zonax:
It marvels me how much the society has gone into ruins. What will sexually excite a man in a 5year old? These failures of men are just making excuses for their paedophilic lifestyles and in saner climes should be put on sex offenders watch list.

Oh my gosh right? Who knew paedophiles existed in Nigeria. Wow!! So shocking. Brb let me go dress my kids in revealing outfits and make their job more easier.

Wallade:


Why does the car owner have security features, alarms, locks and trackers on his car if he didn't need to protect the car?

Would you blame a car owner that parked her car in public without locking it and activating the security features if the car got stolen?

Probably not. But I would blame the car owner for having a flashy car anyways. Tell us, would you receive a medal of honor for being tempted or actually stealing a car, simply because its owner left it unlocked?

naunasabi:


I think you are a pedophile there is no justification for sexualizing a child even they choose to walk around naked.

You are incredible stupid. If someone asks a bank to beef up secrurity, it doesn't mean they're thieves and that they want to rob the bank.

PUSSYBBQGRILLS:
The world has turned to something else. Imagine people defending rubbish.

Why must you encourage your kids to wear bum short and revealing clothes in the first place

Proverbs 22:6
Train up a child in the way he should go,
And when he is old he will not depart from it.

Forget all these "sexualize" noise. Train your child to dress properly.

You get sense jur ....idiots everywhere

Wallade:


I worked in an office sometime back and my colleague got angry with me in course of a general conversation on indecent dressing. She is plump, stout and chubby. When she was in primary school, she went to school dressed in body hugging, curves revealing and short skirt. The teacher disapproved and tongue lashed her and she felt dejected, traumatized and bad. She was complaining, while we were having that discussion, about her male teacher's orientation and assumed that he was sexualizing her as a kid, based on that event.

The mistake I made was to boldly tell her that it was expected that every lady should mind what they wear too and that parents should endeavour to have their kids dress appropriately. She became aggressive, confrontational and almost physical but for the intervention of other colleagues. Honestly, I was shocked.

Come to think of it, we live in a very perverted world today. I hear babies being raped and I can't comprehend what the adult rapist was thinking or the feeling he derived from it. But for the insanity in the society today, men are often moved by what they see. Hence, I feel ladies and men can wear whatever suits them but with caution and consideration of the influence their wears have on others.

I apologize to the lady folks, especially the slay mamas and those who love to dress provocatively, but we must all realize that there are some people that can not keep their pervert demons in check out there. Their pervertions are often triggered by what they see.

They are in the churches, mosques, schools, streets, environment and everywhere. Oftentimes, they look well behaved and respectable.

True to an extent, but I want to debunk this men are moved by what they see and women by what they hear ish. Everyone is moved by what they see. Everyone! IIt is however the mindset of the person that will interpret it appropriately or inappropriately. I Don’t know who came up with this men are moved by what the see story really. It is always being said even in my church. Like being moved means that they should have no self control or females have to tip toe about so as not to trip the sight of men. Meanwhile, don’t worry about Slay queens and body popping women. They suffer from attention deficit disorder.

SlimzDboss:
Geez. All these immoralities are mostly caused by failed parental duties and responsibilities

True that. Failed parental responsibilities to mostly the male child.

Jayhazard:

It's people who can't do without indecent dressings that would oppose those men. They hate the truth. It's a pity!

Anytime topics on indecent dressing are posted it becomes problems most especially from female gender, attacking, attacking, attacking I still don't get the logic, you reveal ur body to impress those who dress decently. As a mother what is your motive behind wearing bum short for your female child and knicker/trousers for male child!

justscorchone:


We are not saying they don't get raped but what's on ground is that if you treasure something you will find a way to protect it,like someone rightfully said earlier if you buy an expensive phone you will put screen protector,not because you are careless but because sh1t happens and when it happens you won't say woe is me.but instead there's a chance your phone might survive the fall.same applies to a child,dress them properly to protect them,you are an adult and a guardian,you should know better.











This argument has clearly opened my eye to the reality we are facing nowadays,people don't use their heads to think anymore but follow the crowd.and it also shows we are slowly losing our identity as respectable and decent Nigerians .

THAT IS IT O MY BROS, FEW PEOPLE REASON WELL THESE DAYS.....MAJORITY JUST FOLLOW THE TREND WHETHER IT MAKES SENSE OR NOT......JUST IMAGINE THAT THIEVES BREAK INTO EVERY CLOSED DOOR, DOES IT MEAN THAT I SHOULD LEAVE MY OWN DOOR OPEN SO THAT THE THIEVES CAN HAVE EASY ACCESS? THAT IS EXACTLY THOSE SUPPORTING FREEDOM OF INDECENT DRESSING ARE SAYING. AT LEAST THE RIGHT THING TO DO IS TO TEACH YOUR CHILDREN TO DRESSS DECENTLY WHETHER PEOPLE ARE RAPING OR NOT. YOU DON'T SAY BECAUSE THOSE THAT DRESSED WELL GET RAPED THEREFORE YOUR DAUGHTER CAN GO NAKED IF SHE LIKES .

darlenese:
let's not feign ignorance ,there are predators everywhere . . teach your kids to dress properly , u have heard from the mouth of pedophiles

L O L.

kennygee:
Who bred the men of this generation?

