samysmoothfresh:
What i dont understand is why she con dey tell us


who first ask am?

WinningEleven:
are you married?

BlaqCoffee109:
Sometimes I just need my space...be catered to for a change; I like being pampered,spoiled... this might sound a great idea to do that but definitely not with a 9j man ... sorry sisterly considering this, try this not in 9j...too many factors why this can't work if you live in Naija and married to the average Nigerian Man. This might sound fun but in reality not advisable.

Saff:
I completely understand this and if I could do this I would be extremely unhappy

I’m introverted I love my own space and I can’t just imagine waking up to someone everyday and that person being in my presence constantly. Would just die of frustration

highqueen:
Perfect.
This kind of relationship last more than the one you and husby will stay under one roof and on the same bed monitoring each other like agents.

Please, personal peace and comfort is the way to go.


I like such serenity.

humandroid:


It is the best, I live that way mostly. For sanity, married partners need to give each other space, a lot.

humandroid:
Same here, I do not share the same floor of the home with my wife. She's got a whole floor to herself and I have got my entire floor and the staff have their entire floor.

You can almost sense the peace and quietness, she can lock me out of her floor and I can lock her out of my floor if there is dispute, that way each person behaves well when entering another person's space.

But this woman own, I must do am. I need to buy a new house and leave this one and be visiting......cool for a man in weirdness.

Zsatan:


I agree with you. I have noticed that people in open relationships and likes are more honest and happier than the forced closed marriages.

Don't be surprise these lady and her husband are so happy than even most people here who will go against them.

humandroid:


It is the best, I live that way mostly. For sanity, married partners need to give each other space, a lot.

TimiRume:
OMG This is what i want

Exclusivebae:
Lovely. This is exactly what I want. I so much like distance marriage......

Exclusivebae:
Lovely. This is exactly what I want. I so much like distance marriage......

Saff:
That’s good to hear. I think there’s just this unrealistic expectation in marriage. Sometimes the presence of your wife/husband alone will just irritate you. Space is so important, esp if you’re introverted.

yettymuse:
This is the most realistic Bliss. I have always had this in my head but every time I try to say it, it just doesn't come out well. Good to know we now have an active whatsapp group and a proactive admin

BlaqCoffee109:
is this you Billyonaire? If this is you, I certainly have missed you! Sure SteveCantrell and some folks here on can attest to that...if it is you, say...

chiedozie198100:
foolish woman.

maybe you should have kept your unique arrangement to urself, rather insult those who will read ur tweet.

idiot.

Sapphire86:
My dear, to each his own.... Though it's very unconventional, I understand the logic behind it.

humandroid:


One and only, the angels can smell my perfumes from a distance. A man can not hide anymore ?

BlaqCoffee109:
hey You! Muaah There you go...a pucker for you! You know, I made a thread asking about you...nope, you can't hide ; ya know I can decipher your signature thought process by now...Nairaland was kinda dull somewhat in your absence...folks will be thrilled now you are back.Hey SteveCantrell, look who we found... @Billyonaire

humandroid:


Always boring here until someone stirs the water with dissent thought and opinions.

I am shocked that I was missed.