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Re: My Boyfriend Of Eight Years Is Getting Married This Saturday by victorian(f): 10:03pm On Nov 15, 2018
jobonnairaland:
@Victorian, Lol. Easier said than done.





Honestly ehn? A year sef too much!

If within 3months, no sign. Of commitment. Then after 6months, I am not engaged, then after one year, our wedding is not fixed even if na registry alone. He can't do all these but still giving me stories of how unsure he feels spending his life with me? Mehn, am breaking up immediately the next responsible serious guy comes my way.
I don't think I have dated a guy up to one and half years sef undecided

No time to fool around jare.
Have done it before.

It's not hard for me. That's why I don't give all my body, and all my time, always in a relationship. I don't sweat when dating a guy just Incase he's messing up in his attitude. I reserve a good percentage of myself and time for me and me alone. So the man I eventually end up with , will have alot to enjoy in my life.

It's women that give all their life to men, allow the guy to Bleep anyhow , even spend her salary on him, will find it hard to leave him and be managing the situation, praying and hoping he marries her. And if he deosnt marry her, she becomes bitter, and vengeful.

I don't have the time to carry negative thoughts within me and plan evil.

So it's best to give a little of me and move on if he's stringing me along.

Bros! it's easy for me.
Re: My Boyfriend Of Eight Years Is Getting Married This Saturday by Nobody: 10:08pm On Nov 15, 2018
Wicked world!
Re: My Boyfriend Of Eight Years Is Getting Married This Saturday by Nobody: 10:15pm On Nov 15, 2018
bigkahuna704:
Still Gon Be Miss Karma. grin
She Should Be The Better Person And Let Him Go. Some People Aren't Worth Your Energy. He Will Realise His folly Later In Life But It Will Be Too Late.
yh right
Re: My Boyfriend Of Eight Years Is Getting Married This Saturday by Nobody: 10:16pm On Nov 15, 2018
victorian:
Have done it before.

It's not hard for me. That's why I don't give all my body, and all my time, always in a relationship. I don't sweat when dating a guy just Incase he's messing up in his attitude. I reserve a good percentage of myself and time for me and me alone. So the man I eventually end up with , will have alot to enjoy in my life.

It's women that give all their life to men, allow the guy to Bleep anyhow , even spend her salary on him, will find it hard to leave him and be managing the situation, praying and hoping he marries her. And if he deosnt marry her, she becomes bitter, and vengeful.

I don't have the time to carry negative thoughts within me and plan evil.

So it's best to give a little of me and move on if he's stringing me along.

Bros! it's easy for me.
you said it all. you deseeve a crate of cold pepsi
Re: My Boyfriend Of Eight Years Is Getting Married This Saturday by victorian(f): 10:45pm On Nov 15, 2018
funmisticqueen:
you said it all. you deseeve a crate of cold pepsi
cheesy Funmi babes!
U understand my drink! cheesy
Re: My Boyfriend Of Eight Years Is Getting Married This Saturday by ChopBellefull(m): 10:49pm On Nov 15, 2018
samysmoothfresh:
my nigga!!
Guy ds girls wicked die. Same babe i saw climb bike wit anoda guy, came back nd ws telling me z her cousin i no talk. I wan ride da pvssy till e enta scrap value. Shey u cn lie na, and me no get sense grin grin

Re: My Boyfriend Of Eight Years Is Getting Married This Saturday by ChopBellefull(m): 10:52pm On Nov 15, 2018
Saff:
Thank god you live in Nigeria. Because if you live in my part of the world, honestly you will suffer. You will live the rest of your life in jail, and I know how I’ll do it. Shior
Ok.. Saff thank you ehn. This is nairaland and it's a Nigerian page. Maybe u shld be in ur country's forum. But as long as it's nairaland, we operate d Nigerian way cool

Re: My Boyfriend Of Eight Years Is Getting Married This Saturday by sacx: 10:55pm On Nov 15, 2018
Fake story
Re: My Boyfriend Of Eight Years Is Getting Married This Saturday by jesmond3945: 11:09pm On Nov 15, 2018
I thought you were doing TTC from your earlier thread? is he still the father of your baby?
Re: My Boyfriend Of Eight Years Is Getting Married This Saturday by Timagex(m): 11:32pm On Nov 15, 2018
balanceofterror1:
shocked



Go ahead and ruin his wedding. He can't ruin your kpekus for eights years and expect you to be happy. I pity the man that will eventually end with this kpekus.

