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please I seriously need an answer to this, my gf who is also my coxmate broke up with me because she thought she was pregnant and according to her she started seeing me as someone that wants to destroy her future, when we assumed for the semester she gave me the shocking news after I begged her to tell me her mind because she have been behaving strange, I was so bittered that I started dating another gal who also happens to be my coxmate, when my ex found out I have started dating another gal, she was so angry with me that she called me out of the class privately and bitterly told me that I am a cheat and that I never loved her, she went on by saying I was forcing her to break up with her so I can hang out with my new gf, she went on by saying that she still loves me but she don't want to date for now and
her seeing me with the new gal gets her angry and jealous, after somedays I broke up with the new gal because I still love my ex despite she broke up with me and we still hang out together and do romantic stuff even as we are not dating, please I need your advice, am I doing the right thing by still being with her despite we ain't dating what should I do

You need to focus on your school and leave these confused children alone. Life in the real world is not very kind. There will be more confused girls come your way in life but right now break free and move on.
Condoms are also very helpful as well because in your sorry state can you provide for a family?
Regarding your conundrum she does not know what she wants and is quite immature. You both need to stop wasting each other’s time.
You need to focus on what matters.

MissRaine69:
You need to focus on your school and leave these confused children alone. Life in the real world is not very kind. There will be more confused girls come your way in life but right now break free and move on.
Condoms are also very helpful as well because in your sorry state can you provide for a family?
Regarding your conundrum she does not know what she wants and is quite immature. You both need to stop wasting each other’s time.
You need to focus on what matters.

you this missraine. you always have something to say

timmy527:
please I seriously need an answer to this, my gf who is also my coxmate broke up with me because she thought she was pregnant and according to her she started seeing me as someone that wants to destroy her future, when we assumed for the semester she gave me the shocking news after I begged her to tell me her mind because she have been behaving strange, I was so bittered that I started dating another gal who also happens to be my coxmate, when my ex found out I have started dating another gal, she was so angry with me that she called me out of the class privately and bitterly told me that I am a cheat and that I never loved her, she went on by saying I was forcing her to break up with her so I can hang out with my new gf, she went on by saying that she still loves me but she don't want to date for now and
her seeing me with the new gal gets her angry and jealous, after somedays I broke up with the new gal because I still love my ex despite she broke up with me and we still hang out together and do romantic stuff even as we are not dating, please I need your advice, am I doing the right thing by still being with her despite we ain't dating what should I do

Yes it’s possible

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Rawmalik:
you this missraine. you always have something to say

The purpose of this forum is to do what exactly?

This boy no get work, you need to spend some days in mallamfatori
Ya brain go reset

This boy no get work, you need to spend some days in mallamfatori
Ya brain go reset

Resener11:
Yes it’s possible

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so what do you advise I do, I should continue like that with her...?

MissRaine69:
You need to focus on your school and leave these confused children alone. Life in the real world is not very kind. There will be more confused girls come your way in life but right now break free and move on.
Condoms are also very helpful as well because in your sorry state can you provide for a family?
Regarding your conundrum she does not know what she wants and is quite immature. You both need to stop wasting each other’s time.
You need to focus on what matters.

thanks so much, but it's not as easy you you think

CaptainStephen:
This boy no get work, you need to spend some days in mallamfatori

Ya brain go reset

ppl answering Stephen are always stupid, I have one in my Lodge and he is our security man, now I have meet again here..SMH

From what I read... I think you jumped into another relationship immediately after to spite your ex... Well, congrats! It worked.
Some people make the mistake of immediately jumping into another relationship when they are yet to heal from the previous one(s).
So, I'd advise you to take time to heal before you walk into another relationship.

timmy527:
ppl answering Stephen are always stupid, I have one in my Lodge and he is our security man, now I have meet again here..SMH

yimmu , come talk am for my front

timmy527:
so what do you advise I do, I should continue like that with her...?

Don’t put all your effort on her only. Keep the new one too but codedly

timmy527:
thanks so much, but it's not as easy you you think

I don't think she's indirectly saying it's easy. What's important is you focus on your NEEDS, not trivial issues. Whether it's easy or not, you need to take your mind off these things and focus on having a bright future.

I can't find 'coxmate' in my dictionary...

Can anyone help please?
Op is in the University, he writes his examinations and other assessment in English and can't be displaying stvpidity here right?

SMH... This is the reason Nigeria will never see the light. A supposed undergraduate wrote that painstaking epistle above?

Bia Op, it's like you need a resounding slap. It won't come from me anyway, your GP will do the job and by then, your eye will clear.

Useless youth!

Abeg whc school and dept you dey? because it seems your class ladies are cheerful donours

The op types so fast that he doesn't have time for punctuations.

DonHummer:
Abeg whc school and dept you dey? because it seems your class ladies are cheerful donours

I be dey think soo oo



imagine jumping from one girl to the other in the same department....


I no fit even date my coursemate to start with....




the guy try sha

Its very possible.

Jayhazard:
I don't think she's indirectly saying it's easy. What's important is you focus on your NEEDS, not trivial issues. Whether it's easy or not, you need to take your mind off these things and focus on having a bright future.

I believe u have a gf.. why are you wicked

Valerie47:
Its very possible.

give reasons y do u say so

mhizbel:
From what I read... I think you jumped into another relationship immediately after to spite your ex... Well, congrats! It worked.
Some people make the mistake of immediately jumping into another relationship when they are yet to heal from the previous one(s).
So, I'd advise you to take time to heal before you walk into another relationship.

I did dat to recover from the wound...but I guess it didn't work out

Mrnakeina:
I can't find 'coxmate' in my dictionary...

Can anyone help please?
Op is in the University, he writes his examinations and other assessment in English and can't be displaying stvpidity here right?

hello Mr stupidity must I write it as coursemate U don't know d meaning of abbreviation abi Mugu

Learnstuffs:
By the time your coxmate will cause your GP to undergo free fall under gravity, I will give u advice

be nice nah.. na only advice on this particular issue I ask for!

HenryDion:
SMH... This is the reason Nigeria will never see the light. A supposed undergraduate wrote that painstaking epistle above?

Bia Op, it's like you need a resounding slap. It won't come from me anyway, your GP will do the job and by then, your eye will clear.

Useless youth!

wicked youth... Oya lie say u are girlfrienless

DonHummer:
Abeg whc school and dept you dey? because it seems your class ladies are cheerful donours

this is why ur ancestors removed ur brain and used it to eat soup..

jefdr001:
The op types so fast that he doesn't have time for punctuations.

my dear you are right but don't you have sense to understand on ur own

if I call u mumu now, they will say that I have insulted u

timmy527:
thanks so much, but it's not as easy you you think

Nothing is easy, life is not easy having difficult conversations is not easy that is what it means to be an adult.

timmy527:
give reasons y do u say so

Well, some ladies have anger issues which will prompt them to break up with their partner, its not as if they want to, its just anger, then later on, they start regretting by their action.