It's requires efforts day in and day out. The day you stop trying, that day things start falling apart.
I don't want a perfect Home, I just want A HAPPY HOME.


Nice one Ma'am
You can now look back and laugh over them.

How can a mother tell her daughter that she has no house or room in her fathers house?
What kind of stupid statement is that?
Some women eh.

When I got home the first person I see is my mum and she said what are you doing here? I began ranting and she said you don’t have a house or a room here, you better pack your bags and go home.

It takes two to make it work. These days, males just leave the females to do the work because of that evil sense of entitlement. It can't work that way. Never.

Her mother though, let me blame it on ignorance.

LesbianBoy:
Sorry to say (in fact I am not sorry sef).....

Olu Jacobs is a mumu man.

So because of ORDINARY shout she packed out and went back to her father's house and he even called her back?

Btw, why did he even allow her to be answering her father's name after PAYING her bride price?

Shame on him! *spits*

Children everywhere on nairaland, jobless and senseless children! Filling up the front pages with idiotic nonsense. Jeez! Seun, are you sleeping?

realabraham:



Children everywhere on nairaland, jobless and senseless children! Filling up the front pages with idiotic nonsense. Jeez! Seun, are you sleeping?

See this one.

frommee0:
Joke Silva has surprised all who think her marriage to Olu Jacob has no challenges. Just recently, the amazing couple celebrated their 33rd wedding anniversary.





In her words; "It happened a lot. I recall a particular incident that happened when we just had our first baby. It turned out to be a learning curve for me. Olu had just come back from set apparently what happened was that he was still in that character that he had just played on set.

So we were just talking and he just started shouting and I was like, “Is it me you are talking to? Do you think I don’t have a father?” 



So I packed my clothes with the drawer and I dumped it in my car, carried my baby and I remember our landlady lived at the back of our compound. So, she came out and started shouting, “Joke, where are you going to?’’ I told her I was going to my father’s house.

When I got home the first person I see is my mum and she said what are you doing here? I began ranting and she said you don’t have a house or a room here, you better pack your bags and go home.

My father sort of understood where I was coming from. Funnily, my husband called and asked, “When are you coming home?” That was the first time and I did it a couple of other times.

GIST VIA -
https://nairatrend.com.ng/i-almost-ended-my-marriage-with-olu-jacobs-several-times-actress-joke-silva/

useless ugly couple

He call your mobile phone Abi....
Shift with this your story abeg. Who make up story epp?

Kindly visit www.dilianne.com

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The most respectable couple in the industry.


Modify: By the way, which lucky member of the forum will give us President MUHAMMADU BUHARI official birthday thread tomorrow ?!
You will get a very special gift from us.
Guys, start working towards that!
Patriots, we know all of us can't be there, but y'all duly represented.
See you when we come back from Aso Rock.
Happy birthday in advance to our handsome daddy!

With this performance, how the hell does he deserve such a befitting birthday

He called to.say when re u coming homeabeg wch year phone come out? And ur kids re all grown up..hmmmmmmm

Glad your mother had sense

SURElee:
I particularly love the fact he called to ask her when she is coming home. Na man wey Sabi.

J no go call. I go wait wen she tire. She go waka come back

Wow, nice they are still together, endurance and patience is the key.

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Awoo88:

J no go call. I go wait wen she tire. She go waka come back

I know you na. Different strokes for different folks. Do you know as a couple, the longer you allow issues and misunderstanding rob you both of quality communication alot goes astray?


When it is said not to go to bed angry at your spouse. I have understood why. Make up and flex yourselves, marriage is for 50years and above where long life is enjoyed, why spend it it bickering and ignoring yourselves when you can make it blissful everyday despite the weaknesses of each partner.

Peace and one love and the family being the smallest unit of the society will greatly impact the larger community and the world.

fuckingAyaya:
Hard to find a perfect marriage

More like impossible. You only find good marriages made up two persons who understand that they are only human full of mistakes and are ready to forgive.









































It is getting rare to find though.

nijabazaar:
Marriage is just a farce...

Not everyone is meant for it anyway.

It still will not define ur sole purpose on earth...

Its just what society foists on its members as a way of creating hierarchies, and appearances of the normal

.... And the world is finally at peace! God bless you!

LesbianBoy:
Sorry to say (in fact I am not sorry sef).....

Olu Jacobs is a mumu man.

So because of ORDINARY shout she packed out and went back to her father's house and he even called her back?

Btw, why did he even allow her to be answering her father's name after PAYING her bride price?

