It is a sad fact for men that masturbating/masturbation is and has been a habit learned or practiced over time especially teenage age up until adulthood and even old age.
The introduction of Internet and social media has so far increased the rate of the practice as against times when it was difficult to use magazines, video cassette players and minds imagination as a motivation or tool to further enhance the stimulation. The continuous use of vaseline, creams and other oil lubricants is also in the increase despite hike in prices.
Now the big problem is getting used to masturbation on a frequent basis. Most teens get so used to it forgetting that one day it shall backfire especially when married or confronted with real sexual act.
I have counseled people of different age groups from my online WhatsApp video/chart and its is sad to say that in the next ten years, there will be few men left to be able to perform normal sexual activity because of over masturbation. Many women are unaware of this secret by men who are suffering from this act.
I am currently working With an NGO to help young people fight this problem and to be able to easily reach them face to face as I was once a victim for over 20 years so I have seen the good, the bad and the ugly but hey, I have found solution and am back better and stronger
Masturbation is easy addiction to start but almost impossible to stop. It gets worse when a man gets into a serious relationship with a woman or when he is married and unable to gain strong erection for normal or proper penetration.
Its no doubt but a fact that these days women expect strong sexual performance from men but most men are unable to perform or gain strong erection and so they mostly resort to taking all sorts of enhancement drugs with side effects. The question is for how long will this continue. This among many question are left unanswered as a result of this social problem that is gradually enslaving both children, teens, youths, young adult, adults and lastly the elderly. Children as young as 6 years and above are not left out in the equation but on a limited situation.
Many men tend to seek help, they are ready but at the long run unable to find lasting solution to this problem. Everybody on my book wants to stop but the zeal on the long road to stopping is what is missing.
Out of 37 people with chronic masturbation I have counseled just 9 where able to stay 7 months without the act and that is by far a great achievement. It is an ongoing problem that will one day make many men want to commit suicide when they are unable to please thier wives or girlfriends that eventually made this women in question cheat on them.
It is one day to the end of 2018 let's start 2019 with a new way, new phase and new life.... Dantepet3000@gmail.com

which is bigger sin, masturbation or fornication/adultery?

There’s nothing like big sin, small sin or bigger sin. Sin is sin. They are both equally bad. After all Jesus equated anger to murder in the Bible. Don’t try to make one sin seem better or more reasonable against another. Both are sins against your body.

N0favors:
which is bigger sin, masturbation or fornication/adultery?

OdikwaRisky:
There’s nothing like big sin, small sin or bigger sin. Sin is sin. They are both equally bad. After all Jesus equated anger to murder in the Bible. Don’t try to make one sin seem better or more reasonable against another. Both are sins against your body.

That makes a fornicator condemning masturbation a hypocrite. Don’t you think so?

N0favors:
which is bigger sin, masturbation or fornication/adultery?

All of them are sins, no bigger or higher sin.

N0favors:
That makes a fornicator condemning masturbation a hypocrite. Don’t you think so?

You are right with that also.

It is one day to the end of 2018 let's start 2019 with a new way, new phase and new life.... .....very good thread by you.

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All of them are sins, no bigger or higher sin.

Some pastors encourage masturbation tho. Pastor Chris does

N0favors:
Some pastors encourage masturbation tho. Pastor Chris does

He didn't encourage it , I saw that video. Chris said that, as a christain we should not view an act as right or wrong, sin or no-sin before deciding weda to keep doing it or not. because an act might not necessarily be a sin ... But as personally, the act may be affecting ones relationship with a God, probably tru addiction or guilt, feeling disappointed and not being able to pray...
The dude wanted Chris to give him a straight up tag for the masturbating act so he can either keep jerking away or stop.....and that's not christianity, that's relegion

1StopRudeness:


He didn't encourage it , I saw that video. Chris said that, as a christain we should not view an act as right or wrong, sin or no-sin before deciding weda to keep doing it or not. because an act might not necessarily be a sin ... But as personally, the act may be affecting ones relationship with a God, probably tru addiction or guilt, feeling disappointed and not being able to pray...
The dude wanted Chris to give him a straight up tag for the masturbating act so he can either keep jerking away or stop.....and that's not christianity, that's relegion

I’m not sure you’re talking about the video I watched. We must have watched different videos.

N0favors:
I’m not sure you’re talking about the video I watched. We must have watched different videos.

Please go check that video again and tell me if Chris said....go ahead and masturbate, it's good for you...
Cos when u say he encourages it, Sounds like he tells people to go ahead and keep masturbating like it's prayer or fasting

1StopRudeness:


Please go check that video again and tell me if Chris said....go ahead and masturbate, it's good for you...
Cos when u say he encourages it, Sounds like he tells people to go ahead and keep masturbating like it's prayer or fasting

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rwbYW5nmU4Y

N0favors:



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rwbYW5nmU4Y

I've seen the video, I didn't see anywhere he said keep masturbating or that it is good....because u said he encourages it, mayb we have a different interpretation of words shaaa

1StopRudeness:


I've seen the video, I didn't see anywhere he said keep masturbating or that it is good....because u said he encourages it, mayb we have a different interpretation of words shaaa

When a Pastor tells you something is not a sin, what does that mean to you?

N0favors:
When a Pastor tells you something is not a sin, what does that mean to you?

Loooool..you funny man....
Permit me to say, You are a black and white christain. ...sincere apologies though.it's funny that's all u picked from the message...

If christianity is all about.... is something a sin? :I'm not allowed..then if it's not a sin ..then I can carry go...the Bible won't say eating ordinary food should be avoided if it makes ur neighbour fall or limits ur relationship with God..

1StopRudeness:


Loooool..you funny man....
Permit me to say, You are a black and white christain. ...sincere apologies though.it's funny that's all u picked from the message...

If christianity is all about.... is something a sin? :I'm not allowed..then if it's not a sin ..then I can carry go...the Bible won't say eating ordinary food should be avoided if it makes ur neighbour fall or limits ur relationship with God..

Bros, did you not hear him encouraging us not to see it as sin cuz that’s how the devil manipulates us. He said the devil tries to make us see it as sin when it’s not cuz it’s our body and we are allowed to do what we like with it


Take for instance, in school, you always wee in the classroom and other students keep complaining. But your teacher said it’s not ‘wrong’ that you can do it if you want to. Is that not him encouraging you to go ahead and do it more?

how do you know he's a fornicator? why don't you just focus on the message and stop judging. Being judgmental is also hugely hypocritical.

N0favors:
That makes a fornicator condemning masturbation a hypocrite. Don’t you think so?

OdikwaRisky:
how do you know he's a fornicator? why don't you just focus on the message and stop judging. Being judgmental is also hugely hypocritical.

Who am I judging? I wasn’t referring to op, I was just using that to explain a point