Did five year olds dress like this in our part of the world in previous generations?

I am not making excuses for the men with pedophilia tendencies but you need to see the way parents dress their kids these days.

Go to malls, parks and parties and see how parents sexualize their kids by the clothes they buy for them.

We can't rule out the fact that pedophiles exist, do yourself and your kids a favour and dress them in age appropriate clothes.

You got it all mix-up.
Clothing does not sexualise, humans do.

Wallade:


I worked in an office sometime back and my colleague got angry with me in course of a general conversation on indecent dressing. She is plump, stout and chubby. When she was in primary school, she went to school dressed in body hugging, curves revealing and short skirt. The teacher disapproved and tongue lashed her and she felt dejected, traumatized and bad. She was complaining, while we were having that discussion, about her male teacher's orientation and assumed that he was sexualizing her as a kid, based on that event.

The mistake I made was to boldly tell her that it was expected that every lady should mind what they wear too and that parents should endeavour to have their kids dress appropriately. She became aggressive, confrontational and almost physical but for the intervention of other colleagues. Honestly, I was shocked.

Come to think of it, we live in a very perverted world today. I hear babies being raped and I can't comprehend what the adult rapist was thinking or the feeling he derived from it. But for the insanity in the society today, men are often moved by what they see. Hence, I feel ladies and men can wear whatever suits them but with caution and consideration of the influence their wears have on others.

I apologize to the lady folks, especially the slay mamas and those who love to dress provocatively, but we must all realize that there are some people that can not keep their pervert demons in check out there. Their pervertions are often triggered by what they see.

They are in the churches, mosques, schools, streets, environment and everywhere. Oftentimes, they look well behaved and respectable.

Okay. Because you put it like that...we will think about it.

Lol.

USUKUMA:


good thing say most of our kids no dey grow like their mates for the western world, pedophilia for be Naija capital. I wasn't impressed with the replies the men got on there. I've also come to conclude that 95% of nigerian women are the reason our country's average IQ gets ridiculed

na true talk dey dont like advice at all

the world of today hate truth. You become the enemy for daring to speak truth and sense to a people drifting into self destruct. Imagine how easy it is for fools to turn the honest point those men were making into 'sexualizing a child'.

The parent of that child already sexualized her. we copy every garbage from the west, forgetting we are a peculiar people with different culture.

It is easy to blame it all on the rapist out there. But we should be freightend because the number of cases are getting exponential and this parent would never want to admit any fault. We have to back-track. we glorify porn, and indecency and wonder why rapists are on rampage. God help us.

sweetrace:


True to an extent, but I want to debunk this men are moved by what they see and women by what they hear ish.

Men are moved by what they see...in context...sexually moved/motivated/excited...the majority of men. That's a fact...that's in a man's DNA regardless of what his mouth says...or anyone else says. E.g... the average man... can be minding his own business... should a shapely lady stand before him ..pulls her dress up...and expose her laps plus...and just an itsy bitsy uderwear... he would have an immediate...immediate erection...all based on visuals... (if he acts on those instincts is a different issue).... now should he notice two cold sores down there... his erection and desire will disappear immediately...based on visuals....what he sees. A woman's body does not have that spontaneous reaction...based on visuals.
With regards to topic.... a child in bum shorts may sexually excite a pedophile... in the Nigerian society... he is wayyyyy more likely to follow through because the risk of him being caught are low...and even if caught...the consequences ..if any... not harsh. Same sexual excitement in US.... but the risk of being caught is very high...and the consequences ...hmmm.... is better 5o commit suicide than be in prison as a pedophile. Bum shorts for kids...no big deal in the US...not good for Nigeria period.

Admin401:


You are incredible stupid. If someone asks a bank to beef up secrurity, it doesn't mean they're thieves and that they want to rob the bank.

The guy is unbelievably stupid. at the end of the day, people like him end up raping their daughter.

justli:


The guy is unbelievably stupid. at the end of the day, people like him end up raping their daughter.

Most people know the truth but are afriad to say it because of fear of being judged. I understand women doing this but for men? I don't get it.

StrongandMighty:
Why will a 5 years old girl wear a bum short in public in the first place?? When she grows older What will she be wearing?
You fellows castigating and trying to crucify those men for saying the truth should know that mothers in particular need to step up their game.. For crying out loud why will a mother allow her little child a girl for that matter to wear bum short and be walking around in public.... Who does that??

so you mean 6month old babies that were raped also wore bumshort ?

shio

Lucifer66:
The question is;
Why would a 5 year old girl be wearing bum shot?.
If she can wear something like that then she's ready for rough sex.

Don't say that, when I was a child, 5year olds go out naked or wear just panties. Stop sexualizing innocent kids. I am not supporting the parents for choice of kids wear, but its no excuse to look at immature babies that way

It’s only in Nigeria you have this stupid problem. Religious, peverted country indeed. Where a 27 year old man becomes sexually aroused at the sight of a 5 year old, will later defend his actions questioning the modesty of the child’s dressing. The problem is not the pedophilic men, the problem is the dressing of the kids. I have seen it all.

