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Divay22:
Lemme goan be finding my future hubby now.
No more games playing

Games only just started.

Most of these girls think they're ready but they're NOT.

Lizzie082:
ha, stories these are exactly what a Yoruba demon would do, I gat to hand it to them, they're good actors.

U need someone like me Lizzie

kennygee:
Y'all haven't seen The real Yoruba demons, I ain't talking about Merry Men here o.

Excuse of an unserious girl... something to justify their cluelessness.

tellwisdom:
98.9% of Nigerian gurls are not worthy to be a wife..Dont give them high hopes

you are very right marrying them scares me sef

1. You in what future ?

2. Bitch I'm passionate about millions not marriage

3. Just ask me that stupid question first...when I'm supposed to be cutting the knot for my house warming you're talking of tying.

4. She's already met my mum and dad... But my plan na still my plan.

5. Goals kò penalty ní.

6. I act like your husband.. When it comes to ravaging that pussy...

7. I make out time when I want to ravage that pussy

8. I act like I'm listening but up in my head I'm simply saying... Talk finish and get naked!

9. Lol you don't know I'm simply building my CV ahead of your next visit... If I vex sef I go chop u that day.

10. Shey I dy mad nì

11. When I'm not mad..

Listen I need to make money before marriage I want to gift my wife (baby mama most preferably) a Rolls Royce just for conceiving for me... Money on my mind all I see is green.

omooba969:
Excuse of an unserious girl... something to justify their cluelessness.

You are entitled to your opinion. It is yours and only yours.

omooba969:
Games only just started.

I want a man that i can build with now..
No more games playing

Okoyeeebos:
Eeya
Keep writing one useless list to deceive gullible ladies

Since hunters have learnt to shoot without missing, girls have learnt to fly without perching.

Even if it's to put ring, that's not a problem. Guys buy cheap ring of 10k and put it. Chop your ponmo and bounce away.

Just pray not to fall into the hands of a devil.

There's no devil nor Yoruba demons anywhere, we're all hustlers till we jam that very person who sweeps us off our feet.

Divay22:
I want a man that i can build with now..
No more games playing

To play games is fun & you know it.

24hoursreporter:
The world of relationship is really complicated. With deceits and heartbreaks everywhere. it is difficult to distinguish genuine guys from those that are only there for the “cookies”.

It’s natural for ladies not to take their some guys serious due to past experience. You can’t actually blame them for this. Not after they have been betrayed and taken for granted.

Relationships should have a direction. Ordinarily, it ought to lead to marriage.

In this article, you will learn the signs that he sees you as his future wife. In fact, once you notice any of these signs, just know that he needs you in his future.

11 Signs That He Sees You As His Future Wife

#1. He Always Includes You In His Future When He Talks About It

When a man always use the word “we” whenever he discuss the future, that means the relationship is going to the next level.

When a man sees you as his future wife, he always use we when he discuss the future. He will say things like; our children will be beautiful, we will go on vacation in Dubai for our honeymoon.

Whenever your boo start saying things like the aforementioned, it is one of the signs that he sees you as his future wife. People like these take them very serious.

However, when he doesn’t have future plan for the relationship, the case is different. You will be hearing statements like “I will treat my wife like queen” or “the man that will marry you will be very lucky.

This is a red alert that he is in the relationship for the cookies nothing more.

#2. He Is Passionate About Marriage
There are several boyfriends out there. But we have a very few potential husbands. Most of the boys out there are basically “eat and run” experts looking for flings.

So, try to bring up marriage conversation and see his idea about marriage. If he admits that he likes to settle down soon, then it is one of the signs that he sees you as his wife.

Again, you must be smart and detect if he is really passionate about marriage as he claims. Some guys can make you feel as if they are ready for marriage. Once you lose your guard, they will chop and run.

#3. He Doesn’t Feel Disgusted When Someone Ask Him “When Is He Tying The Knot”?

Ordinarily, your man shouldn’t feel awkward when asked about his plan for the relationship.

However, once your shy away from this question, then he doesn’t have future plans for the relationship.

#4. When He Introduces You To His Family

There is no way a guy who wants to fling you will introduce you to his family. However, once he introduces you with his family and comfortable with your closeness with them, just know he has future plans for the relationship.

Really, it is a big deal for a guy you have been dating for a while to introduce you to his family. If you boyfriend is not comfortable with you meeting his family, just know that you are another object on his list.

In the words of Chris rock “Ladies if you are dating a man for over three months without meeting his friend or family member, you are not his girlfriend.

#5. He Is Concerned About Your Goals

When your boyfriend is concerned about your goal in life, it is one of the signs that he sees you as his future wife. He will always be concerned about your personal development and career growth.

However, the one that is just passing by will never ask. Even when you try to tell them about your dream; they will pay little or no attention. This is a red alert that such guys are only with you because they are enjoying the cookies while it lasts.

#6. He Is Already Acting Like Your Husband

It is natural for guys to be manly. However, when he starts treating you like is own, that means the relationship is going to the next level. In other words, he always makes you feel comfortable when you are together.

#7. He Always Makes Out Time For You

Ordinarily, you should be a top priority on your boyfriend’s list. No matter how busy he is, he must be able to create time for you. After all, nobody is truly busy, its all about priority.

