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Seahawk:
Homosexual is generic

Gay is male

Lesbian is female

People use gay generically for both because somehow any group that contains male and female parties end up being referred to by the male pronoun/adjective

Seahawk:
Yet homosexual is the generic term
While heterosexual is the generic term for the other group
It’s that simple

Mahrhimah:
Hi I just joined Nairaland, although have been a ghost reader for a long while. Admist other thread I believe family thread have more mature people. However, I welcome alot of insults, abuse or bashing or what have you but after everything please help me.

It started since childhood, our maid (lady) introduce me to this stuff, then I was also repeated molestation by a respected family (man) of ours about age 4 or so. The man's way was very painful but the ladies way wasn't... They both exchanged me period by period through childhood and I grow up to become an helpless gay addict. I mean lesbian. Cos I am a lady I can't seem to help myself with same sex I always want to have sex with a girl. Especially the attractive ones. I want to get married and I want to be happy. I want to do the right thing but I can't seem to help myself... I tried having sex with guys but it was very painful so I stopped. I stick with ladies instead... How can i stop this madness my conscience is pricking me, I am In my mid twenties now, I should be in a serious relationship but I can't because of my attraction for girls.

You are free to abuse me. In short I have abused more than u can every abuse me... But at the end of the insult. Advice me, thank you

Alero3Arubi:
In this part of the world we do not understand that sharing problems is a big deal in relieving ourselves of the burden they pose to our mind. A lot of people go into emotional melt down every now and then. It's very important to share your issues.
And this is a WhatsApp group link invite for anyone who wants to be listened to no judgements at all. All topics whatsoever.
Yes finally a place where you can be heard.
https:///DnBwTKNAfgR18Hr06BMkdb

RomanticBob:
The fact that you realize how bad it is and want a change means you are already on your way to recovery.

I can be a helpful friend if you want.

Send a text to 08039734937

nwanneni:
lol
Brother want to fvck

Mahrhimah:
Hi I just joined Nairaland, although have been a ghost reader for a long while. Admist other thread I believe family thread have more mature people. However, I welcome alot of insults, abuse or bashing or what have you but after everything please help me.

It started since childhood, our maid (lady) introduce me to this stuff, then I was also repeated molestation by a respected family (man) of ours about age 4 or so. The man's way was very painful but the ladies way wasn't... They both exchanged me period by period through childhood and I grow up to become an helpless gay addict. I mean lesbian. Cos I am a lady I can't seem to help myself with same sex I always want to have sex with a girl. Especially the attractive ones. I want to get married and I want to be happy. I want to do the right thing but I can't seem to help myself... I tried having sex with guys but it was very painful so I stopped. I stick with ladies instead... How can i stop this madness my conscience is pricking me, I am In my mid twenties now, I should be in a serious relationship but I can't because of my attraction for girls.

You are free to abuse me. In short I have abused more than u can every abuse me... But at the end of the insult. Advice me, thank you

Mahrhimah:
Hi I just joined Nairaland, although have been a ghost reader for a long while. Admist other thread I believe family thread have more mature people. However, I welcome alot of insults, abuse or bashing or what have you but after everything please help me.

It started since childhood, our maid (lady) introduce me to this stuff, then I was also repeated molestation by a respected family (man) of ours about age 4 or so. The man's way was very painful but the ladies way wasn't... They both exchanged me period by period through childhood and I grow up to become an helpless gay addict. I mean lesbian. Cos I am a lady I can't seem to help myself with same sex I always want to have sex with a girl. Especially the attractive ones. I want to get married and I want to be happy. I want to do the right thing but I can't seem to help myself... I tried having sex with guys but it was very painful so I stopped. I stick with ladies instead... How can i stop this madness my conscience is pricking me, I am In my mid twenties now, I should be in a serious relationship but I can't because of my attraction for girls.

You are free to abuse me. In short I have abused more than u can every abuse me... But at the end of the insult. Advice me, thank you

imamtobi:
where do u live? Do u mind being introduced to an experienced counsellor who could help u overcome it? If yes, reply to this, I'll drop u a number to chat up for help

Mahrhimah:
I live in Nigeria, Lagos

imamtobi:
do u mind that I introduce u to a counsellor/ therapist who can help u? If ys, contact +23407032862012 on WhatsApp

DeeMain:
Your early childhood sexual abuse experiences have distorted your sexual orientation and God knows what else. You have embodied the trauma. You need to heal from that for your own good.

Go see a good therapist . It's a good place to start. Alternatively, send me a pm, let's see how I can be of help.

Mahrhimah:
This mail. Is inactive. Please how can I get your numner

DeeMain:
Let me know when you get this.

Mahrhimah:
Thnx... Will do that

imamtobi:
have u done so yet?

Mahrhimah:
Hi I just joined Nairaland, although have been a ghost reader for a long while. Admist other thread I believe family thread have more mature people. However, I welcome alot of insults, abuse or bashing or what have you but after everything please help me.