Let's assume that he normally fvcks you 5 times in a month and two rounds of sex for each day you visited.

You have been friends for eight years..

10 × 12 = 120 times in a year.

120 × 8yrs = 960 times in eight years.

960 + <> Sucking of your breasts and kissing you.............If Dangote truck has any hindrance in passing through........the guys manhood must be examined.
. Why are pepu wicked laidis? angry
Re: My Boyfriend Of Eight Years Is Getting Married This Saturday by RichCollins: 11:33pm On Nov 15, 2018
balanceofterror1:
shocked



Go ahead and ruin his wedding. He can't ruin your kpekus for eights years and expect you to be happy. I pity the man that will eventually end with this kpekus.

Let's assume that he normally fvcks you 5 times in a month and two rounds of sex for each day you visited.

You have been friends for eight years..very funny.

10 × 12 = 120 times in a year.

120 × 8yrs = 960 times in eight years.

960 + <> Sucking of your breasts and kissing you.............If Dangote truck has any hindrance in passing through........the guys manhood must be examined.
Re: My Boyfriend Of Eight Years Is Getting Married This Saturday by showstopperss(m): 11:34pm On Nov 15, 2018
But seriously you weeked o,chaiquote author=balanceofterror1 post=72995237] shocked



Go ahead and ruin his wedding. He can't ruin your kpekus for eights years and expect you to be happy. I pity the man that will eventually end with this kpekus.

Let's assume that he normally fvcks you 5 times in a month and two rounds of sex for each day you visited.

You have been friends for eight years..

10 × 12 = 120 times in a year.

120 × 8yrs = 960 times in eight years.

960 + <> Sucking of your breasts and kissing you.............If Dangote truck has any hindrance in passing through........the guys manhood must be examined.[/quote]
Re: My Boyfriend Of Eight Years Is Getting Married This Saturday by RichCollins: 11:34pm On Nov 15, 2018
[quote author=RichCollins post=73009180][/quote]very funny
Re: My Boyfriend Of Eight Years Is Getting Married This Saturday by Nobody: 5:08am On Nov 16, 2018
tee59:
This is wickedness, but wait. Do you have the qualities of a life partner? Maybe he found none in you despite your years of dating and he went for a better person. Ladies get this straight, sex can't keep a man. Men knows what they really want when it comes to marriage. Ladies be wise. Take heart dear,. Just work on your weaknesses.
you must have some form of mental illness
Re: My Boyfriend Of Eight Years Is Getting Married This Saturday by femi4: 6:09am On Nov 16, 2018
gidimal:
He lied to me. That I was the only one only for me to see pictures of his traditional marriage on his real facebook account that he had been hiding. I've been friends with him on his fake account and I didn't know. I also learnt that he had been dating that one for six years. He didn't tell me. I've been a fool all these years. Chasing suitors away. I'm thinking of ruining his wedding cos that's the only way I'll feel better. embarassed embarassed embarassed
how did he double date perfectly for 6yrs without an error......you are probably not sensitive enough
Re: My Boyfriend Of Eight Years Is Getting Married This Saturday by Raalsalghul: 6:29am On Nov 16, 2018
victorian:
No time to waste babe.











Honestly ehn? A year sef too much!

If within 3months, no sign. Of commitment. Then after 6months, I am not engaged, then after one year, our wedding is not fixed even if na registry alone. He can't do all these but still giving me stories of how unsure he feels spending his life with me? Mehn, am breaking up immediately the next responsible serious guy comes my way.
I don't think I have dated a guy up to one and half years sef undecided

No time to fool around jare.
Re: My Boyfriend Of Eight Years Is Getting Married This Saturday by jobonnairaland: 6:35am On Nov 16, 2018
victorian:
Good to know that.


















Have done it before.

It's not hard for me. That's why I don't give all my body, and all my time, always in a relationship. I don't sweat when dating a guy just Incase he's messing up in his attitude. I reserve a good percentage of myself and time for me and me alone. So the man I eventually end up with , will have alot to enjoy in my life.

It's women that give all their life to men, allow the guy to Bleep anyhow , even spend her salary on him, will find it hard to leave him and be managing the situation, praying and hoping he marries her. And if he deosnt marry her, she becomes bitter, and vengeful.

I don't have the time to carry negative thoughts within me and plan evil.

So it's best to give a little of me and move on if he's stringing me along.

