arrestdarrester:
Some women don't enjoy cooking when it is for themselves. They enjoy doing it for family. Now that you're home she'll transform that kitchen.

By the way she is not your staff. There is nothing like incompetence in marriage. If she's incompetent it means you're also incompetent for not spotting her incompetence before 'employing' her.

By the way don't 'fire' her as the next one you 'hire' might learn from your action and show you pepper.

The problem is that you know book too much. Are you a genius?

Juliearth:









Pay no heed to the egoistic fella. Quoting 6 figures as if it's big deal. There are men that drop more, but you can never see them insult their wives likes this. It's indeed a shame.

And you are paying heed to my post. Lol. May sense fall on you!

oga calm down,throwing stones back at every one that throws stone at you will make not to get to your destination on time.you asked for advise yet you wont allow people advise you.if this is how to respond to this woman you claim to be your at every points of agument them something more than this salt issue is the problem....learn to be patient and handle situations with ease.dont divorce your wife talk to her about it and make sure she fix a shopping date for each month and she should stock even this things that are yet to finish,help her sometimes if you can.CHEERS

shakmati:


You father is ewu...if he is still alive and truly your father. If he is dead or maybe not your father (as in you're a bastard), then your mother is ewu. That way, you are the only confirmed ewu by birth. Can't some Nigerians just advice or ignore? Nitwits everywhere. No wonder we are the poverty capital of the world.

Surulady:
oga calm down,throwing stones back at every one that throws stone at you will make not to get to your destination on time.you asked for advise yet you wont allow people advise you.if this is how to respond to this woman you claim to be your at every points of agument them something more than this salt issue is the problem....learn to be patient and handle situations with ease.dont divorce your wife talk to her about it and make sure she fix a shopping date for each month and she should stock even this things that are yet to finish,help her sometimes if you can.CHEERS

Never in the history of calming down has anyone ever calmed down by being told to calm down. That said, I asked for advice, not insult. Is calling me an ewu advice? Meanwhile cheers you too. I like your never say die attitude.

shakmati:


Which kain wicked advice is this? You want hunger to kill her?

I am sure you have earned your 30 minutes of fame on another man's dilemma. You should have been wise enough to put the source of this story as plagiarism is a crime.

shakmati:


If not that your post has small sense, I would have slapped you from where I am.....in any case, I have gotten over the issue. Who buys a bag of salt for the house? All these youngsters that have only tasted boyfren and gehfren by street corner will come on NL and be forming relationship experts by giving advice to people that have phd in home management. *hiss*

Shut it already. Stop sounding as if it's your experience.

shakmati:


Hater!

He can't hate on you, this story is another man's experience. For all I know and all its worth, you sound like someone whose account balance is in decimal

YES I UNDERSTAND BUT NOETHELESS YOU STILL HAVE TO CALM DOWN,THE SALT IS NEVER WORTH THE LOVE YOU HAVE HAD OR STILL HAVE FOR HER JUST AS FOR ME I CANT BREAK MY FRIENDSHIP BECAUSE OF SALT NOT TO TALK OF MY MARRIAGE.CHEERS

shakmati:


Never in the history of calming down has anyone ever calmed down by being told to calm down. That said, I asked for advice, not insult. Is calling me an ewu advice? Meanwhile cheers you too. I like your never say die attitude.

Juliearth:





I am sure you have earned your 30 minutes of fame on another man's dilemma. You should have been wise enough to put the source of this story as plagiarism is a crime.

I woulda talked you down but when I look at your profile picture and think that I may marry you someday (BBWs are the best), I just let it go.

Juliearth:



He can't hate on you, this story is another man's experience. For all I know and all its worth, you sound like someone whose account balance is in decimal

Oya send me your contact details lemme prove to you I can dash you a six figure sum.

Surulady:
YES I UNDERSTAND BUT NOETHELESS YOU STILL HAVE TO CALM DOWN,THE SALT IS NEVER WORTH THE LOVE YOU HAVE HAD OR STILL HAVE FOR HER JUST AS FOR ME I CANT BREAK MY FRIENDSHIP BECAUSE OF SALT NOT TO TALK OF MY MARRIAGE.CHEERS

A sensible woman. This type would have enough salt and stew in her house!

nwanneni:
well,i guess your mum wasn't an international businesswoman like me,else she would have said otherwise.
Goodluck with your marriage.

Bro, you broke a sweat for nothing. This op is a phoney. He copied this story and made it look like his own experience.

Juliearth:



Bro, you broke a sweat for nothing. This op is a phoney. He copied this story and made it look like his own experience.

You have sworn that your mumuness must outshine your beauty today ba? Do you know the op from Adam?

shakmati:


Oya send me your contact details lemme prove to you I can dash you a six figure sum.

Do I look needy to you? Edit the darn post and put the source from where you copied before I expose you. Work hard so you can be able to give your family the best. Learn some manners too.

shakmati:


Oya send me your contact details lemme prove to you I can dash you a six figure sum.

Do I look needy to you? Edit the darn post and put the source from where you copied before I expose you. Work hard so you can be able to give your family the best. Learn some manners too.

