is love truly a sign of weakness? i need ya opinion.

DukeofNZ:
is love truly a sign of weakness? i need ya opinion.

No. It ain't

Yup! Too much headache if you ask me.

Its all about perspective.

For some it is a weakness because they feel they have surrended their liberty to the other party


For others it is a sign of strenght to let yourself go free because of the other.

Its your choice, be liberated or imprisoned.

DukeofNZ:
is love truly a sign of weakness? i need ya opinion.

They will all say no. But show love and see if you'll be received rightly. Its just one paper, when love is given,its usually.thrown back at the face of the giver, hhence not.loving is beyter cause it forces the other party to work haed at obtaining your lovr unlike when tjey have it readily available wothout fihjting for it


Cc Ubunja

Yes it is

Ama living witness to that..

This days I can't even do things against her wish..

The thing weak me

Yes it is, and it's also a waste of time.

Lavendra:
Yes it is, and it's also a waste of time.

as all of una de talk like this, it come be say i be mumu because de way i luv this girl we de give me wahala de make me fear. i don know if this gal use juju hold me. this year alone i don spend more than 20,000 dollars for her head because i luv her but she still de complain.

DukeofNZ:


as all of una de talk like this, it come be say i be mumu because de way i luv this girl we de give me wahala de make me fear. i don know if this gal use juju hold me. this year alone i don spend more than 20,000 dollars for her head because i luv her but she still de complain.

Wow. Boss e.don dey lead to see.finish o. Better manage the situation now,the eqrlier the better. Wetin she carry 20k dolls do? You know say our elders dey talk say woman work na to help man.spend.money. once man tell.woman.say e get.money,fogerrit

MrsEvakinqz:
Yes it is

Ama living witness to that..

This days I can't even do things against her wish..

The thing weak me

lol. May you live long

kunleweb:



Wow. Boss e.don dey lead to see.finish o. Better manage the situation now,the eqrlier the better. Wetin she carry 20k dolls do? You know say our elders dey talk say woman work na to help man.spend.money. once man tell.woman.say e get.money,fogerrit

ma broada, my head don de clear small small for where de girl dey. i know no the kind juju she take hold me before now.

DukeofNZ:


ma broada, my head don de clear small small for where de girl dey. i know no the kind juju she take hold me before now.

Wayo wayo broda. Women.loke to be spoiled but syart controlling her with it. I.e sonetimes say money is tied.in.projects,or.give her half.of what she asks or starts aasking for reports. Make her accountable. No.let the chick deport.you oh. Naija no.good make.you no.fon broke o

kunleweb:



Wayo wayo broda. Women.loke to be spoiled but syart controlling her with it. I.e sonetimes say money is tied.in.projects,or.give her half.of what she asks or starts aasking for reports. Make her accountable. No.let the chick deport.you oh. Naija no.good make.you no.fon broke o

i go treat her bleep up once and for all.

DukeofNZ:


i go treat her bleep up once and for all.

Na how you take raisr.am.up.oh. na the hand man take start woman dey follow. Any meqsure you take,tear yourself.part of the punishment.oh

kunleweb:



lol. May you live long

Amen ma broda

Its a weakness that people can prey on.

It's a sign of weakness if you cant control it and it's not reciprocal, it's a sign of strength if it's mutual and you let go, i'm detaching myself from it slowly, it's not meant for everybody.

Biglittlelois:
It's a sign weakness if you cant control it and it's not reciprocal, it's a sign of strength if it's mutual and you let go, i'm detaching myself from it slowly, it's not meant for everybody.

Awwww nice...

Lol.. Learn to balance things.. And loving becomes strength...
When you love the right person, love is easy.

As a man, there's nothing as sweet as loving a girl that has never in her life felt the pain associated wit heart break .

As a man.. Heart breaks makes you better... But for a woman it destroys them.

So, loving the right person is not weakness. ...its strength.

JERRY1925:
Lol.. Learn to balance things.. And loving becomes strength...
When you love the right person, love is easy.

As a man, there's nothing as sweet as loving a girl that has never in her life felt the pain associated wit heart break .

