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| Please Help I'm In Bondage by atikuobi2019nig(op): 2:17am On Dec 10, 2018 |
please, ignore my errors for I'm not in my right frame of mind writing this, but corrections and insult are welcome, I'm typing this with an heavy heart and tears rolling down my cheeks, I'm an ambitious young man in my earlier 30s dating a very beautiful lady for the past three years, hoping to settle down with her, but all these years there has never been peace, issues almost every day, sometimes 2 weeks, one month, two months even more, but we still come back settle, after a while issue will come up again, more than 70% are as a result of jealousy and secrecy from both sides, she doesn't want to see me with any other girl, and guy are flocking around her too much which, I'm not comfortable with, and also my spending power can not meets her needs, people who are richer are coming to her, cos of her physic almost all of them are married anytime they approached her she comes and tell me at a point I advised my self to pull out, because I can not continue to bear all of these pain, now she has a financial challenge in her family, she is the only hope of her parents and me I can't help, one of my friends thou not that close who can, invited her to his house. but, this friend in question don't know she was my girlfriend she came to seek for permission I was so pained I don't know what to say finally, she left to spend the night with him, the very big problem now is that I just can't pull out, her thoughts revolves round my head every now and then it has drastically reduced my productive capacity my business is suffering, I can't think properly again, I just don't know how to get out of this mess please psychologist in the house pls, I need help I want to break out of this bondage |
| Re: Please Help I'm In Bondage by Nobody: 2:24am On Dec 10, 2018 |
Repeat this 3 times, with you hand on your chest. "I receive sense, IJN" "I receive sense, IJN" "I receive sense, IJN" And so shall it be. |
| Re: Please Help I'm In Bondage by HeavenlyCherub(f): 2:27am On Dec 10, 2018 |
Pray |
| Re: Please Help I'm In Bondage by Cumtroller: 2:34am On Dec 10, 2018 |
“ I'm typing this with an heavy heart and tears rolling down my cheeks“ OP just negodu what you wrote. Weak men everywhere, I suspect you squat to take a piss. Bitch nigga |
| Re: Please Help I'm In Bondage by atikuobi2019nig(op): 3:06am On Dec 10, 2018 |
TarOrfeek:tell me the sense please, I'm not thinking straight again, I'm in trouble I need help what can I do I ? |
| Re: Please Help I'm In Bondage by atikuobi2019nig(op): 3:10am On Dec 10, 2018 |
TarOrfeek:tell me the sense please, I'm not thinking straight again, I need help what can I do plzzzz |
| Re: Please Help I'm In Bondage by bigt2(m): 3:11am On Dec 10, 2018 |
Tears rolling down your cheeks or a smileys cheeks?
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| Re: Please Help I'm In Bondage by Lexusgs430: 3:29am On Dec 10, 2018 |
atikuobi2019nig:She went to prostitute herself, because she and her family had a financial challenge? The same way she would prostitute herself, when you marry her..... I bet she is already a runzgal on the side, but the love is turning you blind..... You better run like fire is burning your ass....... Did you ask her how the guy squeezed her mangoro's and pounded her snail or if she gave him a head or if he tossed her salad........? A man that loses his mind and business, because he is stupidly in love..... Would see a thousand men pass over the same girl..... Now tell me if the loss was worth it..... |
| Re: Please Help I'm In Bondage by folly22(f): 3:30am On Dec 10, 2018 |
She spent a night with your friend and u still think u need advice? |
| Re: Please Help I'm In Bondage by Lexusgs430: 3:32am On Dec 10, 2018 |
folly22:He deserves an award...... Not that type of award.... The best idiot on nairaland....... |
| Re: Please Help I'm In Bondage by BRMN: 5:35am On Dec 10, 2018 |
She went to enjoy herself with your friend, and this shows she's not a responsible girl. Quit that relationship immediately. If you continue with her, I'm sorry for u. |
| Re: Please Help I'm In Bondage by highqueen(f): 5:44am On Dec 10, 2018 |
You really think that kind of girl.deserve your tears? Someone that care less of your emotions cos you can't afford all her needs. Better wake up, she has proven to you that you mean nothing to her by sleeping with your friend. Meaning that she has slept with more guys that you don't even know, Please, quit that relationship for you sanity. |
| Re: Please Help I'm In Bondage by planetx13: 5:53am On Dec 10, 2018 |
What you need is a " factory reset, made in russia slap ... It's obvious you're not thinking clearly Ciao |
