Lol! Looking for a naija babe with only one boyfriend is a job itself... if you know, you know

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them carry family problème entere relationship,,one boyfriend no fit solve an finish

I have never come across anywhere it is stated that a girl must date one boy. As long as you are not married to her, there's nothing stopping her from sampling another guy. We guys also do that so whats the big deal.

Its better you go look for ways to make a lot of money, then marry the one you feel comfortable with.

Suchy22:

OK... but what if she keeps those other guys as second options so that when she eventually leaves the guy, she wouldn't be lonely. Not like she's sleeping with those other guys tho...

There is nothing wrong for a girl to be alone for some time. Haba, d, ick no dey tire you?

Karatum:

Everybody na ur sister

my sister any problem

Most ladies see relationship like military strategy...where they can have optionA and optionB..incase one fails..to me its just greediness that is worrying our ladies of nowadays..

blujoi:
I have never come across anywhere it is stated that a girl must date one boy. As long as you are not married to her, there's nothing stopping her from sampling another guy. We guys also do that so whats the big deal.

Its better you go look for ways to make a lot of money, then marry the one you feel comfortable with.

remember this your comment. when your fiancee sample other guys dont come here and rant

Brother Olu,thanks for looking out for me, but I’m not among the wet-behind-the-ears teenagers that form the majority on this forum. The only thing that will make me rant online would be money related, like I said make money and quit worrying about females loyalty, a female will decide to be faithful to you out of her own conviction that you have game and you are man enough. So up your game(financially, sexually,swag) and all others will be added to you. Me wey dey contemplate marrying two sef, swag too much

Oluwa4u:
remember this your comment. when your fiancee sample other guys dont come here and rant

Its not greediness, it’s reality. Females are more realists than men. Females get attention from several men on a daily basis and the reality is they would surely fall for one or two or even three, it’s the reality of the dating game, the sooner you have that at the back of your mind the more peace you will have

habsydiamond:
Most ladies see relationship like military strategy...where they can have optionA and optionB..incase one fails..to me its just greediness that is worrying our ladies of nowadays..

Your right....

blujoi:
Its not greediness, it’s reality. Females are more realists than men. Females get attention from several men on a daily basis and the reality is they would surely fall for one or two or even three, it’s the reality of the dating game, the sooner you have that at the back of your mind the more peace you will have

Suchy22:
Don't speak for all girls. Sometimes when a guy sees how faithful and loyal his babe is, he takes her for granted.

you are quite right about this tho

It’s the truth bro! I am always amused when I come here and read stories of guys sweating about their girls cheating on them,going through their phones, stalking them on social media. Time and energy that you would use and learn a skill or do something productive.

carter009:
Your right....

blujoi:
Brother Olu,thanks for looking out for me, but I’m not among the wet-behind-the-ears teenagers that form the majority on this forum. The only thing that will make me rant online would be money related, like I said make money and quit worrying about females loyalty, a female will decide to be faithful to you out of her own conviction that you have game and you are man enough. So up your game(financially, sexually,swag) and all others will be added to you. Me wey dey contemplate marrying two sef, swag too much

so money, sex and swag will make a lady loyal to you? Your logic is nice. I guess you confuse gold digging with loyalty then. Women dont even know what they want. Watch how your loyal girl will cheat on your 'rich-sixpack-swaggalicious' ass with your driver you still got a lot to learn bro. And remember 'everyone 'loves' you when you are rich'

Oluwa4u:
so money, sex and swag will make a lady loyal to you? Your logic is nice. I guess you confuse gold digging with loyalty then. Women dont even know what they want. Watch how your loyal girl will cheat on your 'rich-sixpack-swaggalicious' ass with your driver you still got a lot to learn bro. And remember 'everyone 'loves' you when you are rich'

that guy probably still learning about life bro. Unbeknown to him swag, money, six packs, cannot keep or make a woman to be loyal. It takes grace of God to keep a woman. I've had many experiences in life to have arrived at this conclusion.
Women are most confused creatures, when your wife cheat on you with your gateman or houseboy. You begin to wonder, what does she really want?

It takes his grace to keep a woman hence don't put your mind 100% at it. Don't stress yourself by going through her phone.