As a man.. Heart breaks makes you better... But for a woman it destroys them.

So, loving the right person is not weakness. ...its strength.

Heart breaks make women stronger and wiser. How would one know the right person?

Lavendra:

Heart breaks make women stronger and wiser. How would one know the right person?

Just like flowers, women are not meant to be strong.. But cheerised.. But heart breaks turn them to something else.. And only few gets the best from it.. The rest becomes really damaged thinking they wiser.

For me, a woman is suppose to do less in love.. A man is suppose to love,protect his woman completly not the woman job to love more... So I guess u should concentrate less on looking for who you love... And cherish who would walk pass oceans to be with you.

Fact is, a woman gets attached most time to a man after sex.. So imagine a virgin getting married to a man she love less.. Sex will make her love the man well.

Also a case of the adducted girls by bokoharm.. I heard most went Back to their husbands...what u think made them do so?

JERRY1925:


Just like flowers, women are not meant to be strong.. But cheerised.. But heart breaks turn them to something else.. And only few gets the best from it.. The rest becomes really damaged thinking they wiser.

For me, a woman is suppose to do less in love.. A man is suppose to love,protect his woman completly not the woman job to love more... So I guess u should concentrate less on looking for who you love... And cherish who would walk pass oceans to be with you.

Fact is, a woman gets attached most time to a man after sex.. So imagine a virgin getting married to a man she love less.. Sex will make her love the man well.

Also a case of the adducted girls by bokoharm.. I heard most went Back to their husbands...what u think made them do so?

My advice to young ladies, forget love(it doesn't pay) build yourself first, be financially stable, don't wait for a man to build you up, a man cant make you happy, no human being can be 100% . after that you can consider getting married, and marriage isn't something to rush into, if it comes fine, if it doesn't fine, don't get desperate, even of you get married men these days are unpredictable, build yourself to be ready for anything. marriage isn't a fairy tale that ends in happily ever after. If you aren't ready for marriage avoid relationships for now and focus on better things, because it isn't worth it.

its a weakness to me bcuz once u enter such relationship it would be hard to leave he or she will be ur weakness (like turn ur friends against u make u do things u urself dont think u can do) its like u get addicted nd trust me ur addiction is ur weakness

DukeofNZ:
is love truly a sign of weakness? i need ya opinion.

No its not,
Even the strongest people also get sick.

JERRY1925:


Just like flowers, women are not meant to be strong.. But cheerised.. But heart breaks turn them to something else.. And only few gets the best from it.. The rest becomes really damaged thinking they wiser.

For me, a woman is suppose to do less in love.. A man is suppose to love,protect his woman completly not the woman job to love more... So I guess u should concentrate less on looking for who you love... And cherish who would walk pass oceans to be with you.

Fact is, a woman gets attached most time to a man after sex.. So imagine a virgin getting married to a man she love less.. Sex will make her love the man well.

Also a case of the adducted girls by bokoharm.. I heard most went Back to their husbands...what u think made them do so?

Excellent. Claps hand
Excellent. Truer words have never been spoken

Lavendra:


My advice to young ladies, forget love(it doesn't pay) build yourself first, be financially stable, don't wait for a man to build you up, a man cant make you happy, no human being can be 100% . after that you can consider getting married, and marriage isn't something to rush into, if it comes fine, if it doesn't fine, don't get desperate, even of you get married men these days are unpredictable, build yourself to be ready for anything. marriage isn't a fairy tale that ends in happily ever after. If you aren't ready for marriage avoid relationships for now and focus on better things, because it isn't worth it.

Damaged.psyche spotted

"being in love" is a sign of weakness. "loving someone" is not a sign of weakness, but a position of strength.

kunleweb:


Damaged.psyche spotted

Thanks you gave your opinion, I gave mine.

Love without Sense is...

pansophist:
"being in love" is a sign of weakness. "loving someone" is not a sign of weakness, but a position of strength.

Please Explain...

MariaLavina:
Please Explain...

I tired to write abeg, ale ti shu.

Read this, it explains the difference.

https://www.elitedaily.com/dating/10-difference-love-someone-loving-someone/795160