| Re: Please Help I'm In Bondage by Nobody: 5:57am On Dec 10, 2018 |
All girls are B!tches right? Let them continue to meet d real B!tches, i just luv how they cry at d end |
| Re: Please Help I'm In Bondage by carter009(m): 6:05am On Dec 10, 2018 |
gloria34:
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| Re: Please Help I'm In Bondage by Uglymugg: 6:06am On Dec 10, 2018 |
I'm sorry OP but because of your political affiliation, I cannot render any help to you. Thanks for posting. |
| Re: Please Help I'm In Bondage by Nobody: 6:08am On Dec 10, 2018 |
[quote author=carter009 post=73706020][/quote]Likewise to d stupidity portrayed by u and Ur folks |
| Re: Please Help I'm In Bondage by Nobody: 6:16am On Dec 10, 2018 |
atikuobi2019nig:why are you wasting your time. stop being in your feelings, man up , break up with her and hustle to make real money. it is obvious you guys are keeping each other as back up plans. Men pls i beg you all cos i will type this once. Broke+ relationship=Misery. If you cant provide in a relationship and a woman cant nuture, there is no point. the other party will entertain other options. |
| Re: Please Help I'm In Bondage by carter009(m): 6:17am On Dec 10, 2018 |
They problem with you is that you talk too much.... gloria34: |
| Re: Please Help I'm In Bondage by Nobody: 6:17am On Dec 10, 2018 |
highqueen:what is a financially unstable man doing in a situationship in the first place. |
| Re: Please Help I'm In Bondage by Nobody: 6:19am On Dec 10, 2018 |
carter009:My account, my typing. Any problem? |
| Re: Please Help I'm In Bondage by highqueen(f): 6:21am On Dec 10, 2018 |
funmisticqueen:He should have broken up with the lady than wasting his time with someone that has a bigger problem than him. If I'm a guy, once I notice infidelity in my relationship, I'm calling it a quit. |
| Re: Please Help I'm In Bondage by Nobody: 6:23am On Dec 10, 2018 |
atikuobi2019nig: chaiiiiiiiiiiiiSo some men can mumu like this |
| Re: Please Help I'm In Bondage by carter009(m): 6:28am On Dec 10, 2018 |
No problem dear, all I wanted to say is that you should take things easy,, I shouldn't have said that in they first place, but you continue if you want to. gloria34: |
| Re: Please Help I'm In Bondage by Mintum: 6:28am On Dec 10, 2018 |
Op, you are your own problem. Leave the bitch and move on with your life |
| Re: Please Help I'm In Bondage by Nobody: 6:42am On Dec 10, 2018 |
carter009:u should have said that from d beginning instead of calling me stupid. There are times i overlook insults, there are times i dont. Its just to early, Sorry 4 sounding harsh |
| Re: Please Help I'm In Bondage by CAPSLOCKED: 6:54am On Dec 10, 2018*. Modified: 7:24am On Dec 10, 2018 |
atikuobi2019nig: |
| Re: Please Help I'm In Bondage by Oreofepeters: 7:00am On Dec 10, 2018 |
highqueen:So you are this sensible? Right now I'm flabbergasted I never believed you could reason like this......... |
| Re: Please Help I'm In Bondage by Allaboutkatiee(f): 7:39am On Dec 10, 2018 |
atikuobi2019nig:Op kill yourself nau Na woman matter you just pack put for head. That girl has totally destroyed you emotionally. Like for 3years?? Ha this is not normal again na. I pray you receive sense and flee from that girl before its too late. My thoughts tho. |
| Re: Please Help I'm In Bondage by DanDeeBoss(m): 7:48am On Dec 10, 2018 |
gloria34:A-ha cool down na...
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| Re: Please Help I'm In Bondage by MannieA(f): 8:02am On Dec 10, 2018 |
Uglymugg:lolllzzz......kai!! |
| Re: Please Help I'm In Bondage by MannieA(f): 8:18am On Dec 10, 2018 |
atikuobi2019nig:.lollzz...oga...u are the one causing ur problems... tbh ehnnn..some of y'all don't need advice coz...it's just a simple thing you need to do...why would God be giving u signs and you are thinking it's a problem ![]() These are signs DAT the relationship isn't right ..she isn't the one for you.... how can a Lady leave her boyfriend and go to another man's house and sleep which means she doesn't respect you... she doesn't respect you at all!!!you're in DAT relationship because of her looks.....you are bearing all these shii coz she's beautiful and you feel you won't get somebody as pretty as her again.... my dear...u don't know your worth!!!do not place looks over ur happiness.. be with somebody DAT makes you happy.. you are going bankrupt trying to please somebody DAT doesn't care about you!!you are only doing urself o.. .find somebody better...there are lots of good women DAT need good men. your relationship with her is very toxic....... and u said rich men are always around her ..if rich men are always around her. leave her for them ..any woman who uses her body to make money and gives silly excuses is a fool...... |
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