theoldpretender:


Unfortunately, this is Nigeria.

The thing about the whole house chores stuff is that the guy's Mother...you know,that woman who carried himin his womb for 9months,and suffered to bring him into the world...is using the chores stuff to assess if you can take good care of her precious little Junior

Just consider it an examination. Do it one time,and that is all.

We live in that kind of society. And when in Rome , do as the Romans do.

Remember...you need the mother on your side. Because if she isn't.....

(And all Nigerian mothers are like that...even the 'liberal' ones!)

(P.S As a man, I too know that is how my future wifey's mother is judging me...too. )

I'll buy her a car..and see her even do the dishes for me .
Be successful.. let money make the noise.
House chore my foot!

Premiumwriter:


@bolded

That's wat the Op is trying to say. It's not pretense but prudence to know when you stand in front of kings and when in front of ordinary people.

You are a wise man....

Colourich:
I'm not offering to do any house chores, I'm not their maid. If they won't marry, they should forget it.

Lazy Nigerian youths see house chores as an herculean tasks. What's wrong with washing the dishes with your husband to be after the meal is ended? What house chores do you think would be possibly available at your visit?

INDUSTRIALFAN:
stop falling your hand. Mopping is not only the thing listed under chores. When you go visiting, they may serve you drinks and his mum may offer to make you sth to eat, you don't mean to tell me you will sit in the sitting room like her royal highness when you know his mother wants to make a meal for you or you don't mean to say after you are done with the drink offered you you will still wait for whoever served you to come and clear the table. All those re chores too. Of course the house must have been cleaned before your arrival. If you stay the night over, you don't mean to tell me while everyone else is doing one or two things around the house, you will sit in one corner like Queen of Sheba and raise leg so that his mother will sweep under your feet.

Lol.... You are very funny

Cogent points,
Thank you.

Must you live to impress them even at the point of helping in chores. Abeg I no gree . Don't let me believe you be Afonja because they are first class in eye service.

Colourich:
I'm not offering to do any house chores, I'm not their maid. If they won't marry, they should forget it.

'Like' hunter spotted. Cross your heart that you would do what you just said.

Biglittlelois:



Your comment has turned to advice to me? lol okay thanks.

lol.. yes o

... and OP should add this:

Don't go to your partner's parants place without a basket full of gifts, especially if you are a man and your partner's parents are Yorubas

number 7 is not gonna happen.

nijabazaar:


That guy is too nuggety

Lol, nuggety

MsGood:

Helping to do what they're doing at the moment ni. That doesn't make you a maid.

Please tell her, all these small children that don't want to learn simple thing. Pride everywhere

Sarang:


I'll buy her a car..and see her even do the dishes for me .
Be successful.. let money make the noise.
House chore my foot!

What if she is a very rich and your account balance is what she can afford to dash out?

INDUSTRIALFAN:
Oga just say you wan fvck and stop doing Shakespeare here abeg

Go and get yourself a rabbit....

Richdad50:
You can act yourself but yourself might be stupid. Learn to improve on your character and never depend on yourself 'only' to save what is left of your foolishness.
#Richdadnuggets

Thank you Bro, you said my mind

nijabazaar:


Go and get yourself a rabbit....

Na me de use style toast woman? Na u need the Rabbit pass.

234GT:


What if she is a very rich and your account balance is what she can afford to dash out?

Then she will return the car nah.. and buy me one
I will still not wash

Colourich:
I'm not offering to do any house chores, I'm not their maid. If they won't marry, they should forget it.

I hope that attitude takes you to a higher altitude

virgoquin:
Why should I do house chores for them.
chore ko choir ni

That's why you are still single...

Colourich:
I'm not offering to do any house chores, I'm not their maid. If they won't marry, they should forget it.

MRS wont b added to ur name if u continue wit ds...ppl shd help tel ds momma

INDUSTRIALFAN:
Na me de use style toast woman? Na u need the Rabbit pass.

Rabbit Rustler..

AmazonTopaz:

This hogwash doesn't work on some ladies.So stop trying to force your mentality on others. If you want your partner to do house chores let her know before hand and stop trying to use age to scare ladies who are not interested in doing that.It is optional for a lady to do chores not mandatory neither does it prove that one is a wife material.

It doesn't prove that one is a wife material, yet it's the littlest of thing you could do. Every mother wants the best for her child, no mother wants her son to marry someone who doesn't know how to do one or two house chores. Come on, this is Africa, Nigeria precisely, it just shows how well groomed the prospective bribe is. Don't give your future in-law the wrongest of impressions just at your first meeting.

mattobi:


I can see that u are still a young girl... Wait until u are 31 and still unmarried, u will even wash their gate.

or they would run to their pastors for prayers. Trust pastors to use them as prey after draining her account

Colourich:
I'm not offering to do any house chores, I'm not their maid. If they won't marry, they should forget it.

When that tiny breast dry finish, your brain go go back to default...

234GT:


What if she is a very rich and your account balance is what she can afford to dash out?

If she's v.rich den she sud av house keepers who wud do d chores...she wudnt expect her daughter inlaw 2 do dat, if d daughter inlaw even insist in a rich house...do u knw wot dat implies? dey will see her as LOCAL chick who's not good enof 4 their son....Dat's CLASS,if u doubt it, find out, n dats y d rich marries rich.
As 4 d car ...She cant reject it, tho might b small 4 her but she'l stil apreciate it n drive it 2 less important places or leave it 4 d last child of d family.

Sarang:

I'll buy her a car..and see her even do the dishes for me . Be successful.. let money make the noise. House chore my foot!

Nice one dear

nijabazaar:


Rabbit Rustler..

Northmall:


Babe it's mop not mob. Why are so many Nigerians guilty of this error?

I'm telling you.. .its very annoying

sherylbakky:

If she's v.rich den she sud av house keepers who wud do d chores...she wudnt expect her daughter inlaw 2 do dat, if d daughter inlaw even insist in a rich house...do u knw wot dat implies? dey will see her as LOCAL chick who's not good enof 4 their son....Dat's CLASS,if u doubt it, find out, n dats y d rich marries rich.
As 4 d car ...She cant reject it, tho might b small 4 her but she'l stil apreciate it n drive it 2 less important places or leave it 4 d last child of d family.

No matter how rich I become, I will never have housemaids.
There is a level a mother-in-law would be that you wont even be able to imagine buying her a car.

By dress well you must avoid to match with their carpet, curtain or anything i ;Dn the house lol

mattobi:


It doesn't prove that one is a wife material, yet it's the littlest of thing you could do. Every mother wants the best for her child, no mother wants her son to marry someone who doesn't know how to do one or two house chores. Come on, this is Africa, Nigeria precisely, it just shows how well groomed the prospective bribe is. Don't give your future in-law the wrongest of impressions just at your first meeting.

No mother indeed so what is wrong if a son decides to do the chores.My own mother does not expect my brother's partner who came to visit to do chores for her.That one means nothing to her.
NAH it shows nothing.
Doing chores does not mean that one is well groomed.If you see nothing wrong then you should see nothing wrong of a guy decides to see the ladies family and he offers to do chores as well.I refuse to support this is Africa when it comes to something that seem backward that is how some ladies would pretend to do house chores and easily deceive people in the name of wife material.I do not plan on doing such if I ever decide to meet my partner's family I am a guest so they should treat me as one.

mattobi:


I can see that u are still a young girl... Wait until u are 31 and still unmarried, u will even wash their gate.