₦airaland Forum

lalanice:
A born again Yahoo boy wehdon ma!



na only you waka come

Imogenn:
Hi

I met this guy three months ago. We’ve been casually dating, he’s very calm, nice and he presents himself to be a very God fearing guy.

However, there’s some things that I’m not too keen about that I would like to share, and I’m wondering if I should continue the relationship or break it off as these could be signs that it may not work.

1. He’s a yahoo boy, he’s been into this for the past 11 years and this has been his main source of income.
2. He’s from edo state, some of his family members practice juju, although he is a born again Christian as he claims to be. I’m from Ekiti, I think there could be a tribal conflict.
3. He smokes everyday, which I don’t think I will be able to deal with long term. (Although he has promised to stop)
4. I live in the USA, he currently doesn’t have his papers so he is unable to do a lot of things. He married a lady to get his papers in 2012, (arranged marriage, not a real one) the arrangement didn’t work out in his favour, so he’s still on it till now.
5. He has been physically abusive to two of his ex’s, which he told me about. He also cheated on his ex that he was with for 10 years due to the distance. ( she’s in Nigeria)
6. He has tattoos on his body, which I’m not too fond about.
7. Most of his friends are heavy drinkers and smokers. His best friend cheats significantly on his wife.

I know we’re not perfect, and we all come with some kind of baggage. I’m a young God fearing lady of 24, and I just believe that this may be too much for me to handle.

He’s a nice guy, and he’s told me he loves me and I can see it in his actions. He was honest enough to tell me everything about his past, but I don’t know how to process all this information.

I don’t know what to do, but I believe God is warning me with all these signs. Am I being too judgemental or should I slowly drift away?

missdee384:
Have you all noticed that the op is trying to justify the guys action, am pretty sure no advice here will make her leave the guy until she gets a reason to really hate him, that I am sure of.

Imogenn:
He’s really into God from what I can see. He works in the ushering department in church, but I think hes just living a double lifestyle which he can’t let go of, if that makes sense.

Ishilove:
He is a hypocrite and a Saducee. He is not God fearing and has refused to surrender to the Holy Spirit because someone who fears and loves God will not be making life miserable for other people (his victims). When he reaps the rewards of his sons, you, young lady, will be a partaker if you go ahead to marry this man.

Don't marry someone with the hope of changing them. Are you the holy spirit?

Imogenn:
No not at all, I’m just trying to explain the whole situation to the best of my ability. I’ve already broken things off with him sometimes you just need that extra push you know

Imogenn:
Hi

I met this guy three months ago. We’ve been casually dating, he’s very calm, nice and he presents himself to be a very God fearing guy.

However, there’s some things that I’m not too keen about that I would like to share, and I’m wondering if I should continue the relationship or break it off as these could be signs that it may not work.

1. He’s a yahoo boy, he’s been into this for the past 11 years and this has been his main source of income.
2. He’s from edo state, some of his family members practice juju, although he is a born again Christian as he claims to be. I’m from Ekiti, I think there could be a tribal conflict.
3. He smokes everyday, which I don’t think I will be able to deal with long term. (Although he has promised to stop)
4. I live in the USA, he currently doesn’t have his papers so he is unable to do a lot of things. He married a lady to get his papers in 2012, (arranged marriage, not a real one) the arrangement didn’t work out in his favour, so he’s still on it till now.
5. He has been physically abusive to two of his ex’s, which he told me about. He also cheated on his ex that he was with for 10 years due to the distance. ( she’s in Nigeria)
6. He has tattoos on his body, which I’m not too fond about.
7. Most of his friends are heavy drinkers and smokers. His best friend cheats significantly on his wife.

I know we’re not perfect, and we all come with some kind of baggage. I’m a young God fearing lady of 24, and I just believe that this may be too much for me to handle.

He’s a nice guy, and he’s told me he loves me and I can see it in his actions. He was honest enough to tell me everything about his past, but I don’t know how to process all this information.

I don’t know what to do, but I believe God is warning me with all these signs. Am I being too judgemental or should I slowly drift away?

Imogenn:
He’s really into God from what I can see. He works in the ushering department in church, but I think hes just living a double lifestyle which he can’t let go of, if that makes sense.

Imogenn:
Hi

I met this guy three months ago. We’ve been casually dating, he’s very calm, nice and he presents himself to be a very God fearing guy.

However, there’s some things that I’m not too keen about that I would like to share, and I’m wondering if I should continue the relationship or break it off as these could be signs that it may not work.