Juliearth:



Do I look needy to you? Edit the darn post and put the source from where you copied before I expose you. Work hard so you can be able to give your family the best. Learn some manners too.

Yes. You look needy. You need a man to ease your built up sexual tension and you need 4 kids to engage you and maybe prevent you from carrying other people's matter on top your bbw head!

Juliearth:



Do I look needy to you? Edit the darn post and put the source from where you copied before I expose you. Work hard so you can be able to give your family the best. Learn some manners too.

Oya expose me.

adadike:
My brother, pls forgive her. Women usually does silly things. please talk to her and give her a very stern warning. you will send her packing only for you to marry a poisonous snake at the end. abeg cool your temper and see it as one of those things.

True talk.

Juliearth:



Do I look needy to you? Edit the darn post and put the source from where you copied before I expose you. Work hard so you can be able to give your family the best. Learn some manners too.

Why are you repeating posts? Poor internet connection? Have you tried 'Smile'? Stop clogging this topic pls.

Bros, the devil you know is better than the angel you don't know, just resolve the issue amicably with her.

shakmati:


Oya expose me.

No need. Those who are inquisitive would hava seen the blog you copied this from. I am sure they google searched using the first 2 sentences from your phoney post and it landed them to ogunsona's naijaloft blog(yet another phoney blogger that smokes weed and cooks up stories)

PLENTY STEW SEF ,AM HAPPY YOU ARE CALM NOW SO GO GET SALT COOK NICE MEAL AND WHEN YOUR BABY COMES DRAW A NEW MAP FOR HER,TELL HER WHAT YOU FIND OUT THAT YOU DONT LIKE AND HOW YOU WANT THINGS TO BE...DIVORCE IA NOT ALWAYS THE ANSWER.N;B MAKE SURE EATS BEFORE YOU STATE YOUR WAHAL OO

shakmati:


A sensible woman. This type would have enough salt and stew in her house!

Juliearth:




No need. Those who are inquisitive would hava seen the blog you copied this from. I am sure they google searched using the first 2 sentences from your phoney post and it landed them to ogunsona's naijaloft blog(yet another phoney blogger that smokes weed and cooks up stories)

Wow! Bloggers are publishing my post without due authorisation. I need to sue. Do you know a good lawyer? This is my intellectual property! Compare time posted for all the posts. Mine was first!

Surulady:
PLENTY STEW SEF ,AM HAPPY YOU ARE CALM NOW SO GO GET SALT COOK NICE MEAL AND WHEN YOUR BABY COMES DRAW A NEW MAP FOR HER,TELL HER WHAT YOU FIND OUT THAT YOU DONT LIKE AND HOW YOU WANT THINGS TO BE...DIVORCE IA NOT ALWAYS THE ANSWER.N;B MAKE SURE EATS BEFORE YOU STATE YOUR WAHAL OO

If you ever leave that your baby and youbare looking for a new baby, I still have 2 slots. I have married only 2 so far.

Once had the same experience. I angrily asked her why and she apologized. She said I know she likes buying things in bulk but she had been busy for a while. Then she called someone to get me what I wanted and that was all. No more issue. My brother, there are issues in marriage and this is not one of them although it can make one angry. Tell her to avoid that next time and you will be surprised how everything will normalize.

MAY GOD HELP YOU

shakmati:


If you ever leave that your baby and youbare looking for a new baby, I still have 2 slots. I have married only 2 so far.

joejoe3:
Once had the same experience. I angrily asked her why and she apologized. She said I know she likes buying things in bulk but she had been busy for a while. Then she called someone to get me what I wanted and that was all. No more issue. My brother, there are issues in marriage and this is not one of them although it can make one angry. Tell her to avoid that next time and you will be surprised how everything will normalize.

Real men with experience have arrived!

Surulady:
MAY GOD HELP YOU

Amen!

See what you will do. Since you come back once in a month, take her to the market and buy the kitchen stuff in bags like rice, beans, salt, oil, provision ,garri. When everything is available give her little amount for emergency.

Juliearth:




Why should condiments like salt be a loophole? You are failing to understand that she is human and may have forgotten to buy or maybe the one remaining was used a day before. Personally, I draft a budget on expenditure before going to the market and that is because I know that I am bound to forget and/or see other things that are important but not budgeted for so would end up having a deficit.

u dont see it as a loophole but the man in question is seeing it as loophole. Leave the question of sanity or not on the man's part. I am not also blaming the lady also. But salt should not be something that finishes just like dat. Before she depleted the last during previous use. She was just being careless. The kichen is her terrain. I also believe the husband has more than he is saying cos he just used the salt as an excuse.

I see a sick man

shakmati:
Forgive! Ordinary salt! Please don't tell me to forgive and don't tell me to talk to her. Just tell me the right kind of punishement for such irresponsible behaviour. Thank you for your concern!

Oya na let me give u simple punishment, when she comes back enhhhh, just simply ask her to go and buy everything needed in the house and in bulk with all the money you've been sending or give u back all the money to to do the shopping yourself, or better still tell no more sending much money, u will be sending foodstuffs instead.