highpriestess:

So, what you are saying in essence is that relationship is all about "him and not about "us"

The two parties should come to a cognitive understanding about their sexual orientations and if the guy refuses to adhere to the abstinence option, then, he should go find his match.
Simple.

MannieA:




you are very correct!!! a bunch of 'em be saying women are the sex freaks and have nothing to offer.. but how will they know wat a woman has to offer when they are dumb asf.very confused bunch!!

HardMirror:
so you knew it was about 'us' but you want to close legs while he shld carry your own matter for head since he does not have his own life to live. He came to the world to satisfy your longing for marriage

highpriestess:

Read my post clearly.
Yes, if he can't contain his sexual urge, he can find someone that can give him that, it's simple.


Talking about marriage, how long will you keep sleeping with a girl before you find the one meant for You?

Let's have some morals please.

WORDWORLD:


Dumb and Confused?!!!

To the point of knowing that he is not the one that will get pregnant, go through the pains of pregnancy for 9 months?

And if the choice is to abort the pregnancy, he is too DUMB and CONFUSE to know that his own life is not at stake? That he is not the one who may lose his womb, of even die in the process of aborting the baby?!

I can go on and on..

IT IS NOT RAPE O! Dumb and Confused ke!!!

HardMirror:
u mean christian morals?

AnonymousBee:

Thank you for rubbing our foolish on our faces. Hypocrites!!!

highpriestess:

Nope.
We need to have some self respect.

Whether religious or otherwise.
Moral is moral.

HardMirror:
so am i encouraging immorality?

AnonymousBee:

Thank you for rubbing our foolish on our faces. Hypocrites!!!

highpriestess:

Obviously.

highpriestess:

Reason we should start giving the hands they deserve.

AnonymousBee:
I look before I reap,, keeping sex away from relationship help you to sieve out in serious peers. Sex is not a big thing but I can't indulge in it with playboys that view ladies as intimate objects.

HardMirror:
be specific what is immoral in what i said?

WORDWORLD:

highpriestess:

Really dude.

highpriestess:
I kinda of agree with toks2008.

If we ladies should stop opening for guys, I think they will hasten up with whatever plans they have or leave the relationship.

WORDWORLD:


Dumb and Confused?!!!

To the point of knowing that he is not the one that will get pregnant, go through the pains of pregnancy for 9 months?

And if the choice is to abort the pregnancy, he is too DUMB and CONFUSE to know that his own life is not at stake? That he is not the one who may lose his womb, of even die in the process of aborting the baby?!

I can go on and on..

IT IS NOT RAPE O! Dumb and Confused ke!!!

pocohantas:
...And please, ladies should note that the men who are really gonna marry women. The men who are truly searching for partners, they are not these neanderthals and juveniles running amok in this section. So, do not take their talk as the standard, then go playing silly mind games with a mature dude out there.

What exactly is wifely duties in a relationship?
Why don't we ever hear of husbandly duties in a relationship? All we hear is how real men do this and that.

If you are good, you are good. The things you do for loved ones will come naturally to you. But then, if you have principles that are dear to you, abide by them.

MannieA:




so..wat u are saying is DAT it's only women DAT have something to loose

pocohantas:
...And please, ladies should note that the men who are really gonna marry women. The men who are truly searching for partners, they are not these neanderthals and juveniles running amok in this section. So, do not take their talk as the standard, then go playing silly mind games with a mature dude out there.

What exactly is wifely duties in a relationship?
Why don't we ever hear of husbandly duties in a relationship? All we hear is how real men do this and that.

If you are good, you are good. The things you do for loved ones will come naturally to you. But then, if you have principles that are dear to you, abide by them.

WORDWORLD:

I think Monica Lewinsky is in a better position to answer your question.

Wuraola01:
I agree with Toks2008 100%

@Op Why would a serious man date a woman for 3-5years. Biko, what're you guys doing for so long And the most painful part is that the guy might not even get married to the girl after dating her for so long.

As for no sex before marriage- if the girl wants to have sex with you, it's fine! Don't make it a must for her in d relationship! Why would you even have sex with a lady for a year or so (depending on d duration)when u have no intention of settling down with her? Isn't it a man that would marry the one you've used and dumped? At the end of all, you'll come here and start calling women all sorts of names.

mhizbel:
This is the conclusion of the whole matter: Fear God and marry a God-fearing man.

CAPSLOCKED:


I LIKE HOW SOME OF YOU WOMEN FOOLISHLY DEGRADE YOURSELVES TO THE LEVEL OF MERE OBJECTS FOR USE BY MEN. THROWING YOURSELVES ON THE FLOOR EVERYTIME IS ENTERTAINING TO ME.






LOL CLOWN, WHO DECLARED YOU THE CHIEF JUDGE?

AnonymousBee:
I look before I reap,, keeping sex away from relationship help you to sieve out in serious peers. Sex is not a big thing but I can't indulge in it with playboys that view ladies as intimate objects.

mrakeeno:
story

If u like close your legs... guy wey go leave u go still leave you

Me I can't marry a girl that I didn't have sex with

Not after everything I will notice she's not what she claims to be

MannieA:



mtchewww...

AnonymousBee:

It's better he leave me without complications. He will still leave me even if I locate north and south with my legs widly open.

CAPSLOCKED:

LOL CLOWN, WHO DECLARED YOU THE CHIEF JUDGE?