It started since childhood, our maid (lady) introduce me to this stuff, then I was also repeated molestation by a respected family (man) of ours about age 4 or so. The man's way was very painful but the ladies way wasn't... They both exchanged me period by period through childhood and I grow up to become an helpless gay addict. I mean lesbian. Cos I am a lady I can't seem to help myself with same sex I always want to have sex with a girl. Especially the attractive ones. I want to get married and I want to be happy. I want to do the right thing but I can't seem to help myself... I tried having sex with guys but it was very painful so I stopped. I stick with ladies instead... How can i stop this madness my conscience is pricking me, I am In my mid twenties now, I should be in a serious relationship but I can't because of my attraction for girls.

You are free to abuse me. In short I have abused more than u can every abuse me... But at the end of the insult. Advice me, thank you

momokiddies:
it isn't your fault that you turned out this way, and no you don't deserve to be abused. at early childhood where you were supposed to be expose to experiences that are positive and gearing towards growth- this experiences and growth being propelled by the significant adults in your life such as your parents and your maid and maybe the other male family who molested you- instead you were exposed to abused by these people and neglect by your parents. now you are a dysfunctional adult who is fighting her way out from an experience which has registered in her brain neurons. the pleasure from the maid has built a perception to you that sex with female is sweeter and the opposite is painful. my dear you need lots of counseling and reorientation. you might want to speak to a professional who won't judge you. I am an early childhood educator and I help traumatic children heal even adult who are traumatized from childhood experiences. if you will want to talk to me, please do quote me and say so, if not talk to someone else. yes you need God but God will talk to you through people. I wish you the best in whatever decision you settled for.

Mahrhimah:
Hi I just joined Nairaland, although have been a ghost reader for a long while. Admist other thread I believe family thread have more mature people. However, I welcome alot of insults, abuse or bashing or what have you but after everything please help me.

It started since childhood, our maid (lady) introduce me to this stuff, then I was also repeated molestation by a respected family (man) of ours about age 4 or so. The man's way was very painful but the ladies way wasn't... They both exchanged me period by period through childhood and I grow up to become an helpless gay addict. I mean lesbian. Cos I am a lady I can't seem to help myself with same sex I always want to have sex with a girl. Especially the attractive ones. I want to get married and I want to be happy. I want to do the right thing but I can't seem to help myself... I tried having sex with guys but it was very painful so I stopped. I stick with ladies instead... How can i stop this madness my conscience is pricking me, I am In my mid twenties now, I should be in a serious relationship but I can't because of my attraction for girls.

You are free to abuse me. In short I have abused more than u can every abuse me... But at the end of the insult. Advice me, thank you

Heartbender:
You are "Audray". I went through "your" posts. Can you trust me? See my signature for my number. Thanks

Mahrhimah:
Hi I just joined Nairaland, although have been a ghost reader for a long while. Admist other thread I believe family thread have more mature people. However, I welcome alot of insults, abuse or bashing or what have you but after everything please help me.

It started since childhood, our maid (lady) introduce me to this stuff, then I was also repeated molestation by a respected family (man) of ours about age 4 or so. The man's way was very painful but the ladies way wasn't... They both exchanged me period by period through childhood and I grow up to become an helpless gay addict. I mean lesbian. Cos I am a lady I can't seem to help myself with same sex I always want to have sex with a girl. Especially the attractive ones. I want to get married and I want to be happy. I want to do the right thing but I can't seem to help myself... I tried having sex with guys but it was very painful so I stopped. I stick with ladies instead... How can i stop this madness my conscience is pricking me, I am In my mid twenties now, I should be in a serious relationship but I can't because of my attraction for girls.

You are free to abuse me. In short I have abused more than u can every abuse me... But at the end of the insult. Advice me, thank you

Mahrhimah:
First. I am not Audray, she is one lady I admire tho. Second trust you on what??

Mahrhimah:
Hi I just joined Nairaland, although have been a ghost reader for a long while. Admist other thread I believe family thread have more mature people. However, I welcome alot of insults, abuse or bashing or what have you but after everything please help me.

It started since childhood, our maid (lady) introduce me to this stuff, then I was also repeated molestation by a respected family (man) of ours about age 4 or so. The man's way was very painful but the ladies way wasn't... They both exchanged me period by period through childhood and I grow up to become an helpless gay addict. I mean lesbian. Cos I am a lady I can't seem to help myself with same sex I always want to have sex with a girl. Especially the attractive ones. I want to get married and I want to be happy. I want to do the right thing but I can't seem to help myself... I tried having sex with guys but it was very painful so I stopped. I stick with ladies instead... How can i stop this madness my conscience is pricking me, I am In my mid twenties now, I should be in a serious relationship but I can't because of my attraction for girls.

You are free to abuse me. In short I have abused more than u can every abuse me... But at the end of the insult. Advice me, thank you

Mahrhimah:
Seasons greetings

Heartbender:
You are already on the right path of self realisation. The only advice I can give is now that you have found you need help have you considered Jesus Christ? Pray, meditate and take your mind off sex. No one is born gay...society only influences you. Like you, you are a victim. Now be the victor