₦airaland Forum

Lots of things keeps us single for a long time and we would love to know what is the major factor.

Is it
-MONEY
-FEAR
-FAMILY
-BE A SINGLE PARENT

You can add yours.

Let's go

Because I’m 23 and not mentally ready.

I'm still 22 and there's more to life than getting married...

I never reach to marry.

Saffi:
Because I’m 23 and not mentally ready.

Hmm... How are you getting ready for it?

99% of guys will tell you its because of fear or no good girl, but in reality, the reason for them not being married is lack of MONEY due to bad Nigerian economy.

So for the guys above 29yrs, majority are single mostly because of insufficient income; MONEY, while some is because of inability to find the right lady (it is not easy to find a lady u will be comfortable to marry if u don't have a past date and u are above 28yrs as a guy).

99% of the ladies will claim they are single because they are not ready to settle down, that they are still young, don't have time for men and some will claim they want to focus on their career, but the truth is, majority of ladies are single because no guy is seriously asking them to marry him, or the guys asking their hand in marriage are way way below their life expectations.

So op expect lots of lies

Khallyella:
I'm still 22..

Hmm... How are you getting ready for it?

Haven't met the one so I decided to make money. Money is not coming, how can you help?

When the ladies act or are more of chopmates than helpmates they are converted to fxckmates not lifemates.

labake1:
Haven't met the one so I decided to make money. Money is not coming, how can you help?

The only honest person so far; make a sincere request now with faith, I want to assure u that God will answer your request in 6 months time!

I have onething remaining for me achieve and then, it's a go!!

humilitypays:
99% of guys will tell you its because of fear or no good girl, but in reality, the reason for them not being married is lack of MONEY due to bad Nigerian economy.

So for the guys above 29yrs, majority are single mostly because of insufficient income; MONEY, while some is because of inability to find the right lady (it is not easy to find a lady u will be comfortable to marry if u don't have a past date and u are above 28yrs as a guy).

99% of the ladies will claim they are single because they are not ready to settle down, that they are still young, don't have time for men and some will claim they want to focus on their career, but the truth is, majority of ladies are single because no guy is seriously asking them to marry him, or the guys asking their hand in marriage are way way below their life expectations.

So op expect lots of lies

Hmm... Great analysis

Let's see what others have to say

humilitypays:
99% of guys will tell you its because of fear or no good girl, but in reality, the reason for them not being married is lack of MONEY due to bad Nigerian economy.

So for the guys above 29yrs, majority are single mostly because of insufficient income; MONEY, while some is because of inability to find the right lady (it is not easy to find a lady u will be comfortable to marry if u don't have a past date and u are above 28yrs as a guy).

99% of the ladies will claim they are single because they are young, don't have time for men and some will claim they want to focus on their career, but the truth is, majority of ladies are single because no guy is seriously asking them to marry him, or the guys asking their hand in marriage are way way below their life expectations.

So op expect lots of lies

It's OK, we know. You didn't have to rub it in like that nah Have mercy

humilitypays:
The only honest person so far; make a sincere request now with faith, I want to assure u that God will answer your request in 6 months time!

6 months too far

humilitypays:
The only honest person so far; make a sincere request now with faith, I want to assure u that God will answer your request in 6 months time!

---

I need money to improve on my sewing business. God answer me

Nnaabros:
It's OK, we know. You didn't have to rub it in like that nah Have mercy

labake1:

---

I need money to improve on my sewing business. God answer me

Amen to your prayers my dear

princfred:
When the ladies act or are more of chopmates than helpmates they are converted to fxckmates and not lifemates.

Bros, God have the right one for everyone.

Be patient enough to find her... She won't choplate you

EscobarSnipes:
The way the society is, marriage is not something to rush into.

Abi? So money is the problem right?

I’m 20 broke and focused
I must leave this shithole county before 25

labake1:

---

I need money to improve on my sewing business. God answer me

Be specific when asking God for something.

For example: tell God that you need 100,000naira to buy sewing machine or a specific amount to do a specific project or solve a pressing need and believe it has been answered and in no distant time, you will get an answer.

But when you pray or ask with confusion without being specific, God will take it as greed or want and won't give it to you but will search your heart and grant you the most need you need at the time which will make u feel that God didn't answer your prayer.

Its just like this: imagine a rich uncle of yours just summoned a family meeting and during the meeting he asked every member of the family what their need is that's bothering them, and you go like this: sir, I need money to learn work, another said; sir I am suffering I just need money to do a lot of things to help myself and another said; sir, I need 50,000 to buy a welding machine to start my welding business which I learned.

Believe it or not, the rich uncle will give the person asking for 50,000naira first, u know why He was specific with his need.

So whenever you pray, be specific with your need at the moment. If you need money to rent shop, find out how much rent is and tell God the exact amount u need for rent, if u need money to buy sewing machine, find out how much it cost and tell God the exact money don't be greedy in your prayer or request.

Ask for a need at a time and not wants or plenty needs.

One of your life needs if gotten, will settle other needs, so identify your major life need at the moment that will settle other needs if met and ask for that specific need first.

Example can be found in the Bible where Solomon asked God for wisdom only instead of asking for cows, camels, goat, sheep, etc. He asked for wisdom and with wisdom, he crested so much wealth

Amba555:
Bros, God have the right one for everyone.

Be patient enough to find her... She won't choplate you

My fellow bros, you sure?

My case is special. Imagine 5 good ones all with spiritual matters as if God sees my as a demon chaser to have to contend with such persons.

The rest either am not interested enough in them or they are, i feel, not interested enough say play continue.

Lloydthesaint:
I’m 20 broke and focused
I must leave this shithole county before 25

Wow! You can still make it in this country legitimately

Currently in a relationship, he’s in his 30s. He’s actually been pressuring me to marry him, but I’m taking my time.

Amba555:
Hmm... How are you getting ready for it?

Amba555:
Wow! You can still make it in this country legitimately

My brother nija no help anybody o

princfred:
My fellow bros, you sure?

My case is special 5 good ones all with spiritual matters as if God sees my as a demon chaser to have to contend with such persons.

The rest either not interested in them or they are i feel not interested enough say play continue.

Being spiritual should be an added advantage for you bro

Amba555:
Hmm... How are you getting ready for it?

To an extent, I'm only 63% ready at the mo.

Soon-to-be 23, i love wedding gowns, honey moon stories etc but i'm not sure i'm ready 4 marriage. Just Dont know y, so many things on my head sha

Because I dont want to marry

Who is with me??

Meanwhile:

Who knows of or runs any Whatsapp group
where they discuss serious issues like politics,
religion, etc

Kindly post link or refer me

Amba555:
6 months too far

That's to you. Maybe she still needs to learn work well so that when she gets the money to buy sewing machines and all she needs to kickstart, she won't lose customers due to bad work or poor finishing.

So don't say its late, God have a reason for every delays if you don't act too fast