire? If this is you, I certainly have missed you! Sure SteveCantrell and some folks here on can attest to that...if it is you, say... |
Re: Lady Reveals Why She And Her Husband Live In Separate Houses by Exclusivebae(f): 11:03pm On Nov 14, 2018 |
Lovely. This is exactly what I want. I so much like distance marriage...... |
Re: Lady Reveals Why She And Her Husband Live In Separate Houses by highqueen(f): 11:05pm On Nov 14, 2018 |
Zsatan:Exactly. You can hardly find something to quarrel with. I don't support staying in a separate house, but the one of separate room is so cool. In a time when you need a vacation, you can actualize that by going with husby or alone. The thing is just for the two couples to trust each other. 1 Like |
Re: Lady Reveals Why She And Her Husband Live In Separate Houses by Nobody: 11:09pm On Nov 14, 2018 |
humandroid:yeah, you right on that one...it can work to some extent to the overall discipline and commitment of both partner, ideally. But this is Naija mehn and the only thing you got going on for you why the space thingy works is because you both share the same building...not mid Town apart. |
Re: Lady Reveals Why She And Her Husband Live In Separate Houses by Nobody: 11:12pm On Nov 14, 2018 |
This is as good as separation on friendly terms. |
Re: Lady Reveals Why She And Her Husband Live In Separate Houses by Niyeal(m): 11:14pm On Nov 14, 2018 |
TimiRume:I Can Giv U |
Re: Lady Reveals Why She And Her Husband Live In Separate Houses by Niyeal(m): 11:17pm On Nov 14, 2018 |
Exclusivebae:I Wil Giv U |
Re: Lady Reveals Why She And Her Husband Live In Separate Houses by drskyfly007(m): 11:18pm On Nov 14, 2018 |
Exclusivebae:I thought I was alone in this! 1 Like |
Re: Lady Reveals Why She And Her Husband Live In Separate Houses by marvin905(m): 11:20pm On Nov 14, 2018 |
if your husband has my type of personality just better file for a divorce.. and all those NL girls that's say's is good I wonder if you guy's are looking at the bad side of it 1 Like
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Re: Lady Reveals Why She And Her Husband Live In Separate Houses by zeromeridian: 11:21pm On Nov 14, 2018 |
Ok |
Re: Lady Reveals Why She And Her Husband Live In Separate Houses by Nobody: 11:23pm On Nov 14, 2018 |
Saff: Very introverted here, I cant stand the drama of women for long, sometimes I prefer long distance. Stay for another country and I stay in a different country, and when we jam each other, it is fire for fire. I was thinking how I am going to put up for better for worse with a woman, now this lady has made my day. My wife has been asking for her own house on her name. The Universe has answered my worry. Person go even see space to enjoy small. 1 Like |
Re: Lady Reveals Why She And Her Husband Live In Separate Houses by kolajoo(m): 11:24pm On Nov 14, 2018 |
yettymuse:can u add me to the group |
Re: Lady Reveals Why She And Her Husband Live In Separate Houses by kolajoo(m): 11:24pm On Nov 14, 2018 |
Exactly my life style |
Re: Lady Reveals Why She And Her Husband Live In Separate Houses by chiedozie198100: 11:25pm On Nov 14, 2018 |
foolish woman. maybe you should have kept your unique arrangement to urself, rather insult those who will read ur tweet. idiot. 1 Like |
Re: Lady Reveals Why She And Her Husband Live In Separate Houses by Nobody: 11:26pm On Nov 14, 2018 |
BlaqCoffee109: One and only, the angels can smell my perfumes from a distance. A man can not hide anymore ? 3 Likes |
Re: Lady Reveals Why She And Her Husband Live In Separate Houses by Nobody: 11:27pm On Nov 14, 2018 |
chiedozie198100: Even if she fuccks, what is there. Just orgasm and nothing more. |
Re: Lady Reveals Why She And Her Husband Live In Separate Houses by olaitonto(m): 11:30pm On Nov 14, 2018 |
I admire you» »»» Cos I like to do my thangs differently, it goes with me the way I feel it's cool for me. #OnlyIfSheGettingMe #AreYouGettingMe #NoStories |
Re: Lady Reveals Why She And Her Husband Live In Separate Houses by thatigboman: 11:30pm On Nov 14, 2018 |
Sapphire86:i dont 1 Like |
Re: Lady Reveals Why She And Her Husband Live In Separate Houses by Nobody: 11:36pm On Nov 14, 2018 |
humandroid:hey You! Muaah There you go...a pucker for you! You know, I made a thread asking about you...nope, you can't hide ; ya know I can decipher your signature thought process by now...Nairaland was kinda dull somewhat in your absence...folks will be thrilled now you are back.Hey SteveCantrell, look who we found... @Billyonaire 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: Lady Reveals Why She And Her Husband Live In Separate Houses by Nobody: 11:42pm On Nov 14, 2018 |
BlaqCoffee109: Always boring here until someone stirs the water with dissent thought and opinions. I am shocked that I was missed. |
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Re: Lady Reveals Why She And Her Husband Live In Separate Houses by Nobody: 11:51pm On Nov 14, 2018 |
humandroid:@ the bolded, no need to be shocked. We frequently head butted but it always was intellectually stimulating and never a dull moment and your level of crayyyy...damn, yet to see any hereon that tops that; so yes, you were missed... Welcome back! |
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