Hmmmm no be u get miscarriage last week

gidimal:
He lied to me. That I was the only one only for me to see pictures of his traditional marriage on his real facebook account that he had been hiding. I've been friends with him on his fake account and I didn't know. I also learnt that he had been dating that one for six years. He didn't tell me. I've been a fool all these years. Chasing suitors away. I'm thinking of ruining his wedding cos that's the only way I'll feel better.

If he was the one you just had a miscarriage for, then go there and "speak now...or forever hold your peace"

op u were jus his sidechick and not his real gf.he is getting married to his main gf.sorry about ur pain though.

ednut1:
Hmmmm no be u get miscarriage last week

... . ohhh:-(:-)

gidimal:
He lied to me. That I was the only one only for me to see pictures of his traditional marriage on his real facebook account that he had been hiding. I've been friends with him on his fake account and I didn't know. I also learnt that he had been dating that one for six years. He didn't tell me. I've been a fool all these years. Chasing suitors away. I'm thinking of ruining his wedding cos that's the only way I'll feel better.

You must have done something bad or you have some bad characters. Check yourself

gidimal:
He lied to me. That I was the only one only for me to see pictures of his traditional marriage on his real facebook account that he had been hiding. I've been friends with him on his fake account and I didn't know. I also learnt that he had been dating that one for six years. He didn't tell me. I've been a fool all these years. Chasing suitors away. I'm thinking of ruining his wedding cos that's the only way I'll feel better.

Sorry u are unlucky!
But during the eight years, of what impact have you been to his life?
+ or -?
During that eight years, his he the only one u are dating? Or even slept with?
Mind u, not or relationship leads to marriage
Causing him pain during his wedding this weekend will only cause u more life pain.

Note.
Try and attend the wedding ceremony and show him he doesn't desaver you.
Dont let him see u hurt, that will turn the table against him.

I did that too someone, and I have not forgiven myself to date.

She didn't wish me bad, after three years am still apologizing .

Not that I regret my choice, but her display of maturity knock me off.

balanceofterror1:



What does mature men do.....hold a lady down for good eight years with the pretence of marriage and abandoning her for another lady right?

These girls can be wicked at times. They do some things and believe it’s okay that you won’t get angry. I’ll do same for a girl as well. She should check herself. She must have been doing something wrong since or she cheated on the guy

Why am I not believing this story?

I'm so sorry dear... Cheer up, u gonna win urs soon

Thank god you live in Nigeria. Because if you live in my part of the world, honestly you will suffer. You will live the rest of your life in jail, and I know how I’ll do it. Shior

ChopBellefull:
Chai.. My babe will bring ds kinda topic few months frm nw. For her mind nw i go marry her

Me da m looking for virgin.. Hahaha

lastclaire4:


I don't think there is anything to hear from. A year is enough to know anything why waste someone's time for 8 years? People are looking for a perfect person that never exists. If the babe is good for nothing why not leave let her to look for hers elsewhere. This is how people invite things into their life. Then they start running from crusade to crusade crying to God on how shattered their life is.

I wonder as well.

If she's good for nothing and has nothing to offer, while string her along, then waste 8years of life, having sex, making her wash his clothes, cook and all not what.
He could have simply cut off after a year and stick with the one he got married to.

Some men ehn?

gidimal:
He lied to me. That I was the only one only for me to see pictures of his traditional marriage on his real facebook account that he had been hiding. I've been friends with him on his fake account and I didn't know. I also learnt that he had been dating that one for six years. He didn't tell me. I've been a fool all these years. Chasing suitors away. I'm thinking of ruining his wedding cos that's the only way I'll feel better.

my condolences, for years lost. this is the time to reassess and scrutinse yourself.

dear ladies, this is why you dont waste time with men. if a man doesnt know if he wants to marry you after a yr in the relationship. Convert him to a side guy or leave. You cant put your life on pause because a man cannot make up his mind.

tee59:
This is wickedness, but wait. Do you have the qualities of a life partner? Maybe he found none in you despite your years of dating and he went for a better person. Ladies get this straight, sex can't keep a man. Men knows what they really want when it comes to marriage. Ladies be wise. Take heart dear,. Just work on your weaknesses.

Sex kept me....

funmisticqueen:
my condolences, for years lost. this is the time to reassess and scrutinse yourself.

dear ladies, this is why you dont waste time with men. if a man doesnt know if he wants to marry you after a yr in the relationship. Convert him to a side guy or leave. You cant put your life on pause because a man cannot make up his mind.

Honestly ehn? A year sef too much!

If within 3months, no sign. Of commitment. Then after 6months, I am not engaged, then after one year, our wedding is not fixed even if na registry alone. He can't do all these but still giving me stories of how unsure he feels spending his life with me? Mehn, am breaking up immediately the next responsible serious guy comes my way.
I don't think I have dated a guy up to one and half years sef

No time to fool around jare.

ChopBellefull:
Chai.. My babe will bring ds kinda topic few months frm nw. For her mind nw i go marry her

Me da m looking for virgin.. Hahaha

my nigga!!

victorian:












Honestly ehn? A year sef too much!