Women are drawn to confident men, men who are in control, that’s what I call swag. Money in your pocket gives confidence. Now why would my driver have more swag than me? It’s impossible. You still have a whole lot to learn brother Olu, women’s loyalty is earned, not coerced. if you don’t fvck your woman to her satisfaction then you don’t have money to take care of her needs, how do you expect her to be loyal? The subject of gold digging is entirely different, but I can even bring it in here, if you have game no woman can gold dig you
My point is stop spending valuable time trying to find out if your girl is cheating on you, the one who will cheat will cheat,the one who is convinced that you have what she needs in a man will stay loyal to you. Up your game and stay woke bro

Oluwa4u:
so money, sex and swag will make a lady loyal to you? Your logic is nice. I guess you confuse gold digging with loyalty then. Women dont even know what they want. Watch how your loyal girl will cheat on your 'rich-sixpack-swaggalicious' ass with your driver you still got a lot to learn bro. And remember 'everyone 'loves' you when you are rich'

You are not in control that’s why your wife would have the mind to go fvck your gateman. I never said anything about six packs or throwing money at women. Both of you are confused, money can never buy you loyalty. Take care of your woman, treat her right and she’s all yours. If she fvcks up kick her to the curb and replace her.

Oreofepeters:
that guy probably still learning about life bro. Unbeknown to him swag, money, six packs, cannot keep or make a woman to be loyal. It takes grace of God to keep a woman. I've had many experiences in life to have arrived at this conclusion.
Women are most confused creatures, when your wife cheat on you with your gateman or houseboy. You begin to wonder, what does she really want?

blujoi:
You are not in control that’s why your wife would have the mind to go fvck your gateman. I never said anything about six packs or throwing money at women. Both of you are confused, money can never buy you loyalty. Take care of your woman, treat her right and she’s all yours. If she fvcks up kick her to the curb and replace her.

The guy that his wife cheated on did the above mentioned but his wife still went ahead to cheat on him with his houseboy while he was offshore.
Bro tell me, what else is she lacking?

I cannot be certain until I hear all the elements of the story, I try to avoid one sided conclusions, but what comes to my mind is one, the guy doesn’t satisfy her sexually, there’s a way u fvck a woman and even if you are not there, your voice alone on the phone will get her dripping wet. There’s a way you fvck a woman and she would cringe at the thought of another man touching her. Now the second reason would be he tried to make a hoe into a housewife, many have tried none have succeeded!! As a guy who has game you should be able to decipher between a hoe and a housewife. Which boils down to being in control of your relationship

Oreofepeters:
The guy that his wife cheated on did the above mentioned but his wife still went ahead to cheat on him with his houseboy while he was offshore.
Bro tell me, what else is she lacking?

Suchy22:
Don't speak for all girls. Sometimes when a guy sees how faithful and loyal his babe is, he takes her for granted.

both genders are guilty of this... it's even worse with girls trust me

blujoi:
Women are drawn to confident men, men who are in control, that’s what I call swag. Money in your pocket gives confidence. Now why would my driver have more swag than me? It’s impossible. You still have a whole lot to learn brother Olu, women’s loyalty is earned, not coerced. if you don’t fvck your woman to her satisfaction then you don’t have money to take care of her needs, how do you expect her to be loyal? The subject of gold digging is entirely different, but I can even bring it in here, if you have game no woman can gold dig you
My point is stop spending valuable time trying to find out if your girl is cheating on you, the one who will cheat will cheat,the one who is convinced that you have what she needs in a man will stay loyal to you. Up your game and stay woke bro

lol so naive. U lack experience bro. How many girls have u dated and...are u rich? 'U remind me of fresher's dream of first class' and at final year 'you just want to graduate'

Oreofepeters:
that guy probably still learning about life bro. Unbeknown to him swag, money, six packs, cannot keep or make a woman to be loyal. It takes grace of God to keep a woman. I've had many experiences in life to have arrived at this conclusion.
Women are most confused creatures, when your wife cheat on you with your gateman or houseboy. You begin to wonder, what does she really want?

It takes his grace to keep a woman hence don't put your mind 100% at it. Don't stress yourself by going through her phone.

leave am...he will eventually understand why great men said 'fear women'

Oluwa4u:
hello ladies i know a lot of you are guilty of this. Yes you!! you know yourself deep inside that you are dating more than one bf. Even if you have 10packs, rich, handsome and nice naija girls will still open door for other guys. if you think i am lying check your gf facebook inbox or Instagram. Not that i am encouraging insecurity but the truth is better. The finer your gf is the more guys will be trying to displace you. Another thing i notice that it is very common among low socio economic class. The body count of some of these girls can subscribe for 2month data plan. ladies please can we change for the good?

TRUST ISSUE

Bro, assumption is the lowest type of intelligence. I would have expected you to counter my points with superior arguments of yours, If we were to rank on dating experiences I would outrank you. I’m not rich as I would love to but I have enough, but this post isn’t about that, I want to hear your own thoughts and concepts regarding dating. Try and be objective.