Shame on him! *spits*

I can bet with your head that you're not married

Women! It takes a strong man to handle them.
That's how my woman and I had a misunderstanding, she said we should take time off, then I asked her if she wanted out she said no. She said she wanted space, I said OK, and left the room, na so babe begin vex, dey shout sey "So you don't even want to try to work things out. So if I say I need space that's how you'd leave me here alone abi!". I wanted to say something but words couldn't come. I just sighed and shook my head.
What do you women want?!

Problem with marriages these days is that people don't want to work on their marriages, they prefer to quit, they quit too much, I will take my time and scrutinize my future husband before getting married, I hate divorce.

1972xy:
And, she did it a couple of times.hmmm!
Oju joke wa ni ta ni. Marriage is not by force. You cannot be pretending you love your husband where you don't.
If you do. Why still bearing your maiden name? Olu Jacobs should be wise.

Should be wise after 33 years of marriage? I wager that their marriage is older than you are. Do you think you can pretend to love someone that long?

You think say na children relationship.

VictorRomanov:


More like impossible. You only find good marriages made up two persons who understand that they are only human full of mistakes and are ready to forgive.





It is getting rare to find though.

Forgiveness is very important in our daily lives especially relationships and marriages.

fuckingAyaya:
Hard to find a perfect marriage

The rich also cry

VictorRomanov:


More like impossible. You only find good marriages made up two persons who understand that they are only human full of mistakes and are ready to forgive.





It is getting rare to find though.

Forgiveness is very important in marriages.

NarnieSnyper:
Women! It takes a strong man to handle them.
That's how my woman and I had a misunderstanding, she said we should take time off, then I asked her if she wanted out she said no. She said she wanted space, I said OK, and left the room, na so babe begin vex, dey shout sey "So you don't even want to try to work things out. So if I say I need space that's how you'd leave me here alone abi!". I wanted to say something but words couldn't come. I just sighed and shook my head.
What do you women want?!
:DWomen! It takes a strong man to handle them.
That's how my woman and I had a misunderstanding, she said we should take time off, then I asked her if she wanted out she said no. She said she wanted space, I said OK, and left the room, na so babe begin vex, dey shout sey "So you don't even want to try to work things out. So if I say I need space that's how you'd leave me here alone abi!". I wanted to say something but words couldn't come. I just sighed and shook my head.
What do you women want?!

Bro, she just want make you pet her make she no want the space again. To them the petting makes them feel wanted and loved.


But they dont know it can be frustrating to us sometimes.

SURElee:


I know you na. Different strokes for different folks. Do you know as a couple, the longer you allow issues and misunderstanding rob you both of quality communication alot goes astray?


When it is said not to go to bed angry at your spouse. I have understood why. Make up and flex yourselves, marriage is for 50years and above where long life is enjoyed, why spend it it bickering and ignoring yourselves when you can make it blissful everyday despite the weaknesses of each partner.

Peace and one love and the family being the smallest unit of the society will greatly impact the larger community and the world.

My dear sometimes fighting with other people's tool is the only true way to happiness and better communication. She is lucky to have a man that tolerate such actions. Some will let her stay there still she will come back in shame. Next time, she will know that ori bebe in ogun ori fifor. You can communicate better by allowing your spouse to tire him/herself out. Than go and try to reason out issue. Walking out is a major turn off for me. I will never ask my spouse that left on her own when is she coming less alone ask her to come back.

Kimy97:
He called to.say when re u coming homeabeg wch year phone come out? And ur kids re all grown up..hmmmmmmm

Nigerians have been using telephone for more than 40years.....dont say what you don't know

majekdom2:
this is a perfect one to me. Point is they weathered the storm together.

They have a perfect marriage because they were not born in this our generation of self-centered and deceitful minds.

1972xy:
Why still bearing your maiden name? Olu Jacobs should be wise.

at what age?

VictorRomanov:


Bro, she just want make you pet her make she no want the space again. To them the petting makes them feel wanted and loved.

But they dont know it can be frustrating to us sometimes.

Yeah, I did what I had to do to make her happy.
Sometimes, they just go angry for no reason so you can apologise and then pet/cuddle them instead of asking for it outrightly.

Like I said, it takes a strong man to handle a woman

Marriage endures, that is, true marriage, not fake ones like...

1972xy:
And, she did it a couple of times.hmmm!
Oju joke wa ni ta ni. Marriage is not by force. You cannot be pretending you love your husband where you don't.
If you do. Why still bearing your maiden name? Olu Jacobs should be wise.

Shoro e niyen o... Is her husband complaining?!