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Re: Nigerian Men, you Are Confused by Nobody: 12:31pm On Dec 01, 2018 |
richythePH:D kind of submissivness u get from a broke girl cannot b same with an independent lady. U call a broke girl anytime and she will be there cos she knows she will go home with something, she visits u and u guys have a misunderstanding, she will let u win even if she is hurt because she needs transport fair. U Cant Eat Ur cake and have it. |
Re: Nigerian Men, you Are Confused by Nobody: 12:37pm On Dec 01, 2018 |
kazyhm:Girls have been asked time without number what they can offer, now u are saying girls who bring their capability to d table Dont make good partners. Realy, men are confused |
Re: Nigerian Men, you Are Confused by fishguide(m): 12:38pm On Dec 01, 2018 |
This is not to bash Nigerian Men at all. This is just an observation and I have every right to my opinion. I'm also not generalizing, talking about the majority. Financial dependency or not. I think we as humans act in response to other people's action. Don't get me wrong i as a man may be interested in a financially independent lady however ladies that do not yield to correction is a big turn off for me. So what happens if I met a lady that is financially independent but she find it hard to listen to me. I work away. So if you judge me on the basis that we parted because she is financially indepent you are wrong. I will consider it as a game of chess. Guy obviously have a list of things they can cope with and other they can not. As a sensitive lady you have to be familiar with all this and know what boundaries not to cross. But majority are blindfolded by the saying love covereth all. I am not disputing that but I believe at the early inception of love. It is tender and needs protection which is your duty to give. So rather than considering finance as a reason why men find it hard to cope with a financially independent lady, you had better consider other micro factors from the ladies side. So conclusively, for every action there is an equal and opposite reaction, get familiar with the action and it's associated reaction. If they are positive repeat if not modify as long as it will save your relationship. |
Re: Nigerian Men, you Are Confused by Nobody: 12:41pm On Dec 01, 2018 |
Archangel15:And u guys generalized saying 'all women', Like we Dont have stupid and good 4 nothing men out there. |
Re: Nigerian Men, you Are Confused by Nobody: 12:51pm On Dec 01, 2018 |
I created this thread last year. And since then the only argument that you men have been able to counter me with is ‘ financially independent women are arrogant and proud’ That’s your ego playing mind tricks on you. You know deep down that a financially independent women doesn’t need you, so any slight disagreements that may occur, your mind convinces you that she’s arrogant and difficult to handle. Also a woman who is more financial dependant on you will tolerate your bullshit significantly, because she has no where else to go. Someone who has their own will not, and that also falls back down to your ego. What I’ve come to realise over the years is that most of you men are confused beings, my advice to women is be yourself! If men call you goldiggers, then so be it. If men call you proud and arrogant, then so be it. Because at the end of the day, it’s evident that most of them do not even know what they want fishguide: |
Re: Nigerian Men, you Are Confused by fishguide(m): 1:53pm On Dec 01, 2018 |
Saffi: Well we old enough to know what we want and experience has taught us in several way. If that's your view cool I am certain you will have others who thinks in that direction. I also maintain that financial independence is great however attitude development matters. You sound like you haven't came across affluent ladies who did not forget to imbibe tolerant characters despite . |
Re: Nigerian Men, you Are Confused by kazyhm(m): 6:14pm On Dec 01, 2018 |
gloria34: This is an old post. Anyway, what I mean is she is the BOSS while she knows her limit. She respect me die, she doesn't brag about being the most senior and she will always say; you guys are the engine room....... When it comes to money, she no dey pass her boundary. Very reasonable like an angel |
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