WORDWORLD:



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gcmHkDhtOto

1Sharon:


But a man has to give husbandly duties to his girlfriend abi? Most of you no sex before marriage crew are so hypocritical

1Sharon:


But a man has to give husbandly duties to his girlfriend abi? Most of you no sex before marriage crew are so hypocritical

WORDWORLD:



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gcmHkDhtOto

highpriestess:

Ladies should stop spreading legs, that's my point.

HardMirror:
what is even the big deal in having sex? How many ladies are virgins at the time of their marriage.

Saffi:
Is the man pursuing the woman or is it the other way round? Is the woman putting the ring on the mans finger or is it the other way round?

What I’m trying to say is that, the man is the one who chases the woman. He goes out of his way to impress and choose the woman he wants. You may not understand this, but each to their own.

AryEmber:
You see? They all say virginity is over rated but when you say to them, let's stop sex for a while or till marriage, they ask you, are you a virgin? What a screwed up world we are in!

pocohantas:
I honestly do not think having sex with a man will make him not to propose. If there is one thing I have come to realise recently, it is the fact that...a man knows what he wants. A man can delay commitment for years with his gf, meet another girl next week and marry her in a month.

It is not by sex, it is not by wifely or husband duties (whatever that means). He just sees you and it clicks. When you meet that man, that is when you know that, when a man is in love...another mumu is born

pocohantas:
I honestly do not think having sex with a man will make him not to propose. If there is one thing I have come to realise recently, it is the fact that...a man knows what he wants. A man can delay commitment for years with his gf, meet another girl next week and marry her in a month.

It is not by sex, it is not by wifely or husband duties (whatever that means). He just sees you and it clicks. Most likely the way you complete him. When you meet that man, you'll know that, when a man is in love...another mumu is born ;[/b]D

YUNGLURD:
If that's ur point, don't u think it will be better u rub off this "I think they will hasten up with whatever plans they have or leave the relationship"

highpriestess:

A man that has good intention for you won't leave cos of sex, if he leaves ; then, it's safe to say that he's just their for the cookie.



So, I didn't make a mistake.

WORDWORLD:



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gcmHkDhtOto

pocohantas:
...And please, ladies should note that the men who are really gonna marry women. The men who are truly searching for partners, they are not these neanderthals and juveniles running amok in this section. So, do not take their talk as the standard, then go playing silly mind games with a mature dude out there.

What exactly is wifely duties in a relationship?
Why don't we ever hear of husbandly duties in a relationship? All we hear is how real men do this and that.

If you are good, you are good. The things you do for loved ones will come naturally to you. But then, if you have principles that are dear to you, abide by them.

PLEASE LADIES ADHERE TO HER ADVICE SHE MUST HAVE GOTTEN PLENTY YEARS OF EXPERIENCE WITH DIFFERENT MEN ONLINE(NAIRALAND) AND OFFLINE TO HAVE BEEN ABLE TO COME UP WITH SUCH A PRECIOUS ADVICE

HardMirror:
wrong. What if sex was on his most important things list? Or it is wrong also to have sex as on of those things you wld want in a relationship that wld lead to marraige? Dont worry sef. Close ur legs well he will propose because of that

Wuraola01:
I agree with Toks2008 100%

@Op Why would a serious man date a woman for 3-5years. Biko, what're you guys doing for so long And the most painful part is that the guy might not even get married to the girl after dating her for so long.

As for no sex before marriage- if the girl wants to have sex with you, it's fine! Don't make it a must for her in d relationship! Why would you even have sex with a lady for a year or so (depending on d duration)when u have no intention of settling down with her? Isn't it a man that would marry the one you've used and dumped? At the end of all, you'll come here and start calling women all sorts of names.

Thanks for the clarification...

highpriestess:

So, what you are saying in essence is that relationship is all about "him and not about "us"

The two parties should come to a cognitive understanding about their sexual orientations and if the guy refuses to adhere to the abstinence option, then, he should go find his match.
Simple.

HardMirror:
many of my married friends infact over 90% of them were having sex with their gf that they are now married and now wives. tell that no sex story to the gods. he wont dump you because you have sex together. he would dump you for other reasons. stop being deceived. you girls make sex so special because it is the only thing most of u offer in the relationship.

DanDeeBoss:
Thanks for the clarification...

MannieA:



guys are the ones who make sex so special.. you are saying girls have nothing to offer apart from sex,but a guy will meet a girl and the first thing on his mind will be his urge to f**k her..sex is always on y'all minds.You can't know wat a girl has to offer you when u Make sex a priority..

highpriestess:

Remove sex from relationship and see them take to their heels.


The way they say ladies have nothing to offer apart from sex would make you think they don't love sex.
But when a lady offers to give them ; advice, prayer, peace, support, comfort and others then she tries to remove sex, that's when you will know that they can't do without the sex they talk as if they despise.
Confused bunch.

A good number of them will walk out the relationship because that's why they are in the relationship in the first place, to get laid but will be the first to make abhorrence announcement of it.

highpriestess:

So, what you are saying in essence is that relationship is all about "him and not about "us"

The two parties should come to a cognitive understanding about their sexual orientations and if the guy refuses to adhere to the abstinence option, then, he should go find his match.
Simple.

HardMirror:
god bless u jare. I don tire for this people. Why wld anyone thinking starving a guy of sex would make him quickly propose.

AnonymousBee:
well said,
If You observe very well, most guy that commented on this thread are playboys, They don't want to settle down.
I pity young girls that will fall for their gimmicks. If you are a player meet your fellow player.
Define your relationship, if you want a fuckmate, be fair enough to let your partner know.