LadyBeee:
I guess u re blind. Go back and read the guy's comments. It is u that will settle down with bambiala. Not me. Besides, u re not my God

LadyBeee:
lol...Erums again?

Budex40:
But on this Day, Not a Single Fvck shall be given. Amen.
Bdw, where's Ubunja ?

LadyBeee:
will u shut up? Go back and read the guy's comment then u ll realize that you both are stupid

Epositive:


Little wonder for the desperation and vulnerability.
I think every person is obliged(or must learn) to enjoy his or her own solitude. This will not only protect you from external factor(person) but also give you a clear definition of who you are and what you need.
Also, identify the qualities you want in a man and stick strictly to it. This will guide you not to settle for less.(don't manage o)




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LadyBeee:
Admin please approve my post. I'm seriously troubled these days because all I'm meeting are broke guys asking for my hand in marriage. I don't really know what gives them the impression that I have money. I met one who told me bluntly that I should take care of him and if I want us to get married today, I should go ahead and do the necessary things that he knows I'm very capable. I met another one who started showing me his account balance on our first date and what he had was just 7k in his account, So I asked him why he was showing me , then he said he just wanted to let me know his financial status. I didn't have a problem with that because I'm not after his money until I caught him going through my account statements on my phone, that was the day I ended the relationship. I met another guy who said he works with FAAN, I was so glad that my misery has come to an end. At least, this one has a good job and would be buoyant, but it wasn't for long as not up to 3 weeks, the guy asked me to borrow him 50k that he wanted to pay his school fees. I was confused and I asked him to explain things to me. He said he isn't a graduate and he's just working as a driver with FAAN and studying part time. I said it's fine but I don't have any money to borrow him. He changed his attitude towards me. What could be wrong? I'm really troubled

LadyBeee:
I hate it when u people are saying I'm desperate. Look, I'm not desperate. I'm only sharing my story

francis247:
Sorry to ask but what is your age bracket? Because you seem to be quite desperate for a husband hence broke guys approaching and taking for a ride. It is one thing for a guy to want a wife who will assist him in shouldering some of the marriage and family responsibilities financially but it is a different issue altogether when he overtly and covertly puts most of the responsibilities on her. From your story, these men see you as someone who's desperate to settle down hence the eagerness and temerity with they burden you with their financial challenges. If you're convinced that you're not showing yourself to be desperate, then it's just a coincidence. Be patient and make yourself available to your kind of man and see what happens. If you're maintaining a lifestyle that portrays you to be financially buoyant, independent, eager to get married by dressing to flashy for instance, you really need to take a step back.

funmisticqueen:
how do you look? Rate yourself honestly over 10. If you fall below 8, level up and do some gold-digging for quality men with gold, not men with clay

LadyBeee:
Admin please approve my post. I'm seriously troubled these days because all I'm meeting are broke guys asking for my hand in marriage. I don't really know what gives them the impression that I have money. I met one who told me bluntly that I should take care of him and if I want us to get married today, I should go ahead and do the necessary things that he knows I'm very capable. I met another one who started showing me his account balance on our first date and what he had was just 7k in his account, So I asked him why he was showing me , then he said he just wanted to let me know his financial status. I didn't have a problem with that because I'm not after his money until I caught him going through my account statements on my phone, that was the day I ended the relationship. I met another guy who said he works with FAAN, I was so glad that my misery has come to an end. At least, this one has a good job and would be buoyant, but it wasn't for long as not up to 3 weeks, the guy asked me to borrow him 50k that he wanted to pay his school fees. I was confused and I asked him to explain things to me. He said he isn't a graduate and he's just working as a driver with FAAN and studying part time. I said it's fine but I don't have any money to borrow him. He changed his attitude towards me. What could be wrong? I'm really troubled

Emescot:


I understand how frustrated you are, but dear you can never get a husband being this aggressive, abusive and foolish.
Anyways u might end up a better baby mama than Linda ikeji, Think about it before its too late.

MissRaine69:

You are the problem.
You are the reason why this is happening , you might not agree but you are acting desparate why? Secondly there are some double standards at play here . You don’t want someone who is struggling financially yet you are not 100% financially buoyant yourself so how does that work? You want someone who is financially secure But is that not what these guys want? The same thing you are after?
Do what you have to do to further your career and better your life . Relationships will happen when they happen. Being broke does not mean a man does not want a better life it’s not only women who have this view. Who actually wants to be poor?
No one!

funmisticqueen:
how do you look? Rate yourself honestly over 10. If you fall below 8, level up and do some gold-digging for quality men with gold, not men with clay

LadyBeee:
please shut it. I'm not desperate

LadyBeee:
being broke means a broke ass

MissRaine69:

You are the problem.
You are the reason why this is happening , you might not agree but you are acting desparate why? Secondly there are some double standards at play here . You don’t want someone who is struggling financially yet you are not 100% financially buoyant yourself so how does that work? You want someone who is financially secure But is that not what these guys want? The same thing you are after?
Do what you have to do to further your career and better your life . Relationships will happen when they happen. Being broke does not mean a man does not want a better life it’s not only women who have this view. Who actually wants to be poor?
No one!

LadyBeee:
I still insist that I'm not desperate Mr man

LadyBeee:
silly person. I'm not frustrated. Idiot. Husbands re crawling at my feet and I'm merely doing the screening.it is your own sisters and daughters that will end up being baby mamas, not me

wisdomremz:



cant you construct a simple sentence without adding abusive words....

MissRaine69:

You are,
Deny it all you like.
Besides how does one “shut up” on an online forum? Please stop upsetting the Queen.

LadyBeee:
I gave u what you asked for . You were abusive so I gave u ur own dose.

LadyBeee:
silly person. I'm not frustrated. Idiot. Husbands re crawling at my feet and I'm merely doing the screening.it is your own sisters and daughters that will end up being baby mamas, not me

Emescot:



Keep screening till you reach 50yo, thats when ur eyes will be open.
Then again maybe you have ancestral or spiritual problem, cos i dont know how Husbands are crawling at your feet and they are all broke.
Deal with it, no man wants a grumpy and miserable woman as wife. Uwa nka Amaka

dollyjoy:
Broke guys wanting to get married in this age and time. Sound foreign to me though

LadyBeee:
I'm prettier and classier than u can ever imagine

wisdomremz:



cant you construct a simple sentence without adding abusive words....

ubunja:
im here boss. Im back

LadyBeee:
I still insist that I'm not desperate Mr man