If within 3months, no sign. Of commitment. Then after 6months, I am not engaged, then after one year, our wedding is not fixed even if na registry alone. He can't do all these but still giving me stories of how unsure he feels spending his life with me? Mehn, am breaking up immediately the next responsible serious guy comes my way.
I don't think I have dated a guy up to one and half years sef

No time to fool around jare.

i am being generous na. You know guys are behind in mental age. i am making allowances for the alow ones among them.

Na only you all the problem for this life dey follow


according to you, 5days ago you had a miscarriage, shortly after, you had an evacuation and since then you've been having very painful cramps.


5days later now (today) you discover say your suppose boo (prolly the same person wey first give you belle) dey trick you since and he wan go marry another person.



i dont believe this BS!

6months is enough to know if he's serious with you or not.


Some men are totally useless, do whatever you can to stop that nonsense marriage.


As for that first commenter, your brain deh leak hydraulic.

funmisticqueen:
i am being generous na. You know guys are behind in mental age. i am making allowances for the alow ones among them.

Lol! You are wucked!


But seriously sometimes I do ask God why did he bring me to Nigeria.. Lol

Chai!

balanceofterror1:




Go ahead and ruin his wedding. He can't ruin your kpekus for eights years and expect you to be happy. I pity the man that will eventually end with this kpekus.

Let's assume that he normally fvcks you 5 times in a month and two rounds of sex for each day you visited.

You have been friends for eight years..

10 × 12 = 120 times in a year.

120 × 8yrs = 960 times in a year.

960 + <> Sucking of your breasts and kissing you.............If Dangote truck has any hindrance in passing through........the guys manhood must be examined.

Nwaamaikpe is this you?

Madmoizelle:
Lest you two started in secondary/primary school, you completely wasted your time, 3yrs should be the maximum... You would've gotten Bsc, Master's degree and PhD within the period of 8yrs..

gidimal:
He lied to me. That I was the only one only for me to see pictures of his traditional marriage on his real facebook account that he had been hiding. I've been friends with him on his fake account and I didn't know. I also learnt that he had been dating that one for six years. He didn't tell me. I've been a fool all these years. Chasing suitors away. I'm thinking of ruining his wedding cos that's the only way I'll feel better.

Please don't do that. Someone who is much better may likely come your way. Believe me.

Guys should stop this act of leading women on for years with fake promises. One month is more than enough for me to determine whether I can marry someone or not, this act of deceit should be frowned at, women are not exempted

@Victorian, Lol. Easier said than done.











Honestly ehn? A year sef too much!

If within 3months, no sign. Of commitment. Then after 6months, I am not engaged, then after one year, our wedding is not fixed even if na registry alone. He can't do all these but still giving me stories of how unsure he feels spending his life with me? Mehn, am breaking up immediately the next responsible serious guy comes my way.
I don't think I have dated a guy up to one and half years sef

No time to fool around jare. [/quote]

Apina:
Guys should stop this act of leading women on for years with fake promises. One month is more than enough for me to determine whether I can marry someone or not, this act of deceit should be frowned at, women are not exempted

Guys? Blame the chick, not the guy.

gidimal:
He lied to me. That I was the only one only for me to see pictures of his traditional marriage on his real facebook account that he had been hiding. I've been friends with him on his fake account and I didn't know. I also learnt that he had been dating that one for six years. He didn't tell me. I've been a fool all these years. Chasing suitors away. I'm thinking of ruining his wedding cos that's the only way I'll feel better.

Hanty there is always another side of the story. Guys are no fools and no one will be in a good, honest and working relationship for 8yrs and end up with another. Use your tongue and count your teeth.

jobonnairaland:
Guys? Blame the chick, not the guy.

I said women are not exempted

Apina:

I said women are not exempted

Sorry, I really did not see that on time.

bigkahuna704:
If Your Story Is True, Then Sit Back And Watch Karma Do The Needfull. karma Can Be Quite Ruthless Although She Doesn't Work Like Instant Noodles.

sit back ke. her first name should now be mrs karma. better go and see a dibia and make him impotent

gidimal:
He lied to me. That I was the only one only for me to see pictures of his traditional marriage on his real facebook account that he had been hiding. I've been friends with him on his fake account and I didn't know. I also learnt that he had been dating that one for six years. He didn't tell me. I've been a fool all these years. Chasing suitors away. I'm thinking of ruining his wedding cos that's the only way I'll feel better.

As difficult as it will be, I think you should just wish him well, and let fate take its course. Eight years isn't eternity past. You have to forgive him, so that your heart can be at peace and then increase your chances of moving on. The best thing about each experience, good or bad, isn't always the observed outcome, it's the lesson learnt. What you should do is to sit and reflect on the possible lessons attached to this experience, and it'll go a long way to helping you in the future.

funmisticqueen:
sit back ke. her first name should now be mrs karma. better go and see a dibia and make him impotent

Still Gon Be Miss Karma.
She Should Be The Better Person And Let Him Go. Some People Aren't Worth Your Energy. He Will Realise His folly Later In Life But It Will Be Too Late.