How the Bleep do you sexualise a fucking underdeveloped child? Wearing bum shorts, are you for real? A child with no sexual features, no breast or hips. The only difference between a male and female child’s body structure is their gentials. Yet you see nothing wrong with your peverted mind, its absolutely gross.

jife:


Don't say that, when I was a child, 5year olds go out naked or wear just panties. Stop sexualizing innocent kids. I am not supporting the parents for choice of kids wear, but its no excuse to look at immature babies that way

Rocktation:


Probably not. But I would blame the car owner for having a flashy car anyways. Tell us, would you receive a medal of honor for being tempted or actually stealing a car, simply because its owner left it unlocked?

If your car is flashy or otherwise, no sane person will deliberately leave the car unlocked especially when the locks and security features are functional.

Mind you, thieves wanna just steal your car to use it or sell it for financial gain.

The notes:
Dress responsibly and ensure your kids, male and female, dress responsibly too. Decency takes nothing away from us but adds value to us!

Saffi:
How the Bleep do you sexualise a fucking underdeveloped child? Wearing bum shorts, are you for real? A child with no sexual features, no breast or hips. The only difference between a male and female child’s body structure is their gentials. Yet you see nothing wrong with your peverted mind, its absolutely gross.

Why don't you ask those child molesters, rapist and perverts that rape kids, even babies? Ask them if it was the baby's breast, hips or ..... that attracted them?

Saffi:
It’s only in Nigeria you have this stupid problem. Religious, peverted country indeed. Where a 27 year old man becomes sexually aroused at the sight of a 5 year old, will later defend his actions questioning the modesty of the child’s dressing. The problem is not the pedophilic men, the problem is the dressing of the kids. I have seen it all.

Please go and raise your children in countries where they don't have that problem. If you must raise them in Nigeria, dress them decently and responsibly. Thank you.

generationz:


so you mean 6month old babies that were raped also wore bumshort ?

shio

If you're a mother or happens to become one tomorrow dress your daughter appropriately .. That's what I mean

frenzyduchess:
when I was growing up, kids used to wear just pants to play outside ,in fact kids bath outside. Let it be known that even girls in hijab are raped . A sexually preverted pedophile will not care if you wear your kids turtle neck and long skirts or trousers,as long as the child meets his age preference ,that child is a target .

Mothers should earn the trust of their children, let them know that no one has the right to touch them in certain places ,encourage them to speak up and let them know you as a mother is ready to defend them even against their own father.That is the only solution is see to this matter.

when we dey run unclad, how many times we pose like slay queen or get knowledge of sex? Even with pubic hair and small breast we dey bath outside na neighbors dey pursue us to go bath inside bathroom. Tell a girl of 7 wey dey wear bumshort to bathe outside, she no go gree. Those days and today no be the same

There is nothing bad in what those guys said,is a warning advice to the parents out there.Are guys not in Nigeria, don't you read papers, listen to news and all sort of nonsense happening around to the kids.please parents dress for your kids properly to prevent them from predators because those kids that even dressed properly they were sexually abused talk less wearing bum short.our children wouldn't b a victim.

Xisnin:


You got it all mix-up.
Clothing does not sexualise, humans do.

Clothes amplifies sexualization. It can make people aware of your curves and assets or picture you in their minds in perverted ways.

Well that should be the main issue, not the kids. Do not condemn the parents and blame them for the perverted idiots who cannot control their sexual urge. In a hot climate like Nigeria, a 4 year old wearing bum shorts should not be in an issue. Kids run around, they get hot easily. So I should cover my child from head to toe, to please the perverts? Perverts will sexualise anything, even if the child is fully dressed. The issue is the perverted souls who cannot see past their sexual fantasies. Please change your mentality ahbeg.

Wallade:


Why don't you ask those child molesters, rapist and perverts that rape kids, even babies? Ask them if it was the baby's breast, hips or ..... that attracted them?

flyca:

I don't know why you have called me a retardd, please can you give a reason? At least, I did not insult you.

Sorry. Was not referring to you.

What curves do children have? Tell me? A 5 year old boy and girl can only be differentiated by their genitals. Stop making excuses for mentally sick people. The problem is not the dressing of the kids, the problem is the mind of you sick men.

Wallade:


Clothes amplifies sexualization. It can make people aware of your curves and assets or picture you in their minds in perverted ways.

I thank God that I don’t live in that dumpster called Nigeria. It’s by gods grace that anybody will raise their children in that shit hole because the men who live there are completely useless. They never take accountability for their actions, they must always point the finger at someone else. A child with no sexual features should be free to wear shorts in a hot climate like Nigeria. They run around and play, You people are just sick in the head

Wallade:


Please go and raise your children in countries where they don't have that problem. If you must raise them in Nigeria, dress them decently and responsibly. Thank you.

kennygee:


Why do we lock our doors?

Isn't it to prevent thieves from stealing our valuables?

Does it mean everyone is a thief?

No. Means you're just taking preventive measures to keep thieves away.

My comment is a sensible one, with logic.

Yours on the other hand is shameful and void of civility.

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