1. He’s a yahoo boy, he’s been into this for the past 11 years and this has been his main source of income.
2. He’s from edo state, some of his family members practice juju, although he is a born again Christian as he claims to be. I’m from Ekiti, I think there could be a tribal conflict.
3. He smokes everyday, which I don’t think I will be able to deal with long term. (Although he has promised to stop)
4. I live in the USA, he currently doesn’t have his papers so he is unable to do a lot of things. He married a lady to get his papers in 2012, (arranged marriage, not a real one) the arrangement didn’t work out in his favour, so he’s still on it till now.
5. He has been physically abusive to two of his ex’s, which he told me about. He also cheated on his ex that he was with for 10 years due to the distance. ( she’s in Nigeria)
6. He has tattoos on his body, which I’m not too fond about.
7. Most of his friends are heavy drinkers and smokers. His best friend cheats significantly on his wife.

I know we’re not perfect, and we all come with some kind of baggage. I’m a young God fearing lady of 24, and I just believe that this may be too much for me to handle.

He’s a nice guy, and he’s told me he loves me and I can see it in his actions. He was honest enough to tell me everything about his past, but I don’t know how to process all this information.

I don’t know what to do, but I believe God is warning me with all these signs. Am I being too judgemental or should I slowly drift away?

Owiii:
I can see that you don't want to let go because this your post depicts that you want to still go ahead. I repeat no born again Christian will smoke oor drink. He is even a Yahoo boy defrauding people for the past 11 years. How would you feel if he defrauds you? You don't want to use your head sister. Are you the general overseer of the relationship? Runnnnnnnn

SueZuckerberg:
White or Black?

Imogenn:
I’ve already broken off the relationship. I’ve ran away It’s hard because I’ve already become somewhat attached but by Gods grace I will overcome.

Imogenn:
We are both black and Nigerian

Imogenn:
He’s really into God from what I can see. He works in the ushering department in church, but I think hes just living a double lifestyle which he can’t let go of, if that makes sense.

Imogenn:
He’s really into God from what I can see. He works in the ushering department in church, but I think hes just living a double lifestyle which he can’t let go of, if that makes sense.

Imogenn:
Yes he claimed that he hit his ex’s from provocation and he claims that he will never hit a woman again. About his yahoo thing, he’s trying to find a way out but since he cannot work legally because of his papers, this is the only thing that can fetch him money for now.


I’m just confused, I feel sorry for him but I don’t want to deal with all those baggage

YeyeGirl:
First of all,u are really embarrassing we women....I believe u are old enough not to b stupid...No offence tho, it's clear he needs favour from u cos as stated above, u stay abroad...A yahoo boy can never ever love u truly...Imagine a guy duping millions of people and d fact he opened up to u make u feel he is bin sincere? Cut d crap...His friends are smokers and drinkers? Ma they are all birds of a feather, they club,sleep with various women and womanize....He only opened up to u probably for help 2 secure his papers...All d stories of bin born again,not acting like his friends,cheated 10 years ago are all LIES....well I aint related 2 u in anyway so follow your heart and watch yourself get played...

lalanice:
A born again Yahoo boy wehdon ma!



na only you waka come

BestDude:
lol. It is a made up story.

Imogenn:
This is my real life situation. I have no reason to make anything up

Imogenn:
Hi

I met this guy three months ago. We’ve been casually dating, he’s very calm, nice and he presents himself to be a very God fearing guy.

1. He’s a yahoo boy, he’s been into this for the past 11 years and this has been his main source of income.
2. He’s from edo state, some of his family members practice juju, although he is a born again Christian as he claims to be. I’m from Ekiti, I think there could be a tribal conflict.
3. He smokes everyday, which I don’t think I will be able to deal with long term. (Although he has promised to stop)

He’s a nice guy, and he’s told me he loves me and I can see it in his actions. He was honest enough to tell me everything about his past, but I don’t know how to process all this information.

I don’t know what to do, but I believe God is warning me with all these signs. Am I being too judgemental or should I slowly drift away?

HE USED HIS OWN MOUTH TO TELL YOU THINGS ABOUT HIS PAST, AND SUDDENLY YOU THINK GOD IS SHOWING YOU SIGNS?
HAHAHA.. WHAT IF HE HAD KEPT THINGS AWAY FROM YOU.. OR TOLD YOU SWEET BEAUTIFUL THINGS ABOUT HIS PAST. THAT WOULD ALSO BE GOD SHOWING YOU SIGNS THAT HE'S A GOOD MAN AND A POTENTIAL GOOD HUSBAND.

HAHAHA.. THERE'S NO LIMIT TO THE COMPLICATIONS THAT CAN BE SOLVED WITH "GOD DID IT". YOUR DELUSIONAL AS RELIGIOUS PEOPLE WILL NEVER CEASE TO AMAZE ME.

rame18:
Shows I was only trolling.

rame18:
only an Edo person can infiltrate a church, become an usher and still be a yahoo boy.

rame18:
Read the story, a Benin yahoo boy in the ablood

rame18:
the thing when the guy rub for that him dick dey very potent o, it has turned an angel to a demon.

Imogenn:
He’s really into God from what I can see. He works in the ushering department in church, but I think hes just living a double lifestyle which he can’t let go of, if that makes sense.