₦airaland Forum

theoldpretender:
Unfortunately, this is Nigeria.

The thing about the whole house chores stuff is that the guy's Mother...you know,that woman who carried himin his womb for 9months,and suffered to bring him into the world...is using the chores stuff to assess if you can take good care of her precious little Junior

Just consider it an examination. Do it one time,and that is all.

We live in that kind of society. And when in Rome , do as the Romans do.

Remember...you need the mother on your side. Because if she isn't.....

(And all Nigerian mothers are like that...even the 'liberal' ones!)

(P.S As a man, I too know that is how my future wifey's mother is judging me...too. )

Premiumwriter:
@bolded

That's wat the Op is trying to say. It's not pretense but prudence to know when you stand in front of kings and when in front of ordinary people.

Colourich:
I'm not offering to do any house chores, I'm not their maid. If they won't marry, they should forget it.

INDUSTRIALFAN:
stop falling your hand. Mopping is not only the thing listed under chores. When you go visiting, they may serve you drinks and his mum may offer to make you sth to eat, you don't mean to tell me you will sit in the sitting room like her royal highness when you know his mother wants to make a meal for you or you don't mean to say after you are done with the drink offered you you will still wait for whoever served you to come and clear the table. All those re chores too. Of course the house must have been cleaned before your arrival. If you stay the night over, you don't mean to tell me while everyone else is doing one or two things around the house, you will sit in one corner like Queen of Sheba and raise leg so that his mother will sweep under your feet.

Colourich:
I'm not offering to do any house chores, I'm not their maid. If they won't marry, they should forget it.

Biglittlelois:
Your comment has turned to advice to me? lol okay thanks.

nijabazaar:
That guy is too nuggety

MsGood:
Helping to do what they're doing at the moment ni. That doesn't make you a maid.

Sarang:
I'll buy her a car..and see her even do the dishes for me .
Be successful.. let money make the noise.
House chore my foot!

INDUSTRIALFAN:
Oga just say you wan fvck and stop doing Shakespeare here abeg

Richdad50:
You can act yourself but yourself might be stupid. Learn to improve on your character and never depend on yourself 'only' to save what is left of your foolishness.
#Richdadnuggets

nijabazaar:
Go and get yourself a rabbit....

234GT:
What if she is a very rich and your account balance is what she can afford to dash out?

Colourich:
I'm not offering to do any house chores, I'm not their maid. If they won't marry, they should forget it.

virgoquin:
Why should I do house chores for them.
chore ko choir ni

Colourich:
I'm not offering to do any house chores, I'm not their maid. If they won't marry, they should forget it.

INDUSTRIALFAN:
Na me de use style toast woman? Na u need the Rabbit pass.

AmazonTopaz:
This hogwash doesn't work on some ladies.So stop trying to force your mentality on others. If you want your partner to do house chores let her know before hand and stop trying to use age to scare ladies who are not interested in doing that.It is optional for a lady to do chores not mandatory neither does it prove that one is a wife material.

mattobi:
I can see that u are still a young girl... Wait until u are 31 and still unmarried, u will even wash their gate.

Colourich:
I'm not offering to do any house chores, I'm not their maid. If they won't marry, they should forget it.

234GT:
What if she is a very rich and your account balance is what she can afford to dash out?

Sarang:
I'll buy her a car..and see her even do the dishes for me . Be successful.. let money make the noise. House chore my foot!

nijabazaar:
Rabbit Rustler..

Northmall:
Babe it's mop not mob. Why are so many Nigerians guilty of this error?

sherylbakky:
If she's v.rich den she sud av house keepers who wud do d chores...she wudnt expect her daughter inlaw 2 do dat, if d daughter inlaw even insist in a rich house...do u knw wot dat implies? dey will see her as LOCAL chick who's not good enof 4 their son....Dat's CLASS,if u doubt it, find out, n dats y d rich marries rich.
As 4 d car ...She cant reject it, tho might b small 4 her but she'l stil apreciate it n drive it 2 less important places or leave it 4 d last child of d family.

mattobi:
It doesn't prove that one is a wife material, yet it's the littlest of thing you could do. Every mother wants the best for her child, no mother wants her son to marry someone who doesn't know how to do one or two house chores. Come on, this is Africa, Nigeria precisely, it just shows how well groomed the prospective bribe is. Don't give your future in-law the wrongest of impressions just at your first meeting.

mattobi:
I can see that u are still a young girl... Wait until u are 31 and still unmarried, u will even wash their gate.