richythePH:



who be ur sister .....aunty na man i be o.................i have a pen1s, a pen1s cap and two balls o

and nah....you getting it wrong


we men love submissive ladies who can easily sucuumb to our headship but that doesnt mean we like financially dependent ladies for keeps


that why i said earlier that they mostly end up being side chics cos like u said they're obviously very submissive

D kind of submissivness u get from a broke girl cannot b same with an independent lady. U call a broke girl anytime and she will be there cos she knows she will go home with something, she visits u and u guys have a misunderstanding, she will let u win even if she is hurt because she needs transport fair. U Cant Eat Ur cake and have it.

kazyhm:


i'm working and my direct boss is a lady and two other men by the side but she is the moost senior. in all honesty, i'm enjoying working with her because she is not like this op that think relationship should be about what you have or the position you occupy.............. gals that brings their capability/position to the table dont make a good partner and can be very unreasonable

Girls have been asked time without number what they can offer, now u are saying girls who bring their capability to d table Dont make good partners. Realy, men are confused

This is not to bash Nigerian Men at all. This is just an observation and I have every right to my opinion. I'm also not generalizing, talking about the majority.

Now I've observed something about most Nigerian men that I don't seem to understand. It baffles me and it's very distasteful. I've honestly come to the conclusion that you guys indirectly know what you want but cover it with deceit. I know every effing person has heard this phrase ' All Nigerian women bring to the table is pussy and nothing else, they're useless', but indirectly that's exactly what they want.

You see, a lot of Nigerian men have inflated fragile egos. They run after things that stroke their manhood, which is fine. The problem is that most of them are in denial. When a woman has nothing to offer but her pussy, she's dependent on you in every other aspect, especially financially. And as we all know most men find security and confidence in their pocket size. So when a woman depends on a man for her finances, it's almost like she's stroking his ego and confidence at the same time. He likes that superior/ dominant feeling. It's what most Nigerian men crave for. That financial dominance is a safety ego ground that they can always run back to.

On the other hand, when a woman is financially independent got her life together and doing well for herself, what do Nigerian men do? Run the opposite direction. Why? Intimidation. Insecurity. Fear of feeling inferior. Calling her all sorts of names. A woman who is independent will not NEED to beg you for money or ask you for anything. So in that case, they're not feeling as ' manly' as they would like. It burns them internally. Jealousy, envy and lies will begin to fall into the picture. If you don't agree with that you're on a long thing.

So Nigerian men, stop being in denial. If you want a woman who only offers her pussy and frequent emotional availability here and there, just be honest with yourself. A financially independent woman is not for the emotionally weak minded. Indirectly, most of you want a woman who is financially dependent on you. You want that financial dominance, that superiority. My problem is that when she's offering that pussy to you, don't complain. Accept it like a ' man' and take on the financial responsibility. If not, change your class of women. Financially independent women should not intimidate you or scare you away. Go for the women who will compete with you in finances. The ball is in your hands, take responsibility for your damn actions, and stop acting confused all the time.

Dassal.

Financial dependency or not. I think we as humans act in response to other people's action. Don't get me wrong i as a man may be interested in a financially independent lady however ladies that do not yield to correction is a big turn off for me. So what happens if I met a lady that is financially independent but she find it hard to listen to me. I work away. So if you judge me on the basis that we parted because she is financially indepent you are wrong.

I will consider it as a game of chess. Guy obviously have a list of things they can cope with and other they can not. As a sensitive lady you have to be familiar with all this and know what boundaries not to cross. But majority are blindfolded by the saying love covereth all. I am not disputing that but I believe at the early inception of love. It is tender and needs protection which is your duty to give.

So rather than considering finance as a reason why men find it hard to cope with a financially independent lady, you had better consider other micro factors from the ladies side.

So conclusively, for every action there is an equal and opposite reaction, get familiar with the action and it's associated reaction. If they are positive repeat if not modify as long as it will save your relationship.

Archangel15:


The way women objectify themselves on social media show that most have nothing else to offer.

You can't go through an hour's browsing without seeing a woman displaying her 'goodies' and most times charging exorbitant prices for them.

And u guys generalized saying 'all women', Like we Dont have stupid and good 4 nothing men out there.

I created this thread last year.

And since then the only argument that you men have been able to counter me with is ‘ financially independent women are arrogant and proud’

That’s your ego playing mind tricks on you. You know deep down that a financially independent women doesn’t need you, so any slight disagreements that may occur, your mind convinces you that she’s arrogant and difficult to handle. Also a woman who is more financial dependant on you will tolerate your bullshit significantly, because she has no where else to go. Someone who has their own will not, and that also falls back down to your ego. What I’ve come to realise over the years is that most of you men are confused beings, my advice to women is be yourself! If men call you goldiggers, then so be it. If men call you proud and arrogant, then so be it. Because at the end of the day, it’s evident that most of them do not even know what they want

fishguide:


Financial dependency or not. I think we as humans act in response to other people's action. Don't get me wrong i as a man may be interested in a financially independent lady however ladies that do not yield to correction is a big turn off for me. So what happens if I met a lady that is financially independent but she find it hard to listen to me. I work away. So if you judge me on the basis that we parted because she is financially indepent you are wrong.

I will consider it as a game of chess. Guy obviously have a list of things they can cope with and other they can not. As a sensitive lady you have to be familiar with all this and know what boundaries not to cross. But majority are blindfolded by the saying love covereth all. I am not disputing that but I believe at the early inception of love. It is tender and needs protection which is your duty to give.

So rather than considering finance as a reason why men find it hard to cope with a financially independent lady, you had better consider other micro factors from the ladies side.

So conclusively, for every action there is an equal and opposite reaction, get familiar with the action and it's associated reaction. If they are positive repeat if not modify as long as it will save your relationship.

Saffi:
I created this thread last year.

And since then the only argument that you men have been able to counter me with is ‘ financially independent women are arrogant and proud’

That’s your ego playing mind tricks on you. You know deep down that a financially independent women doesn’t need you, so any slight disagreements that may occur, your mind convinces you that she’s arrogant and difficult to handle. Also a woman who is more financial dependant on you will tolerate your bullshit significantly, because she has no where else to go. Someone who has their own will not, and that also falls back down to your ego. What I’ve come to realise over the years is that most of you men are confused beings, my advice to women is be yourself! If men call you goldiggers, then so be it. If men call you proud and arrogant, then so be it. Because at the end of the day, it’s evident that most of them do not even know what they want

Well we old enough to know what we want and experience has taught us in several way. If that's your view cool I am certain you will have others who thinks in that direction. I also maintain that financial independence is great however attitude development matters. You sound like you haven't came across affluent ladies who did not forget to imbibe tolerant characters despite .

gloria34:
Girls have been asked time without number what they can offer, now u are saying girls who bring their capability to d table Dont make good partners. Realy, men are confused

This is an old post. Anyway, what I mean is she is the BOSS while she knows her limit. She respect me die, she doesn't brag about being the most senior and she will always say; you guys are the engine room.......

When it comes to money, she no dey pass her boundary. Very reasonable like an angel