I just noticed that I'm boring the hell outta girl I've been recently talking to. Though she used to enjoy my company but then I'd used up all my bad boy moves and coding techniques I learnt from the internet.

Right now when we meet, after some lil chat I'll end up fiddling with my phone as I've run out of what to say to her.


I feel she is going through hell having to put up with me


NB: Am yet to ask her out asin to be my girl

try to find out what you guys have in common.like hobbies,TV series or movies you guys watch..you fit start dey watch televista or zee world small so u you ask her questions about the rest episodes ..or just gossip about her friends and urs..or even talk about life in your school and let her tell her school life story too

This is funny, I can't imaging not having what to say to a lady during a conversation, unless she doesn't gist. Even with my stuttering, conversation must go on.

How do you know she is bored by you, she may not have any slight interest and she's making it obvious to you. The most important thing you should be doing is to work on your low self-esteem, try and roll with girls you've something in common.

Jayslicky:
How do you know she is bored by you, she may not have any slight interest and she's making it obvious to you. The most important thing you should be doing is to work on your low self-esteem, try and roll with girls you've something in common.

Basically no girl would want to put up with a sickfuxk as me so thanks for the advice then I'll keep searching though

Goodlyhrt:
Basically no girl would want to put up with a sickfuxk as me so thanks for the advice then I'll keep searching though

Why a do you call yourself a sickfuxk, I think you just disappointed in yourself for failling to achieve your goals and you taking out the frustration on yourself.

Goodlyhrt:
I just noticed that I'm boring the hell outta girl I've been recently talking to. Though she used to enjoy my company but then I'd used up all my bad boy moves and coding techniques I learnt from the internet.

Right now when we meet, after some lil chat I'll end up fiddling with my phone as I've run out of what to say to her.


I feel she is going through hell having to put up with me


NB: Am yet to ask her out asin to be my girl

there is nothing like a boring person,

why becoz your are choosing to do things that you
if your take time to also do things that the person likes then you would find thats person not boring becoz open up and start talking becoz thats his/her likes

so its not about you when you are chatting with people its about them and they do the same to you

Mailthaddeus:
This is funny, I can't imaging not having what to say to a lady during a conversation, unless she doesn't gist. Even with my stuttering, conversation must go on.

bro are you a stammered?

I start dating another person, I won't let someone bore me to death.

I can't be with a boring person to be sincere
Am the type that likes been erh dominated.p
And boring is totally the opposite
Just my thoughts though

keeping a conversation going and interesting involves both parties. maybe the fault lies with her. work on your self esteem tho!

Depends on an individual definition of boring tho,are you boring boring or just boring...I talk and play soo much and I prefer a partner that does less of what I do...no one was born boring its just all about how open we are to people, I can act boring if I want to and I can act lively if I want to, depends on how free I am with ya.

People are moved by different forms of discussions. Few girls can engage in strong intellectual discussions, arguments, sports, science facts, history and mysticism. They enjoy relationships, family, love talks and gossips

All these to impress a typical Nigerian girl, bro you are not boring to her, she's not intelligent and she's not into you.

Good conversation is part of the atrraction for me (whatever your definition of good is), so no I couldn’t date someone I considered ‘boring’.

Be yourself from the beginning and you won’t have to go through all this, at least that way you know the person likes you for you and not all the forged ‘techniques’ you got from the internet

ibkayee:
Good conversation is part of the atrraction for me (whatever your definition of good is), so no I couldn’t date someone I considered ‘boring’.

Be yourself from the beginning and you won’t have to go through all this, at least that way you know the person likes you for you and not all the forged ‘techniques’ you got from the internet

Exactly what I was thinking. There's no way you can run out of ideas on how to be yourself because it's who you are and it comes naturally to you

Goodlyhrt:
I just noticed that I'm boring the hell outta girl I've been recently talking to. Though she used to enjoy my company but then I'd used up all my bad boy moves and coding techniques I learnt from the internet.

Right now when we meet, after some lil chat I'll end up fiddling with my phone as I've run out of what to say to her.


I feel she is going through hell having to put up with me


NB: Am yet to ask her out asin to be my girl

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