Oluwa4u:
lol so naive. U lack experience bro. How many girls have u dated and...are u rich? 'U remind me of fresher's dream of first class' and at final year 'you just want to graduate'

blujoi:
Bro, assumption is the lowest type of intelligence. I would have expected you to counter my points with superior arguments of yours, If we were to rank on dating experiences I would outrank you. I’m not rich as I would love to but I have enough, but this post isn’t about that, I want to hear your own thoughts and concepts regarding dating. Try and be objective.

but u also presumed that this forum is filled with teenagers and financially challanged. Are u a narcissist? I want to go on and presume that u think money is everything and can buy even girls loyalty. Dont worry..when u finally get that money u will remeber this post. U never jam ..dont worry ..life bleeps all of us...'na person wey never get accident before dey speed'

Narcissist? Lol!!! You started the assumptions and I let you know I wasn’t inexperienced and my posts were very direct and consistent. Point 1. Do not waste your energy trying to coerce loyalty from a woman. Earn it. I guess you failed to read where I said throwing money at a woman cannot buy you loyalty. Point 2. Be in control, if a woman messes up kick her out. Now with these points why do you still assume wrongly. It’s written in black and white, I’m not responsible for the way you understand it. For you to open a topic asking why a Naija girl can’t have one boyfriend speaks a lot.

It will be a pleasure to see your own counter points to what I have stated. Let’s hear your own concept.

Oluwa4u:
but u also presumed that this forum is filled with teenagers and financially challanged. Are u a narcissist? I want to go on and presume that u think money is everything and can buy even girls loyalty. Dont worry..when u finally get that money u will remeber this post. U never jam ..dont worry ..life bleeps all of us...'na person wey never get accident before dey speed'

blujoi:
Narcissist? Lol!!! You started the assumptions and I let you know I wasn’t inexperienced and my posts were very direct and consistent. Point 1. Do not waste your energy trying to coerce loyalty from a woman. Earn it. I guess you failed to read where I said throwing money at a woman cannot buy you loyalty. Point 2. Be in control, if a woman messes up kick her out. Now with these points why do you still assume wrongly. It’s written in black and white, I’m not responsible for the way you understand it. For you to open a topic asking why a Naija girl can’t have one boyfriend speaks a lot.

It will be a pleasure to see your own counter points to what I have stated. Let’s hear your own concept.

you are now contradicting your own points. And ur number 2 point is not relevant since we are not talking of control here. Out of experience and observation i created this thread. And it speaks alot of the same experience im talking about. Now i know that we guys cheat alot too and have earn the name 'dogs' from ladies. ladies on the other hand cheat and are very good at playing the 'saint' card all the time (Consider linder ikeji) If a relationship crashes it is assumed that its the guys fault. Lets pray you dont marry a loyal wife that will not give you 5 beautiful children that are not yours. With that said i want to pull out of this argument

I would be happy if you could point out the contradictions, as the regards to dogs and female dogs lets leave it for another thread but since you are pulling out, no wahala. Make sure the only thing you pull out from is a pvssy, like 2 or 3. Have a great weekend.

Oluwa4u:
you are now contradicting your own points. And ur number 2 point is not relevant since we are not talking of control here. Out of experience and observation i created this thread. And it speaks alot of the same experience im talking about. Now i know that we guys cheat alot too and have earn the name 'dogs' from ladies. ladies on the other hand cheat and are very good at playing the 'saint' card all the time (Consider linder ikeji) If a relationship crashes it is assumed that its the guys fault. Lets pray you dont marry a loyal wife that will not give you 5 beautiful children that are not yours. With that said i want to pull out of this argument

Cholls:
my sister that is your opinion and this kind can kill your motivation. Finding the one (man) is not that difficult its just that you place so much of your happiness in a relationship...just take this as an example in order to have a peaceful relationship is by accepting your man the way you would accept your male brother that is unfaithful.

Ooh yeah....Double standard

Oluwa4u:
hello ladies i know a lot of you are guilty of this. Yes you!! you know yourself deep inside that you are dating more than one bf. Even if you have 10packs, rich, handsome and nice naija girls will still open door for other guys. if you think i am lying check your gf facebook inbox or Instagram. Not that i am encouraging insecurity but the truth is better. The finer your gf is the more guys will be trying to displace you. Another thing i notice that it is very common among low socio economic class. The body count of some of these girls can subscribe for 2month data plan. ladies please can we change for the good?

SAME REASON WHY A GUY CAN'T KEEP JUST ONE LADY.....

Inasmuch as I don't advise and subscribe to dating more than one guy at a time, you guys are the major reason why ladies practice such...You end up taking the lady that is faithful for granted...I ve NEVER AND LL NEVER date more than one guy at a time cos I love my body but if any lady can and wldnt mind, in fact she shldgo ahead

habsydiamond:
Most ladies see relationship like military strategy...where they can have optionA and optionB..incase one fails..to me its just greediness that is worrying our ladies of nowadays..

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What about guys?

Evercurious:
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What about guys?

we get our own too but the ladies sabi strategies pass guys