Bros! it's easy for me.
Re: My Boyfriend Of Eight Years Is Getting Married This Saturday by Nobody: 6:36am On Nov 16, 2018
gidimal:
He lied to me. That I was the only one only for me to see pictures of his traditional marriage on his real facebook account that he had been hiding. I've been friends with him on his fake account and I didn't know. I also learnt that he had been dating that one for six years. He didn't tell me. I've been a fool all these years. Chasing suitors away. I'm thinking of ruining his wedding cos that's the only way I'll feel better. embarassed embarassed embarassed
You were not SMART at all.
I guess that's was why he left you as well.
Don't get me wrong.
As a LADY, you should always have back up plans.
Boyfriend is Boyfriend and can never be seen as husband until nuptials are done, especially in Nigeria.

In the Overseas people bear that slogan Boyfriend and Girlfriend till eternity.... with their relationship blessed with Kids....
Na dem get Baby MaMa

So Wake UP, if u still.dey Naija
Re: My Boyfriend Of Eight Years Is Getting Married This Saturday by jobonnairaland: 6:37am On Nov 16, 2018
Good to know that. @Victorian

















Have done it before.

It's not hard for me. That's why I don't give all my body, and all my time, always in a relationship. I don't sweat when dating a guy just Incase he's messing up in his attitude. I reserve a good percentage of myself and time for me and me alone. So the man I eventually end up with , will have alot to enjoy in my life.

It's women that give all their life to men, allow the guy to Bleep anyhow , even spend her salary on him, will find it hard to leave him and be managing the situation, praying and hoping he marries her. And if he deosnt marry her, she becomes bitter, and vengeful.

I don't have the time to carry negative thoughts within me and plan evil.

So it's best to give a little of me and move on if he's stringing me along.

Bros! it's easy for me.[/quote]
Re: My Boyfriend Of Eight Years Is Getting Married This Saturday by Nobody: 7:36am On Nov 16, 2018
Saff:
Thank god you live in Nigeria. Because if you live in my part of the world, honestly you will suffer. You will live the rest of your life in jail, and I know how I’ll do it. Shior
you think say na only you wicked?
My guys go arrange guys for you while I'm in jail, take you to one side, slice you to pieces, load you inside Ghana must go and dump you in a well.
Re: My Boyfriend Of Eight Years Is Getting Married This Saturday by samysmoothfresh: 7:38am On Nov 16, 2018
ChopBellefull:
Guy ds girls wicked die. Same babe i saw climb bike wit anoda guy, came back nd ws telling me z her cousin i no talk. I wan ride da pvssy till e enta scrap value. Shey u cn lie na, and me no get sense grin grin

Re: My Boyfriend Of Eight Years Is Getting Married This Saturday by Nobody: 7:51am On Nov 16, 2018
funmisticqueen:
sit back ke. her first name should now be mrs karma. better go and see a dibia and make him impotent
your life revolves round dibia and impotency as if those bullshít you watch on nollywood actually work in real life.
I have a sister who used to believe in these bullshít, she was once dumped by a guy she did all those crap the nigga is still balling. now she's married and no longer do those rubbish.

I hope you know that you don't have monopoly to wickedness?
If I should dump a girl like you whom I knew to be diabolical (if the thing even works) and all of a sudden I became impotent, I will arrange guys for you who will kidnap you, extract your womb and feed it to a dog in your presence
Re: My Boyfriend Of Eight Years Is Getting Married This Saturday by Nobody: 8:13am On Nov 16, 2018
lilbest4:
your life revolves round dibia and impotency as if those bullshít you watch on nollywood actually work in real life.
I have a sister who used to believe in these bullshít, she was once dumped by a guy she did all those crap the nigga is still balling. now she's married and no longer do those rubbish.

I hope you know that you don't have monopoly to wickedness?
If I should dump a girl like you whom I knew to be diabolical (if the thing even works) and all of a sudden I became impotent, I will arrange guys for you who will kidnap you, extract your womb and feed it to a dog in your presence
then you are just as bad as i am
Re: My Boyfriend Of Eight Years Is Getting Married This Saturday by jeff1607(m): 9:06am On Nov 16, 2018
balanceofterror1:
What does mature men do.....hold a lady down for good eight years with the pretence of marriage and abandoning her for another lady right?
You guys didn't get my point