#8. He Always Listens To You

Having a guy that listens to you is a rare gift to find. In fact, when your guy does this, it is a sign that he sees you as his future wife.

When your boyfriend listens to you, it makes you feel important. Guys that listen will always go extra miles to make you happy. This is because they see you as the epicenter of their life.

#9. He Didn’t Make Move Of Having Sex With You The First Time You Visit

It is a sign of discipline for a guy not to make move on a lady when she visits the first day. This is a very clear indication that he needs more than just relationship.

However, the “Yoruba Demons” will gladly eat from the cookies jar the first day you visit their house. Guys like these are only interested in what is beneath your pants.

We sometimes complain that guys are players. In reality, there are several signs to know that a guy just want to sneak into your pants. But we often ignore them, hoping things will be better. Only to wake up to the reality of heart break.

#10. He Usesays Use The Statement “When We Finally Get Married”


A guy who doesn’t want to take the relationship to the next level is very careful of what he says and how he responds to your marriage fantasies.

It is only a heartless guy who will openly promise a lady marriage and disappoint her afterwards. However, those with an iota of conscience will want to stay clear of marriage related topics.

They just want to enjoy the taste of the cookie while it last. So, when your guy always uses the statement “when we finally get married”, it is one of the signs that he sees you as his future wife.

For those who just want to pass by, they will ignore you whenever you discuss marriage related topics. Even if they want to respond, they will say “I don’t know why marriage is over-hyped” or “I don’t even believe in marriage, why bothering me with all these talks.

#11. He Always Allows You To Fantasize About Your Wedding

When your boyfriend intends to take the relationship to the next level, he will always smile whenever you fantasize about your wedding.

In fact, when he doesn’t freak out whenever you discuss the kind of clothes to wear, location for the wedding and the type of menu to serve, then you are dating a serious guy.

Source: http://www.24hoursreporter.com/2018/12/27/11-signs-that-he-sees-you-as-his-future-wife/

Nice one @Op

kennygee:
You are entitled to your opinion. It is yours and only yours.

We know it when we see it but we choose to look the other way coz we never find comfort in the truth, pain is all we find.

omooba969:
To play games is fun & you know it.

And dangerous, time consuming...
it's not worth it.

24hoursreporter:
We sometimes complain that guys are players. In reality, there are several signs to know that a guy just want to sneak into your pants. But we often ignore them, hoping things will be better. Only to wake up to the reality of heart break.

...the only genuine thing there

Change your crew... Stop rolling with olosho and stop giving 9ja girls a blanket tag.

tellwisdom:
98.9% of Nigerian gurls are not worthy to be a wife..Dont give them high hopes

omooba969:
There's no devil nor Yoruba demons anywhere, we're all hustlers till we jam that very person who sweeps us off our feet.

Baba, no loud am.

Emily22:
U need someone like me Lizzie

are you the angelic version? lol

Lizzie082:
are you the angelic version?
lol

Lol,just a better option for u

Emily22:
Everything in life is a 50:50 chance my ladies,he can do all diz to decieve u and u ll fall for it deeply .

Just pray to God to give u ur own husband,there is possibilities that u will meet a guy and after a month,he ll marry u for better for worse without all the signs op listed.Also another possibility that he will date u for 3 yrs and still dump u after showing u those signs listed above

Just pray...pray and keep on praying even after marraige.

Olorun a shanu wa

Prayer is good but we need to work on ourselves - our characters.

Marriage is to be enjoyed.

Divay22:
I want a man that i can build with now.. No more games playing

so u are once a game player
lol. . Goodluck in ur new move though

Emily22:
Lol,just a better option for u

exactly what they would say

Emily22:
Lol,just a better option for u

exactly what they would say

omooba969:
Prayer is good but we need to work on ourselves - our characters.

Marriage is to be enjoyed.

Another point noted bro

Lizzie082:
exactly what they would say exactly what they would say

Funny u

danilmo:
so u are once a game player

lol.
. Goodluck in ur new move though

Thanks

Lizzie082:
exactly what they would say exactly what they would say

A trial will convince you my dear

Divay22:
And dangerous, time consuming...
it's not worth it.

Wetin we gain if we no play games coz in doing so you sharpen your skills and instinct as you relate with your outside world.

Stolen kisses are the sweetest - no be me talk am o!

Emily22:
A trial will convince you my dear

I I want to believe you're kidding me [quote author=Emily22 post=74218715]

This checklist means nothing. The most important thing is for one (both of the genders individually) to strive to achieve self-realization before talking about marriage. One who has achieved self-realization doesn't need any long protocol and long dating to identify his/her special one, especially with the help of an online platform like this. Personally, I know that one month - starting from the day one volitionally and conscientiously decide to marry - is long enough to use propose and wed a lady.

Commitment phobia is a sickness though.

U did not take cognisance of the protean nature of human.

Lizzie082:
I I want to believe you're kidding me

I want you to believe am serious

Divay22:
I want a man that i can build with now..
No more games playing

Here is the man you seek for.

omooba969:
Wetin we gain if we no play games coz in doing so you sharpen your skills and instinct as you relate with your outside world.

Stolen kisses are the sweetest - no be me talk am o!

Until you lose a good bet.


I have said something like that to the hearing of just one person. Hope you ain't him?