from my own point of view the man already made up his mind from the getgo. he knew wat he wanted and probably didn't see it in her. used her to to satisfy his s*x appetite and other gains if any but deep down his mind was already made up. if she was worthy to him , he would have done the right thing
Re: My Boyfriend Of Eight Years Is Getting Married This Saturday by Nobody: 9:29am On Nov 16, 2018
gidimal:
He lied to me. That I was the only one only for me to see pictures of his traditional marriage on his real facebook account that he had been hiding. I've been friends with him on his fake account and I didn't know. I also learnt that he had been dating that one for six years. He didn't tell me. I've been a fool all these years. Chasing suitors away. I'm thinking of ruining his wedding cos that's the only way I'll feel better. embarassed embarassed embarassed
This is happening to you because you put all your eggs in one basket. Hardluck. Also you should have accepted one of those suitors, you see you don't wait for no man, a man should wait for you if you know your self worth. Ciao!
Re: My Boyfriend Of Eight Years Is Getting Married This Saturday by centboy123456(m): 10:28am On Nov 16, 2018
victorian:
Honestly ehn? A year sef too much!

If within 3months, no sign. Of commitment. Then after 6months, I am not engaged, then after one year, our wedding is not fixed even if na registry alone. He can't do all these but still giving me stories of how unsure he feels spending his life with me? Mehn, am breaking up immediately the next responsible serious guy comes my way.
I don't think I have dated a guy up to one and half years sef undecided

No time to fool around jare.
see this mumu u still think like a 16 year old girl u think marrage is easy abi so if I date u for 6 month I must marry u abi don't worry the wen u get to 35 u thinking will change i can just feel sorry for u u want to rush and marry in less don 6 months baby na only u go marry ur self see lets me tell u something men don't like girls eager for marrage there are tins men see before he can talk about marrage I wonder how many men you are going to break up with if u keeping on saying after 1 year he didn't marry u my advice just pray for d right one and stop talking like a baby because u don't force a man to marry u if u like break up or not na u sabi and one last tin no all relationships lead to marriage
Re: My Boyfriend Of Eight Years Is Getting Married This Saturday by Papanwamaikpe: 4:51pm On Nov 17, 2018
centboy123456:
see this mumu u still think like a 16 year old girl u think marrage is easy abi so if I date u for 6 month I must marry u abi don't worry the wen u get to 35 u thinking will change i can just feel sorry for u u want to rush and marry in less don 6 months baby na only u go marry ur self see lets me tell u something men don't like girls eager for marrage there are tins men see before he can talk about marrage I wonder how many men you are going to break up with if u keeping on saying after 1 year he didn't marry u my advice just pray for d right one and stop talking like a baby because u don't force a man to marry u if u like break up or not na u sabi and one last tin no all relationships lead to marriage
she's 35 already. A very old fat bleached milf!
Re: My Boyfriend Of Eight Years Is Getting Married This Saturday by centboy123456(m): 4:57pm On Nov 17, 2018
Papanwamaikpe:
she's 35 already. A very old fat bleached milf!
lol baba u dey vex
Re: My Boyfriend Of Eight Years Is Getting Married This Saturday by lawman88(m): 5:49pm On Nov 17, 2018
Wait young lady, since you can confirm that she was with you before she met The lady he is getting married to speaks volumes. Just work on yourself dear

That said, it's difficult to ruin marriage this days, even if you go for the wedding and claimed he promised you marriage, that is not enough reason to cancel wedding even in church
Re: My Boyfriend Of Eight Years Is Getting Married This Saturday by Missesgrace(f): 11:00pm On Nov 17, 2018
Hmm am not believing
Re: My Boyfriend Of Eight Years Is Getting Married This Saturday by lastclaire4(f): 11:57pm On Nov 17, 2018
lawman88:
Wait young lady, since you can confirm that she was with you before she met The lady he is getting married to speaks volumes. Just work on yourself dear

That said, it's difficult to ruin marriage this days, even if you go for the wedding and claimed he promised you marriage, that is not enough reason to cancel wedding even in church
Lol. You so funny. Like you don't know people marry for different reasons. Guys these days will look at the position she occupies in the family. If you are from a family of six for example and you are among the seniors in the house, that is disqualification. Made worse is if your father is not wealthy.

I heard of a guy recently who spoke about his wife to be in a very derogatory manner. Telling his colleagues "what does she want to bring to the table". You can imagine such language in front of outsiders. This is a girl he has been dating for like 4yrs and funny enough he stood for the girl when she was in school. Do you think if he has the option of choosing a richer girl he won't drop her? If that kind guy drop the girl, people will say work on yourself whereas he is looking for something else.
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